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Ubuntu-relatiekompas

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door

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Alexander

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Groenheide,

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relatiekompas

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partners

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legitimiteit

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position

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568
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formulieren

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614
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616
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617
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619
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645
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646
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647
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648
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betekent

665
00:04:41.961 --> 00:04:42.141
dat

666
00:04:42.141 --> 00:04:42.701
intentie

667
00:04:42.701 --> 00:04:42.861
en

668
00:04:42.861 --> 00:04:43.201
effect

669
00:04:43.201 --> 00:04:43.741
naast

670
00:04:43.741 --> 00:04:44.001
elkaar

671
00:04:44.001 --> 00:04:44.261
moeten

672
00:04:44.261 --> 00:04:44.461
worden

673
00:04:44.461 --> 00:04:44.881
gelegd.

674
00:04:45.201 --> 00:04:45.402
Iemand

675
00:04:45.402 --> 00:04:45.622
kan

676
00:04:45.622 --> 00:04:45.942
zeggen

677
00:04:45.942 --> 00:04:46.482
ik

678
00:04:46.482 --> 00:04:46.762
wilde

679
00:04:46.762 --> 00:04:46.862
je

680
00:04:46.862 --> 00:04:47.402
beschermen.

681
00:04:47.882 --> 00:04:48.002
De

682
00:04:48.002 --> 00:04:48.182
ander

683
00:04:48.182 --> 00:04:48.422
kan

684
00:04:48.422 --> 00:04:48.702
zeggen

685
00:04:48.702 --> 00:04:49.322
ik

686
00:04:49.322 --> 00:04:49.662
voelde

687
00:04:49.662 --> 00:04:49.822
mij

688
00:04:49.822 --> 00:04:50.282
daardoor

689
00:04:50.282 --> 00:04:51.023
gecontroleerd

690
00:04:51.023 --> 00:04:51.543
en

691
00:04:51.543 --> 00:04:51.743
niet

692
00:04:51.743 --> 00:04:52.283
serieus

693
00:04:52.283 --> 00:04:52.643
genomen.

694
00:04:53.383 --> 00:04:53.563
Beide

695
00:04:53.563 --> 00:04:54.123
uitspraken

696
00:04:54.123 --> 00:04:54.443
kunnen

697
00:04:54.443 --> 00:04:55.243
tegelijkertijd

698
00:04:55.243 --> 00:04:55.503
waar

699
00:04:55.503 --> 00:04:55.743
zijn.

700
00:04:56.223 --> 00:04:56.363
De

701
00:04:56.363 --> 00:04:56.804
intentie

702
00:04:56.804 --> 00:04:57.004
was

703
00:04:57.004 --> 00:04:57.504
bescherming,

704
00:04:58.144 --> 00:04:58.324
het

705
00:04:58.324 --> 00:04:58.764
ervaren

706
00:04:58.764 --> 00:04:59.144
effect

707
00:04:59.144 --> 00:04:59.384
was

708
00:04:59.384 --> 00:04:59.824
controle.

709
00:05:00.604 --> 00:05:00.744
Het

710
00:05:00.744 --> 00:05:01.124
Ubuntu

711
00:05:01.124 --> 00:05:02.045
relatiekompas

712
00:05:02.045 --> 00:05:02.405
vraagt

713
00:05:02.405 --> 00:05:03.025
vervolgens

714
00:05:03.025 --> 00:05:03.265
niet

715
00:05:03.265 --> 00:05:03.785
onmiddellijk

716
00:05:03.785 --> 00:05:03.925
wie

717
00:05:03.925 --> 00:05:04.025
er

718
00:05:04.025 --> 00:05:04.325
gelijk

719
00:05:04.325 --> 00:05:04.585
heeft.

720
00:05:04.965 --> 00:05:05.105
Het

721
00:05:05.105 --> 00:05:05.345
vraagt

722
00:05:05.345 --> 00:05:05.505
wat

723
00:05:05.505 --> 00:05:05.745
nodig

724
00:05:05.745 --> 00:05:05.945
is

725
00:05:05.945 --> 00:05:06.105
om

726
00:05:06.105 --> 00:05:06.365
beide

727
00:05:06.365 --> 00:05:07.085
werkelijkheden

728
00:05:07.085 --> 00:05:07.646
zorgvuldig

729
00:05:07.646 --> 00:05:07.786
te

730
00:05:07.786 --> 00:05:08.206
onderzoeken.

731
00:05:08.686 --> 00:05:09.046
Was

732
00:05:09.046 --> 00:05:09.186
de

733
00:05:09.186 --> 00:05:09.686
bescherming

734
00:05:09.686 --> 00:05:10.306
noodzakelijk?

735
00:05:10.786 --> 00:05:11.146
Was

736
00:05:11.146 --> 00:05:11.326
zij

737
00:05:11.326 --> 00:05:12.046
proportioneel?

738
00:05:12.766 --> 00:05:12.926
Was

739
00:05:12.926 --> 00:05:13.047
er

740
00:05:13.047 --> 00:05:13.187
een

741
00:05:13.187 --> 00:05:13.407
minder

742
00:05:13.407 --> 00:05:13.927
ingrijpende

743
00:05:13.927 --> 00:05:14.567
mogelijkheid?

744
00:05:15.107 --> 00:05:15.247
Werd

745
00:05:15.247 --> 00:05:15.367
de

746
00:05:15.367 --> 00:05:15.567
ander

747
00:05:15.567 --> 00:05:16.007
gehoord?

748
00:05:16.447 --> 00:05:16.747
Was

749
00:05:16.747 --> 00:05:16.887
de

750
00:05:16.887 --> 00:05:17.207
grens

751
00:05:17.207 --> 00:05:17.687
duidelijk?

752
00:05:18.047 --> 00:05:18.187
Kon

753
00:05:18.187 --> 00:05:18.307
de

754
00:05:18.307 --> 00:05:18.768
beslissing

755
00:05:18.768 --> 00:05:18.988
worden

756
00:05:18.988 --> 00:05:19.348
herzien?

757
00:05:20.228 --> 00:05:20.408
Werd

758
00:05:20.408 --> 00:05:20.528
de

759
00:05:20.528 --> 00:05:21.128
beschermende

760
00:05:21.128 --> 00:05:21.588
bedoeling

761
00:05:21.588 --> 00:05:21.828
in

762
00:05:21.828 --> 00:05:21.948
de

763
00:05:21.948 --> 00:05:22.508
uitvoering

764
00:05:22.508 --> 00:05:22.868
ook

765
00:05:22.868 --> 00:05:23.028
als

766
00:05:23.028 --> 00:05:23.528
bescherming

767
00:05:23.528 --> 00:05:24.048
herkenbaar?

768
00:05:24.869 --> 00:05:25.029
Of

769
00:05:25.029 --> 00:05:25.229
werd

770
00:05:25.229 --> 00:05:25.329
de

771
00:05:25.329 --> 00:05:25.809
uitvoering

772
00:05:25.809 --> 00:05:26.009
zo

773
00:05:26.009 --> 00:05:26.489
dwingend,

774
00:05:26.949 --> 00:05:27.549
ondoorzichtig

775
00:05:27.549 --> 00:05:27.789
of

776
00:05:27.789 --> 00:05:28.369
vernederend

777
00:05:28.369 --> 00:05:28.749
dat

778
00:05:28.749 --> 00:05:28.929
de

779
00:05:28.929 --> 00:05:29.409
relatie

780
00:05:29.409 --> 00:05:29.890
onnodig

781
00:05:29.890 --> 00:05:30.390
beschadigd

782
00:05:30.390 --> 00:05:30.690
raakte?

783
00:05:31.590 --> 00:05:31.750
Dit

784
00:05:31.750 --> 00:05:32.370
onderscheid

785
00:05:32.370 --> 00:05:32.510
is

786
00:05:32.510 --> 00:05:32.870
belangrijk

787
00:05:32.870 --> 00:05:33.230
omdat

788
00:05:33.230 --> 00:05:33.570
mensen

789
00:05:33.570 --> 00:05:33.830
in

790
00:05:33.830 --> 00:05:34.570
conflicten

791
00:05:34.570 --> 00:05:34.990
vaak

792
00:05:34.990 --> 00:05:35.271
langs

793
00:05:35.271 --> 00:05:35.471
elkaar

794
00:05:35.471 --> 00:05:35.771
heen

795
00:05:35.771 --> 00:05:36.091
praten.

796
00:05:36.431 --> 00:05:36.571
De

797
00:05:36.571 --> 00:05:36.871
ene

798
00:05:36.871 --> 00:05:37.271
persoon

799
00:05:37.271 --> 00:05:37.611
spreekt

800
00:05:37.611 --> 00:05:37.851
over

801
00:05:37.851 --> 00:05:38.211
bedoeling,

802
00:05:38.731 --> 00:05:38.851
de

803
00:05:38.851 --> 00:05:39.091
andere

804
00:05:39.091 --> 00:05:39.551
persoon

805
00:05:39.551 --> 00:05:39.911
spreekt

806
00:05:39.911 --> 00:05:40.131
over

807
00:05:40.131 --> 00:05:40.591
gevolgen.

808
00:05:40.912 --> 00:05:41.012
De

809
00:05:41.012 --> 00:05:41.252
ene

810
00:05:41.252 --> 00:05:41.532
zegt

811
00:05:41.532 --> 00:05:41.992
ik

812
00:05:41.992 --> 00:05:42.152
heb

813
00:05:42.152 --> 00:05:42.292
dat

814
00:05:42.292 --> 00:05:42.592
nooit

815
00:05:42.592 --> 00:05:42.792
zo

816
00:05:42.792 --> 00:05:43.172
bedoeld,

817
00:05:43.552 --> 00:05:43.652
de

818
00:05:43.652 --> 00:05:43.872
andere

819
00:05:43.872 --> 00:05:44.212
zegt

820
00:05:44.212 --> 00:05:44.672
maar

821
00:05:44.672 --> 00:05:44.832
zo

822
00:05:44.832 --> 00:05:45.032
heeft

823
00:05:45.032 --> 00:05:45.152
het

824
00:05:45.152 --> 00:05:45.252
mij

825
00:05:45.252 --> 00:05:45.432
wel

826
00:05:45.432 --> 00:05:45.832
geraakt.

827
00:05:46.493 --> 00:05:46.733
Wanneer

828
00:05:46.733 --> 00:05:47.013
beide

829
00:05:47.013 --> 00:05:47.273
zinnen

830
00:05:47.273 --> 00:05:47.513
als

831
00:05:47.513 --> 00:05:47.873
aanval

832
00:05:47.873 --> 00:05:48.113
worden

833
00:05:48.113 --> 00:05:48.613
gehoord,

834
00:05:49.353 --> 00:05:49.693
ontstaat

835
00:05:49.693 --> 00:05:50.113
strijd.

836
00:05:50.693 --> 00:05:50.933
Wanneer

837
00:05:50.933 --> 00:05:51.213
beide

838
00:05:51.213 --> 00:05:51.473
zinnen

839
00:05:51.473 --> 00:05:51.753
als

840
00:05:51.753 --> 00:05:52.274
verschillende

841
00:05:52.274 --> 00:05:52.834
onderdelen

842
00:05:52.834 --> 00:05:53.054
van

843
00:05:53.054 --> 00:05:53.534
dezelfde

844
00:05:53.534 --> 00:05:54.234
gebeurtenis

845
00:05:54.234 --> 00:05:54.494
worden

846
00:05:54.494 --> 00:05:55.014
begrepen,

847
00:05:55.314 --> 00:05:55.734
ontstaat

848
00:05:55.734 --> 00:05:56.154
ruimte.

849
00:05:56.794 --> 00:05:56.974
Dan

850
00:05:56.974 --> 00:05:57.194
kunnen

851
00:05:57.194 --> 00:05:57.375
we

852
00:05:57.375 --> 00:05:57.655
zeggen

853
00:05:57.655 --> 00:05:58.695
mijn

854
00:05:58.695 --> 00:05:59.115
bedoeling

855
00:05:59.115 --> 00:05:59.735
ontslaat

856
00:05:59.735 --> 00:05:59.895
mij

857
00:05:59.895 --> 00:06:00.095
niet

858
00:06:00.095 --> 00:06:00.315
van

859
00:06:00.315 --> 00:06:01.175
verantwoordelijkheid

860
00:06:01.175 --> 00:06:01.395
voor

861
00:06:01.395 --> 00:06:01.515
het

862
00:06:01.515 --> 00:06:01.815
effect.

863
00:06:02.635 --> 00:06:02.795
En

864
00:06:02.795 --> 00:06:03.076
jouw

865
00:06:03.076 --> 00:06:03.516
ervaring

866
00:06:03.516 --> 00:06:04.056
betekent

867
00:06:04.056 --> 00:06:04.256
niet

868
00:06:04.256 --> 00:06:04.936
automatisch

869
00:06:04.936 --> 00:06:05.216
dat

870
00:06:05.216 --> 00:06:05.496
iedere

871
00:06:05.496 --> 00:06:06.116
conclusie

872
00:06:06.116 --> 00:06:06.396
over

873
00:06:06.396 --> 00:06:06.576
mijn

874
00:06:06.576 --> 00:06:06.976
bedoeling

875
00:06:06.976 --> 00:06:07.716
feitelijk

876
00:06:07.716 --> 00:06:08.056
juist

877
00:06:08.056 --> 00:06:08.276
is.

878
00:06:08.717 --> 00:06:08.837
Daar

879
00:06:08.837 --> 00:06:09.137
begint

880
00:06:09.137 --> 00:06:09.857
relationele

881
00:06:09.857 --> 00:06:10.677
zorgvuldigheid.

882
00:06:11.277 --> 00:06:11.457
Wat

883
00:06:11.457 --> 00:06:11.757
een

884
00:06:11.757 --> 00:06:12.137
position

885
00:06:12.137 --> 00:06:12.457
paper

886
00:06:12.457 --> 00:06:12.737
wel

887
00:06:12.737 --> 00:06:13.157
en

888
00:06:13.157 --> 00:06:13.337
niet

889
00:06:13.337 --> 00:06:13.557
is,

890
00:06:13.777 --> 00:06:13.917
een

891
00:06:13.917 --> 00:06:14.318
position

892
00:06:14.318 --> 00:06:14.618
paper

893
00:06:14.618 --> 00:06:14.798
is

894
00:06:14.798 --> 00:06:14.998
geen

895
00:06:14.998 --> 00:06:15.258
wet.

896
00:06:15.898 --> 00:06:16.038
Het

897
00:06:16.038 --> 00:06:16.178
is

898
00:06:16.178 --> 00:06:16.378
geen

899
00:06:16.378 --> 00:06:16.858
rechterlijke

900
00:06:16.858 --> 00:06:17.398
uitspraak,

901
00:06:17.538 --> 00:06:17.638
het

902
00:06:17.638 --> 00:06:17.758
is

903
00:06:17.758 --> 00:06:17.938
geen

904
00:06:17.938 --> 00:06:18.458
diagnose,

905
00:06:18.978 --> 00:06:19.098
het

906
00:06:19.098 --> 00:06:19.238
is

907
00:06:19.238 --> 00:06:19.458
geen

908
00:06:19.458 --> 00:06:20.559
veiligheidsbeoordeling.

909
00:06:21.319 --> 00:06:21.459
Het

910
00:06:21.459 --> 00:06:21.579
is

911
00:06:21.579 --> 00:06:21.699
ook

912
00:06:21.699 --> 00:06:21.879
geen

913
00:06:21.879 --> 00:06:22.319
protocol

914
00:06:22.319 --> 00:06:22.619
dat

915
00:06:22.619 --> 00:06:23.279
automatisch

916
00:06:23.279 --> 00:06:23.739
bepaalt

917
00:06:23.739 --> 00:06:23.939
wat

918
00:06:23.939 --> 00:06:24.059
er

919
00:06:24.059 --> 00:06:24.179
in

920
00:06:24.179 --> 00:06:24.319
een

921
00:06:24.319 --> 00:06:24.659
concrete

922
00:06:24.659 --> 00:06:25.260
situatie

923
00:06:25.260 --> 00:06:25.480
moet

924
00:06:25.480 --> 00:06:25.880
gebeuren.

925
00:06:26.920 --> 00:06:27.060
Een

926
00:06:27.060 --> 00:06:27.460
position

927
00:06:27.460 --> 00:06:27.800
paper

928
00:06:27.800 --> 00:06:28.280
ontwikkelt

929
00:06:28.280 --> 00:06:28.480
een

930
00:06:28.480 --> 00:06:29.320
beargumenteerde

931
00:06:29.320 --> 00:06:29.860
positie.

932
00:06:30.400 --> 00:06:30.500
Zij

933
00:06:30.500 --> 00:06:31.001
beschrijft

934
00:06:31.001 --> 00:06:31.161
een

935
00:06:31.161 --> 00:06:32.021
probleem.

936
00:06:32.101 --> 00:06:32.201
Zij

937
00:06:32.201 --> 00:06:32.561
ordent

938
00:06:32.561 --> 00:06:32.981
begrippen.

939
00:06:33.501 --> 00:06:33.801
Zij

940
00:06:33.801 --> 00:06:34.021
maakt

941
00:06:34.021 --> 00:06:34.301
waarden

942
00:06:34.301 --> 00:06:34.781
zichtbaar.

943
00:06:35.221 --> 00:06:35.361
Zij

944
00:06:35.361 --> 00:06:36.001
formuleert

945
00:06:36.001 --> 00:06:36.662
uitgangspunten.

946
00:06:37.202 --> 00:06:37.302
Zij

947
00:06:37.302 --> 00:06:37.642
benoemt

948
00:06:37.642 --> 00:06:38.182
risico's.

949
00:06:38.602 --> 00:06:38.702
En

950
00:06:38.702 --> 00:06:38.802
zij

951
00:06:38.802 --> 00:06:39.162
nodigt

952
00:06:39.162 --> 00:06:39.442
anderen

953
00:06:39.442 --> 00:06:39.682
uit

954
00:06:39.682 --> 00:06:39.822
om

955
00:06:39.822 --> 00:06:39.942
die

956
00:06:39.942 --> 00:06:40.622
uitgangspunten

957
00:06:40.622 --> 00:06:40.862
te

958
00:06:40.862 --> 00:06:41.202
toetsen,

959
00:06:41.662 --> 00:06:41.843
aan

960
00:06:41.843 --> 00:06:41.963
te

961
00:06:41.963 --> 00:06:42.183
vullen,

962
00:06:42.483 --> 00:06:42.583
te

963
00:06:42.583 --> 00:06:43.023
begrenzen

964
00:06:43.023 --> 00:06:43.243
of

965
00:06:43.243 --> 00:06:43.463
af

966
00:06:43.463 --> 00:06:43.563
te

967
00:06:43.563 --> 00:06:43.903
wijzen.

968
00:06:46.263 --> 00:06:46.863
PPREL001

969
00:06:46.863 --> 00:06:47.123
heeft

970
00:06:47.123 --> 00:06:47.444
daarom

971
00:06:47.444 --> 00:06:47.584
de

972
00:06:47.584 --> 00:06:47.864
status

973
00:06:47.864 --> 00:06:48.084
van

974
00:06:48.084 --> 00:06:48.484
discussion

975
00:06:48.484 --> 00:06:48.824
paper.

976
00:06:49.364 --> 00:06:49.504
Dat

977
00:06:49.504 --> 00:06:49.984
betekent

978
00:06:49.984 --> 00:06:50.144
dat

979
00:06:50.144 --> 00:06:50.304
de

980
00:06:50.304 --> 00:06:50.884
positionering

981
00:06:50.884 --> 00:06:51.084
nog

982
00:06:51.084 --> 00:06:51.524
onderwerp

983
00:06:51.524 --> 00:06:51.664
van

984
00:06:51.664 --> 00:06:51.964
debat

985
00:06:51.964 --> 00:06:52.184
is.

986
00:06:52.724 --> 00:06:52.845
De

987
00:06:52.845 --> 00:06:53.225
position

988
00:06:53.225 --> 00:06:53.605
paper

989
00:06:53.605 --> 00:06:53.865
zegt

990
00:06:53.865 --> 00:06:54.105
niet

991
00:06:54.105 --> 00:06:54.585
zo

992
00:06:54.585 --> 00:06:54.805
moet

993
00:06:54.805 --> 00:06:55.065
iedere

994
00:06:55.065 --> 00:06:55.525
relatie

995
00:06:55.525 --> 00:06:55.785
worden

996
00:06:55.785 --> 00:06:56.345
beoordeeld.

997
00:06:56.785 --> 00:06:56.885
Zij

998
00:06:56.885 --> 00:06:57.285
vraagt

999
00:06:57.285 --> 00:06:57.945
kan

1000
00:06:57.945 --> 00:06:58.125
het

1001
00:06:58.125 --> 00:06:58.566
waardevol

1002
00:06:58.566 --> 00:06:58.846
zijn

1003
00:06:58.846 --> 00:06:59.206
om

1004
00:06:59.206 --> 00:06:59.346
bij

1005
00:06:59.346 --> 00:06:59.866
ingrijpende

1006
00:06:59.866 --> 00:07:00.246
besluiten

1007
00:07:00.246 --> 00:07:00.906
systematisch

1008
00:07:00.906 --> 00:07:01.046
te

1009
00:07:01.046 --> 00:07:01.506
onderzoeken

1010
00:07:01.506 --> 00:07:02.086
wat

1011
00:07:02.086 --> 00:07:02.206
die

1012
00:07:02.206 --> 00:07:02.646
besluiten

1013
00:07:02.646 --> 00:07:02.846
met

1014
00:07:02.846 --> 00:07:03.246
menselijke

1015
00:07:03.246 --> 00:07:03.706
relaties

1016
00:07:03.706 --> 00:07:03.907
doen.

1017
00:07:04.727 --> 00:07:04.847
En

1018
00:07:04.847 --> 00:07:04.987
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1019
00:07:04.987 --> 00:07:05.187
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1020
00:07:05.967 --> 00:07:06.147
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1021
00:07:06.147 --> 00:07:06.347
doen

1022
00:07:06.347 --> 00:07:06.487
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1023
00:07:06.487 --> 00:07:06.647
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1024
00:07:06.647 --> 00:07:06.887
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1025
00:07:06.887 --> 00:07:07.147
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1026
00:07:07.147 --> 00:07:07.347
nieuwe

1027
00:07:07.347 --> 00:07:08.207
bureaucratische

1028
00:07:08.207 --> 00:07:08.627
vinklijst

1029
00:07:08.627 --> 00:07:08.747
te

1030
00:07:08.747 --> 00:07:08.967
maken?

1031
00:07:09.568 --> 00:07:09.708
Hoe

1032
00:07:09.708 --> 00:07:10.108
voorkomen

1033
00:07:10.108 --> 00:07:10.308
we

1034
00:07:10.308 --> 00:07:10.448
dat

1035
00:07:10.448 --> 00:07:11.228
slachtoffers

1036
00:07:11.228 --> 00:07:11.708
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1037
00:07:11.708 --> 00:07:11.948
druk

1038
00:07:11.948 --> 00:07:12.168
worden

1039
00:07:12.168 --> 00:07:12.528
gezet

1040
00:07:12.528 --> 00:07:12.908
om

1041
00:07:12.908 --> 00:07:13.028
te

1042
00:07:13.028 --> 00:07:13.448
vergeven?

1043
00:07:14.068 --> 00:07:14.228
Hoe

1044
00:07:14.228 --> 00:07:14.568
voorkomen

1045
00:07:14.568 --> 00:07:14.768
we

1046
00:07:14.768 --> 00:07:14.949
dat

1047
00:07:14.949 --> 00:07:15.509
familie

1048
00:07:15.509 --> 00:07:15.909
of

1049
00:07:15.909 --> 00:07:16.309
vrienden

1050
00:07:16.309 --> 00:07:16.809
als

1051
00:07:16.809 --> 00:07:17.289
goedkope

1052
00:07:17.289 --> 00:07:17.749
vervanging

1053
00:07:17.749 --> 00:07:18.229
voor

1054
00:07:18.229 --> 00:07:19.029
professionele

1055
00:07:19.029 --> 00:07:19.329
zorg

1056
00:07:19.329 --> 00:07:19.589
worden

1057
00:07:19.589 --> 00:07:20.069
gebruikt?

1058
00:07:20.510 --> 00:07:20.670
Hoe

1059
00:07:20.670 --> 00:07:21.250
beschermen

1060
00:07:21.250 --> 00:07:21.390
we

1061
00:07:21.390 --> 00:07:21.790
privacy?

1062
00:07:22.230 --> 00:07:22.330
Hoe

1063
00:07:22.330 --> 00:07:22.710
voorkomen

1064
00:07:22.710 --> 00:07:22.870
we

1065
00:07:22.870 --> 00:07:23.010
dat

1066
00:07:23.010 --> 00:07:23.130
een

1067
00:07:23.130 --> 00:07:23.570
relationeel

1068
00:07:23.570 --> 00:07:23.910
kompas

1069
00:07:23.910 --> 00:07:24.350
een

1070
00:07:24.350 --> 00:07:25.110
score,

1071
00:07:25.170 --> 00:07:25.490
label

1072
00:07:25.490 --> 00:07:26.011
of

1073
00:07:26.011 --> 00:07:26.931
bewijsautomaat

1074
00:07:26.931 --> 00:07:27.131
wordt?

1075
00:07:27.531 --> 00:07:27.651
Hoe

1076
00:07:27.651 --> 00:07:27.991
zorgen

1077
00:07:27.991 --> 00:07:28.171
we

1078
00:07:28.171 --> 00:07:28.431
ervoor

1079
00:07:28.431 --> 00:07:28.651
dat

1080
00:07:28.651 --> 00:07:28.951
acute

1081
00:07:28.951 --> 00:07:29.611
veiligheid

1082
00:07:29.611 --> 00:07:30.151
nooit

1083
00:07:30.151 --> 00:07:30.351
wordt

1084
00:07:30.351 --> 00:07:30.891
vertraagd?

1085
00:07:31.511 --> 00:07:31.772
En

1086
00:07:31.772 --> 00:07:31.932
hoe

1087
00:07:31.932 --> 00:07:32.272
voorkomen

1088
00:07:32.272 --> 00:07:32.432
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1089
00:07:32.432 --> 00:07:32.572
dat

1090
00:07:32.572 --> 00:07:32.852
mooie

1091
00:07:32.852 --> 00:07:33.152
taal

1092
00:07:33.152 --> 00:07:33.372
over

1093
00:07:33.372 --> 00:07:33.792
verbinding

1094
00:07:33.792 --> 00:07:34.012
wordt

1095
00:07:34.012 --> 00:07:34.452
gebruikt

1096
00:07:34.452 --> 00:07:34.652
om

1097
00:07:34.652 --> 00:07:35.092
bestaande

1098
00:07:35.092 --> 00:07:35.772
machtsverschillen

1099
00:07:35.772 --> 00:07:35.912
te

1100
00:07:35.912 --> 00:07:36.252
verhullen?

1101
00:07:37.093 --> 00:07:37.233
Dat

1102
00:07:37.233 --> 00:07:37.413
zijn

1103
00:07:37.413 --> 00:07:37.653
geen

1104
00:07:37.653 --> 00:07:38.173
bijkomende

1105
00:07:38.173 --> 00:07:38.793
bezwaren.

1106
00:07:39.513 --> 00:07:39.673
Zij

1107
00:07:39.673 --> 00:07:40.033
behoren

1108
00:07:40.033 --> 00:07:40.213
tot

1109
00:07:40.213 --> 00:07:40.353
de

1110
00:07:40.353 --> 00:07:40.553
kern

1111
00:07:40.553 --> 00:07:40.773
van

1112
00:07:40.773 --> 00:07:40.893
de

1113
00:07:40.893 --> 00:07:41.193
position

1114
00:07:41.193 --> 00:07:41.553
paper.

1115
00:07:42.393 --> 00:07:42.513
Een

1116
00:07:42.513 --> 00:07:42.854
concept

1117
00:07:42.854 --> 00:07:43.054
dat

1118
00:07:43.054 --> 00:07:43.494
menselijke

1119
00:07:43.494 --> 00:07:44.094
waardigheid

1120
00:07:44.094 --> 00:07:44.434
wil

1121
00:07:44.434 --> 00:07:45.034
beschermen

1122
00:07:45.034 --> 00:07:45.614
moet

1123
00:07:45.614 --> 00:07:45.914
namelijk

1124
00:07:45.914 --> 00:07:46.114
ook

1125
00:07:46.114 --> 00:07:46.514
zichzelf

1126
00:07:46.514 --> 00:07:46.754
laten

1127
00:07:46.754 --> 00:07:47.254
begrenzen.

1128
00:07:48.114 --> 00:07:48.255
Het

1129
00:07:48.255 --> 00:07:48.435
moet

1130
00:07:48.435 --> 00:07:48.735
kunnen

1131
00:07:48.735 --> 00:07:49.235
verdragen

1132
00:07:49.235 --> 00:07:49.435
dat

1133
00:07:49.435 --> 00:07:49.695
mensen

1134
00:07:49.695 --> 00:07:50.055
zeggen

1135
00:07:50.055 --> 00:07:50.795
dit

1136
00:07:50.795 --> 00:07:51.275
onderdeel

1137
00:07:51.275 --> 00:07:51.495
werkt

1138
00:07:51.495 --> 00:07:51.755
niet,

1139
00:07:52.215 --> 00:07:52.435
deze

1140
00:07:52.435 --> 00:07:52.855
toepassing

1141
00:07:52.855 --> 00:07:53.055
is

1142
00:07:53.055 --> 00:07:53.595
onveilig,

1143
00:07:54.036 --> 00:07:54.256
deze

1144
00:07:54.256 --> 00:07:54.536
term

1145
00:07:54.536 --> 00:07:54.716
is

1146
00:07:54.716 --> 00:07:54.836
te

1147
00:07:54.836 --> 00:07:55.156
vaag,

1148
00:07:55.456 --> 00:07:55.676
deze

1149
00:07:55.676 --> 00:07:56.056
vraag

1150
00:07:56.056 --> 00:07:56.456
legt

1151
00:07:56.456 --> 00:07:56.549
te

1152
00:07:56.549 --> 00:07:56.736
veel

1153
00:07:56.736 --> 00:07:57.536
verantwoordelijkheid

1154
00:07:57.536 --> 00:07:57.716
bij

1155
00:07:57.716 --> 00:07:57.856
het

1156
00:07:57.856 --> 00:07:58.136
gezin,

1157
00:07:58.136 --> 00:07:58.876
deze

1158
00:07:58.876 --> 00:07:59.617
registratie

1159
00:07:59.617 --> 00:08:00.117
verzamelt

1160
00:08:00.117 --> 00:08:00.230
te

1161
00:08:00.230 --> 00:08:00.457
veel

1162
00:08:00.457 --> 00:08:01.417
persoonsgegevens,

1163
00:08:02.017 --> 00:08:02.257
deze

1164
00:08:02.257 --> 00:08:02.977
herstelroute

1165
00:08:02.977 --> 00:08:03.397
zet

1166
00:08:03.397 --> 00:08:03.517
een

1167
00:08:03.517 --> 00:08:04.057
slachtoffer

1168
00:08:04.057 --> 00:08:04.297
onder

1169
00:08:04.297 --> 00:08:04.597
druk

1170
00:08:04.597 --> 00:08:05.238
of

1171
00:08:05.238 --> 00:08:05.838
dit

1172
00:08:05.838 --> 00:08:06.438
instrument

1173
00:08:06.438 --> 00:08:06.698
voegt

1174
00:08:06.698 --> 00:08:06.918
niets

1175
00:08:06.918 --> 00:08:07.058
toe

1176
00:08:07.058 --> 00:08:07.238
aan

1177
00:08:07.238 --> 00:08:07.638
bestaande

1178
00:08:07.638 --> 00:08:08.458
professionele

1179
00:08:08.458 --> 00:08:09.038
standaarden,

1180
00:08:09.598 --> 00:08:09.918
daarom

1181
00:08:09.918 --> 00:08:10.158
is

1182
00:08:10.158 --> 00:08:10.639
publieke

1183
00:08:10.639 --> 00:08:11.319
consultatie

1184
00:08:11.319 --> 00:08:12.059
noodzakelijk.

1185
00:08:12.759 --> 00:08:12.899
Niet

1186
00:08:12.899 --> 00:08:13.059
als

1187
00:08:13.059 --> 00:08:13.179
een

1188
00:08:13.179 --> 00:08:13.639
symbolisch

1189
00:08:13.639 --> 00:08:13.899
moment

1190
00:08:13.899 --> 00:08:14.179
waarop

1191
00:08:14.179 --> 00:08:14.419
mensen

1192
00:08:14.419 --> 00:08:14.699
mogen

1193
00:08:14.699 --> 00:08:15.339
reageren

1194
00:08:15.339 --> 00:08:15.980
nadat

1195
00:08:15.980 --> 00:08:16.260
alles

1196
00:08:16.260 --> 00:08:16.460
al

1197
00:08:16.460 --> 00:08:16.960
vaststaat,

1198
00:08:17.240 --> 00:08:17.780
maar

1199
00:08:17.780 --> 00:08:17.960
als

1200
00:08:17.960 --> 00:08:18.080
een

1201
00:08:18.080 --> 00:08:18.380
werkelijk

1202
00:08:18.380 --> 00:08:18.860
onderdeel

1203
00:08:18.860 --> 00:08:19.000
van

1204
00:08:19.000 --> 00:08:19.120
de

1205
00:08:19.120 --> 00:08:19.620
ontwikkeling.

1206
00:08:20.420 --> 00:08:20.540
De

1207
00:08:20.540 --> 00:08:20.900
position

1208
00:08:20.900 --> 00:08:21.280
paper

1209
00:08:21.280 --> 00:08:21.621
kan

1210
00:08:21.621 --> 00:08:21.781
na

1211
00:08:21.781 --> 00:08:22.401
consultatie

1212
00:08:22.401 --> 00:08:22.621
worden

1213
00:08:22.621 --> 00:08:23.261
verbeterd,

1214
00:08:23.541 --> 00:08:23.641
zij

1215
00:08:23.641 --> 00:08:23.781
kan

1216
00:08:23.781 --> 00:08:24.001
worden

1217
00:08:24.001 --> 00:08:24.461
versmald,

1218
00:08:24.761 --> 00:08:24.861
zij

1219
00:08:24.861 --> 00:08:25.001
kan

1220
00:08:25.001 --> 00:08:25.201
worden

1221
00:08:25.201 --> 00:08:25.921
opgesplitst,

1222
00:08:26.721 --> 00:08:26.821
zij

1223
00:08:26.821 --> 00:08:26.982
kan

1224
00:08:26.982 --> 00:08:27.142
als

1225
00:08:27.142 --> 00:08:27.262
niet

1226
00:08:27.262 --> 00:08:27.602
bindend

1227
00:08:27.602 --> 00:08:28.302
reflectiekader

1228
00:08:28.302 --> 00:08:28.642
blijven

1229
00:08:28.642 --> 00:08:29.022
bestaan.

1230
00:08:29.842 --> 00:08:29.942
En

1231
00:08:29.942 --> 00:08:30.162
wanneer

1232
00:08:30.162 --> 00:08:30.302
de

1233
00:08:30.302 --> 00:08:30.742
risico's

1234
00:08:30.742 --> 00:08:31.082
groter

1235
00:08:31.082 --> 00:08:31.462
blijken

1236
00:08:31.462 --> 00:08:31.602
dan

1237
00:08:31.602 --> 00:08:31.742
de

1238
00:08:31.742 --> 00:08:32.202
meerwaarde,

1239
00:08:32.703 --> 00:08:32.863
moet

1240
00:08:32.863 --> 00:08:33.043
ook

1241
00:08:33.043 --> 00:08:33.223
een

1242
00:08:33.223 --> 00:08:33.863
NO-GO

1243
00:08:33.863 --> 00:08:34.303
mogelijk

1244
00:08:34.303 --> 00:08:34.603
zijn,

1245
00:08:34.983 --> 00:08:35.123
dat

1246
00:08:35.123 --> 00:08:35.223
is

1247
00:08:35.223 --> 00:08:35.323
een

1248
00:08:35.323 --> 00:08:35.863
belangrijke

1249
00:08:35.863 --> 00:08:36.123
vorm

1250
00:08:36.123 --> 00:08:36.423
van

1251
00:08:36.423 --> 00:08:36.902
bestuurlijke

1252
00:08:36.902 --> 00:08:37.443
eerlijkheid.

1253
00:08:37.863 --> 00:08:37.963
Hoe

1254
00:08:37.963 --> 00:08:38.104
het

1255
00:08:38.104 --> 00:08:38.383
Ubuntu

1256
00:08:38.383 --> 00:08:39.184
relatiekompas

1257
00:08:39.184 --> 00:08:39.544
werkt.

1258
00:08:40.364 --> 00:08:40.484
Het

1259
00:08:40.484 --> 00:08:40.784
Ubuntu

1260
00:08:40.784 --> 00:08:41.784
relatiekompas

1261
00:08:41.784 --> 00:08:42.324
begint

1262
00:08:42.324 --> 00:08:42.564
niet

1263
00:08:42.564 --> 00:08:43.164
onmiddellijk

1264
00:08:43.164 --> 00:08:43.444
met

1265
00:08:43.444 --> 00:08:43.565
de

1266
00:08:43.565 --> 00:08:43.725
zes

1267
00:08:43.725 --> 00:08:44.185
dimensies.

1268
00:08:44.605 --> 00:08:44.885
Eerst

1269
00:08:44.885 --> 00:08:45.165
zijn

1270
00:08:45.165 --> 00:08:45.305
er

1271
00:08:45.305 --> 00:08:45.545
twee

1272
00:08:45.545 --> 00:08:46.525
toegangspoorten.

1273
00:08:47.165 --> 00:08:47.305
De

1274
00:08:47.305 --> 00:08:47.525
eerste

1275
00:08:47.525 --> 00:08:48.245
toegangspoort

1276
00:08:48.245 --> 00:08:48.445
gaat

1277
00:08:48.445 --> 00:08:48.725
over

1278
00:08:48.725 --> 00:08:49.566
rechtmatigheid

1279
00:08:49.566 --> 00:08:49.826
en

1280
00:08:49.826 --> 00:08:50.526
professionele

1281
00:08:50.526 --> 00:08:51.326
zorgvuldigheid.

1282
00:08:51.806 --> 00:08:52.006
Is

1283
00:08:52.006 --> 00:08:52.286
de

1284
00:08:52.286 --> 00:08:52.806
handelende

1285
00:08:52.806 --> 00:08:53.286
persoon

1286
00:08:53.286 --> 00:08:53.486
of

1287
00:08:53.486 --> 00:08:54.146
organisatie

1288
00:08:54.146 --> 00:08:54.967
bevoegd?

1289
00:08:55.347 --> 00:08:55.447
Is

1290
00:08:55.447 --> 00:08:55.587
het

1291
00:08:55.587 --> 00:08:55.907
besluit

1292
00:08:55.907 --> 00:08:56.447
zorgvuldig

1293
00:08:56.447 --> 00:08:57.047
voorbereid?

1294
00:08:57.247 --> 00:08:57.367
Is

1295
00:08:57.367 --> 00:08:57.507
het

1296
00:08:57.507 --> 00:08:57.707
doel

1297
00:08:57.707 --> 00:08:58.207
legitiem?

1298
00:08:58.567 --> 00:08:58.667
Is

1299
00:08:58.667 --> 00:08:58.807
de

1300
00:08:58.807 --> 00:08:59.287
maatregel

1301
00:08:59.287 --> 00:09:00.087
proportioneel?

1302
00:09:00.568 --> 00:09:00.728
Zijn

1303
00:09:00.728 --> 00:09:01.408
fundamentele

1304
00:09:01.408 --> 00:09:01.688
rechten

1305
00:09:01.688 --> 00:09:02.348
beschermd?

1306
00:09:02.728 --> 00:09:02.928
Is

1307
00:09:02.928 --> 00:09:03.788
professionele

1308
00:09:03.788 --> 00:09:04.268
expertise

1309
00:09:04.268 --> 00:09:04.648
nodig

1310
00:09:04.648 --> 00:09:05.068
en

1311
00:09:05.068 --> 00:09:05.248
is

1312
00:09:05.248 --> 00:09:05.388
die

1313
00:09:05.388 --> 00:09:05.889
expertise

1314
00:09:05.889 --> 00:09:06.209
ook

1315
00:09:06.209 --> 00:09:06.709
daadwerkelijk

1316
00:09:06.709 --> 00:09:07.189
aanwezig?

1317
00:09:07.889 --> 00:09:08.189
De

1318
00:09:08.189 --> 00:09:08.449
tweede

1319
00:09:08.449 --> 00:09:09.189
toegangspoort

1320
00:09:09.189 --> 00:09:09.489
gaat

1321
00:09:09.489 --> 00:09:09.729
over

1322
00:09:09.729 --> 00:09:10.309
veiligheid,

1323
00:09:10.669 --> 00:09:11.290
vrijwilligheid

1324
00:09:11.290 --> 00:09:11.490
en

1325
00:09:11.490 --> 00:09:11.750
macht.

1326
00:09:12.410 --> 00:09:12.570
Kan

1327
00:09:12.570 --> 00:09:12.910
iedereen

1328
00:09:12.910 --> 00:09:13.270
veilig

1329
00:09:13.270 --> 00:09:13.770
deelnemen?

1330
00:09:14.210 --> 00:09:14.310
Is

1331
00:09:14.310 --> 00:09:14.430
er

1332
00:09:14.430 --> 00:09:14.710
sprake

1333
00:09:14.710 --> 00:09:14.910
van

1334
00:09:14.910 --> 00:09:15.170
druk,

1335
00:09:15.530 --> 00:09:16.210
intimidatie

1336
00:09:16.210 --> 00:09:16.490
of

1337
00:09:16.490 --> 00:09:17.251
afhankelijkheid?

1338
00:09:17.671 --> 00:09:17.791
Kan

1339
00:09:17.791 --> 00:09:18.091
iemand

1340
00:09:18.091 --> 00:09:18.651
weigeren

1341
00:09:18.651 --> 00:09:19.151
zonder

1342
00:09:19.151 --> 00:09:20.111
disproportionele

1343
00:09:20.111 --> 00:09:20.571
gevolgen?

1344
00:09:21.091 --> 00:09:21.431
Is

1345
00:09:21.431 --> 00:09:22.011
gezamenlijke

1346
00:09:22.011 --> 00:09:22.492
dialoog

1347
00:09:22.492 --> 00:09:23.032
verantwoord?

1348
00:09:23.592 --> 00:09:23.832
Worden

1349
00:09:23.832 --> 00:09:24.612
machtsverschillen

1350
00:09:24.612 --> 00:09:24.952
gezien

1351
00:09:24.952 --> 00:09:25.092
en

1352
00:09:25.092 --> 00:09:25.612
begrensd?

1353
00:09:25.952 --> 00:09:26.072
En

1354
00:09:26.072 --> 00:09:26.232
is

1355
00:09:26.232 --> 00:09:26.372
er

1356
00:09:26.372 --> 00:09:26.892
bescherming

1357
00:09:26.892 --> 00:09:27.192
wanneer

1358
00:09:27.192 --> 00:09:27.452
iemand

1359
00:09:27.452 --> 00:09:27.893
kwetsbaar

1360
00:09:27.893 --> 00:09:28.113
is?

1361
00:09:28.613 --> 00:09:28.893
Deze

1362
00:09:28.893 --> 00:09:29.693
toegangspoorten

1363
00:09:29.693 --> 00:09:30.033
zijn

1364
00:09:30.033 --> 00:09:30.553
belangrijk.

1365
00:09:31.333 --> 00:09:31.473
Zonder

1366
00:09:31.473 --> 00:09:31.793
deze

1367
00:09:31.793 --> 00:09:32.233
poorten

1368
00:09:32.233 --> 00:09:32.453
zou

1369
00:09:32.453 --> 00:09:32.633
het

1370
00:09:32.633 --> 00:09:32.873
woord

1371
00:09:32.873 --> 00:09:33.393
verbinding

1372
00:09:33.393 --> 00:09:34.014
gevaarlijk

1373
00:09:34.014 --> 00:09:34.214
kunnen

1374
00:09:34.214 --> 00:09:34.474
worden.

1375
00:09:35.294 --> 00:09:35.474
Dan

1376
00:09:35.474 --> 00:09:35.654
zou

1377
00:09:35.654 --> 00:09:35.914
iemand

1378
00:09:35.914 --> 00:09:36.274
bijvoorbeeld

1379
00:09:36.274 --> 00:09:36.614
kunnen

1380
00:09:36.614 --> 00:09:36.874
zeggen,

1381
00:09:37.514 --> 00:09:37.914
wij

1382
00:09:37.914 --> 00:09:38.134
moeten

1383
00:09:38.134 --> 00:09:38.474
vanuit

1384
00:09:38.474 --> 00:09:38.794
Ubuntu

1385
00:09:38.794 --> 00:09:39.035
met

1386
00:09:39.035 --> 00:09:39.255
elkaar

1387
00:09:39.255 --> 00:09:39.435
in

1388
00:09:39.435 --> 00:09:39.995
gesprek,

1389
00:09:40.395 --> 00:09:40.635
terwijl

1390
00:09:40.635 --> 00:09:40.795
een

1391
00:09:40.795 --> 00:09:41.315
slachtoffer

1392
00:09:41.315 --> 00:09:41.515
daar

1393
00:09:41.515 --> 00:09:41.695
niet

1394
00:09:41.695 --> 00:09:42.035
veilig

1395
00:09:42.035 --> 00:09:42.215
aan

1396
00:09:42.215 --> 00:09:42.375
kan

1397
00:09:42.375 --> 00:09:42.835
deelnemen.

1398
00:09:43.555 --> 00:09:43.815
Of

1399
00:09:43.815 --> 00:09:44.455
het

1400
00:09:44.455 --> 00:09:44.776
gezin

1401
00:09:44.776 --> 00:09:44.956
moet

1402
00:09:44.956 --> 00:09:45.136
dit

1403
00:09:45.136 --> 00:09:45.376
samen

1404
00:09:45.376 --> 00:09:45.836
oplossen,

1405
00:09:46.276 --> 00:09:46.536
terwijl

1406
00:09:46.536 --> 00:09:47.156
noodzakelijke

1407
00:09:47.156 --> 00:09:47.756
professionele

1408
00:09:47.756 --> 00:09:47.996
zorg

1409
00:09:47.996 --> 00:09:48.456
ontbreekt.

1410
00:09:49.016 --> 00:09:49.276
Of

1411
00:09:49.276 --> 00:09:49.916
de

1412
00:09:49.916 --> 00:09:50.277
relatie

1413
00:09:50.277 --> 00:09:50.477
moet

1414
00:09:50.477 --> 00:09:50.857
behouden

1415
00:09:50.857 --> 00:09:51.217
blijven,

1416
00:09:51.717 --> 00:09:52.017
terwijl

1417
00:09:52.017 --> 00:09:52.477
herhaald

1418
00:09:52.477 --> 00:09:52.937
geweld,

1419
00:09:52.937 --> 00:09:53.397
dwang

1420
00:09:53.397 --> 00:09:53.697
of

1421
00:09:53.697 --> 00:09:54.217
vernedering

1422
00:09:54.217 --> 00:09:54.757
voortduurt.

1423
00:09:55.197 --> 00:09:55.317
Het

1424
00:09:55.317 --> 00:09:55.678
kompas

1425
00:09:55.678 --> 00:09:55.878
zegt

1426
00:09:55.878 --> 00:09:56.198
daarom

1427
00:09:56.198 --> 00:09:56.398
niet,

1428
00:09:56.758 --> 00:09:57.158
verbinding

1429
00:09:57.158 --> 00:09:57.498
is

1430
00:09:57.498 --> 00:09:57.758
altijd

1431
00:09:57.758 --> 00:09:58.038
goed.

1432
00:09:58.638 --> 00:09:58.758
Het

1433
00:09:58.758 --> 00:09:58.958
zegt,

1434
00:09:59.378 --> 00:09:59.838
onderzoek

1435
00:09:59.838 --> 00:10:00.158
welke

1436
00:10:00.158 --> 00:10:00.418
vorm

1437
00:10:00.418 --> 00:10:00.618
van

1438
00:10:00.618 --> 00:10:01.239
verbondenheid

1439
00:10:01.239 --> 00:10:01.859
menswaardig,

1440
00:10:02.039 --> 00:10:02.359
veilig

1441
00:10:02.359 --> 00:10:02.619
en

1442
00:10:02.619 --> 00:10:03.079
vrijwillig

1443
00:10:03.079 --> 00:10:03.299
is.

1444
00:10:03.899 --> 00:10:04.079
Soms

1445
00:10:04.079 --> 00:10:04.599
betekent

1446
00:10:04.599 --> 00:10:04.739
dat

1447
00:10:04.739 --> 00:10:05.339
nabijheid,

1448
00:10:05.759 --> 00:10:05.959
soms

1449
00:10:05.959 --> 00:10:06.408
begeleid

1450
00:10:06.408 --> 00:10:06.800
contact,

1451
00:10:07.200 --> 00:10:07.420
soms

1452
00:10:07.420 --> 00:10:07.880
duidelijke

1453
00:10:07.880 --> 00:10:08.400
voorwaarden,

1454
00:10:08.860 --> 00:10:09.080
soms

1455
00:10:09.080 --> 00:10:09.600
tijdelijke

1456
00:10:09.600 --> 00:10:10.020
afstand

1457
00:10:10.020 --> 00:10:10.740
en

1458
00:10:10.740 --> 00:10:10.980
soms

1459
00:10:10.980 --> 00:10:11.520
langdurige

1460
00:10:11.520 --> 00:10:11.700
of

1461
00:10:11.700 --> 00:10:12.100
blijvende

1462
00:10:12.100 --> 00:10:12.661
beëindiging

1463
00:10:12.661 --> 00:10:12.841
van

1464
00:10:12.841 --> 00:10:13.261
contact.

1465
00:10:13.861 --> 00:10:14.061
Geen

1466
00:10:14.061 --> 00:10:14.241
van

1467
00:10:14.241 --> 00:10:14.521
deze

1468
00:10:14.521 --> 00:10:15.081
uitkomsten

1469
00:10:15.081 --> 00:10:15.441
is

1470
00:10:15.441 --> 00:10:16.081
automatisch

1471
00:10:16.081 --> 00:10:16.741
relationeel

1472
00:10:16.741 --> 00:10:17.221
legitiem.

1473
00:10:17.782 --> 00:10:17.902
De

1474
00:10:17.902 --> 00:10:18.582
legitimiteit

1475
00:10:18.582 --> 00:10:18.842
hangt

1476
00:10:18.842 --> 00:10:19.102
af

1477
00:10:19.102 --> 00:10:19.402
van

1478
00:10:19.402 --> 00:10:19.562
de

1479
00:10:19.562 --> 00:10:19.882
concrete

1480
00:10:19.882 --> 00:10:20.602
omstandigheden,

1481
00:10:21.042 --> 00:10:21.162
de

1482
00:10:21.162 --> 00:10:21.702
veiligheid,

1483
00:10:21.702 --> 00:10:22.022
de

1484
00:10:22.022 --> 00:10:22.982
proportionaliteit,

1485
00:10:23.483 --> 00:10:23.603
de

1486
00:10:23.603 --> 00:10:24.283
vrijwilligheid

1487
00:10:24.283 --> 00:10:24.663
en

1488
00:10:24.663 --> 00:10:24.783
de

1489
00:10:24.783 --> 00:10:25.183
werkelijke

1490
00:10:25.183 --> 00:10:25.683
gevolgen.

1491
00:10:26.243 --> 00:10:26.343
Na

1492
00:10:26.343 --> 00:10:26.483
de

1493
00:10:26.483 --> 00:10:26.643
twee

1494
00:10:26.643 --> 00:10:27.463
toegangspoorten

1495
00:10:27.463 --> 00:10:27.883
volgen

1496
00:10:27.883 --> 00:10:28.143
zes

1497
00:10:28.143 --> 00:10:28.783
dimensies.

1498
00:10:29.464 --> 00:10:30.064
Betrouwbaarheid

1499
00:10:30.064 --> 00:10:30.184
en

1500
00:10:30.184 --> 00:10:30.904
vertrouwen,

1501
00:10:31.344 --> 00:10:32.004
wederkerigheid

1502
00:10:32.004 --> 00:10:32.204
en

1503
00:10:32.204 --> 00:10:32.924
participatie,

1504
00:10:33.504 --> 00:10:34.264
gelijkwaardigheid

1505
00:10:34.264 --> 00:10:34.465
en

1506
00:10:34.465 --> 00:10:35.085
machtsbalans,

1507
00:10:35.565 --> 00:10:36.205
verbondenheid

1508
00:10:36.205 --> 00:10:36.385
en

1509
00:10:36.385 --> 00:10:36.985
relationele

1510
00:10:36.985 --> 00:10:37.385
grenzen,

1511
00:10:38.085 --> 00:10:38.625
zelfregie

1512
00:10:38.625 --> 00:10:38.865
en

1513
00:10:38.865 --> 00:10:39.745
samenredzaamheid,

1514
00:10:40.226 --> 00:10:40.986
gemeenschapskracht

1515
00:10:40.986 --> 00:10:41.166
en

1516
00:10:41.166 --> 00:10:41.966
herstelvermogen.

1517
00:10:42.726 --> 00:10:42.986
Deze

1518
00:10:42.986 --> 00:10:43.466
dimensies

1519
00:10:43.466 --> 00:10:43.846
leveren

1520
00:10:43.846 --> 00:10:44.046
geen

1521
00:10:44.046 --> 00:10:44.766
totaalscore

1522
00:10:44.766 --> 00:10:44.946
op.

1523
00:10:45.587 --> 00:10:45.727
Het

1524
00:10:45.727 --> 00:10:45.867
is

1525
00:10:45.867 --> 00:10:46.027
niet

1526
00:10:46.027 --> 00:10:46.147
de

1527
00:10:46.147 --> 00:10:46.427
bedoeling

1528
00:10:46.427 --> 00:10:46.627
dat

1529
00:10:46.627 --> 00:10:46.887
iemand

1530
00:10:46.887 --> 00:10:47.127
een

1531
00:10:47.127 --> 00:10:47.407
7

1532
00:10:47.407 --> 00:10:47.687
of

1533
00:10:47.687 --> 00:10:47.827
een

1534
00:10:47.827 --> 00:10:48.027
4

1535
00:10:48.027 --> 00:10:48.407
krijgt

1536
00:10:48.407 --> 00:10:48.567
voor

1537
00:10:48.567 --> 00:10:49.327
relationele

1538
00:10:49.327 --> 00:10:50.207
legitimiteit.

1539
00:10:51.028 --> 00:10:51.208
Het

1540
00:10:51.208 --> 00:10:51.348
is

1541
00:10:51.348 --> 00:10:51.508
ook

1542
00:10:51.508 --> 00:10:51.688
niet

1543
00:10:51.688 --> 00:10:51.808
de

1544
00:10:51.808 --> 00:10:52.168
bedoeling

1545
00:10:52.168 --> 00:10:52.368
dat

1546
00:10:52.368 --> 00:10:52.508
een

1547
00:10:52.508 --> 00:10:53.148
organisatie

1548
00:10:53.148 --> 00:10:53.468
zegt,

1549
00:10:54.088 --> 00:10:54.268
wij

1550
00:10:54.268 --> 00:10:54.468
hebben

1551
00:10:54.468 --> 00:10:54.648
het

1552
00:10:54.648 --> 00:10:55.048
formulier

1553
00:10:55.048 --> 00:10:55.588
ingevuld,

1554
00:10:55.948 --> 00:10:56.108
dus

1555
00:10:56.108 --> 00:10:56.308
ons

1556
00:10:56.308 --> 00:10:56.729
besluit

1557
00:10:56.729 --> 00:10:56.929
is

1558
00:10:56.929 --> 00:10:57.589
relationeel

1559
00:10:57.589 --> 00:10:58.529
legitiem.

1560
00:10:58.589 --> 00:10:58.729
Het

1561
00:10:58.729 --> 00:10:59.209
kompas

1562
00:10:59.209 --> 00:10:59.409
is

1563
00:10:59.409 --> 00:10:59.549
een

1564
00:10:59.549 --> 00:11:00.369
reflectielaag.

1565
00:11:00.869 --> 00:11:00.989
Het

1566
00:11:00.989 --> 00:11:01.229
maakt

1567
00:11:01.229 --> 00:11:01.669
vragen

1568
00:11:01.669 --> 00:11:02.150
zichtbaar

1569
00:11:02.150 --> 00:11:02.310
die

1570
00:11:02.310 --> 00:11:02.670
anders

1571
00:11:02.670 --> 00:11:03.230
gemakkelijk

1572
00:11:03.230 --> 00:11:03.810
verdwijnen.

1573
00:11:04.370 --> 00:11:04.990
Betrouwbaarheid

1574
00:11:04.990 --> 00:11:05.150
en

1575
00:11:05.150 --> 00:11:05.670
vertrouwen,

1576
00:11:06.050 --> 00:11:06.510
vertrouwen

1577
00:11:06.510 --> 00:11:06.690
wordt

1578
00:11:06.690 --> 00:11:06.970
vaak

1579
00:11:06.970 --> 00:11:07.430
gevraagd

1580
00:11:07.430 --> 00:11:07.550
aan

1581
00:11:07.550 --> 00:11:07.891
degene

1582
00:11:07.891 --> 00:11:08.071
die

1583
00:11:08.071 --> 00:11:08.491
afhankelijk

1584
00:11:08.491 --> 00:11:08.771
is.

1585
00:11:09.491 --> 00:11:09.631
De

1586
00:11:09.631 --> 00:11:09.951
burger

1587
00:11:09.951 --> 00:11:10.251
moet

1588
00:11:10.251 --> 00:11:10.371
de

1589
00:11:10.371 --> 00:11:10.911
professional

1590
00:11:10.911 --> 00:11:11.451
vertrouwen.

1591
00:11:11.911 --> 00:11:12.151
De

1592
00:11:12.151 --> 00:11:12.591
patiënt

1593
00:11:12.591 --> 00:11:12.851
moet

1594
00:11:12.851 --> 00:11:13.312
vertrouwen

1595
00:11:13.312 --> 00:11:13.452
op

1596
00:11:13.452 --> 00:11:13.552
de

1597
00:11:13.552 --> 00:11:13.832
arts.

1598
00:11:14.552 --> 00:11:14.932
Het

1599
00:11:14.932 --> 00:11:15.152
kind

1600
00:11:15.152 --> 00:11:15.372
moet

1601
00:11:15.372 --> 00:11:15.852
vertrouwen

1602
00:11:15.852 --> 00:11:16.032
op

1603
00:11:16.032 --> 00:11:16.152
de

1604
00:11:16.152 --> 00:11:16.672
volwassenen.

1605
00:11:17.212 --> 00:11:17.392
De

1606
00:11:17.392 --> 00:11:17.652
partner

1607
00:11:17.652 --> 00:11:17.892
moet

1608
00:11:17.892 --> 00:11:18.232
geloven

1609
00:11:18.232 --> 00:11:18.432
dat

1610
00:11:18.432 --> 00:11:18.572
de

1611
00:11:18.572 --> 00:11:18.753
ander

1612
00:11:18.753 --> 00:11:18.953
het

1613
00:11:18.953 --> 00:11:19.313
voortaan

1614
00:11:19.313 --> 00:11:19.633
anders

1615
00:11:19.633 --> 00:11:19.813
zal

1616
00:11:19.813 --> 00:11:19.993
doen,

1617
00:11:20.533 --> 00:11:20.653
maar

1618
00:11:20.653 --> 00:11:21.093
vertrouwen

1619
00:11:21.093 --> 00:11:21.293
kan

1620
00:11:21.293 --> 00:11:21.453
niet

1621
00:11:21.453 --> 00:11:21.673
worden

1622
00:11:21.673 --> 00:11:22.313
opgeëist.

1623
00:11:23.293 --> 00:11:23.733
Vertrouwen

1624
00:11:23.733 --> 00:11:23.873
is

1625
00:11:23.873 --> 00:11:24.073
geen

1626
00:11:24.073 --> 00:11:24.434
schuld

1627
00:11:24.434 --> 00:11:24.774
die

1628
00:11:24.774 --> 00:11:25.014
iemand

1629
00:11:25.014 --> 00:11:25.154
aan

1630
00:11:25.154 --> 00:11:25.254
de

1631
00:11:25.254 --> 00:11:25.374
ander

1632
00:11:25.374 --> 00:11:25.574
moet

1633
00:11:25.574 --> 00:11:25.994
betalen.

1634
00:11:26.914 --> 00:11:27.294
Vertrouwen

1635
00:11:27.294 --> 00:11:27.534
groeit

1636
00:11:27.534 --> 00:11:27.714
uit

1637
00:11:27.714 --> 00:11:28.494
aantoonbare

1638
00:11:28.494 --> 00:11:29.234
betrouwbaarheid.

1639
00:11:29.614 --> 00:11:30.075
Afspraken

1640
00:11:30.075 --> 00:11:30.295
worden

1641
00:11:30.295 --> 00:11:30.995
nagekomen.

1642
00:11:31.555 --> 00:11:32.095
Informatie

1643
00:11:32.095 --> 00:11:32.675
wordt

1644
00:11:32.675 --> 00:11:33.075
eerlijk

1645
00:11:33.075 --> 00:11:33.475
gedeeld.

1646
00:11:33.935 --> 00:11:34.255
Fouten

1647
00:11:34.255 --> 00:11:34.455
worden

1648
00:11:34.455 --> 00:11:34.655
niet

1649
00:11:34.655 --> 00:11:35.195
verstopt.

1650
00:11:35.796 --> 00:11:36.096
Vragen

1651
00:11:36.096 --> 00:11:36.356
worden

1652
00:11:36.356 --> 00:11:36.876
beantwoord.

1653
00:11:37.496 --> 00:11:37.836
Grenzen

1654
00:11:37.836 --> 00:11:38.016
zijn

1655
00:11:38.016 --> 00:11:38.436
duidelijk.

1656
00:11:39.096 --> 00:11:39.656
Veranderingen

1657
00:11:39.656 --> 00:11:39.816
worden

1658
00:11:39.816 --> 00:11:40.516
uitgelegd.

1659
00:11:41.277 --> 00:11:41.437
Een

1660
00:11:41.437 --> 00:11:41.917
tijdelijke

1661
00:11:41.917 --> 00:11:42.537
maatregel

1662
00:11:42.537 --> 00:11:42.757
heeft

1663
00:11:42.757 --> 00:11:43.097
werkelijk

1664
00:11:43.097 --> 00:11:43.297
een

1665
00:11:43.297 --> 00:11:44.337
evaluatiemoment

1666
00:11:44.337 --> 00:11:44.837
en

1667
00:11:44.837 --> 00:11:45.077
wanneer

1668
00:11:45.077 --> 00:11:45.237
iets

1669
00:11:45.237 --> 00:11:45.437
niet

1670
00:11:45.437 --> 00:11:45.697
lukt,

1671
00:11:46.077 --> 00:11:46.277
wordt

1672
00:11:46.277 --> 00:11:46.438
dat

1673
00:11:46.438 --> 00:11:46.718
tijdig

1674
00:11:46.718 --> 00:11:47.158
benoemd.

1675
00:11:47.838 --> 00:11:47.978
De

1676
00:11:47.978 --> 00:11:48.338
pdf

1677
00:11:48.338 --> 00:11:48.738
vertaalt

1678
00:11:48.738 --> 00:11:48.898
dit

1679
00:11:48.898 --> 00:11:49.078
naar

1680
00:11:49.078 --> 00:11:49.218
een

1681
00:11:49.218 --> 00:11:49.698
eenvoudige

1682
00:11:49.698 --> 00:11:50.118
gedachte.

1683
00:11:50.598 --> 00:11:50.898
Woorden

1684
00:11:50.898 --> 00:11:51.278
en

1685
00:11:51.278 --> 00:11:51.638
daden

1686
00:11:51.638 --> 00:11:51.939
moeten

1687
00:11:51.939 --> 00:11:52.319
beter

1688
00:11:52.319 --> 00:11:52.559
met

1689
00:11:52.559 --> 00:11:52.779
elkaar

1690
00:11:52.779 --> 00:11:53.279
overeen

1691
00:11:53.279 --> 00:11:53.499
komen.

1692
00:11:54.039 --> 00:11:54.179
Dat

1693
00:11:54.179 --> 00:11:54.479
klinkt

1694
00:11:54.479 --> 00:11:55.179
vanzelfsprekend.

1695
00:11:55.979 --> 00:11:56.139
Maar

1696
00:11:56.139 --> 00:11:56.499
juist

1697
00:11:56.499 --> 00:11:56.679
in

1698
00:11:56.679 --> 00:11:57.059
moeilijke

1699
00:11:57.059 --> 00:11:57.720
relaties

1700
00:11:57.720 --> 00:11:58.440
ontstaat

1701
00:11:58.440 --> 00:11:58.680
vaak

1702
00:11:58.680 --> 00:11:58.860
een

1703
00:11:58.860 --> 00:11:59.080
groot

1704
00:11:59.080 --> 00:11:59.460
verschil

1705
00:11:59.460 --> 00:11:59.700
tussen

1706
00:11:59.700 --> 00:11:59.960
wat

1707
00:11:59.960 --> 00:12:00.140
wordt

1708
00:12:00.140 --> 00:12:00.600
gezegd

1709
00:12:00.600 --> 00:12:00.780
en

1710
00:12:00.780 --> 00:12:00.940
wat

1711
00:12:00.940 --> 00:12:01.120
wordt

1712
00:12:01.120 --> 00:12:01.560
ervaren.

1713
00:12:02.220 --> 00:12:02.440
Iemand

1714
00:12:02.440 --> 00:12:02.760
zegt,

1715
00:12:03.021 --> 00:12:03.121
je

1716
00:12:03.121 --> 00:12:03.341
kunt

1717
00:12:03.341 --> 00:12:03.801
altijd

1718
00:12:03.801 --> 00:12:04.001
bij

1719
00:12:04.001 --> 00:12:04.221
mij

1720
00:12:04.221 --> 00:12:04.541
terecht,

1721
00:12:05.021 --> 00:12:05.121
maar

1722
00:12:05.121 --> 00:12:05.261
is

1723
00:12:05.261 --> 00:12:05.641
vervolgens

1724
00:12:05.641 --> 00:12:05.801
niet

1725
00:12:05.801 --> 00:12:06.281
bereikbaar.

1726
00:12:06.481 --> 00:12:06.621
Een

1727
00:12:06.621 --> 00:12:07.241
organisatie

1728
00:12:07.241 --> 00:12:07.541
zegt,

1729
00:12:07.961 --> 00:12:08.161
uw

1730
00:12:08.161 --> 00:12:08.642
stem

1731
00:12:08.642 --> 00:12:08.902
staat

1732
00:12:08.902 --> 00:12:09.422
centraal,

1733
00:12:09.782 --> 00:12:09.942
maar

1734
00:12:09.942 --> 00:12:10.282
de

1735
00:12:10.282 --> 00:12:11.002
kernbeslissing

1736
00:12:11.002 --> 00:12:11.302
is

1737
00:12:11.302 --> 00:12:11.502
al

1738
00:12:11.502 --> 00:12:11.822
genomen.

1739
00:12:12.142 --> 00:12:12.282
Een

1740
00:12:12.282 --> 00:12:12.562
partner

1741
00:12:12.562 --> 00:12:12.922
zegt,

1742
00:12:12.922 --> 00:12:13.322
ik

1743
00:12:13.322 --> 00:12:13.962
respecteer

1744
00:12:13.962 --> 00:12:14.082
je

1745
00:12:14.082 --> 00:12:14.503
grens,

1746
00:12:14.983 --> 00:12:15.103
maar

1747
00:12:15.103 --> 00:12:15.383
blijft

1748
00:12:15.383 --> 00:12:15.663
daarna

1749
00:12:15.663 --> 00:12:15.963
toch

1750
00:12:15.963 --> 00:12:16.603
aandringen.

1751
00:12:17.043 --> 00:12:17.203
Een

1752
00:12:17.203 --> 00:12:17.803
hulpverlener

1753
00:12:17.803 --> 00:12:18.083
zegt,

1754
00:12:18.523 --> 00:12:18.683
dit

1755
00:12:18.683 --> 00:12:18.863
is

1756
00:12:18.863 --> 00:12:19.303
tijdelijk,

1757
00:12:19.924 --> 00:12:20.044
maar

1758
00:12:20.044 --> 00:12:20.224
kan

1759
00:12:20.224 --> 00:12:20.384
niet

1760
00:12:20.384 --> 00:12:20.944
uitleggen

1761
00:12:20.944 --> 00:12:21.424
wanneer

1762
00:12:21.424 --> 00:12:21.604
of

1763
00:12:21.604 --> 00:12:21.824
onder

1764
00:12:21.824 --> 00:12:22.144
welke

1765
00:12:22.144 --> 00:12:22.704
voorwaarden

1766
00:12:22.704 --> 00:12:22.964
de

1767
00:12:22.964 --> 00:12:23.404
maatregel

1768
00:12:23.404 --> 00:12:23.884
eindigt.

1769
00:12:25.104 --> 00:12:25.665
Relationele

1770
00:12:25.665 --> 00:12:26.225
legitimiteit

1771
00:12:26.225 --> 00:12:26.645
vraagt

1772
00:12:26.645 --> 00:12:27.125
daarom

1773
00:12:27.125 --> 00:12:27.305
niet

1774
00:12:27.305 --> 00:12:27.585
alleen

1775
00:12:27.585 --> 00:12:27.745
naar

1776
00:12:27.745 --> 00:12:27.845
de

1777
00:12:27.845 --> 00:12:28.165
belofte.

1778
00:12:28.565 --> 00:12:28.685
Zij

1779
00:12:28.685 --> 00:12:28.985
vraagt

1780
00:12:28.985 --> 00:12:29.165
naar

1781
00:12:29.165 --> 00:12:29.285
het

1782
00:12:29.285 --> 00:12:29.705
patroon.

1783
00:12:30.245 --> 00:12:30.425
Niet,

1784
00:12:30.665 --> 00:12:30.826
heb

1785
00:12:30.826 --> 00:12:30.926
je

1786
00:12:30.926 --> 00:12:31.086
één

1787
00:12:31.086 --> 00:12:31.226
keer

1788
00:12:31.226 --> 00:12:31.526
sorry

1789
00:12:31.526 --> 00:12:32.206
gezegd,

1790
00:12:32.326 --> 00:12:32.526
maar

1791
00:12:32.526 --> 00:12:33.046
is

1792
00:12:33.046 --> 00:12:33.206
het

1793
00:12:33.206 --> 00:12:33.526
gedrag

1794
00:12:33.526 --> 00:12:33.846
daarna

1795
00:12:33.846 --> 00:12:34.226
werkelijk

1796
00:12:34.226 --> 00:12:34.726
veranderd?

1797
00:12:35.546 --> 00:12:35.766
Niet,

1798
00:12:36.066 --> 00:12:36.267
staat

1799
00:12:36.267 --> 00:12:36.907
participatie

1800
00:12:36.907 --> 00:12:37.067
in

1801
00:12:37.067 --> 00:12:37.167
het

1802
00:12:37.167 --> 00:12:37.667
beleidsplan?

1803
00:12:38.367 --> 00:12:38.567
Maar

1804
00:12:38.567 --> 00:12:39.027
kan

1805
00:12:39.027 --> 00:12:39.170
een

1806
00:12:39.170 --> 00:12:39.647
betrokkene

1807
00:12:39.647 --> 00:12:39.827
een

1808
00:12:39.827 --> 00:12:40.007
fout

1809
00:12:40.007 --> 00:12:40.167
in

1810
00:12:40.167 --> 00:12:40.287
het

1811
00:12:40.287 --> 00:12:40.547
dossier

1812
00:12:40.547 --> 00:12:40.807
laten

1813
00:12:40.807 --> 00:12:41.387
corrigeren?

1814
00:12:41.707 --> 00:12:41.928
Niet,

1815
00:12:42.248 --> 00:12:42.408
zegt

1816
00:12:42.408 --> 00:12:42.568
een

1817
00:12:42.568 --> 00:12:43.148
organisatie

1818
00:12:43.148 --> 00:12:43.308
dat

1819
00:12:43.308 --> 00:12:43.428
zij

1820
00:12:43.428 --> 00:12:43.708
leert,

1821
00:12:44.228 --> 00:12:44.408
maar

1822
00:12:44.408 --> 00:12:44.988
is

1823
00:12:44.988 --> 00:12:45.428
zichtbaar

1824
00:12:45.428 --> 00:12:46.048
welke

1825
00:12:46.048 --> 00:12:46.628
werkwijze

1826
00:12:46.628 --> 00:12:46.828
na

1827
00:12:46.828 --> 00:12:46.968
een

1828
00:12:46.968 --> 00:12:47.308
incident

1829
00:12:47.308 --> 00:12:47.569
is

1830
00:12:47.569 --> 00:12:48.209
aangepast?

1831
00:12:48.869 --> 00:12:49.269
Vertrouwen

1832
00:12:49.269 --> 00:12:49.589
herstellen

1833
00:12:49.589 --> 00:12:49.849
kost

1834
00:12:49.849 --> 00:12:50.129
tijd.

1835
00:12:50.909 --> 00:12:51.069
Dat

1836
00:12:51.069 --> 00:12:51.289
kan

1837
00:12:51.289 --> 00:12:51.669
pijnlijk

1838
00:12:51.669 --> 00:12:51.829
zijn

1839
00:12:51.829 --> 00:12:52.009
voor

1840
00:12:52.009 --> 00:12:52.369
degene

1841
00:12:52.369 --> 00:12:52.569
die

1842
00:12:52.569 --> 00:12:52.729
het

1843
00:12:52.729 --> 00:12:53.190
vertrouwen

1844
00:12:53.190 --> 00:12:53.470
graag

1845
00:12:53.470 --> 00:12:53.730
terug

1846
00:12:53.730 --> 00:12:53.950
wil.

1847
00:12:54.730 --> 00:12:54.890
Iemand

1848
00:12:54.890 --> 00:12:55.130
kan

1849
00:12:55.130 --> 00:12:55.490
oprecht

1850
00:12:55.490 --> 00:12:55.950
veranderd

1851
00:12:55.950 --> 00:12:56.130
zijn

1852
00:12:56.130 --> 00:12:56.590
en

1853
00:12:56.590 --> 00:12:56.770
toch

1854
00:12:56.770 --> 00:12:57.070
merken

1855
00:12:57.070 --> 00:12:57.270
dat

1856
00:12:57.270 --> 00:12:57.390
de

1857
00:12:57.390 --> 00:12:57.630
ander

1858
00:12:57.630 --> 00:12:57.990
nog

1859
00:12:57.990 --> 00:12:58.350
afstand

1860
00:12:58.350 --> 00:12:59.251
houdt.

1861
00:12:59.451 --> 00:12:59.631
Dat

1862
00:12:59.631 --> 00:12:59.771
is

1863
00:12:59.771 --> 00:12:59.911
een

1864
00:12:59.911 --> 00:13:00.331
mogelijke

1865
00:13:00.331 --> 00:13:00.911
bijwerking

1866
00:13:00.911 --> 00:13:01.171
van

1867
00:13:01.171 --> 00:13:01.571
eerdere

1868
00:13:01.571 --> 00:13:01.951
schade.

1869
00:13:02.811 --> 00:13:03.331
Verandering

1870
00:13:03.331 --> 00:13:03.591
geeft

1871
00:13:03.591 --> 00:13:03.851
geen

1872
00:13:03.851 --> 00:13:04.332
onmiddellijke

1873
00:13:04.332 --> 00:13:04.572
recht

1874
00:13:04.572 --> 00:13:04.772
op

1875
00:13:04.772 --> 00:13:05.092
herstel

1876
00:13:05.092 --> 00:13:05.232
van

1877
00:13:05.232 --> 00:13:05.752
nabijheid.

1878
00:13:06.152 --> 00:13:06.292
De

1879
00:13:06.292 --> 00:13:06.492
ander

1880
00:13:06.492 --> 00:13:06.732
mag

1881
00:13:06.732 --> 00:13:07.012
tijd

1882
00:13:07.012 --> 00:13:07.392
nodig

1883
00:13:07.392 --> 00:13:07.632
hebben.

1884
00:13:07.892 --> 00:13:07.992
De

1885
00:13:07.992 --> 00:13:08.232
ander

1886
00:13:08.232 --> 00:13:08.672
mag

1887
00:13:08.672 --> 00:13:09.232
voorwaarden

1888
00:13:09.232 --> 00:13:09.533
stellen.

1889
00:13:09.873 --> 00:13:10.173
De

1890
00:13:10.173 --> 00:13:10.453
ander

1891
00:13:10.453 --> 00:13:10.673
mag

1892
00:13:10.673 --> 00:13:11.153
besluiten

1893
00:13:11.153 --> 00:13:11.433
dat

1894
00:13:11.433 --> 00:13:11.553
de

1895
00:13:11.553 --> 00:13:11.973
relatie

1896
00:13:11.973 --> 00:13:12.213
niet

1897
00:13:12.213 --> 00:13:12.833
terugkeert

1898
00:13:12.833 --> 00:13:13.073
naar

1899
00:13:13.073 --> 00:13:13.213
de

1900
00:13:13.213 --> 00:13:13.453
oude

1901
00:13:13.453 --> 00:13:13.753
vorm.

1902
00:13:14.473 --> 00:13:15.074
Betrouwbaarheid

1903
00:13:15.074 --> 00:13:15.454
betekent

1904
00:13:15.454 --> 00:13:15.634
dan

1905
00:13:15.634 --> 00:13:15.934
ook

1906
00:13:15.934 --> 00:13:16.494
dat

1907
00:13:16.494 --> 00:13:16.774
deze

1908
00:13:16.774 --> 00:13:17.234
vrijheid

1909
00:13:17.234 --> 00:13:17.434
wordt

1910
00:13:17.434 --> 00:13:18.254
gerespecteerd.

1911
00:13:18.974 --> 00:13:19.574
Wederkerigheid

1912
00:13:19.574 --> 00:13:19.714
en

1913
00:13:19.714 --> 00:13:20.454
participatie.

1914
00:13:21.195 --> 00:13:21.795
Wederkerigheid

1915
00:13:21.795 --> 00:13:22.235
betekent

1916
00:13:22.235 --> 00:13:22.455
niet

1917
00:13:22.455 --> 00:13:22.675
dat

1918
00:13:22.675 --> 00:13:23.035
iedereen

1919
00:13:23.035 --> 00:13:23.475
precies

1920
00:13:23.475 --> 00:13:23.955
evenveel

1921
00:13:23.955 --> 00:13:24.095
moet

1922
00:13:24.095 --> 00:13:24.395
geven.

1923
00:13:25.115 --> 00:13:25.255
Een

1924
00:13:25.255 --> 00:13:25.435
ziek

1925
00:13:25.435 --> 00:13:25.795
persoon

1926
00:13:25.795 --> 00:13:26.055
kan

1927
00:13:26.055 --> 00:13:26.416
tijdelijk

1928
00:13:26.416 --> 00:13:26.616
meer

1929
00:13:26.616 --> 00:13:26.856
zorg

1930
00:13:26.856 --> 00:13:27.256
ontvangen.

1931
00:13:28.136 --> 00:13:28.256
Een

1932
00:13:28.256 --> 00:13:28.536
kind

1933
00:13:28.536 --> 00:13:28.956
draagt

1934
00:13:28.956 --> 00:13:29.156
niet

1935
00:13:29.156 --> 00:13:29.756
dezelfde

1936
00:13:29.756 --> 00:13:30.516
verantwoordelijkheid

1937
00:13:30.516 --> 00:13:30.736
als

1938
00:13:30.736 --> 00:13:30.876
een

1939
00:13:30.876 --> 00:13:31.176
ouder.

1940
00:13:31.757 --> 00:13:31.897
Een

1941
00:13:31.897 --> 00:13:32.397
professional

1942
00:13:32.397 --> 00:13:32.677
heeft

1943
00:13:32.677 --> 00:13:33.017
andere

1944
00:13:33.017 --> 00:13:33.697
bevoegdheden

1945
00:13:33.697 --> 00:13:34.337
dan

1946
00:13:34.337 --> 00:13:34.497
een

1947
00:13:34.497 --> 00:13:34.897
cliënt.

1948
00:13:35.497 --> 00:13:35.817
Een

1949
00:13:35.817 --> 00:13:36.477
mantelzorger

1950
00:13:36.477 --> 00:13:36.737
kan

1951
00:13:36.737 --> 00:13:36.877
op

1952
00:13:36.877 --> 00:13:36.997
het

1953
00:13:36.997 --> 00:13:37.218
ene

1954
00:13:37.218 --> 00:13:37.518
moment

1955
00:13:37.518 --> 00:13:37.798
veel

1956
00:13:37.798 --> 00:13:38.218
dragen

1957
00:13:38.218 --> 00:13:38.718
en

1958
00:13:38.718 --> 00:13:38.858
op

1959
00:13:38.858 --> 00:13:38.978
een

1960
00:13:38.978 --> 00:13:39.218
ander

1961
00:13:39.218 --> 00:13:39.558
moment

1962
00:13:39.558 --> 00:13:40.098
nauwelijks

1963
00:13:40.098 --> 00:13:40.498
iets.

1964
00:13:40.898 --> 00:13:41.458
Wederkerigheid

1965
00:13:41.458 --> 00:13:41.898
betekent

1966
00:13:41.898 --> 00:13:42.098
wel

1967
00:13:42.098 --> 00:13:42.318
dat

1968
00:13:42.318 --> 00:13:42.498
geen

1969
00:13:42.498 --> 00:13:42.698
mens

1970
00:13:42.698 --> 00:13:43.119
permanent

1971
00:13:43.119 --> 00:13:43.339
wordt

1972
00:13:43.339 --> 00:13:43.899
gereduceerd

1973
00:13:43.899 --> 00:13:44.059
tot

1974
00:13:44.059 --> 00:13:44.279
één

1975
00:13:44.279 --> 00:13:44.479
rol.

1976
00:13:44.939 --> 00:13:45.039
Niet

1977
00:13:45.039 --> 00:13:45.199
alleen

1978
00:13:45.199 --> 00:13:45.719
patiënt.

1979
00:13:46.539 --> 00:13:46.719
Niet

1980
00:13:46.719 --> 00:13:46.939
alleen

1981
00:13:46.939 --> 00:13:47.459
probleem.

1982
00:13:47.959 --> 00:13:48.079
Niet

1983
00:13:48.079 --> 00:13:48.320
alleen

1984
00:13:48.320 --> 00:13:49.280
hulpverlener.

1985
00:13:49.600 --> 00:13:49.700
Niet

1986
00:13:49.700 --> 00:13:49.900
alleen

1987
00:13:49.900 --> 00:13:50.320
sterke

1988
00:13:50.320 --> 00:13:50.720
persoon.

1989
00:13:51.600 --> 00:13:51.740
Niet

1990
00:13:51.740 --> 00:13:52.020
alleen

1991
00:13:52.020 --> 00:13:52.420
degene

1992
00:13:52.420 --> 00:13:52.620
die

1993
00:13:52.620 --> 00:13:52.940
altijd

1994
00:13:52.940 --> 00:13:53.160
moet

1995
00:13:53.160 --> 00:13:53.640
begrijpen.

1996
00:13:54.281 --> 00:13:54.421
Niet

1997
00:13:54.421 --> 00:13:54.741
alleen

1998
00:13:54.741 --> 00:13:55.081
degene

1999
00:13:55.081 --> 00:13:55.261
die

2000
00:13:55.261 --> 00:13:55.501
altijd

2001
00:13:55.501 --> 00:13:55.701
moet

2002
00:13:55.701 --> 00:13:56.141
vergeven.

2003
00:13:56.661 --> 00:13:56.801
Niet

2004
00:13:56.801 --> 00:13:57.081
alleen

2005
00:13:57.081 --> 00:13:57.501
degene

2006
00:13:57.501 --> 00:13:57.721
die

2007
00:13:57.721 --> 00:13:58.001
alles

2008
00:13:58.001 --> 00:13:58.201
moet

2009
00:13:58.201 --> 00:13:58.621
oplossen.

2010
00:13:59.602 --> 00:14:00.162
Participatie

2011
00:14:00.162 --> 00:14:00.582
betekent

2012
00:14:00.582 --> 00:14:00.762
dat

2013
00:14:00.762 --> 00:14:01.002
iemand

2014
00:14:01.002 --> 00:14:01.422
werkelijk

2015
00:14:01.422 --> 00:14:01.862
invloed

2016
00:14:01.862 --> 00:14:02.042
kan

2017
00:14:02.042 --> 00:14:02.262
hebben

2018
00:14:02.262 --> 00:14:02.662
op

2019
00:14:02.662 --> 00:14:02.822
een

2020
00:14:02.822 --> 00:14:03.182
proces

2021
00:14:03.182 --> 00:14:03.442
dat

2022
00:14:03.442 --> 00:14:03.702
zijn

2023
00:14:03.702 --> 00:14:03.882
of

2024
00:14:03.882 --> 00:14:04.022
haar

2025
00:14:04.022 --> 00:14:04.322
leven

2026
00:14:04.322 --> 00:14:04.702
raakt.

2027
00:14:05.183 --> 00:14:05.323
Dat

2028
00:14:05.323 --> 00:14:05.463
is

2029
00:14:05.463 --> 00:14:05.643
meer

2030
00:14:05.643 --> 00:14:05.803
dan

2031
00:14:05.803 --> 00:14:06.223
aanwezig

2032
00:14:06.223 --> 00:14:06.523
mogen

2033
00:14:06.523 --> 00:14:06.783
zijn.

2034
00:14:07.263 --> 00:14:07.443
Iemand

2035
00:14:07.443 --> 00:14:07.723
kan

2036
00:14:07.723 --> 00:14:08.063
tijdens

2037
00:14:08.063 --> 00:14:08.243
een

2038
00:14:08.243 --> 00:14:08.723
overleg

2039
00:14:08.723 --> 00:14:09.363
aanwezig

2040
00:14:09.363 --> 00:14:09.663
zijn

2041
00:14:09.663 --> 00:14:10.183
en

2042
00:14:10.183 --> 00:14:10.464
toch

2043
00:14:10.464 --> 00:14:10.764
geen

2044
00:14:10.764 --> 00:14:11.264
werkelijke

2045
00:14:11.264 --> 00:14:11.564
stem

2046
00:14:11.564 --> 00:14:11.824
hebben.

2047
00:14:12.504 --> 00:14:12.664
Een

2048
00:14:12.664 --> 00:14:12.984
jongere

2049
00:14:12.984 --> 00:14:13.204
kan

2050
00:14:13.204 --> 00:14:13.444
worden

2051
00:14:13.444 --> 00:14:13.864
gehoord,

2052
00:14:14.224 --> 00:14:14.344
maar

2053
00:14:14.344 --> 00:14:14.724
later

2054
00:14:14.724 --> 00:14:15.324
niets

2055
00:14:15.324 --> 00:14:15.524
van

2056
00:14:15.524 --> 00:14:15.704
de

2057
00:14:15.704 --> 00:14:15.985
eigen

2058
00:14:15.985 --> 00:14:16.345
woorden

2059
00:14:16.345 --> 00:14:16.545
in

2060
00:14:16.545 --> 00:14:16.665
het

2061
00:14:16.665 --> 00:14:16.985
verslag

2062
00:14:16.985 --> 00:14:17.405
herkennen.

2063
00:14:18.265 --> 00:14:18.385
Een

2064
00:14:18.385 --> 00:14:18.685
ouder

2065
00:14:18.685 --> 00:14:18.905
kan

2066
00:14:18.905 --> 00:14:19.085
zijn

2067
00:14:19.085 --> 00:14:19.445
verhaal

2068
00:14:19.445 --> 00:14:19.865
vertellen

2069
00:14:19.865 --> 00:14:20.625
terwijl

2070
00:14:20.625 --> 00:14:20.785
de

2071
00:14:20.785 --> 00:14:21.265
conclusie

2072
00:14:21.265 --> 00:14:21.626
vooraf

2073
00:14:21.626 --> 00:14:21.826
al

2074
00:14:21.826 --> 00:14:22.366
vaststaat.

2075
00:14:22.966 --> 00:14:23.126
Een

2076
00:14:23.126 --> 00:14:23.386
burger

2077
00:14:23.386 --> 00:14:23.626
kan

2078
00:14:23.626 --> 00:14:23.826
drie

2079
00:14:23.826 --> 00:14:24.026
keer

2080
00:14:24.026 --> 00:14:24.626
informatie

2081
00:14:24.626 --> 00:14:25.226
aanleveren

2082
00:14:25.226 --> 00:14:25.786
terwijl

2083
00:14:25.786 --> 00:14:26.186
nergens

2084
00:14:26.186 --> 00:14:26.546
zichtbaar

2085
00:14:26.546 --> 00:14:26.786
wordt

2086
00:14:26.786 --> 00:14:27.046
wat

2087
00:14:27.046 --> 00:14:27.367
daarmee

2088
00:14:27.367 --> 00:14:27.567
is

2089
00:14:27.567 --> 00:14:27.807
gedaan.

2090
00:14:28.647 --> 00:14:28.947
Daarom

2091
00:14:28.947 --> 00:14:29.227
vraagt

2092
00:14:29.227 --> 00:14:29.407
het

2093
00:14:29.407 --> 00:14:29.787
kompas

2094
00:14:29.787 --> 00:14:30.607
wanneer

2095
00:14:30.607 --> 00:14:30.807
vond

2096
00:14:30.807 --> 00:14:31.527
participatie

2097
00:14:31.527 --> 00:14:31.967
plaats?

2098
00:14:32.267 --> 00:14:32.447
Was

2099
00:14:32.447 --> 00:14:32.587
de

2100
00:14:32.587 --> 00:14:32.808
vraag

2101
00:14:32.808 --> 00:14:32.988
nog

2102
00:14:32.988 --> 00:14:33.328
open?

2103
00:14:34.028 --> 00:14:34.188
Was

2104
00:14:34.188 --> 00:14:34.348
de

2105
00:14:34.348 --> 00:14:34.828
informatie

2106
00:14:34.828 --> 00:14:35.448
begrijpelijk?

2107
00:14:35.888 --> 00:14:36.048
Kon

2108
00:14:36.048 --> 00:14:36.328
iemand

2109
00:14:36.328 --> 00:14:37.008
alternatieven

2110
00:14:37.008 --> 00:14:37.448
voorstellen?

2111
00:14:38.048 --> 00:14:38.189
Kon

2112
00:14:38.189 --> 00:14:38.549
iemand

2113
00:14:38.549 --> 00:14:38.989
een

2114
00:14:38.989 --> 00:14:39.769
vertrouwenspersoon

2115
00:14:39.769 --> 00:14:40.229
meenemen?

2116
00:14:40.989 --> 00:14:41.189
Werd

2117
00:14:41.189 --> 00:14:41.629
achteraf

2118
00:14:41.629 --> 00:14:42.409
uitgelegd

2119
00:14:42.409 --> 00:14:42.789
wat

2120
00:14:42.789 --> 00:14:42.949
met

2121
00:14:42.949 --> 00:14:43.069
de

2122
00:14:43.069 --> 00:14:43.429
inbreng

2123
00:14:43.429 --> 00:14:43.569
is

2124
00:14:43.569 --> 00:14:43.830
gedaan?

2125
00:14:44.390 --> 00:14:44.490
En

2126
00:14:44.490 --> 00:14:44.770
wanneer

2127
00:14:44.770 --> 00:14:44.890
van

2128
00:14:44.890 --> 00:14:45.030
die

2129
00:14:45.030 --> 00:14:45.350
inbreng

2130
00:14:45.350 --> 00:14:45.530
werd

2131
00:14:45.530 --> 00:14:46.110
afgeweken?

2132
00:14:46.590 --> 00:14:46.730
Is

2133
00:14:46.730 --> 00:14:46.890
dan

2134
00:14:46.890 --> 00:14:47.590
gemotiveerd

2135
00:14:47.590 --> 00:14:47.910
waarom?

2136
00:14:48.430 --> 00:14:48.610
Ook

2137
00:14:48.610 --> 00:14:48.750
in

2138
00:14:48.750 --> 00:14:49.251
persoonlijke

2139
00:14:49.251 --> 00:14:49.791
relaties

2140
00:14:49.791 --> 00:14:50.011
is

2141
00:14:50.011 --> 00:14:50.171
dat

2142
00:14:50.171 --> 00:14:50.571
relevant.

2143
00:14:51.451 --> 00:14:51.591
Een

2144
00:14:51.591 --> 00:14:51.951
gesprek

2145
00:14:51.951 --> 00:14:52.111
is

2146
00:14:52.111 --> 00:14:52.271
niet

2147
00:14:52.271 --> 00:14:52.771
wedekerig

2148
00:14:52.771 --> 00:14:53.331
wanneer

2149
00:14:53.331 --> 00:14:53.471
de

2150
00:14:53.471 --> 00:14:53.751
ene

2151
00:14:53.751 --> 00:14:54.051
persoon

2152
00:14:54.051 --> 00:14:54.371
alleen

2153
00:14:54.371 --> 00:14:54.551
mag

2154
00:14:54.551 --> 00:14:54.872
spreken

2155
00:14:54.872 --> 00:14:55.212
zolang

2156
00:14:55.212 --> 00:14:55.372
de

2157
00:14:55.372 --> 00:14:55.612
ander

2158
00:14:55.612 --> 00:14:55.952
het

2159
00:14:55.952 --> 00:14:56.232
ermee

2160
00:14:56.232 --> 00:14:56.532
eens

2161
00:14:56.532 --> 00:14:56.772
is.

2162
00:14:57.152 --> 00:14:57.492
Het

2163
00:14:57.492 --> 00:14:57.632
is

2164
00:14:57.632 --> 00:14:57.852
ook

2165
00:14:57.852 --> 00:14:58.092
niet

2166
00:14:58.092 --> 00:14:58.912
wedekerig

2167
00:14:58.912 --> 00:14:59.372
wanneer

2168
00:14:59.372 --> 00:14:59.632
één

2169
00:14:59.632 --> 00:15:00.132
persoon

2170
00:15:00.132 --> 00:15:00.793
door

2171
00:15:00.793 --> 00:15:01.453
emotionele

2172
00:15:01.453 --> 00:15:02.053
intensiteit

2173
00:15:02.053 --> 00:15:02.493
bepaalt

2174
00:15:02.493 --> 00:15:02.953
hoe

2175
00:15:02.953 --> 00:15:03.213
lang

2176
00:15:03.213 --> 00:15:03.473
het

2177
00:15:03.473 --> 00:15:03.973
gesprek

2178
00:15:03.973 --> 00:15:04.353
duurt,

2179
00:15:04.613 --> 00:15:04.833
welke

2180
00:15:04.833 --> 00:15:05.353
onderwerpen

2181
00:15:05.353 --> 00:15:05.593
moeten

2182
00:15:05.593 --> 00:15:05.854
worden

2183
00:15:05.854 --> 00:15:06.414
besproken

2184
00:15:06.414 --> 00:15:06.874
en

2185
00:15:06.874 --> 00:15:07.094
wanneer

2186
00:15:07.094 --> 00:15:07.234
de

2187
00:15:07.234 --> 00:15:07.474
ander

2188
00:15:07.474 --> 00:15:08.374
beschikbaar

2189
00:15:08.374 --> 00:15:08.554
moet

2190
00:15:08.554 --> 00:15:08.774
zijn.

2191
00:15:09.594 --> 00:15:09.994
Evenmin

2192
00:15:09.994 --> 00:15:10.334
is

2193
00:15:10.334 --> 00:15:10.474
het

2194
00:15:10.474 --> 00:15:11.074
wedekerig

2195
00:15:11.074 --> 00:15:11.395
wanneer

2196
00:15:11.395 --> 00:15:11.535
de

2197
00:15:11.535 --> 00:15:11.795
meest

2198
00:15:11.795 --> 00:15:12.395
rationeel

2199
00:15:12.395 --> 00:15:12.835
sprekende

2200
00:15:12.835 --> 00:15:13.215
persoon

2201
00:15:13.215 --> 00:15:13.835
alle

2202
00:15:13.835 --> 00:15:14.395
emoties

2203
00:15:14.395 --> 00:15:14.715
als

2204
00:15:14.715 --> 00:15:15.375
onredelijk

2205
00:15:15.375 --> 00:15:15.895
terzijde

2206
00:15:15.895 --> 00:15:16.235
schuift.

2207
00:15:16.996 --> 00:15:17.616
Wederkerigheid

2208
00:15:17.616 --> 00:15:17.916
vraagt

2209
00:15:17.916 --> 00:15:18.136
dat

2210
00:15:18.136 --> 00:15:18.356
beide

2211
00:15:18.356 --> 00:15:18.856
personen

2212
00:15:18.856 --> 00:15:19.236
invloed

2213
00:15:19.236 --> 00:15:19.456
hebben

2214
00:15:19.456 --> 00:15:19.816
op

2215
00:15:19.816 --> 00:15:20.076
vorm,

2216
00:15:20.316 --> 00:15:20.656
moment,

2217
00:15:20.916 --> 00:15:21.116
duur

2218
00:15:21.116 --> 00:15:21.256
en

2219
00:15:21.256 --> 00:15:21.476
doel

2220
00:15:21.476 --> 00:15:21.636
van

2221
00:15:21.636 --> 00:15:21.776
het

2222
00:15:21.776 --> 00:15:22.176
gesprek.

2223
00:15:22.897 --> 00:15:23.237
Daarom

2224
00:15:23.237 --> 00:15:23.437
kan

2225
00:15:23.437 --> 00:15:23.597
een

2226
00:15:23.597 --> 00:15:24.217
relationeel

2227
00:15:24.217 --> 00:15:24.877
zorgvuldige

2228
00:15:24.877 --> 00:15:25.337
afspraak

2229
00:15:25.337 --> 00:15:25.637
luiden.

2230
00:15:26.217 --> 00:15:26.357
Ik

2231
00:15:26.357 --> 00:15:26.537
wil

2232
00:15:26.537 --> 00:15:26.717
dit

2233
00:15:26.717 --> 00:15:27.177
onderwerp

2234
00:15:27.177 --> 00:15:27.697
bespreken,

2235
00:15:28.078 --> 00:15:28.358
maar

2236
00:15:28.358 --> 00:15:28.518
niet

2237
00:15:28.518 --> 00:15:28.778
midden

2238
00:15:28.778 --> 00:15:28.938
in

2239
00:15:28.938 --> 00:15:29.038
de

2240
00:15:29.038 --> 00:15:29.238
nacht.

2241
00:15:29.738 --> 00:15:29.958
Of

2242
00:15:29.958 --> 00:15:30.298
ik

2243
00:15:30.298 --> 00:15:30.478
wil

2244
00:15:30.478 --> 00:15:31.238
luisteren,

2245
00:15:31.318 --> 00:15:31.418
maar

2246
00:15:31.418 --> 00:15:31.518
ik

2247
00:15:31.518 --> 00:15:31.638
wil

2248
00:15:31.638 --> 00:15:31.798
ook

2249
00:15:31.798 --> 00:15:31.918
de

2250
00:15:31.918 --> 00:15:32.398
gelegenheid

2251
00:15:32.398 --> 00:15:32.678
krijgen

2252
00:15:32.678 --> 00:15:32.898
mijn

2253
00:15:32.898 --> 00:15:33.398
perspectief

2254
00:15:33.398 --> 00:15:33.559
te

2255
00:15:33.559 --> 00:15:33.819
geven.

2256
00:15:34.419 --> 00:15:34.599
Of

2257
00:15:34.599 --> 00:15:34.739
we

2258
00:15:34.739 --> 00:15:34.979
spreken

2259
00:15:34.979 --> 00:15:35.339
twintig

2260
00:15:35.339 --> 00:15:35.619
minuten

2261
00:15:35.619 --> 00:15:35.879
en

2262
00:15:35.879 --> 00:15:36.339
stoppen

2263
00:15:36.339 --> 00:15:37.039
wanneer

2264
00:15:37.039 --> 00:15:37.479
schelden,

2265
00:15:37.839 --> 00:15:38.179
dreigen

2266
00:15:38.179 --> 00:15:38.479
of

2267
00:15:38.479 --> 00:15:38.879
vernederen

2268
00:15:38.879 --> 00:15:39.260
begint.

2269
00:15:39.980 --> 00:15:40.200
Of

2270
00:15:40.200 --> 00:15:40.960
we

2271
00:15:40.960 --> 00:15:41.200
nemen

2272
00:15:41.200 --> 00:15:41.400
na

2273
00:15:41.400 --> 00:15:41.560
het

2274
00:15:41.560 --> 00:15:41.920
gesprek

2275
00:15:41.920 --> 00:15:42.100
een

2276
00:15:42.100 --> 00:15:42.280
dag

2277
00:15:42.280 --> 00:15:42.560
rust

2278
00:15:42.560 --> 00:15:43.120
voordat

2279
00:15:43.120 --> 00:15:43.260
we

2280
00:15:43.260 --> 00:15:43.760
conclusies

2281
00:15:43.760 --> 00:15:44.080
trekken.

2282
00:15:44.500 --> 00:15:44.641
Dat

2283
00:15:44.641 --> 00:15:44.781
is

2284
00:15:44.781 --> 00:15:45.041
geen

2285
00:15:45.041 --> 00:15:45.281
kil

2286
00:15:45.281 --> 00:15:45.781
contract.

2287
00:15:46.521 --> 00:15:46.681
Het

2288
00:15:46.681 --> 00:15:46.841
is

2289
00:15:46.841 --> 00:15:46.981
een

2290
00:15:46.981 --> 00:15:47.241
manier

2291
00:15:47.241 --> 00:15:47.401
om

2292
00:15:47.401 --> 00:15:47.521
te

2293
00:15:47.521 --> 00:15:47.921
voorkomen

2294
00:15:47.921 --> 00:15:48.361
dat

2295
00:15:48.361 --> 00:15:48.481
de

2296
00:15:48.481 --> 00:15:48.901
sterkste

2297
00:15:48.901 --> 00:15:49.461
emotie

2298
00:15:49.461 --> 00:15:49.901
of

2299
00:15:49.901 --> 00:15:50.081
de

2300
00:15:50.081 --> 00:15:50.482
grootste

2301
00:15:50.482 --> 00:15:51.242
institutionele

2302
00:15:51.242 --> 00:15:51.502
macht

2303
00:15:51.502 --> 00:15:52.302
automatisch

2304
00:15:52.302 --> 00:15:52.462
het

2305
00:15:52.462 --> 00:15:52.802
gesprek

2306
00:15:52.802 --> 00:15:53.322
beheerst.

2307
00:15:54.462 --> 00:15:55.002
Gelijkwaardigheid

2308
00:15:55.002 --> 00:15:55.262
en

2309
00:15:55.262 --> 00:15:55.923
machtsbalans.

2310
00:15:56.643 --> 00:15:57.243
Gelijkwaardigheid

2311
00:15:57.243 --> 00:15:57.723
betekent

2312
00:15:57.723 --> 00:15:57.923
niet

2313
00:15:57.923 --> 00:15:58.143
dat

2314
00:15:58.143 --> 00:15:58.443
rollen

2315
00:15:58.443 --> 00:15:58.823
gelijk

2316
00:15:58.823 --> 00:15:59.063
zijn.

2317
00:15:59.763 --> 00:15:59.883
Een

2318
00:15:59.883 --> 00:16:00.143
arts

2319
00:16:00.143 --> 00:16:00.303
en

2320
00:16:00.303 --> 00:16:00.423
een

2321
00:16:00.423 --> 00:16:00.843
patiënt

2322
00:16:00.843 --> 00:16:01.143
hebben

2323
00:16:01.143 --> 00:16:01.784
verschillende

2324
00:16:01.784 --> 00:16:02.584
deskundigheid.

2325
00:16:03.404 --> 00:16:03.564
Een

2326
00:16:03.564 --> 00:16:03.884
rechter

2327
00:16:03.884 --> 00:16:04.184
en

2328
00:16:04.184 --> 00:16:04.304
een

2329
00:16:04.304 --> 00:16:04.964
procespartij

2330
00:16:04.964 --> 00:16:05.204
hebben

2331
00:16:05.204 --> 00:16:05.744
verschillende

2332
00:16:05.744 --> 00:16:06.364
bevoegdheden.

2333
00:16:06.965 --> 00:16:07.125
Een

2334
00:16:07.125 --> 00:16:07.485
ouder

2335
00:16:07.485 --> 00:16:07.725
en

2336
00:16:07.725 --> 00:16:07.865
een

2337
00:16:07.865 --> 00:16:08.105
kind

2338
00:16:08.105 --> 00:16:08.365
hebben

2339
00:16:08.365 --> 00:16:08.845
verschillende

2340
00:16:08.845 --> 00:16:09.985
verantwoordelijkheden,

2341
00:16:10.465 --> 00:16:10.645
maar

2342
00:16:10.645 --> 00:16:11.085
verschillen

2343
00:16:11.085 --> 00:16:11.245
in

2344
00:16:11.245 --> 00:16:11.425
rol

2345
00:16:11.425 --> 00:16:11.645
mogen

2346
00:16:11.645 --> 00:16:11.825
niet

2347
00:16:11.825 --> 00:16:12.025
worden

2348
00:16:12.025 --> 00:16:12.406
gebruikt

2349
00:16:12.406 --> 00:16:12.526
om

2350
00:16:12.526 --> 00:16:12.646
de

2351
00:16:12.646 --> 00:16:12.986
menselijke

2352
00:16:12.986 --> 00:16:13.246
waarde

2353
00:16:13.246 --> 00:16:13.386
van

2354
00:16:13.386 --> 00:16:13.626
anderen

2355
00:16:13.626 --> 00:16:13.766
te

2356
00:16:13.766 --> 00:16:14.206
verminderen.

2357
00:16:15.086 --> 00:16:15.266
Macht

2358
00:16:15.266 --> 00:16:15.686
bestaat

2359
00:16:15.686 --> 00:16:15.846
in

2360
00:16:15.846 --> 00:16:16.046
veel

2361
00:16:16.046 --> 00:16:16.426
vormen.

2362
00:16:16.826 --> 00:16:17.386
Financiële

2363
00:16:17.386 --> 00:16:17.666
macht,

2364
00:16:18.087 --> 00:16:18.667
financiële

2365
00:16:18.667 --> 00:16:18.927
macht,

2366
00:16:19.427 --> 00:16:19.767
kennis,

2367
00:16:20.467 --> 00:16:21.207
taalvaardigheid,

2368
00:16:21.687 --> 00:16:21.987
toegang

2369
00:16:21.987 --> 00:16:22.167
tot

2370
00:16:22.167 --> 00:16:22.587
dossiers,

2371
00:16:22.587 --> 00:16:23.387
controle

2372
00:16:23.387 --> 00:16:23.708
over

2373
00:16:23.708 --> 00:16:24.128
vervoer

2374
00:16:24.128 --> 00:16:24.348
of

2375
00:16:24.348 --> 00:16:24.968
huisvesting,

2376
00:16:25.308 --> 00:16:25.428
de

2377
00:16:25.428 --> 00:16:25.988
mogelijkheid

2378
00:16:25.988 --> 00:16:26.148
om

2379
00:16:26.148 --> 00:16:26.508
contact

2380
00:16:26.508 --> 00:16:26.748
met

2381
00:16:26.748 --> 00:16:27.068
kinderen

2382
00:16:27.068 --> 00:16:27.248
te

2383
00:16:27.248 --> 00:16:27.808
beïnvloeden,

2384
00:16:28.628 --> 00:16:28.768
de

2385
00:16:28.768 --> 00:16:28.928
macht

2386
00:16:28.928 --> 00:16:29.089
om

2387
00:16:29.089 --> 00:16:29.629
informatie

2388
00:16:29.629 --> 00:16:29.809
aan

2389
00:16:29.809 --> 00:16:30.349
instanties

2390
00:16:30.349 --> 00:16:30.469
te

2391
00:16:30.469 --> 00:16:30.969
verstrekken,

2392
00:16:31.689 --> 00:16:31.829
de

2393
00:16:31.829 --> 00:16:31.969
macht

2394
00:16:31.969 --> 00:16:32.129
om

2395
00:16:32.129 --> 00:16:32.229
een

2396
00:16:32.229 --> 00:16:32.549
gesprek

2397
00:16:32.549 --> 00:16:32.669
te

2398
00:16:32.669 --> 00:16:33.169
beëindigen,

2399
00:16:34.009 --> 00:16:34.149
de

2400
00:16:34.149 --> 00:16:34.349
macht

2401
00:16:34.349 --> 00:16:34.590
om

2402
00:16:34.590 --> 00:16:35.250
professionele

2403
00:16:35.250 --> 00:16:35.570
termen

2404
00:16:35.570 --> 00:16:35.670
te

2405
00:16:35.670 --> 00:16:36.090
gebruiken

2406
00:16:36.090 --> 00:16:36.270
die

2407
00:16:36.270 --> 00:16:36.410
de

2408
00:16:36.410 --> 00:16:36.630
ander

2409
00:16:36.630 --> 00:16:36.890
niet

2410
00:16:36.890 --> 00:16:37.410
begrijpt

2411
00:16:37.410 --> 00:16:38.250
en

2412
00:16:38.250 --> 00:16:38.450
ook

2413
00:16:38.450 --> 00:16:38.630
de

2414
00:16:38.630 --> 00:16:38.850
macht

2415
00:16:38.850 --> 00:16:39.050
die

2416
00:16:39.050 --> 00:16:39.570
ontstaat

2417
00:16:39.570 --> 00:16:39.850
wanneer

2418
00:16:39.850 --> 00:16:40.171
iemand

2419
00:16:40.171 --> 00:16:40.451
door

2420
00:16:40.451 --> 00:16:41.071
emotionele

2421
00:16:41.071 --> 00:16:41.351
druk

2422
00:16:41.351 --> 00:16:41.851
alle

2423
00:16:41.851 --> 00:16:42.311
aandacht

2424
00:16:42.311 --> 00:16:42.791
opeist.

2425
00:16:43.591 --> 00:16:43.711
Het

2426
00:16:43.711 --> 00:16:44.011
Ubuntu

2427
00:16:44.011 --> 00:16:44.831
relatiekompas

2428
00:16:44.831 --> 00:16:45.031
maakt

2429
00:16:45.031 --> 00:16:45.291
deze

2430
00:16:45.291 --> 00:16:45.511
macht

2431
00:16:45.511 --> 00:16:45.912
niet

2432
00:16:45.912 --> 00:16:46.592
automatisch

2433
00:16:46.592 --> 00:16:47.052
verkeerd.

2434
00:16:47.972 --> 00:16:48.152
Zonder

2435
00:16:48.152 --> 00:16:48.752
bevoegdheden

2436
00:16:48.752 --> 00:16:48.992
kunnen

2437
00:16:48.992 --> 00:16:49.512
professionals

2438
00:16:49.512 --> 00:16:49.972
hun

2439
00:16:49.972 --> 00:16:50.232
werk

2440
00:16:50.232 --> 00:16:50.392
niet

2441
00:16:50.392 --> 00:16:50.612
doen.

2442
00:16:51.313 --> 00:16:51.513
Zonder

2443
00:16:51.513 --> 00:16:52.033
ouderlijke

2444
00:16:52.033 --> 00:16:52.893
verantwoordelijkheid

2445
00:16:52.893 --> 00:16:53.093
kunnen

2446
00:16:53.093 --> 00:16:53.453
kinderen

2447
00:16:53.453 --> 00:16:53.913
niet

2448
00:16:53.913 --> 00:16:54.173
worden

2449
00:16:54.173 --> 00:16:54.733
beschermd.

2450
00:16:55.493 --> 00:16:55.713
Zonder

2451
00:16:55.713 --> 00:16:56.153
grenzen

2452
00:16:56.153 --> 00:16:56.393
kan

2453
00:16:56.393 --> 00:16:56.533
een

2454
00:16:56.533 --> 00:16:57.114
zorgverlener

2455
00:16:57.114 --> 00:16:57.274
het

2456
00:16:57.274 --> 00:16:57.454
werk

2457
00:16:57.454 --> 00:16:57.674
niet

2458
00:16:57.674 --> 00:16:58.554
volhouden.

2459
00:16:58.634 --> 00:16:58.734
De

2460
00:16:58.734 --> 00:16:58.994
vraag

2461
00:16:58.994 --> 00:16:59.194
is

2462
00:16:59.194 --> 00:16:59.414
niet

2463
00:16:59.414 --> 00:16:59.634
of

2464
00:16:59.634 --> 00:16:59.854
macht

2465
00:16:59.854 --> 00:17:00.314
bestaat.

2466
00:17:00.954 --> 00:17:01.074
De

2467
00:17:01.074 --> 00:17:01.294
vraag

2468
00:17:01.294 --> 00:17:01.454
is

2469
00:17:01.454 --> 00:17:01.614
of

2470
00:17:01.614 --> 00:17:01.894
macht

2471
00:17:01.894 --> 00:17:02.375
zichtbaar,

2472
00:17:02.675 --> 00:17:03.095
begrensd

2473
00:17:03.095 --> 00:17:03.215
en

2474
00:17:03.215 --> 00:17:03.815
controleerbaar

2475
00:17:03.815 --> 00:17:04.034
is.

2476
00:17:04.735 --> 00:17:04.955
Kan

2477
00:17:04.955 --> 00:17:05.315
degene

2478
00:17:05.315 --> 00:17:05.554
met

2479
00:17:05.554 --> 00:17:05.835
minder

2480
00:17:05.835 --> 00:17:06.135
macht

2481
00:17:06.135 --> 00:17:06.455
vragen

2482
00:17:06.455 --> 00:17:06.735
stellen?

2483
00:17:07.514 --> 00:17:07.655
Kan

2484
00:17:07.655 --> 00:17:08.255
informatie

2485
00:17:08.255 --> 00:17:08.515
worden

2486
00:17:08.515 --> 00:17:09.275
gecorrigeerd?

2487
00:17:09.696 --> 00:17:09.796
Is

2488
00:17:09.796 --> 00:17:09.936
een

2489
00:17:09.936 --> 00:17:10.295
besluit

2490
00:17:10.295 --> 00:17:10.836
herzienbaar?

2491
00:17:11.476 --> 00:17:11.596
Kan

2492
00:17:11.596 --> 00:17:11.976
iemand

2493
00:17:11.976 --> 00:17:12.936
onafhankelijke

2494
00:17:12.936 --> 00:17:13.577
ondersteuning

2495
00:17:13.577 --> 00:17:13.997
krijgen?

2496
00:17:14.637 --> 00:17:14.877
Wordt

2497
00:17:14.877 --> 00:17:14.997
een

2498
00:17:14.997 --> 00:17:15.457
reigering

2499
00:17:15.457 --> 00:17:15.857
serieus

2500
00:17:15.857 --> 00:17:16.177
genomen?

2501
00:17:16.817 --> 00:17:16.997
Is

2502
00:17:16.997 --> 00:17:17.397
duidelijk

2503
00:17:17.397 --> 00:17:17.597
wie

2504
00:17:17.597 --> 00:17:18.377
verantwoordelijkheid

2505
00:17:18.377 --> 00:17:18.818
draagt

2506
00:17:18.818 --> 00:17:19.498
en

2507
00:17:19.498 --> 00:17:20.098
wordt

2508
00:17:20.098 --> 00:17:20.498
degene

2509
00:17:20.498 --> 00:17:20.878
die

2510
00:17:20.878 --> 00:17:21.017
de

2511
00:17:21.017 --> 00:17:21.458
gevolgen

2512
00:17:21.458 --> 00:17:21.757
draagt

2513
00:17:21.757 --> 00:17:21.958
ook

2514
00:17:21.958 --> 00:17:22.218
werkelijk

2515
00:17:22.218 --> 00:17:22.678
betrokken?

2516
00:17:23.438 --> 00:17:23.638
In

2517
00:17:23.638 --> 00:17:24.118
persoonlijke

2518
00:17:24.118 --> 00:17:24.699
relaties

2519
00:17:24.699 --> 00:17:25.219
betekent

2520
00:17:25.219 --> 00:17:26.079
gelijkwaardigheid

2521
00:17:26.079 --> 00:17:26.239
dat

2522
00:17:26.239 --> 00:17:26.499
iemand

2523
00:17:26.499 --> 00:17:26.778
niet

2524
00:17:26.778 --> 00:17:27.099
namens

2525
00:17:27.099 --> 00:17:27.219
de

2526
00:17:27.219 --> 00:17:27.399
ander

2527
00:17:27.399 --> 00:17:27.879
bepaald

2528
00:17:27.879 --> 00:17:28.099
wat

2529
00:17:28.099 --> 00:17:28.979
die

2530
00:17:28.979 --> 00:17:29.279
voelt.

2531
00:17:29.599 --> 00:17:29.699
De

2532
00:17:29.699 --> 00:17:29.900
zin,

2533
00:17:30.440 --> 00:17:30.600
jij

2534
00:17:30.600 --> 00:17:30.800
bent

2535
00:17:30.800 --> 00:17:31.040
alleen

2536
00:17:31.040 --> 00:17:31.180
maar

2537
00:17:31.180 --> 00:17:31.360
boos

2538
00:17:31.360 --> 00:17:31.540
omdat

2539
00:17:31.540 --> 00:17:31.700
je

2540
00:17:31.700 --> 00:17:32.060
jaloers

2541
00:17:32.060 --> 00:17:32.300
bent,

2542
00:17:32.680 --> 00:17:32.800
is

2543
00:17:32.800 --> 00:17:33.020
geen

2544
00:17:33.020 --> 00:17:33.400
vraag.

2545
00:17:33.840 --> 00:17:33.940
Het

2546
00:17:33.940 --> 00:17:34.100
is

2547
00:17:34.100 --> 00:17:34.220
een

2548
00:17:34.220 --> 00:17:34.620
invulling

2549
00:17:34.620 --> 00:17:34.740
van

2550
00:17:34.740 --> 00:17:34.900
de

2551
00:17:34.900 --> 00:17:35.120
ander.

2552
00:17:35.581 --> 00:17:35.701
De

2553
00:17:35.701 --> 00:17:35.881
zin,

2554
00:17:36.081 --> 00:17:36.261
ik

2555
00:17:36.261 --> 00:17:36.501
merk

2556
00:17:36.501 --> 00:17:36.661
dat

2557
00:17:36.661 --> 00:17:36.781
je

2558
00:17:36.781 --> 00:17:37.001
boos

2559
00:17:37.001 --> 00:17:37.281
bent.

2560
00:17:37.541 --> 00:17:37.661
Wil

2561
00:17:37.661 --> 00:17:37.761
je

2562
00:17:37.761 --> 00:17:38.061
vertellen

2563
00:17:38.061 --> 00:17:38.221
wat

2564
00:17:38.221 --> 00:17:38.341
er

2565
00:17:38.341 --> 00:17:38.461
bij

2566
00:17:38.461 --> 00:17:38.621
jou

2567
00:17:38.621 --> 00:17:39.001
gebeurt?

2568
00:17:39.481 --> 00:17:39.701
Laat

2569
00:17:39.701 --> 00:17:40.101
ruimte.

2570
00:17:40.741 --> 00:17:40.861
Ook

2571
00:17:40.861 --> 00:17:41.022
het

2572
00:17:41.022 --> 00:17:41.242
woord

2573
00:17:41.242 --> 00:17:41.422
wij

2574
00:17:41.422 --> 00:17:41.802
verdient

2575
00:17:41.802 --> 00:17:42.622
zorgvuldigheid.

2576
00:17:43.422 --> 00:17:43.562
Wij

2577
00:17:43.562 --> 00:17:43.742
hebben

2578
00:17:43.742 --> 00:17:44.242
besloten.

2579
00:17:44.762 --> 00:17:44.942
Wij

2580
00:17:44.942 --> 00:17:45.162
voelen

2581
00:17:45.162 --> 00:17:45.422
dit.

2582
00:17:45.782 --> 00:17:45.922
Wij

2583
00:17:45.922 --> 00:17:46.142
willen

2584
00:17:46.142 --> 00:17:46.482
verder.

2585
00:17:46.943 --> 00:17:47.043
Dat

2586
00:17:47.043 --> 00:17:47.243
kan

2587
00:17:47.243 --> 00:17:47.723
verbindend

2588
00:17:47.723 --> 00:17:48.083
klinken.

2589
00:17:48.963 --> 00:17:49.103
Maar

2590
00:17:49.103 --> 00:17:49.263
het

2591
00:17:49.263 --> 00:17:49.463
woord

2592
00:17:49.463 --> 00:17:49.623
wij

2593
00:17:49.623 --> 00:17:49.763
is

2594
00:17:49.763 --> 00:17:50.023
alleen

2595
00:17:50.023 --> 00:17:50.483
eerlijk

2596
00:17:50.483 --> 00:17:51.023
wanneer

2597
00:17:51.023 --> 00:17:51.143
de

2598
00:17:51.143 --> 00:17:51.643
betrokkenen

2599
00:17:51.643 --> 00:17:52.023
werkelijk

2600
00:17:52.023 --> 00:17:52.384
hebben

2601
00:17:52.384 --> 00:17:53.184
ingestemd.

2602
00:17:53.564 --> 00:17:54.044
Daarom

2603
00:17:54.044 --> 00:17:54.184
is

2604
00:17:54.184 --> 00:17:54.344
het

2605
00:17:54.344 --> 00:17:55.064
levenslogboek

2606
00:17:55.064 --> 00:17:55.224
in

2607
00:17:55.224 --> 00:17:55.324
de

2608
00:17:55.324 --> 00:17:55.664
pdf

2609
00:17:55.664 --> 00:17:56.324
aangepast.

2610
00:17:56.944 --> 00:17:57.204
Wanneer

2611
00:17:57.204 --> 00:17:57.524
slechts

2612
00:17:57.524 --> 00:17:57.805
één

2613
00:17:57.805 --> 00:17:58.185
persoon

2614
00:17:58.185 --> 00:17:58.385
iets

2615
00:17:58.385 --> 00:17:58.905
ervaart

2616
00:17:58.905 --> 00:17:59.185
wordt

2617
00:17:59.185 --> 00:17:59.385
dat

2618
00:17:59.385 --> 00:17:59.625
als

2619
00:17:59.625 --> 00:18:00.145
persoonlijk

2620
00:18:00.145 --> 00:18:00.665
perspectief

2621
00:18:00.665 --> 00:18:01.645
vastgelegd.

2622
00:18:01.785 --> 00:18:01.965
Niet

2623
00:18:01.965 --> 00:18:02.345
wij

2624
00:18:02.345 --> 00:18:02.605
voelen

2625
00:18:02.605 --> 00:18:02.845
ons

2626
00:18:02.845 --> 00:18:03.606
afgewezen

2627
00:18:03.606 --> 00:18:03.806
maar

2628
00:18:03.806 --> 00:18:04.206
ik

2629
00:18:04.206 --> 00:18:04.346
heb

2630
00:18:04.346 --> 00:18:04.446
mij

2631
00:18:04.446 --> 00:18:04.946
afgewezen

2632
00:18:04.946 --> 00:18:05.346
gevoeld.

2633
00:18:05.746 --> 00:18:05.946
Niet

2634
00:18:05.946 --> 00:18:06.446
wij

2635
00:18:06.446 --> 00:18:06.626
hebben

2636
00:18:06.626 --> 00:18:06.906
elkaar

2637
00:18:06.906 --> 00:18:07.406
vergeven

2638
00:18:07.406 --> 00:18:07.866
maar

2639
00:18:07.866 --> 00:18:08.266
ik

2640
00:18:08.266 --> 00:18:08.426
wil

2641
00:18:08.426 --> 00:18:08.907
onderzoeken

2642
00:18:08.907 --> 00:18:09.107
of

2643
00:18:09.107 --> 00:18:09.227
ik

2644
00:18:09.227 --> 00:18:09.407
kan

2645
00:18:09.407 --> 00:18:09.927
vergeven

2646
00:18:09.927 --> 00:18:10.567
of

2647
00:18:10.567 --> 00:18:10.907
ik

2648
00:18:10.907 --> 00:18:11.247
ervaar

2649
00:18:11.247 --> 00:18:11.407
dat

2650
00:18:11.407 --> 00:18:11.527
ik

2651
00:18:11.527 --> 00:18:11.667
nog

2652
00:18:11.667 --> 00:18:11.787
niet

2653
00:18:11.787 --> 00:18:11.987
kan

2654
00:18:11.987 --> 00:18:12.447
vergeven.

2655
00:18:13.047 --> 00:18:13.207
Die

2656
00:18:13.207 --> 00:18:13.727
formulering

2657
00:18:13.727 --> 00:18:13.967
lijkt

2658
00:18:13.967 --> 00:18:14.288
klein.

2659
00:18:14.988 --> 00:18:15.088
Maar

2660
00:18:15.088 --> 00:18:15.228
zij

2661
00:18:15.228 --> 00:18:15.628
beschermt

2662
00:18:15.628 --> 00:18:15.748
de

2663
00:18:15.748 --> 00:18:15.888
stem

2664
00:18:15.888 --> 00:18:16.048
van

2665
00:18:16.048 --> 00:18:16.168
de

2666
00:18:16.168 --> 00:18:16.408
ander.

2667
00:18:17.048 --> 00:18:17.608
Verbondenheid

2668
00:18:17.608 --> 00:18:17.828
en

2669
00:18:17.828 --> 00:18:18.428
relationele

2670
00:18:18.428 --> 00:18:18.748
grenzen

2671
00:18:18.748 --> 00:18:19.148
Ubuntu

2672
00:18:19.148 --> 00:18:19.528
wordt

2673
00:18:19.528 --> 00:18:19.748
vaak

2674
00:18:19.748 --> 00:18:20.289
samengevat

2675
00:18:20.289 --> 00:18:20.629
als

2676
00:18:20.629 --> 00:18:21.589
ik

2677
00:18:21.589 --> 00:18:21.829
ben

2678
00:18:21.829 --> 00:18:22.069
omdat

2679
00:18:22.069 --> 00:18:22.329
wij

2680
00:18:22.329 --> 00:18:22.609
zijn.

2681
00:18:23.009 --> 00:18:23.149
Dat

2682
00:18:23.149 --> 00:18:23.329
is

2683
00:18:23.329 --> 00:18:23.449
een

2684
00:18:23.449 --> 00:18:23.849
krachtige

2685
00:18:23.849 --> 00:18:24.269
gedachte.

2686
00:18:25.149 --> 00:18:25.470
Mensen

2687
00:18:25.470 --> 00:18:25.790
bestaan

2688
00:18:25.790 --> 00:18:25.970
niet

2689
00:18:25.970 --> 00:18:26.210
los

2690
00:18:26.210 --> 00:18:26.370
van

2691
00:18:26.370 --> 00:18:26.730
anderen.

2692
00:18:27.030 --> 00:18:27.130
Wij

2693
00:18:27.130 --> 00:18:27.450
ontvangen

2694
00:18:27.450 --> 00:18:27.870
taal,

2695
00:18:28.310 --> 00:18:28.490
zorg,

2696
00:18:28.790 --> 00:18:29.090
voedsel,

2697
00:18:29.350 --> 00:18:29.550
kennis,

2698
00:18:29.670 --> 00:18:29.930
aandacht

2699
00:18:29.930 --> 00:18:30.090
en

2700
00:18:30.090 --> 00:18:30.730
bescherming.

2701
00:18:31.391 --> 00:18:31.511
Wij

2702
00:18:31.511 --> 00:18:31.751
worden

2703
00:18:31.751 --> 00:18:32.311
gevormd

2704
00:18:32.311 --> 00:18:32.511
door

2705
00:18:32.511 --> 00:18:32.911
gezinnen,

2706
00:18:33.111 --> 00:18:33.411
buurten,

2707
00:18:33.711 --> 00:18:34.111
scholen,

2708
00:18:34.271 --> 00:18:34.611
vrienden,

2709
00:18:34.851 --> 00:18:35.291
collega's

2710
00:18:35.291 --> 00:18:35.451
en

2711
00:18:35.451 --> 00:18:36.291
gemeenschappen.

2712
00:18:36.371 --> 00:18:36.492
Maar

2713
00:18:36.492 --> 00:18:37.152
verbondenheid

2714
00:18:37.152 --> 00:18:37.352
mag

2715
00:18:37.352 --> 00:18:37.552
niet

2716
00:18:37.552 --> 00:18:37.812
worden

2717
00:18:37.812 --> 00:18:38.212
verward

2718
00:18:38.212 --> 00:18:38.492
met

2719
00:18:38.492 --> 00:18:39.092
onbeperkte

2720
00:18:39.092 --> 00:18:39.512
toegang.

2721
00:18:40.212 --> 00:18:40.392
Iemand

2722
00:18:40.392 --> 00:18:40.652
kan

2723
00:18:40.652 --> 00:18:40.852
van

2724
00:18:40.852 --> 00:18:40.992
een

2725
00:18:40.992 --> 00:18:41.212
ander

2726
00:18:41.212 --> 00:18:41.572
houden

2727
00:18:41.572 --> 00:18:41.892
en

2728
00:18:41.892 --> 00:18:42.133
toch

2729
00:18:42.133 --> 00:18:42.533
afstand

2730
00:18:42.533 --> 00:18:42.813
nodig

2731
00:18:42.813 --> 00:18:43.133
hebben.

2732
00:18:43.833 --> 00:18:44.133
Iemand

2733
00:18:44.133 --> 00:18:44.513
kan

2734
00:18:44.513 --> 00:18:44.713
een

2735
00:18:44.713 --> 00:18:45.273
familielid

2736
00:18:45.273 --> 00:18:45.673
blijven

2737
00:18:45.673 --> 00:18:46.133
erkennen

2738
00:18:46.133 --> 00:18:46.813
en

2739
00:18:46.813 --> 00:18:47.013
toch

2740
00:18:47.013 --> 00:18:47.233
geen

2741
00:18:47.233 --> 00:18:47.594
contact

2742
00:18:47.594 --> 00:18:47.874
willen.

2743
00:18:48.634 --> 00:18:48.854
Een

2744
00:18:48.854 --> 00:18:49.634
zorgprofessional

2745
00:18:49.634 --> 00:18:49.874
kan

2746
00:18:49.874 --> 00:18:50.294
betrokken

2747
00:18:50.294 --> 00:18:50.514
zijn

2748
00:18:50.514 --> 00:18:50.934
en

2749
00:18:50.934 --> 00:18:51.114
toch

2750
00:18:51.114 --> 00:18:51.374
buiten

2751
00:18:51.374 --> 00:18:51.834
werktijd

2752
00:18:51.834 --> 00:18:52.014
niet

2753
00:18:52.014 --> 00:18:52.494
beschikbaar

2754
00:18:52.494 --> 00:18:52.754
zijn.

2755
00:18:53.435 --> 00:18:53.575
Een

2756
00:18:53.575 --> 00:18:54.255
mantelzorger

2757
00:18:54.255 --> 00:18:54.515
kan

2758
00:18:54.515 --> 00:18:54.755
willen

2759
00:18:54.755 --> 00:18:55.175
helpen

2760
00:18:55.175 --> 00:18:55.755
en

2761
00:18:55.755 --> 00:18:55.955
toch

2762
00:18:55.955 --> 00:18:56.455
bepaalde

2763
00:18:56.455 --> 00:18:56.755
taken

2764
00:18:56.755 --> 00:18:57.135
niet

2765
00:18:57.135 --> 00:18:57.295
meer

2766
00:18:57.295 --> 00:18:57.515
kunnen

2767
00:18:57.515 --> 00:18:57.955
dragen.

2768
00:18:58.776 --> 00:18:58.916
Een

2769
00:18:58.916 --> 00:18:59.136
kind

2770
00:18:59.136 --> 00:18:59.396
kan

2771
00:18:59.396 --> 00:18:59.576
van

2772
00:18:59.576 --> 00:18:59.836
beide

2773
00:18:59.836 --> 00:19:00.216
ouders

2774
00:19:00.216 --> 00:19:00.496
houden

2775
00:19:00.496 --> 00:19:00.776
en

2776
00:19:00.776 --> 00:19:00.936
toch

2777
00:19:00.936 --> 00:19:01.116
niet

2778
00:19:01.116 --> 00:19:01.336
als

2779
00:19:01.336 --> 00:19:01.856
boodschapper

2780
00:19:01.856 --> 00:19:02.096
tussen

2781
00:19:02.096 --> 00:19:02.296
hen

2782
00:19:02.296 --> 00:19:02.536
mogen

2783
00:19:02.536 --> 00:19:02.776
worden

2784
00:19:02.776 --> 00:19:03.196
gebruikt.

2785
00:19:03.956 --> 00:19:04.157
Een

2786
00:19:04.157 --> 00:19:04.537
grens

2787
00:19:04.537 --> 00:19:04.837
zegt

2788
00:19:04.837 --> 00:19:05.057
niet

2789
00:19:05.057 --> 00:19:05.797
automatisch.

2790
00:19:06.297 --> 00:19:06.437
Jij

2791
00:19:06.437 --> 00:19:06.597
doet

2792
00:19:06.597 --> 00:19:06.697
er

2793
00:19:06.697 --> 00:19:06.837
niet

2794
00:19:06.837 --> 00:19:06.977
toe.

2795
00:19:07.557 --> 00:19:07.677
Een

2796
00:19:07.677 --> 00:19:07.917
grens

2797
00:19:07.917 --> 00:19:08.057
kan

2798
00:19:08.057 --> 00:19:08.317
zeggen

2799
00:19:08.317 --> 00:19:09.077
deze

2800
00:19:09.077 --> 00:19:09.357
vorm

2801
00:19:09.357 --> 00:19:09.537
van

2802
00:19:09.537 --> 00:19:09.858
contact

2803
00:19:09.858 --> 00:19:10.038
is

2804
00:19:10.038 --> 00:19:10.198
niet

2805
00:19:10.198 --> 00:19:10.578
veilig,

2806
00:19:10.578 --> 00:19:11.178
deze

2807
00:19:11.178 --> 00:19:11.458
taak

2808
00:19:11.458 --> 00:19:11.618
kan

2809
00:19:11.618 --> 00:19:11.738
ik

2810
00:19:11.738 --> 00:19:11.918
niet

2811
00:19:11.918 --> 00:19:12.298
dragen.

2812
00:19:12.738 --> 00:19:12.898
Dit

2813
00:19:12.898 --> 00:19:13.258
gesprek

2814
00:19:13.258 --> 00:19:13.478
kan

2815
00:19:13.478 --> 00:19:13.598
ik

2816
00:19:13.598 --> 00:19:13.738
nu

2817
00:19:13.738 --> 00:19:13.978
niet

2818
00:19:13.978 --> 00:19:14.318
voeren.

2819
00:19:14.698 --> 00:19:14.798
Ik

2820
00:19:14.798 --> 00:19:14.958
wil

2821
00:19:14.958 --> 00:19:15.319
helpen,

2822
00:19:15.619 --> 00:19:15.719
maar

2823
00:19:15.719 --> 00:19:15.899
niet

2824
00:19:15.899 --> 00:19:16.059
op

2825
00:19:16.059 --> 00:19:16.299
deze

2826
00:19:16.299 --> 00:19:16.599
manier.

2827
00:19:17.039 --> 00:19:17.139
Ik

2828
00:19:17.139 --> 00:19:17.279
wil

2829
00:19:17.279 --> 00:19:17.599
nabij

2830
00:19:17.599 --> 00:19:17.979
blijven,

2831
00:19:18.259 --> 00:19:18.359
maar

2832
00:19:18.359 --> 00:19:18.459
ik

2833
00:19:18.459 --> 00:19:18.599
kan

2834
00:19:18.599 --> 00:19:18.799
niet

2835
00:19:18.799 --> 00:19:19.279
voortdurend

2836
00:19:19.279 --> 00:19:19.759
bereikbaar

2837
00:19:19.759 --> 00:19:20.039
zijn.

2838
00:19:20.700 --> 00:19:20.880
Dat

2839
00:19:20.880 --> 00:19:21.000
is

2840
00:19:21.000 --> 00:19:21.120
een

2841
00:19:21.120 --> 00:19:21.420
belangrijk

2842
00:19:21.420 --> 00:19:21.800
punt.

2843
00:19:22.360 --> 00:19:22.740
Grenzen

2844
00:19:22.740 --> 00:19:22.980
kunnen

2845
00:19:22.980 --> 00:19:23.240
pijn

2846
00:19:23.240 --> 00:19:23.900
veroorzaken.

2847
00:19:24.700 --> 00:19:24.940
Degene

2848
00:19:24.940 --> 00:19:25.100
die

2849
00:19:25.100 --> 00:19:25.560
begrensd

2850
00:19:25.560 --> 00:19:25.700
wordt

2851
00:19:25.700 --> 00:19:26.000
kan

2852
00:19:26.000 --> 00:19:26.421
verdriet,

2853
00:19:26.781 --> 00:19:27.241
boosheid,

2854
00:19:27.621 --> 00:19:28.161
teleurstelling

2855
00:19:28.161 --> 00:19:28.541
of

2856
00:19:28.541 --> 00:19:29.101
eenzaamheid

2857
00:19:29.101 --> 00:19:29.621
ervaren.

2858
00:19:30.481 --> 00:19:30.641
Dat

2859
00:19:30.641 --> 00:19:30.921
lijden

2860
00:19:30.921 --> 00:19:31.101
is

2861
00:19:31.101 --> 00:19:31.481
werkelijk,

2862
00:19:32.082 --> 00:19:32.202
maar

2863
00:19:32.202 --> 00:19:32.382
het

2864
00:19:32.382 --> 00:19:32.682
bestaan

2865
00:19:32.682 --> 00:19:32.882
van

2866
00:19:32.882 --> 00:19:33.102
dat

2867
00:19:33.102 --> 00:19:33.442
lijden

2868
00:19:33.442 --> 00:19:33.922
bewijst

2869
00:19:33.922 --> 00:19:34.182
niet

2870
00:19:34.182 --> 00:19:34.942
automatisch

2871
00:19:34.942 --> 00:19:35.262
dat

2872
00:19:35.262 --> 00:19:35.422
de

2873
00:19:35.422 --> 00:19:35.742
grens

2874
00:19:35.742 --> 00:19:36.582
onrechtvaardig

2875
00:19:36.582 --> 00:19:36.762
is.

2876
00:19:37.403 --> 00:19:37.563
Een

2877
00:19:37.563 --> 00:19:37.823
grens

2878
00:19:37.823 --> 00:19:37.963
kan

2879
00:19:37.963 --> 00:19:38.523
noodzakelijk

2880
00:19:38.523 --> 00:19:38.783
zijn

2881
00:19:38.783 --> 00:19:39.223
en

2882
00:19:39.223 --> 00:19:39.963
tegelijkertijd

2883
00:19:39.963 --> 00:19:40.403
pijnlijk.

2884
00:19:40.803 --> 00:19:41.363
Relationele

2885
00:19:41.363 --> 00:19:42.163
zorgvuldigheid

2886
00:19:42.163 --> 00:19:42.463
vraagt

2887
00:19:42.463 --> 00:19:42.623
dan

2888
00:19:42.623 --> 00:19:42.823
twee

2889
00:19:42.823 --> 00:19:43.064
dingen

2890
00:19:43.064 --> 00:19:43.644
tegelijk.

2891
00:19:44.104 --> 00:19:44.304
De

2892
00:19:44.304 --> 00:19:44.624
grens

2893
00:19:44.624 --> 00:19:44.924
blijft

2894
00:19:44.924 --> 00:19:45.164
staan

2895
00:19:45.164 --> 00:19:45.464
wanneer

2896
00:19:45.464 --> 00:19:45.584
zij

2897
00:19:45.584 --> 00:19:45.844
nodig

2898
00:19:45.844 --> 00:19:46.124
is.

2899
00:19:46.644 --> 00:19:46.764
En

2900
00:19:46.764 --> 00:19:46.904
de

2901
00:19:46.904 --> 00:19:47.084
pijn

2902
00:19:47.084 --> 00:19:47.204
die

2903
00:19:47.204 --> 00:19:47.364
de

2904
00:19:47.364 --> 00:19:47.664
grens

2905
00:19:47.664 --> 00:19:48.304
veroorzaakt

2906
00:19:48.304 --> 00:19:48.525
wordt

2907
00:19:48.525 --> 00:19:48.925
niet

2908
00:19:48.925 --> 00:19:49.345
ontkent

2909
00:19:49.345 --> 00:19:49.525
of

2910
00:19:49.525 --> 00:19:49.905
bespot.

2911
00:19:50.465 --> 00:19:50.985
Bijvoorbeeld,

2912
00:19:51.625 --> 00:19:52.045
ik

2913
00:19:52.045 --> 00:19:52.205
hoor

2914
00:19:52.205 --> 00:19:52.345
dat

2915
00:19:52.345 --> 00:19:52.525
mijn

2916
00:19:52.525 --> 00:19:52.925
besluit

2917
00:19:52.925 --> 00:19:53.145
om

2918
00:19:53.145 --> 00:19:53.565
vanavond

2919
00:19:53.565 --> 00:19:53.785
niet

2920
00:19:53.785 --> 00:19:54.046
verder

2921
00:19:54.046 --> 00:19:54.226
te

2922
00:19:54.226 --> 00:19:54.526
praten

2923
00:19:54.526 --> 00:19:54.766
jou

2924
00:19:54.766 --> 00:19:55.126
pijn

2925
00:19:55.126 --> 00:19:55.326
doet.

2926
00:19:55.946 --> 00:19:56.106
Toch

2927
00:19:56.106 --> 00:19:56.326
stop

2928
00:19:56.326 --> 00:19:56.446
ik

2929
00:19:56.446 --> 00:19:56.586
het

2930
00:19:56.586 --> 00:19:57.026
gesprek

2931
00:19:57.026 --> 00:19:57.306
omdat

2932
00:19:57.306 --> 00:19:57.586
wij

2933
00:19:57.586 --> 00:19:57.846
elkaar

2934
00:19:57.846 --> 00:19:58.086
nu

2935
00:19:58.086 --> 00:19:58.406
alleen

2936
00:19:58.406 --> 00:19:58.726
verder

2937
00:19:58.726 --> 00:19:59.286
beschadigen.

2938
00:20:00.027 --> 00:20:00.267
Morgen

2939
00:20:00.267 --> 00:20:00.487
om

2940
00:20:00.487 --> 00:20:00.687
10

2941
00:20:00.687 --> 00:20:00.947
uur

2942
00:20:00.947 --> 00:20:01.347
bekijken

2943
00:20:01.347 --> 00:20:01.527
we

2944
00:20:01.527 --> 00:20:02.047
of

2945
00:20:02.047 --> 00:20:02.227
we

2946
00:20:02.227 --> 00:20:02.387
het

2947
00:20:02.387 --> 00:20:02.747
veilig

2948
00:20:02.747 --> 00:20:02.967
kunnen

2949
00:20:02.967 --> 00:20:03.447
hervatten.

2950
00:20:04.267 --> 00:20:04.447
Hier

2951
00:20:04.447 --> 00:20:04.647
wordt

2952
00:20:04.647 --> 00:20:04.807
het

2953
00:20:04.807 --> 00:20:05.148
lijden

2954
00:20:05.148 --> 00:20:05.448
niet

2955
00:20:05.448 --> 00:20:06.128
uitgesloten.

2956
00:20:06.608 --> 00:20:06.768
Het

2957
00:20:06.768 --> 00:20:06.968
wordt

2958
00:20:06.968 --> 00:20:07.368
erkend.

2959
00:20:07.888 --> 00:20:08.108
Maar

2960
00:20:08.108 --> 00:20:08.588
erkenning

2961
00:20:08.588 --> 00:20:08.888
leidt

2962
00:20:08.888 --> 00:20:09.068
niet

2963
00:20:09.068 --> 00:20:09.308
tot

2964
00:20:09.308 --> 00:20:09.488
het

2965
00:20:09.488 --> 00:20:09.968
onmiddellijk

2966
00:20:09.968 --> 00:20:10.388
opheffen

2967
00:20:10.388 --> 00:20:10.589
van

2968
00:20:10.589 --> 00:20:10.749
de

2969
00:20:10.749 --> 00:20:11.109
grens.

2970
00:20:11.549 --> 00:20:11.669
Dit

2971
00:20:11.669 --> 00:20:11.849
is

2972
00:20:11.849 --> 00:20:12.389
precies

2973
00:20:12.389 --> 00:20:12.809
waar

2974
00:20:12.809 --> 00:20:14.069
draagkrachtbegrenzing

2975
00:20:14.069 --> 00:20:14.429
belangrijk

2976
00:20:14.429 --> 00:20:14.829
wordt.

2977
00:20:16.170 --> 00:20:16.533
Draagkracht

2978
00:20:16.533 --> 00:20:16.830
begrenzen

2979
00:20:16.830 --> 00:20:17.290
betekent

2980
00:20:17.290 --> 00:20:17.490
niet

2981
00:20:17.490 --> 00:20:17.750
dat

2982
00:20:17.750 --> 00:20:17.910
wij

2983
00:20:17.910 --> 00:20:18.250
lijden

2984
00:20:18.250 --> 00:20:18.450
uit

2985
00:20:18.450 --> 00:20:18.730
onze

2986
00:20:18.730 --> 00:20:19.290
gemeenschap

2987
00:20:19.290 --> 00:20:19.890
verwijderen.

2988
00:20:20.710 --> 00:20:20.830
Het

2989
00:20:20.830 --> 00:20:21.230
betekent

2990
00:20:21.230 --> 00:20:21.370
niet

2991
00:20:21.370 --> 00:20:21.530
dat

2992
00:20:21.530 --> 00:20:21.851
degene

2993
00:20:21.851 --> 00:20:22.031
die

2994
00:20:22.031 --> 00:20:22.311
pijn

2995
00:20:22.311 --> 00:20:22.671
heeft

2996
00:20:22.671 --> 00:20:23.111
zijn

2997
00:20:23.111 --> 00:20:23.391
pijn

2998
00:20:23.391 --> 00:20:23.591
niet

2999
00:20:23.591 --> 00:20:23.791
meer

3000
00:20:23.791 --> 00:20:23.951
mag

3001
00:20:23.951 --> 00:20:24.571
uitspreken.

3002
00:20:25.451 --> 00:20:25.591
Het

3003
00:20:25.591 --> 00:20:26.011
betekent

3004
00:20:26.011 --> 00:20:26.491
evenmin

3005
00:20:26.491 --> 00:20:26.691
dat

3006
00:20:26.691 --> 00:20:26.831
de

3007
00:20:26.831 --> 00:20:27.232
sterkste

3008
00:20:27.232 --> 00:20:27.632
persoon

3009
00:20:27.632 --> 00:20:27.872
zich

3010
00:20:27.872 --> 00:20:28.352
eenvoudig

3011
00:20:28.352 --> 00:20:28.872
terugtrekt

3012
00:20:28.872 --> 00:20:29.332
en

3013
00:20:29.332 --> 00:20:29.472
de

3014
00:20:29.472 --> 00:20:29.692
ander

3015
00:20:29.692 --> 00:20:30.032
alleen

3016
00:20:30.032 --> 00:20:30.612
achterlaat.

3017
00:20:31.692 --> 00:20:32.055
Draagkracht

3018
00:20:32.055 --> 00:20:32.352
begrenzen

3019
00:20:32.352 --> 00:20:32.793
betekent

3020
00:20:32.793 --> 00:20:33.093
dat

3021
00:20:33.093 --> 00:20:33.413
wij

3022
00:20:33.413 --> 00:20:33.973
eerlijk

3023
00:20:33.973 --> 00:20:34.253
worden

3024
00:20:34.253 --> 00:20:34.553
over

3025
00:20:34.553 --> 00:20:34.713
wie

3026
00:20:34.713 --> 00:20:34.893
wat

3027
00:20:34.893 --> 00:20:35.053
kan

3028
00:20:35.053 --> 00:20:35.473
dragen

3029
00:20:35.473 --> 00:20:35.973
en

3030
00:20:35.973 --> 00:20:36.133
dat

3031
00:20:36.133 --> 00:20:36.313
wij

3032
00:20:36.313 --> 00:20:37.173
verantwoordelijkheid

3033
00:20:37.173 --> 00:20:37.633
opnieuw

3034
00:20:37.633 --> 00:20:38.153
verdelen

3035
00:20:38.153 --> 00:20:38.974
wanneer

3036
00:20:38.974 --> 00:20:39.254
één

3037
00:20:39.254 --> 00:20:39.674
persoon

3038
00:20:39.674 --> 00:20:40.054
de

3039
00:20:40.054 --> 00:20:40.394
grens

3040
00:20:40.394 --> 00:20:40.834
bereikt.

3041
00:20:41.334 --> 00:20:41.434
Een

3042
00:20:41.434 --> 00:20:41.654
partner

3043
00:20:41.654 --> 00:20:41.854
kan

3044
00:20:41.854 --> 00:20:42.114
zeggen

3045
00:20:42.114 --> 00:20:42.954
ik

3046
00:20:42.954 --> 00:20:43.114
wil

3047
00:20:43.114 --> 00:20:43.294
naar

3048
00:20:43.294 --> 00:20:43.394
je

3049
00:20:43.394 --> 00:20:43.674
luisteren

3050
00:20:44.055 --> 00:20:44.595
maar

3051
00:20:44.595 --> 00:20:44.855
ik

3052
00:20:44.855 --> 00:20:45.035
kan

3053
00:20:45.035 --> 00:20:45.235
niet

3054
00:20:45.235 --> 00:20:45.515
iedere

3055
00:20:45.515 --> 00:20:45.775
nacht

3056
00:20:45.775 --> 00:20:46.295
urenlang

3057
00:20:46.295 --> 00:20:46.835
dezelfde

3058
00:20:46.835 --> 00:20:47.295
strijd

3059
00:20:47.295 --> 00:20:47.635
voeren.

3060
00:20:48.055 --> 00:20:48.155
Een

3061
00:20:48.155 --> 00:20:48.655
familielid

3062
00:20:48.655 --> 00:20:48.855
kan

3063
00:20:48.855 --> 00:20:49.175
zeggen

3064
00:20:49.175 --> 00:20:49.736
ik

3065
00:20:49.736 --> 00:20:49.896
kan

3066
00:20:49.896 --> 00:20:50.216
meegaan

3067
00:20:50.216 --> 00:20:50.416
naar

3068
00:20:50.416 --> 00:20:50.616
één

3069
00:20:50.616 --> 00:20:51.136
afspraak

3070
00:20:51.136 --> 00:20:51.596
maar

3071
00:20:51.596 --> 00:20:51.776
ik

3072
00:20:51.776 --> 00:20:51.916
kan

3073
00:20:51.916 --> 00:20:52.096
niet

3074
00:20:52.096 --> 00:20:52.376
alle

3075
00:20:52.376 --> 00:20:53.096
communicatie

3076
00:20:53.096 --> 00:20:53.316
met

3077
00:20:53.316 --> 00:20:53.836
instanties

3078
00:20:53.836 --> 00:20:54.356
overnemen.

3079
00:20:54.876 --> 00:20:54.977
Een

3080
00:20:54.977 --> 00:20:55.197
vriend

3081
00:20:55.197 --> 00:20:55.517
kan

3082
00:20:55.517 --> 00:20:55.797
zeggen

3083
00:20:55.797 --> 00:20:56.377
ik

3084
00:20:56.377 --> 00:20:56.557
wil

3085
00:20:56.557 --> 00:20:56.877
nabij

3086
00:20:56.877 --> 00:20:57.117
zijn

3087
00:20:57.117 --> 00:20:57.897
maar

3088
00:20:57.897 --> 00:20:57.997
ik

3089
00:20:57.997 --> 00:20:58.137
ben

3090
00:20:58.137 --> 00:20:58.357
niet

3091
00:20:58.357 --> 00:20:58.597
de

3092
00:20:58.597 --> 00:20:58.857
juiste

3093
00:20:58.857 --> 00:20:59.297
persoon

3094
00:20:59.297 --> 00:20:59.677
om

3095
00:20:59.677 --> 00:20:59.817
een

3096
00:20:59.817 --> 00:21:00.758
veiligheidscrisis

3097
00:21:00.758 --> 00:21:01.098
alleen

3098
00:21:01.098 --> 00:21:01.238
te

3099
00:21:01.238 --> 00:21:01.758
begeleiden.

3100
00:21:02.498 --> 00:21:02.718
Een

3101
00:21:02.718 --> 00:21:03.358
mantelzorger

3102
00:21:03.358 --> 00:21:03.578
kan

3103
00:21:03.578 --> 00:21:03.858
zeggen

3104
00:21:03.858 --> 00:21:04.858
ik

3105
00:21:04.858 --> 00:21:05.038
kan

3106
00:21:05.038 --> 00:21:05.578
praktische

3107
00:21:05.578 --> 00:21:06.159
ondersteuning

3108
00:21:06.159 --> 00:21:06.759
bieden

3109
00:21:06.759 --> 00:21:06.939
maar

3110
00:21:06.939 --> 00:21:07.099
ik

3111
00:21:07.099 --> 00:21:07.239
kan

3112
00:21:07.239 --> 00:21:07.499
geen

3113
00:21:07.499 --> 00:21:08.339
professionele

3114
00:21:08.339 --> 00:21:08.859
nachtzorg

3115
00:21:08.859 --> 00:21:09.299
vervangen.

3116
00:21:10.079 --> 00:21:10.379
Deze

3117
00:21:10.379 --> 00:21:10.759
grenzen

3118
00:21:10.759 --> 00:21:11.179
sluiten

3119
00:21:11.179 --> 00:21:11.399
het

3120
00:21:11.399 --> 00:21:11.680
lijden

3121
00:21:11.680 --> 00:21:11.860
niet

3122
00:21:11.860 --> 00:21:12.120
uit.

3123
00:21:12.740 --> 00:21:12.860
Zij

3124
00:21:12.860 --> 00:21:13.340
voorkomen

3125
00:21:13.340 --> 00:21:13.820
dat

3126
00:21:13.820 --> 00:21:13.980
het

3127
00:21:13.980 --> 00:21:14.300
lijden

3128
00:21:14.300 --> 00:21:14.800
volledig

3129
00:21:14.800 --> 00:21:14.960
wordt

3130
00:21:14.960 --> 00:21:15.480
neergelegd

3131
00:21:15.480 --> 00:21:15.640
bij

3132
00:21:15.640 --> 00:21:15.900
één

3133
00:21:15.900 --> 00:21:16.180
mens

3134
00:21:16.180 --> 00:21:16.580
die

3135
00:21:16.580 --> 00:21:17.141
uiteindelijk

3136
00:21:17.141 --> 00:21:17.441
zelf

3137
00:21:17.441 --> 00:21:17.961
bezwijkt.

3138
00:21:18.381 --> 00:21:18.601
Goede

3139
00:21:18.601 --> 00:21:18.881
zorg

3140
00:21:18.881 --> 00:21:19.241
vraagt

3141
00:21:19.241 --> 00:21:19.581
daarom

3142
00:21:19.581 --> 00:21:19.721
niet

3143
00:21:19.721 --> 00:21:20.041
alleen

3144
00:21:20.041 --> 00:21:20.441
wie

3145
00:21:20.441 --> 00:21:20.681
wil

3146
00:21:20.681 --> 00:21:21.041
helpen

3147
00:21:21.041 --> 00:21:21.541
maar

3148
00:21:21.541 --> 00:21:21.841
ook

3149
00:21:21.841 --> 00:21:22.261
wie

3150
00:21:22.261 --> 00:21:22.441
is

3151
00:21:22.441 --> 00:21:23.082
bevoegd,

3152
00:21:23.162 --> 00:21:23.262
wie

3153
00:21:23.262 --> 00:21:23.482
heeft

3154
00:21:23.482 --> 00:21:24.102
draagkracht,

3155
00:21:24.622 --> 00:21:24.902
welke

3156
00:21:24.902 --> 00:21:25.222
taak

3157
00:21:25.222 --> 00:21:25.462
hoort

3158
00:21:25.462 --> 00:21:25.642
bij

3159
00:21:25.642 --> 00:21:25.782
een

3160
00:21:25.782 --> 00:21:26.302
professional,

3161
00:21:26.822 --> 00:21:27.062
welke

3162
00:21:27.062 --> 00:21:27.422
taak

3163
00:21:27.422 --> 00:21:27.682
kan

3164
00:21:27.682 --> 00:21:28.263
vrijwillig

3165
00:21:28.263 --> 00:21:28.463
door

3166
00:21:28.463 --> 00:21:28.603
het

3167
00:21:28.603 --> 00:21:29.003
netwerk

3168
00:21:29.003 --> 00:21:29.243
worden

3169
00:21:29.243 --> 00:21:29.743
gedragen.

3170
00:21:30.523 --> 00:21:30.643
Wat

3171
00:21:30.643 --> 00:21:30.983
gebeurt

3172
00:21:30.983 --> 00:21:31.163
er

3173
00:21:31.163 --> 00:21:31.423
wanneer

3174
00:21:31.423 --> 00:21:31.563
de

3175
00:21:31.563 --> 00:21:32.023
vrijwillige

3176
00:21:32.023 --> 00:21:32.263
helper

3177
00:21:32.263 --> 00:21:32.763
uitvalt

3178
00:21:32.763 --> 00:21:33.724
en

3179
00:21:33.724 --> 00:21:33.844
hoe

3180
00:21:33.844 --> 00:21:34.144
zorgen

3181
00:21:34.144 --> 00:21:34.284
we

3182
00:21:34.284 --> 00:21:34.564
ervoor

3183
00:21:34.564 --> 00:21:34.764
dat

3184
00:21:34.764 --> 00:21:34.904
de

3185
00:21:34.904 --> 00:21:35.204
persoon

3186
00:21:35.204 --> 00:21:35.364
die

3187
00:21:35.364 --> 00:21:35.564
hulp

3188
00:21:35.564 --> 00:21:35.824
nodig

3189
00:21:35.824 --> 00:21:36.124
heeft

3190
00:21:36.124 --> 00:21:36.504
niet

3191
00:21:36.504 --> 00:21:36.744
tussen

3192
00:21:36.744 --> 00:21:37.004
alle

3193
00:21:37.004 --> 00:21:37.404
grenzen

3194
00:21:37.404 --> 00:21:37.604
door

3195
00:21:37.604 --> 00:21:38.084
verdwijnt.

3196
00:21:38.904 --> 00:21:39.024
Een

3197
00:21:39.024 --> 00:21:39.345
grens

3198
00:21:39.345 --> 00:21:39.505
mag

3199
00:21:39.505 --> 00:21:39.705
dus

3200
00:21:39.705 --> 00:21:39.885
nooit

3201
00:21:39.885 --> 00:21:40.045
het

3202
00:21:40.045 --> 00:21:40.445
eindpunt

3203
00:21:40.445 --> 00:21:40.605
van

3204
00:21:40.605 --> 00:21:40.845
zorg

3205
00:21:40.845 --> 00:21:41.145
worden.

3206
00:21:42.185 --> 00:21:42.625
Zij

3207
00:21:42.625 --> 00:21:42.805
moet

3208
00:21:42.805 --> 00:21:42.985
een

3209
00:21:42.985 --> 00:21:43.425
signaal

3210
00:21:43.425 --> 00:21:43.605
zijn

3211
00:21:43.605 --> 00:21:43.825
dat

3212
00:21:43.825 --> 00:21:43.985
de

3213
00:21:43.985 --> 00:21:44.245
vorm,

3214
00:21:44.505 --> 00:21:44.946
verdeling

3215
00:21:44.946 --> 00:21:45.286
of

3216
00:21:45.286 --> 00:21:45.986
intensiteit

3217
00:21:45.986 --> 00:21:46.286
van

3218
00:21:46.286 --> 00:21:46.446
de

3219
00:21:46.446 --> 00:21:46.686
zorg

3220
00:21:46.686 --> 00:21:46.906
moet

3221
00:21:46.906 --> 00:21:47.106
worden

3222
00:21:47.106 --> 00:21:47.686
aangepast.

3223
00:21:48.166 --> 00:21:48.626
Zelfregie

3224
00:21:48.626 --> 00:21:48.866
en

3225
00:21:48.866 --> 00:21:49.686
samenredzaamheid.

3226
00:21:50.206 --> 00:21:50.747
Zelfredzaamheid

3227
00:21:50.747 --> 00:21:50.927
wordt

3228
00:21:50.927 --> 00:21:51.187
vaak

3229
00:21:51.187 --> 00:21:51.847
voorgesteld

3230
00:21:51.847 --> 00:21:52.347
als

3231
00:21:52.347 --> 00:21:52.487
het

3232
00:21:52.487 --> 00:21:52.927
vermogen

3233
00:21:52.927 --> 00:21:53.187
om

3234
00:21:53.187 --> 00:21:53.307
het

3235
00:21:53.307 --> 00:21:53.527
alleen

3236
00:21:53.527 --> 00:21:53.687
te

3237
00:21:53.687 --> 00:21:54.307
doen.

3238
00:21:54.387 --> 00:21:54.707
Maar

3239
00:21:54.707 --> 00:21:54.987
bijna

3240
00:21:54.987 --> 00:21:55.327
niemand

3241
00:21:55.327 --> 00:21:55.767
doet

3242
00:21:55.767 --> 00:21:55.908
het

3243
00:21:55.908 --> 00:21:56.168
leven

3244
00:21:56.168 --> 00:21:56.488
alleen.

3245
00:21:57.308 --> 00:21:57.488
Wij

3246
00:21:57.488 --> 00:21:57.708
hebben

3247
00:21:57.708 --> 00:21:58.008
anderen

3248
00:21:58.008 --> 00:21:58.348
nodig.

3249
00:21:59.188 --> 00:21:59.608
Zelfregie

3250
00:21:59.608 --> 00:22:00.028
betekent

3251
00:22:00.028 --> 00:22:00.288
daarom

3252
00:22:00.288 --> 00:22:00.468
niet

3253
00:22:00.468 --> 00:22:01.008
volledige

3254
00:22:01.008 --> 00:22:02.129
onafhankelijkheid.

3255
00:22:02.689 --> 00:22:02.849
Het

3256
00:22:02.849 --> 00:22:03.289
betekent

3257
00:22:03.289 --> 00:22:03.429
dat

3258
00:22:03.429 --> 00:22:03.669
iemand

3259
00:22:03.669 --> 00:22:04.129
zoveel

3260
00:22:04.129 --> 00:22:04.509
mogelijk

3261
00:22:04.509 --> 00:22:04.969
invloed

3262
00:22:04.969 --> 00:22:05.209
houdt

3263
00:22:05.209 --> 00:22:05.309
op

3264
00:22:05.309 --> 00:22:05.409
het

3265
00:22:05.409 --> 00:22:05.669
eigen

3266
00:22:05.669 --> 00:22:06.049
leven,

3267
00:22:06.469 --> 00:22:06.589
de

3268
00:22:06.589 --> 00:22:06.829
eigen

3269
00:22:06.829 --> 00:22:07.310
keuzes,

3270
00:22:07.590 --> 00:22:07.690
de

3271
00:22:07.690 --> 00:22:07.910
eigen

3272
00:22:07.910 --> 00:22:08.530
gegevens,

3273
00:22:09.350 --> 00:22:09.510
de

3274
00:22:09.510 --> 00:22:09.810
eigen

3275
00:22:09.810 --> 00:22:10.450
relaties

3276
00:22:10.450 --> 00:22:10.670
en

3277
00:22:10.670 --> 00:22:10.790
de

3278
00:22:10.790 --> 00:22:11.030
eigen

3279
00:22:11.030 --> 00:22:11.490
grenzen.

3280
00:22:12.591 --> 00:22:13.151
Samenredzaamheid

3281
00:22:13.151 --> 00:22:13.911
betekent

3282
00:22:13.911 --> 00:22:14.091
dat

3283
00:22:14.091 --> 00:22:14.351
mensen

3284
00:22:14.351 --> 00:22:14.671
elkaar

3285
00:22:14.671 --> 00:22:15.471
ondersteunen

3286
00:22:15.471 --> 00:22:16.011
zonder

3287
00:22:16.011 --> 00:22:16.191
dat

3288
00:22:16.191 --> 00:22:16.351
de

3289
00:22:16.351 --> 00:22:16.611
stem

3290
00:22:16.611 --> 00:22:16.871
en

3291
00:22:16.871 --> 00:22:17.651
verantwoordelijkheid

3292
00:22:17.651 --> 00:22:17.851
van

3293
00:22:17.851 --> 00:22:18.132
één

3294
00:22:18.132 --> 00:22:18.592
persoon

3295
00:22:18.592 --> 00:22:18.912
worden

3296
00:22:18.912 --> 00:22:19.572
overgenomen.

3297
00:22:20.232 --> 00:22:20.392
Dat

3298
00:22:20.392 --> 00:22:20.832
evenwicht

3299
00:22:20.832 --> 00:22:21.012
is

3300
00:22:21.012 --> 00:22:21.472
kwetsbaar.

3301
00:22:21.992 --> 00:22:22.132
Hulp

3302
00:22:22.132 --> 00:22:22.312
kan

3303
00:22:22.312 --> 00:22:22.832
bevrijden

3304
00:22:22.832 --> 00:22:23.472
maar

3305
00:22:23.472 --> 00:22:23.693
hulp

3306
00:22:23.693 --> 00:22:23.873
kan

3307
00:22:23.873 --> 00:22:24.013
ook

3308
00:22:24.013 --> 00:22:24.393
afhankelijk

3309
00:22:24.393 --> 00:22:24.753
maken.

3310
00:22:25.553 --> 00:22:25.673
Een

3311
00:22:25.673 --> 00:22:26.053
partner

3312
00:22:26.053 --> 00:22:26.233
die

3313
00:22:26.233 --> 00:22:26.453
alle

3314
00:22:26.453 --> 00:22:26.713
brieven

3315
00:22:26.713 --> 00:22:27.393
overneemt

3316
00:22:27.393 --> 00:22:27.773
kan

3317
00:22:27.773 --> 00:22:27.973
op

3318
00:22:27.973 --> 00:22:28.193
korte

3319
00:22:28.193 --> 00:22:28.553
termijn

3320
00:22:28.553 --> 00:22:28.773
rust

3321
00:22:28.773 --> 00:22:29.074
geven.

3322
00:22:29.714 --> 00:22:30.054
Maar

3323
00:22:30.054 --> 00:22:30.314
wanneer

3324
00:22:30.314 --> 00:22:30.454
de

3325
00:22:30.454 --> 00:22:30.674
ander

3326
00:22:30.674 --> 00:22:31.134
daardoor

3327
00:22:31.134 --> 00:22:31.354
nooit

3328
00:22:31.354 --> 00:22:31.594
meer

3329
00:22:31.594 --> 00:22:31.834
zelf

3330
00:22:31.834 --> 00:22:32.414
informatie

3331
00:22:32.414 --> 00:22:32.714
ziet

3332
00:22:32.714 --> 00:22:33.014
of

3333
00:22:33.014 --> 00:22:33.554
begrijpt

3334
00:22:33.554 --> 00:22:34.114
neemt

3335
00:22:34.114 --> 00:22:34.214
de

3336
00:22:34.214 --> 00:22:34.835
afhankelijkheid

3337
00:22:34.835 --> 00:22:35.015
toe.

3338
00:22:35.855 --> 00:22:35.955
Een

3339
00:22:35.955 --> 00:22:36.435
professional

3340
00:22:36.435 --> 00:22:36.675
die

3341
00:22:36.675 --> 00:22:37.015
iedere

3342
00:22:37.015 --> 00:22:37.475
keuze

3343
00:22:37.475 --> 00:22:38.335
overneemt

3344
00:22:38.335 --> 00:22:38.515
kan

3345
00:22:38.515 --> 00:22:38.775
snel

3346
00:22:38.775 --> 00:22:39.155
handelen

3347
00:22:39.155 --> 00:22:39.875
maar

3348
00:22:39.875 --> 00:22:40.035
de

3349
00:22:40.035 --> 00:22:40.396
cliënt

3350
00:22:40.396 --> 00:22:40.736
kan

3351
00:22:40.736 --> 00:22:41.116
daardoor

3352
00:22:41.116 --> 00:22:41.256
het

3353
00:22:41.256 --> 00:22:41.696
vertrouwen

3354
00:22:41.696 --> 00:22:41.936
in

3355
00:22:41.936 --> 00:22:42.036
het

3356
00:22:42.036 --> 00:22:42.336
eigen

3357
00:22:42.336 --> 00:22:43.316
beoordelingsvermogen

3358
00:22:43.316 --> 00:22:43.736
verliezen.

3359
00:22:44.596 --> 00:22:44.696
Een

3360
00:22:44.696 --> 00:22:45.276
familielid

3361
00:22:45.276 --> 00:22:45.576
dat

3362
00:22:45.576 --> 00:22:45.997
overal

3363
00:22:45.997 --> 00:22:46.237
bij

3364
00:22:46.237 --> 00:22:46.737
aanwezig

3365
00:22:46.737 --> 00:22:46.997
is

3366
00:22:46.997 --> 00:22:47.397
kan

3367
00:22:47.397 --> 00:22:47.657
steun

3368
00:22:47.657 --> 00:22:48.137
bieden

3369
00:22:48.137 --> 00:22:48.977
maar

3370
00:22:48.977 --> 00:22:49.277
kan

3371
00:22:49.277 --> 00:22:49.457
ook

3372
00:22:49.457 --> 00:22:49.977
onbedoelde

3373
00:22:49.977 --> 00:22:50.417
directe

3374
00:22:50.417 --> 00:22:50.977
communicatie

3375
00:22:50.977 --> 00:22:51.217
tussen

3376
00:22:51.217 --> 00:22:51.578
burger

3377
00:22:51.578 --> 00:22:52.238
en

3378
00:22:52.238 --> 00:22:52.778
professional

3379
00:22:52.778 --> 00:22:53.298
blokkeren.

3380
00:22:53.778 --> 00:22:54.018
Daarom

3381
00:22:54.018 --> 00:22:54.298
vraagt

3382
00:22:54.298 --> 00:22:54.438
het

3383
00:22:54.438 --> 00:22:54.738
Ubuntu

3384
00:22:54.738 --> 00:22:55.738
relatiekompas.

3385
00:22:56.378 --> 00:22:56.738
Vergroot

3386
00:22:56.738 --> 00:22:56.999
deze

3387
00:22:56.999 --> 00:22:57.259
hulp

3388
00:22:57.259 --> 00:22:57.439
de

3389
00:22:57.439 --> 00:22:57.759
eigen

3390
00:22:57.759 --> 00:22:58.139
regie

3391
00:22:58.139 --> 00:22:58.739
of

3392
00:22:58.739 --> 00:22:58.899
wordt

3393
00:22:58.899 --> 00:22:59.039
de

3394
00:22:59.039 --> 00:22:59.339
persoon

3395
00:22:59.339 --> 00:22:59.619
steeds

3396
00:22:59.619 --> 00:23:00.159
afhankelijker?

3397
00:23:00.599 --> 00:23:00.699
Is

3398
00:23:00.699 --> 00:23:00.799
er

3399
00:23:00.799 --> 00:23:00.939
een

3400
00:23:00.939 --> 00:23:01.479
afbouwpad?

3401
00:23:01.909 --> 00:23:02.279
Worden

3402
00:23:02.279 --> 00:23:02.400
de

3403
00:23:02.400 --> 00:23:02.960
vaardigheden

3404
00:23:02.960 --> 00:23:03.640
ondersteund?

3405
00:23:04.080 --> 00:23:04.280
Kan

3406
00:23:04.280 --> 00:23:04.413
de

3407
00:23:04.413 --> 00:23:05.080
betrokkene

3408
00:23:05.080 --> 00:23:05.200
de

3409
00:23:05.200 --> 00:23:05.440
eigen

3410
00:23:05.440 --> 00:23:05.920
gegevens

3411
00:23:05.920 --> 00:23:06.360
inzien

3412
00:23:06.360 --> 00:23:06.560
en

3413
00:23:06.560 --> 00:23:07.100
corrigeren?

3414
00:23:07.780 --> 00:23:08.061
Blijven

3415
00:23:08.061 --> 00:23:08.821
professionele

3416
00:23:08.821 --> 00:23:09.541
verantwoordelijkheden

3417
00:23:09.541 --> 00:23:09.701
bij

3418
00:23:09.701 --> 00:23:10.161
professionals?

3419
00:23:10.821 --> 00:23:11.021
En

3420
00:23:11.021 --> 00:23:11.181
wordt

3421
00:23:11.181 --> 00:23:11.381
het

3422
00:23:11.381 --> 00:23:11.821
sociale

3423
00:23:11.821 --> 00:23:12.301
netwerk

3424
00:23:12.301 --> 00:23:12.601
niet

3425
00:23:12.601 --> 00:23:13.341
overvraagd?

3426
00:23:13.822 --> 00:23:14.022
De

3427
00:23:14.022 --> 00:23:14.482
pdf

3428
00:23:14.482 --> 00:23:15.182
formuleert

3429
00:23:15.182 --> 00:23:15.342
dit

3430
00:23:15.342 --> 00:23:15.642
helder.

3431
00:23:16.222 --> 00:23:16.342
De

3432
00:23:16.342 --> 00:23:16.602
ene

3433
00:23:16.602 --> 00:23:17.002
persoon

3434
00:23:17.002 --> 00:23:17.682
mag

3435
00:23:17.682 --> 00:23:17.942
niet

3436
00:23:17.942 --> 00:23:18.562
structureel

3437
00:23:18.562 --> 00:23:18.662
de

3438
00:23:18.662 --> 00:23:18.983
planning,

3439
00:23:19.303 --> 00:23:19.943
draagkracht,

3440
00:23:20.283 --> 00:23:21.063
verantwoordelijkheid

3441
00:23:21.063 --> 00:23:21.583
of

3442
00:23:21.583 --> 00:23:22.343
emotionele

3443
00:23:22.343 --> 00:23:23.063
stabiliteit

3444
00:23:23.063 --> 00:23:23.263
van

3445
00:23:23.263 --> 00:23:23.383
de

3446
00:23:23.383 --> 00:23:23.563
ander

3447
00:23:23.563 --> 00:23:23.783
moeten

3448
00:23:23.783 --> 00:23:24.283
overnemen.

3449
00:23:24.704 --> 00:23:24.844
Dat

3450
00:23:24.844 --> 00:23:24.944
is

3451
00:23:24.944 --> 00:23:25.144
geen

3452
00:23:25.144 --> 00:23:25.544
oproep

3453
00:23:25.544 --> 00:23:25.764
tot

3454
00:23:25.764 --> 00:23:26.584
individualisme.

3455
00:23:26.984 --> 00:23:27.104
Het

3456
00:23:27.104 --> 00:23:27.244
is

3457
00:23:27.244 --> 00:23:27.584
juist

3458
00:23:27.584 --> 00:23:27.824
een

3459
00:23:27.824 --> 00:23:28.324
voorwaarde

3460
00:23:28.324 --> 00:23:28.584
voor

3461
00:23:28.584 --> 00:23:29.164
duurzame

3462
00:23:29.164 --> 00:23:30.085
solidariteit.

3463
00:23:30.785 --> 00:23:30.945
Een

3464
00:23:30.945 --> 00:23:31.465
gemeenschap

3465
00:23:31.465 --> 00:23:31.785
waarin

3466
00:23:31.785 --> 00:23:32.005
één

3467
00:23:32.005 --> 00:23:32.345
persoon

3468
00:23:32.345 --> 00:23:32.585
alles

3469
00:23:32.585 --> 00:23:32.945
draagt

3470
00:23:32.945 --> 00:23:33.645
is

3471
00:23:33.645 --> 00:23:33.825
geen

3472
00:23:33.825 --> 00:23:34.185
sterke

3473
00:23:34.185 --> 00:23:34.825
gemeenschap.

3474
00:23:35.465 --> 00:23:35.566
Het

3475
00:23:35.566 --> 00:23:35.686
is

3476
00:23:35.686 --> 00:23:35.806
een

3477
00:23:35.806 --> 00:23:36.186
kwetsbaar

3478
00:23:36.186 --> 00:23:36.626
systeem

3479
00:23:36.626 --> 00:23:36.786
dat

3480
00:23:36.786 --> 00:23:37.206
afhankelijk

3481
00:23:37.206 --> 00:23:37.506
is

3482
00:23:37.506 --> 00:23:37.806
van

3483
00:23:37.806 --> 00:23:37.946
de

3484
00:23:37.946 --> 00:23:38.386
uitbutting

3485
00:23:38.386 --> 00:23:38.586
van

3486
00:23:38.586 --> 00:23:38.826
één

3487
00:23:38.826 --> 00:23:39.346
schakel.

3488
00:23:40.066 --> 00:23:40.526
Werkelijke

3489
00:23:40.526 --> 00:23:41.607
samenredzaamheid

3490
00:23:41.607 --> 00:23:42.167
verdeelt

3491
00:23:42.167 --> 00:23:43.027
verantwoordelijkheid.

3492
00:23:43.627 --> 00:23:43.727
Zij

3493
00:23:43.727 --> 00:23:43.947
maakt

3494
00:23:43.947 --> 00:23:44.387
zichtbaar

3495
00:23:44.387 --> 00:23:44.547
wie

3496
00:23:44.547 --> 00:23:44.867
welke

3497
00:23:44.867 --> 00:23:45.067
rol

3498
00:23:45.067 --> 00:23:45.367
heeft.

3499
00:23:46.207 --> 00:23:46.327
Zij

3500
00:23:46.327 --> 00:23:46.908
organiseert

3501
00:23:46.908 --> 00:23:47.328
vervanging.

3502
00:23:47.888 --> 00:23:47.988
Zij

3503
00:23:47.988 --> 00:23:48.268
erkent

3504
00:23:48.268 --> 00:23:48.708
beperkte

3505
00:23:48.708 --> 00:23:49.428
draagkracht.

3506
00:23:49.908 --> 00:23:50.008
En

3507
00:23:50.008 --> 00:23:50.168
zij

3508
00:23:50.168 --> 00:23:50.668
voorkomt

3509
00:23:50.668 --> 00:23:50.828
dat

3510
00:23:50.828 --> 00:23:51.088
liefde

3511
00:23:51.088 --> 00:23:51.268
wordt

3512
00:23:51.268 --> 00:23:51.648
gebruikt

3513
00:23:51.648 --> 00:23:51.788
als

3514
00:23:51.788 --> 00:23:52.209
argument

3515
00:23:52.209 --> 00:23:52.669
voor

3516
00:23:52.669 --> 00:23:53.349
onbeperkte

3517
00:23:53.349 --> 00:23:54.089
beschikbaarheid.

3518
00:23:55.189 --> 00:23:55.949
Gemeenschapskracht

3519
00:23:55.949 --> 00:23:56.249
en

3520
00:23:56.249 --> 00:23:57.069
herstelvermogen.

3521
00:23:57.599 --> 00:23:57.910
Een

3522
00:23:57.910 --> 00:23:58.330
gemeenschap

3523
00:23:58.330 --> 00:23:58.470
is

3524
00:23:58.470 --> 00:23:58.650
meer

3525
00:23:58.650 --> 00:23:58.790
dan

3526
00:23:58.790 --> 00:23:58.930
een

3527
00:23:58.930 --> 00:23:59.450
verzameling

3528
00:23:59.450 --> 00:23:59.750
mensen

3529
00:23:59.750 --> 00:23:59.910
die

3530
00:23:59.910 --> 00:24:00.150
elkaar

3531
00:24:00.150 --> 00:24:00.470
kennen.

3532
00:24:01.430 --> 00:24:02.050
Gemeenschapskracht

3533
00:24:02.050 --> 00:24:02.530
ontstaat

3534
00:24:02.530 --> 00:24:02.810
wanneer

3535
00:24:02.810 --> 00:24:03.070
mensen

3536
00:24:03.070 --> 00:24:03.311
elkaar

3537
00:24:03.311 --> 00:24:03.611
kunnen

3538
00:24:03.611 --> 00:24:04.231
ondersteunen

3539
00:24:04.231 --> 00:24:04.771
zonder

3540
00:24:04.771 --> 00:24:05.031
elkaar

3541
00:24:05.031 --> 00:24:05.211
te

3542
00:24:05.211 --> 00:24:05.931
overheersen.

3543
00:24:06.451 --> 00:24:07.071
Wanneer

3544
00:24:07.071 --> 00:24:07.271
er

3545
00:24:07.271 --> 00:24:07.711
meerdere

3546
00:24:07.711 --> 00:24:08.271
steunpunten

3547
00:24:08.271 --> 00:24:08.591
zijn.

3548
00:24:09.052 --> 00:24:09.232
Wanneer

3549
00:24:09.232 --> 00:24:09.552
kennis

3550
00:24:09.552 --> 00:24:09.832
wordt

3551
00:24:09.832 --> 00:24:10.312
gedeeld.

3552
00:24:10.752 --> 00:24:10.912
Wanneer

3553
00:24:10.912 --> 00:24:11.312
fouten

3554
00:24:11.312 --> 00:24:11.532
kunnen

3555
00:24:11.532 --> 00:24:11.792
worden

3556
00:24:11.792 --> 00:24:12.272
hersteld.

3557
00:24:13.072 --> 00:24:13.372
Wanneer

3558
00:24:13.372 --> 00:24:13.612
niet

3559
00:24:13.612 --> 00:24:13.912
alles

3560
00:24:13.912 --> 00:24:14.373
afhankelijk

3561
00:24:14.373 --> 00:24:14.633
is

3562
00:24:14.633 --> 00:24:14.773
van

3563
00:24:14.773 --> 00:24:15.013
één

3564
00:24:15.013 --> 00:24:15.813
persoon.

3565
00:24:16.233 --> 00:24:16.473
Wanneer

3566
00:24:16.473 --> 00:24:16.713
nieuwe

3567
00:24:16.713 --> 00:24:17.033
mensen

3568
00:24:17.033 --> 00:24:17.293
kunnen

3569
00:24:17.293 --> 00:24:17.873
aansluiten.

3570
00:24:18.673 --> 00:24:18.773
En

3571
00:24:18.773 --> 00:24:19.033
wanneer

3572
00:24:19.033 --> 00:24:19.353
iemand

3573
00:24:19.353 --> 00:24:19.813
tijdelijk

3574
00:24:19.813 --> 00:24:19.974
kan

3575
00:24:19.974 --> 00:24:20.594
terugtreden

3576
00:24:20.594 --> 00:24:21.014
zonder

3577
00:24:21.014 --> 00:24:21.194
dat

3578
00:24:21.194 --> 00:24:21.354
het

3579
00:24:21.354 --> 00:24:21.554
hele

3580
00:24:21.554 --> 00:24:21.974
systeem

3581
00:24:21.974 --> 00:24:22.394
instort.

3582
00:24:23.074 --> 00:24:23.374
In

3583
00:24:23.374 --> 00:24:23.514
een

3584
00:24:23.514 --> 00:24:23.874
conflict

3585
00:24:23.874 --> 00:24:24.314
kan

3586
00:24:24.314 --> 00:24:24.474
het

3587
00:24:24.474 --> 00:24:24.854
sociale

3588
00:24:24.854 --> 00:24:25.354
netwerk

3589
00:24:25.354 --> 00:24:25.675
echter

3590
00:24:25.675 --> 00:24:25.895
ook

3591
00:24:25.895 --> 00:24:26.195
schade

3592
00:24:26.195 --> 00:24:26.695
vergroten.

3593
00:24:27.515 --> 00:24:28.135
Familieleden

3594
00:24:28.135 --> 00:24:28.415
kunnen

3595
00:24:28.415 --> 00:24:28.995
partij

3596
00:24:28.995 --> 00:24:29.435
kiezen

3597
00:24:29.435 --> 00:24:30.075
voordat

3598
00:24:30.075 --> 00:24:30.215
zij

3599
00:24:30.215 --> 00:24:30.475
beide

3600
00:24:30.475 --> 00:24:31.176
perspectieven

3601
00:24:31.176 --> 00:24:31.476
kennen.

3602
00:24:32.216 --> 00:24:32.616
Vrienden

3603
00:24:32.616 --> 00:24:32.856
kunnen

3604
00:24:32.856 --> 00:24:33.296
berichten

3605
00:24:33.296 --> 00:24:33.936
doorsturen.

3606
00:24:34.616 --> 00:24:34.896
Kinderen

3607
00:24:34.896 --> 00:24:35.096
kunnen

3608
00:24:35.096 --> 00:24:35.416
als

3609
00:24:35.416 --> 00:24:35.916
boodschapper

3610
00:24:35.916 --> 00:24:36.136
worden

3611
00:24:36.136 --> 00:24:36.617
gebruikt.

3612
00:24:37.437 --> 00:24:37.577
Een

3613
00:24:37.577 --> 00:24:37.957
bekende

3614
00:24:37.957 --> 00:24:38.257
kan

3615
00:24:38.257 --> 00:24:38.537
zonder

3616
00:24:38.537 --> 00:24:39.017
duidelijke

3617
00:24:39.017 --> 00:24:39.497
toestemming

3618
00:24:39.497 --> 00:24:39.857
contact

3619
00:24:39.857 --> 00:24:40.437
opnemen

3620
00:24:40.437 --> 00:24:40.777
met

3621
00:24:40.777 --> 00:24:41.497
instanties.

3622
00:24:41.877 --> 00:24:42.017
Een

3623
00:24:42.017 --> 00:24:42.618
gemeenschap

3624
00:24:42.618 --> 00:24:42.958
kan

3625
00:24:42.958 --> 00:24:43.218
druk

3626
00:24:43.218 --> 00:24:43.858
uitoefenen

3627
00:24:43.858 --> 00:24:44.138
om

3628
00:24:44.138 --> 00:24:44.278
te

3629
00:24:44.278 --> 00:24:44.798
vergeven.

3630
00:24:45.258 --> 00:24:45.438
Of

3631
00:24:45.438 --> 00:24:45.758
iemand

3632
00:24:45.758 --> 00:24:46.038
kan

3633
00:24:46.038 --> 00:24:46.238
via

3634
00:24:46.238 --> 00:24:46.478
een

3635
00:24:46.478 --> 00:24:46.698
groep

3636
00:24:46.698 --> 00:24:46.998
worden

3637
00:24:46.998 --> 00:24:47.799
buitengesloten.

3638
00:24:48.479 --> 00:24:48.799
Daarom

3639
00:24:48.799 --> 00:24:48.999
zegt

3640
00:24:48.999 --> 00:24:49.139
de

3641
00:24:49.139 --> 00:24:49.539
pdf

3642
00:24:49.539 --> 00:24:49.879
dat

3643
00:24:49.879 --> 00:24:50.039
het

3644
00:24:50.039 --> 00:24:50.439
sociale

3645
00:24:50.439 --> 00:24:50.959
netwerk

3646
00:24:50.959 --> 00:24:51.719
ondersteunend

3647
00:24:51.719 --> 00:24:51.879
moet

3648
00:24:51.879 --> 00:24:52.079
worden

3649
00:24:52.079 --> 00:24:52.499
gebruikt

3650
00:24:52.499 --> 00:24:52.819
en

3651
00:24:52.819 --> 00:24:53.019
niet

3652
00:24:53.019 --> 00:24:53.260
als

3653
00:24:53.260 --> 00:24:53.980
drukmiddel.

3654
00:24:54.640 --> 00:24:54.780
Een

3655
00:24:54.780 --> 00:24:55.060
derde

3656
00:24:55.060 --> 00:24:55.440
persoon

3657
00:24:55.440 --> 00:24:55.660
wordt

3658
00:24:55.660 --> 00:24:55.860
niet

3659
00:24:55.860 --> 00:24:56.320
vanzelf

3660
00:24:56.320 --> 00:24:56.960
bemiddelaar

3661
00:24:56.960 --> 00:24:57.260
omdat

3662
00:24:57.260 --> 00:24:57.680
die

3663
00:24:57.680 --> 00:24:58.260
een

3664
00:24:58.260 --> 00:24:58.560
vriend

3665
00:24:58.560 --> 00:24:58.761
of

3666
00:24:58.761 --> 00:24:59.261
familielid

3667
00:24:59.261 --> 00:24:59.521
is.

3668
00:25:00.141 --> 00:25:00.501
Daarvoor

3669
00:25:00.501 --> 00:25:00.681
zijn

3670
00:25:00.681 --> 00:25:01.221
toestemming,

3671
00:25:01.561 --> 00:25:02.321
rolhelderheid

3672
00:25:02.321 --> 00:25:02.861
en

3673
00:25:02.861 --> 00:25:03.261
voldoende

3674
00:25:03.261 --> 00:25:03.981
neutraliteit

3675
00:25:03.981 --> 00:25:04.322
nodig.

3676
00:25:05.082 --> 00:25:05.242
Iemand

3677
00:25:05.242 --> 00:25:05.402
die

3678
00:25:05.402 --> 00:25:05.922
emotioneel

3679
00:25:05.922 --> 00:25:06.122
nauw

3680
00:25:06.122 --> 00:25:06.482
betrokken

3681
00:25:06.482 --> 00:25:06.702
is

3682
00:25:06.702 --> 00:25:07.182
kan

3683
00:25:07.182 --> 00:25:07.422
heel

3684
00:25:07.422 --> 00:25:07.862
waardevol

3685
00:25:07.862 --> 00:25:08.122
zijn

3686
00:25:08.122 --> 00:25:08.362
als

3687
00:25:08.362 --> 00:25:08.962
steunpersoon.

3688
00:25:09.462 --> 00:25:09.863
Maar

3689
00:25:09.863 --> 00:25:10.063
is

3690
00:25:10.063 --> 00:25:10.423
daardoor

3691
00:25:10.423 --> 00:25:10.583
niet

3692
00:25:10.583 --> 00:25:11.223
automatisch

3693
00:25:11.223 --> 00:25:11.603
geschikt

3694
00:25:11.603 --> 00:25:11.883
om

3695
00:25:11.883 --> 00:25:12.143
feiten

3696
00:25:12.143 --> 00:25:12.383
vast

3697
00:25:12.383 --> 00:25:12.523
te

3698
00:25:12.523 --> 00:25:12.743
stellen

3699
00:25:12.743 --> 00:25:12.943
of

3700
00:25:12.943 --> 00:25:13.343
besluiten

3701
00:25:13.343 --> 00:25:13.523
te

3702
00:25:13.523 --> 00:25:13.763
nemen.

3703
00:25:14.503 --> 00:25:14.643
De

3704
00:25:14.643 --> 00:25:14.883
vraag

3705
00:25:14.883 --> 00:25:15.043
is

3706
00:25:15.043 --> 00:25:15.464
telkens

3707
00:25:15.464 --> 00:25:16.324
welke

3708
00:25:16.324 --> 00:25:16.584
rol

3709
00:25:16.584 --> 00:25:16.844
heeft

3710
00:25:16.844 --> 00:25:17.084
deze

3711
00:25:17.084 --> 00:25:17.504
persoon?

3712
00:25:18.024 --> 00:25:18.124
Wie

3713
00:25:18.124 --> 00:25:18.364
heeft

3714
00:25:18.364 --> 00:25:18.744
daarmee

3715
00:25:18.744 --> 00:25:19.364
ingestemd?

3716
00:25:19.884 --> 00:25:20.184
Welke

3717
00:25:20.184 --> 00:25:20.804
informatie

3718
00:25:20.804 --> 00:25:21.045
mag

3719
00:25:21.045 --> 00:25:21.285
worden

3720
00:25:21.285 --> 00:25:21.705
gedeeld?

3721
00:25:22.185 --> 00:25:22.305
Waar

3722
00:25:22.305 --> 00:25:22.645
eindigt

3723
00:25:22.645 --> 00:25:22.765
de

3724
00:25:22.765 --> 00:25:22.945
rol

3725
00:25:22.945 --> 00:25:23.425
en

3726
00:25:23.425 --> 00:25:23.665
hoe

3727
00:25:23.665 --> 00:25:24.365
voorkomen

3728
00:25:24.365 --> 00:25:24.545
we

3729
00:25:24.545 --> 00:25:24.745
dat

3730
00:25:24.745 --> 00:25:24.865
de

3731
00:25:24.865 --> 00:25:25.125
derde

3732
00:25:25.125 --> 00:25:25.505
persoon

3733
00:25:25.505 --> 00:25:25.925
een

3734
00:25:25.925 --> 00:25:26.165
nieuwe

3735
00:25:26.165 --> 00:25:27.026
machtspositie

3736
00:25:27.026 --> 00:25:27.406
krijgt?

3737
00:25:28.186 --> 00:25:28.826
Herstelvermogen

3738
00:25:28.826 --> 00:25:29.286
betekent

3739
00:25:29.286 --> 00:25:29.666
ook

3740
00:25:29.666 --> 00:25:30.046
dat

3741
00:25:30.046 --> 00:25:30.186
een

3742
00:25:30.186 --> 00:25:30.646
gemeenschap

3743
00:25:30.646 --> 00:25:30.806
kan

3744
00:25:30.806 --> 00:25:31.086
leren.

3745
00:25:31.726 --> 00:25:31.826
Niet

3746
00:25:31.826 --> 00:25:32.087
alleen

3747
00:25:32.087 --> 00:25:32.407
zeggen

3748
00:25:32.407 --> 00:25:33.087
we

3749
00:25:33.087 --> 00:25:33.307
moeten

3750
00:25:33.307 --> 00:25:33.767
vooruit,

3751
00:25:34.147 --> 00:25:34.247
maar

3752
00:25:34.247 --> 00:25:34.767
onderzoeken

3753
00:25:34.767 --> 00:25:35.127
wat

3754
00:25:35.127 --> 00:25:35.247
is

3755
00:25:35.247 --> 00:25:35.347
er

3756
00:25:35.347 --> 00:25:35.707
gebeurd?

3757
00:25:36.247 --> 00:25:36.467
Welke

3758
00:25:36.467 --> 00:25:37.207
omstandigheden

3759
00:25:37.207 --> 00:25:37.708
maakten

3760
00:25:37.708 --> 00:25:37.868
het

3761
00:25:37.868 --> 00:25:38.208
patroon

3762
00:25:38.208 --> 00:25:38.588
mogelijk?

3763
00:25:38.988 --> 00:25:39.208
Welke

3764
00:25:39.208 --> 00:25:39.508
grens

3765
00:25:39.508 --> 00:25:39.868
ontbrak?

3766
00:25:40.208 --> 00:25:40.308
Wie

3767
00:25:40.308 --> 00:25:40.488
was

3768
00:25:40.488 --> 00:25:41.148
overbelast?

3769
00:25:41.428 --> 00:25:41.528
Wie

3770
00:25:41.528 --> 00:25:41.808
sprak

3771
00:25:41.808 --> 00:25:42.248
namens

3772
00:25:42.248 --> 00:25:42.428
wie?

3773
00:25:42.968 --> 00:25:43.289
Welke

3774
00:25:43.289 --> 00:25:43.749
informatie

3775
00:25:43.749 --> 00:25:43.989
was

3776
00:25:43.989 --> 00:25:44.529
onjuist?

3777
00:25:45.029 --> 00:25:45.289
Welke

3778
00:25:45.289 --> 00:25:45.709
afspraak

3779
00:25:45.709 --> 00:25:45.889
was

3780
00:25:45.889 --> 00:25:46.009
te

3781
00:25:46.009 --> 00:25:46.329
vaag?

3782
00:25:46.629 --> 00:25:46.729
En

3783
00:25:46.729 --> 00:25:46.889
wat

3784
00:25:46.889 --> 00:25:47.329
veranderen

3785
00:25:47.329 --> 00:25:47.469
we

3786
00:25:47.469 --> 00:25:47.889
concreet?

3787
00:25:48.750 --> 00:25:49.090
Herstel

3788
00:25:49.090 --> 00:25:49.270
wordt

3789
00:25:49.270 --> 00:25:49.910
geloofwaardig

3790
00:25:49.910 --> 00:25:50.190
wanneer

3791
00:25:50.190 --> 00:25:50.290
het

3792
00:25:50.290 --> 00:25:50.630
zichtbaar

3793
00:25:50.630 --> 00:25:50.830
wordt

3794
00:25:50.830 --> 00:25:50.990
in

3795
00:25:50.990 --> 00:25:51.370
gedrag,

3796
00:25:51.810 --> 00:25:52.390
afspraken,

3797
00:25:52.790 --> 00:25:53.390
rolverdeling

3798
00:25:53.390 --> 00:25:53.650
en

3799
00:25:53.650 --> 00:25:54.311
evaluatie.

3800
00:25:54.771 --> 00:25:54.871
Hoe

3801
00:25:54.871 --> 00:25:55.011
de

3802
00:25:55.011 --> 00:25:55.371
position

3803
00:25:55.371 --> 00:25:55.731
paper

3804
00:25:55.731 --> 00:25:55.991
de

3805
00:25:55.991 --> 00:25:56.331
pdf

3806
00:25:56.331 --> 00:25:56.631
heeft

3807
00:25:56.631 --> 00:25:57.891
veranderd?

3808
00:25:57.931 --> 00:25:58.031
De

3809
00:25:58.031 --> 00:25:58.371
pdf

3810
00:25:58.371 --> 00:25:58.551
van

3811
00:25:58.551 --> 00:25:58.811
strijd

3812
00:25:58.811 --> 00:25:58.931
naar

3813
00:25:58.931 --> 00:25:59.211
begrip

3814
00:25:59.211 --> 00:25:59.371
is

3815
00:25:59.371 --> 00:25:59.772
ontstaan

3816
00:25:59.772 --> 00:25:59.912
uit

3817
00:25:59.912 --> 00:26:00.072
een

3818
00:26:00.072 --> 00:26:00.512
persoonlijke

3819
00:26:00.512 --> 00:26:01.192
herstelbrief

3820
00:26:01.192 --> 00:26:01.432
en

3821
00:26:01.432 --> 00:26:01.592
een

3822
00:26:01.592 --> 00:26:01.972
voorwoord

3823
00:26:01.972 --> 00:26:02.172
voor

3824
00:26:02.172 --> 00:26:02.292
een

3825
00:26:02.292 --> 00:26:03.092
levenslogboek.

3826
00:26:03.552 --> 00:26:03.852
De

3827
00:26:03.852 --> 00:26:04.432
oorspronkelijke

3828
00:26:04.432 --> 00:26:04.792
teksten

3829
00:26:04.792 --> 00:26:05.193
bevatten

3830
00:26:05.193 --> 00:26:05.393
veel

3831
00:26:05.393 --> 00:26:05.713
liefde,

3832
00:26:06.033 --> 00:26:06.193
hoop

3833
00:26:06.193 --> 00:26:06.373
en

3834
00:26:06.373 --> 00:26:06.753
verlangen

3835
00:26:06.753 --> 00:26:06.953
naar

3836
00:26:06.953 --> 00:26:07.673
verbondenheid.

3837
00:26:08.413 --> 00:26:08.553
Maar

3838
00:26:08.553 --> 00:26:08.833
juist

3839
00:26:08.833 --> 00:26:09.073
omdat

3840
00:26:09.073 --> 00:26:09.353
de

3841
00:26:09.353 --> 00:26:09.613
teksten

3842
00:26:09.613 --> 00:26:10.233
persoonlijk

3843
00:26:10.233 --> 00:26:10.513
en

3844
00:26:10.513 --> 00:26:11.134
emotioneel

3845
00:26:11.134 --> 00:26:11.474
waren,

3846
00:26:12.254 --> 00:26:12.554
bevatten

3847
00:26:12.554 --> 00:26:12.654
zij

3848
00:26:12.654 --> 00:26:12.854
ook

3849
00:26:12.854 --> 00:26:13.554
formuleringen

3850
00:26:13.554 --> 00:26:13.854
die

3851
00:26:13.854 --> 00:26:14.234
vanuit

3852
00:26:14.234 --> 00:26:14.934
relationele

3853
00:26:14.934 --> 00:26:15.794
legitimiteit

3854
00:26:15.794 --> 00:26:16.275
te

3855
00:26:16.275 --> 00:26:16.515
ruim

3856
00:26:16.515 --> 00:26:16.735
of

3857
00:26:16.735 --> 00:26:16.875
te

3858
00:26:16.875 --> 00:26:17.235
sturend

3859
00:26:17.235 --> 00:26:17.455
konden

3860
00:26:17.455 --> 00:26:17.715
zijn.

3861
00:26:18.495 --> 00:26:18.655
De

3862
00:26:18.655 --> 00:26:18.995
position

3863
00:26:18.995 --> 00:26:19.335
paper

3864
00:26:19.335 --> 00:26:19.515
heeft

3865
00:26:19.515 --> 00:26:19.655
die

3866
00:26:19.655 --> 00:26:19.995
teksten

3867
00:26:19.995 --> 00:26:20.415
daarom

3868
00:26:20.415 --> 00:26:20.595
niet

3869
00:26:20.595 --> 00:26:21.115
eenvoudig

3870
00:26:21.115 --> 00:26:22.276
bevestigd.

3871
00:26:22.416 --> 00:26:22.536
Zij

3872
00:26:22.536 --> 00:26:22.716
heeft

3873
00:26:22.716 --> 00:26:22.856
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00:26:22.856 --> 00:26:23.176
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00:26:23.176 --> 00:26:23.536
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00:26:24.276 --> 00:26:24.556
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00:26:24.556 --> 00:26:25.116
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00:26:25.116 --> 00:26:25.496
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00:26:27.577 --> 00:26:28.057
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00:26:28.057 --> 00:26:28.597
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00:26:28.597 --> 00:26:28.857
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00:26:28.857 --> 00:26:29.097
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00:26:29.097 --> 00:26:29.597
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00:26:29.597 --> 00:26:29.917
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00:26:29.917 --> 00:26:30.777
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00:26:30.777 --> 00:26:31.017
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00:26:31.017 --> 00:26:31.357
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00:26:31.357 --> 00:26:31.957
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00:26:32.517 --> 00:26:32.657
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00:26:32.657 --> 00:26:32.898
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3898
00:26:32.898 --> 00:26:33.218
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00:26:33.218 --> 00:26:33.438
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00:26:33.438 --> 00:26:33.798
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00:26:34.538 --> 00:26:34.658
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00:26:34.658 --> 00:26:35.078
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00:26:35.078 --> 00:26:35.238
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00:26:35.238 --> 00:26:35.398
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00:26:35.398 --> 00:26:35.518
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00:26:35.638 --> 00:26:35.998
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00:26:36.778 --> 00:26:36.998
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00:26:36.998 --> 00:26:37.258
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00:26:37.818 --> 00:26:37.998
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00:26:37.998 --> 00:26:38.358
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00:26:38.358 --> 00:26:38.619
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00:26:38.619 --> 00:26:39.339
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00:26:39.779 --> 00:26:39.939
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00:26:39.939 --> 00:26:40.039
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00:26:40.039 --> 00:26:40.399
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00:26:40.399 --> 00:26:40.579
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00:26:40.579 --> 00:26:40.799
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00:26:42.699 --> 00:26:42.979
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00:26:42.979 --> 00:26:43.179
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00:26:43.179 --> 00:26:43.419
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00:26:43.419 --> 00:26:43.960
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00:26:43.960 --> 00:26:44.400
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00:26:44.400 --> 00:26:44.800
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00:26:44.800 --> 00:26:44.960
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00:26:45.820 --> 00:26:46.220
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00:26:46.220 --> 00:26:46.400
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00:26:46.900 --> 00:26:47.580
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00:26:48.100 --> 00:26:48.460
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00:26:48.460 --> 00:26:48.640
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00:26:48.640 --> 00:26:49.060
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00:26:49.060 --> 00:26:49.581
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3946
00:26:49.581 --> 00:26:50.021
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3947
00:26:50.021 --> 00:26:50.281
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00:26:50.281 --> 00:26:50.921
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3949
00:26:51.841 --> 00:26:51.941
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00:26:51.941 --> 00:26:52.141
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00:26:52.661 --> 00:26:53.121
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00:26:53.121 --> 00:26:53.841
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00:26:54.401 --> 00:26:54.801
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00:26:54.801 --> 00:26:54.941
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00:26:54.941 --> 00:26:55.522
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00:26:55.522 --> 00:26:56.242
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00:26:56.242 --> 00:26:56.502
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00:26:56.502 --> 00:26:56.982
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00:26:56.982 --> 00:26:57.382
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00:26:57.382 --> 00:26:57.842
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3962
00:26:57.842 --> 00:26:58.422
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00:26:58.422 --> 00:26:58.682
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00:26:58.682 --> 00:26:58.922
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3965
00:26:58.922 --> 00:26:59.122
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3966
00:26:59.122 --> 00:26:59.562
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3967
00:27:00.422 --> 00:27:00.543
De

3968
00:27:00.543 --> 00:27:00.883
position

3969
00:27:00.883 --> 00:27:01.283
paper

3970
00:27:01.283 --> 00:27:01.643
heeft

3971
00:27:01.643 --> 00:27:01.803
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3972
00:27:01.803 --> 00:27:02.343
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3973
00:27:03.043 --> 00:27:03.303
Niemand

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00:27:03.303 --> 00:27:03.543
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3975
00:27:03.543 --> 00:27:03.923
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00:27:03.923 --> 00:27:04.103
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00:27:04.103 --> 00:27:04.223
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00:27:04.223 --> 00:27:04.663
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3979
00:27:05.063 --> 00:27:05.263
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3980
00:27:05.263 --> 00:27:05.603
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3981
00:27:05.603 --> 00:27:06.023
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00:27:06.023 --> 00:27:06.184
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00:27:06.184 --> 00:27:06.624
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3984
00:27:07.384 --> 00:27:07.664
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00:27:07.664 --> 00:27:08.064
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3986
00:27:08.064 --> 00:27:08.504
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3987
00:27:08.504 --> 00:27:08.824
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00:27:08.824 --> 00:27:09.024
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00:27:09.024 --> 00:27:09.164
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00:27:09.164 --> 00:27:09.284
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00:27:09.284 --> 00:27:09.564
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3993
00:27:10.504 --> 00:27:10.884
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3994
00:27:10.884 --> 00:27:11.084
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00:27:11.084 --> 00:27:11.604
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3996
00:27:11.604 --> 00:27:11.885
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00:27:11.885 --> 00:27:12.285
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00:27:12.885 --> 00:27:13.025
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00:27:13.025 --> 00:27:13.725
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4000
00:27:13.725 --> 00:27:13.905
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4001
00:27:13.905 --> 00:27:14.305
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4002
00:27:14.305 --> 00:27:14.505
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00:27:14.505 --> 00:27:14.745
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00:27:14.745 --> 00:27:15.085
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00:27:15.965 --> 00:27:16.245
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00:27:16.245 --> 00:27:16.765
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00:27:16.765 --> 00:27:17.266
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00:27:17.266 --> 00:27:17.506
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00:27:17.506 --> 00:27:17.646
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00:27:18.606 --> 00:27:18.826
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00:27:18.826 --> 00:27:19.026
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00:27:19.026 --> 00:27:19.146
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4020
00:27:19.146 --> 00:27:19.406
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4021
00:27:20.226 --> 00:27:20.366
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00:27:20.366 --> 00:27:20.706
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00:27:21.546 --> 00:27:21.646
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4026
00:27:21.646 --> 00:27:22.006
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4027
00:27:22.006 --> 00:27:22.306
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00:27:23.007 --> 00:27:23.167
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00:27:23.167 --> 00:27:23.427
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00:27:23.427 --> 00:27:23.807
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00:27:23.807 --> 00:27:23.987
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00:27:23.987 --> 00:27:24.087
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4034
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00:27:26.907 --> 00:27:27.367
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00:27:27.367 --> 00:27:27.627
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4042
00:27:27.627 --> 00:27:28.047
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4043
00:27:28.047 --> 00:27:28.808
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4044
00:27:29.248 --> 00:27:29.568
Mensen

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00:27:29.568 --> 00:27:29.728
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00:27:29.728 --> 00:27:29.908
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00:27:30.128 --> 00:27:30.628
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4049
00:27:30.628 --> 00:27:30.868
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4050
00:27:30.868 --> 00:27:31.168
worden

4051
00:27:31.168 --> 00:27:31.888
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4052
00:27:32.508 --> 00:27:32.688
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4053
00:27:32.688 --> 00:27:33.008
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4054
00:27:33.008 --> 00:27:33.308
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4055
00:27:33.308 --> 00:27:33.648
kracht

4056
00:27:33.648 --> 00:27:33.849
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4057
00:27:33.849 --> 00:27:34.129
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00:27:34.129 --> 00:27:34.329
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4059
00:27:34.329 --> 00:27:34.489
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4060
00:27:34.489 --> 00:27:34.889
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4061
00:27:35.609 --> 00:27:35.729
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00:27:35.729 --> 00:27:35.969
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00:27:35.969 --> 00:27:36.149
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00:27:36.469 --> 00:27:36.769
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00:27:36.769 --> 00:27:37.069
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4068
00:27:37.069 --> 00:27:37.629
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4069
00:27:37.629 --> 00:27:37.789
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4073
00:27:38.649 --> 00:27:39.029
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4074
00:27:39.630 --> 00:27:39.950
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4075
00:27:39.950 --> 00:27:40.370
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4076
00:27:40.370 --> 00:27:40.750
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00:27:40.750 --> 00:27:40.950
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4078
00:27:40.950 --> 00:27:41.190
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4079
00:27:41.190 --> 00:27:41.890
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4080
00:27:41.890 --> 00:27:42.090
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4081
00:27:42.090 --> 00:27:42.250
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4082
00:27:42.250 --> 00:27:42.570
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4083
00:27:42.570 --> 00:27:42.790
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00:27:42.790 --> 00:27:43.090
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00:27:43.090 --> 00:27:43.310
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4086
00:27:43.310 --> 00:27:43.450
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4087
00:27:43.450 --> 00:27:43.770
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4088
00:27:43.770 --> 00:27:44.270
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4089
00:27:44.991 --> 00:27:45.291
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4090
00:27:45.291 --> 00:27:45.451
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4091
00:27:45.451 --> 00:27:45.551
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4092
00:27:45.551 --> 00:27:45.851
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4093
00:27:45.851 --> 00:27:46.051
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4094
00:27:46.051 --> 00:27:46.431
accent

4095
00:27:46.431 --> 00:27:47.031
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00:27:47.991 --> 00:27:48.131
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00:27:48.131 --> 00:27:48.291
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4101
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4104
00:27:49.691 --> 00:27:50.251
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4105
00:27:51.092 --> 00:27:51.192
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4106
00:27:51.192 --> 00:27:51.372
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4107
00:27:51.372 --> 00:27:51.792
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4108
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4109
00:27:51.952 --> 00:27:52.452
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4110
00:27:52.452 --> 00:27:52.912
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4111
00:27:53.112 --> 00:27:53.512
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4112
00:27:53.512 --> 00:27:54.032
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4113
00:27:54.392 --> 00:27:54.972
veiligheid,

4114
00:27:55.272 --> 00:27:55.932
vrijwilligheid

4115
00:27:55.932 --> 00:27:56.153
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4116
00:27:56.153 --> 00:27:56.813
draagkracht.

4117
00:27:57.493 --> 00:27:57.613
Een

4118
00:27:57.613 --> 00:27:58.053
relatie

4119
00:27:58.053 --> 00:27:58.273
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4120
00:27:58.273 --> 00:27:58.493
worden

4121
00:27:58.493 --> 00:27:58.953
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4122
00:27:58.953 --> 00:27:59.313
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4123
00:27:59.313 --> 00:27:59.493
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4124
00:27:59.493 --> 00:27:59.913
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4125
00:27:59.913 --> 00:28:00.253
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4126
00:28:00.253 --> 00:28:00.413
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4127
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4128
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4129
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4130
00:28:00.933 --> 00:28:01.353
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4131
00:28:02.214 --> 00:28:02.354
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00:28:02.354 --> 00:28:02.674
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4133
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4134
00:28:03.214 --> 00:28:03.654
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4135
00:28:03.654 --> 00:28:04.134
mentale

4136
00:28:04.134 --> 00:28:04.914
overbelasting.

4137
00:28:05.454 --> 00:28:05.774
De

4138
00:28:05.774 --> 00:28:06.274
oorspronkelijke

4139
00:28:06.274 --> 00:28:06.494
brief

4140
00:28:06.494 --> 00:28:06.854
legde

4141
00:28:06.854 --> 00:28:07.055
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4142
00:28:07.055 --> 00:28:07.335
dat

4143
00:28:07.335 --> 00:28:07.855
juridische

4144
00:28:07.855 --> 00:28:08.435
procedures,

4145
00:28:09.055 --> 00:28:09.575
financiële

4146
00:28:09.575 --> 00:28:09.995
zorgen,

4147
00:28:10.415 --> 00:28:10.755
deadlines

4148
00:28:10.755 --> 00:28:11.115
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4149
00:28:11.115 --> 00:28:11.655
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4150
00:28:11.655 --> 00:28:11.915
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4151
00:28:11.915 --> 00:28:12.395
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4152
00:28:12.395 --> 00:28:12.816
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4153
00:28:12.816 --> 00:28:13.256
innamen.

4154
00:28:13.936 --> 00:28:14.056
De

4155
00:28:14.056 --> 00:28:14.416
position

4156
00:28:14.416 --> 00:28:14.736
paper

4157
00:28:14.736 --> 00:28:14.996
maakt

4158
00:28:14.996 --> 00:28:15.296
daarvan

4159
00:28:15.296 --> 00:28:15.556
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4160
00:28:15.556 --> 00:28:16.176
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4161
00:28:16.176 --> 00:28:16.376
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4162
00:28:16.376 --> 00:28:17.216
verantwoordelijkheid.

4163
00:28:17.956 --> 00:28:18.597
Overbelasting

4164
00:28:18.597 --> 00:28:18.837
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4165
00:28:18.837 --> 00:28:19.157
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4166
00:28:19.157 --> 00:28:19.677
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4167
00:28:20.157 --> 00:28:20.497
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4168
00:28:20.497 --> 00:28:20.697
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4169
00:28:20.697 --> 00:28:21.097
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4170
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4171
00:28:21.317 --> 00:28:21.437
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4172
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4173
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4174
00:28:21.997 --> 00:28:22.437
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4175
00:28:23.277 --> 00:28:23.557
Daarom

4176
00:28:23.557 --> 00:28:23.798
bevat

4177
00:28:23.798 --> 00:28:23.918
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4178
00:28:23.918 --> 00:28:24.378
pdf

4179
00:28:24.378 --> 00:28:24.798
twee

4180
00:28:24.798 --> 00:28:25.438
bewegingen.

4181
00:28:25.938 --> 00:28:26.058
De

4182
00:28:26.058 --> 00:28:26.318
eigen

4183
00:28:26.318 --> 00:28:27.138
omstandigheden

4184
00:28:27.138 --> 00:28:27.618
eerlijk

4185
00:28:27.618 --> 00:28:27.978
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4186
00:28:27.978 --> 00:28:28.658
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4187
00:28:28.658 --> 00:28:29.018
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4188
00:28:29.018 --> 00:28:29.379
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4189
00:28:29.379 --> 00:28:29.659
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4190
00:28:29.659 --> 00:28:29.779
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4191
00:28:29.779 --> 00:28:30.419
afwezigheid,

4192
00:28:30.799 --> 00:28:31.119
spanning

4193
00:28:31.119 --> 00:28:31.459
of

4194
00:28:31.459 --> 00:28:31.919
beperkte

4195
00:28:31.919 --> 00:28:32.299
aandacht

4196
00:28:32.299 --> 00:28:32.479
op

4197
00:28:32.479 --> 00:28:32.599
de

4198
00:28:32.599 --> 00:28:32.819
ander

4199
00:28:32.819 --> 00:28:33.039
heeft

4200
00:28:33.039 --> 00:28:33.379
gehad.

4201
00:28:34.239 --> 00:28:34.339
Een

4202
00:28:34.339 --> 00:28:34.699
vijfde

4203
00:28:34.699 --> 00:28:35.120
verandering

4204
00:28:35.120 --> 00:28:35.460
betreft

4205
00:28:35.460 --> 00:28:35.640
het

4206
00:28:35.640 --> 00:28:36.360
levenslogboek.

4207
00:28:37.000 --> 00:28:37.120
Het

4208
00:28:37.120 --> 00:28:37.500
logboek

4209
00:28:37.500 --> 00:28:37.660
is

4210
00:28:37.660 --> 00:28:37.860
niet

4211
00:28:37.860 --> 00:28:38.160
langer

4212
00:28:38.160 --> 00:28:38.380
alleen

4213
00:28:38.380 --> 00:28:38.560
een

4214
00:28:38.560 --> 00:28:39.000
verzameling

4215
00:28:39.000 --> 00:28:39.580
herinneringen,

4216
00:28:39.840 --> 00:28:40.140
dromen

4217
00:28:40.140 --> 00:28:40.401
en

4218
00:28:40.401 --> 00:28:40.761
lessen.

4219
00:28:41.421 --> 00:28:41.521
Het

4220
00:28:41.521 --> 00:28:41.821
krijgt

4221
00:28:41.821 --> 00:28:41.941
een

4222
00:28:41.941 --> 00:28:42.481
methodische

4223
00:28:42.481 --> 00:28:43.021
structuur,

4224
00:28:43.441 --> 00:28:43.781
datum

4225
00:28:43.781 --> 00:28:43.961
en

4226
00:28:43.961 --> 00:28:44.401
context,

4227
00:28:44.721 --> 00:28:45.081
betrokken

4228
00:28:45.081 --> 00:28:45.721
personen,

4229
00:28:46.102 --> 00:28:46.702
waarneembare

4230
00:28:46.702 --> 00:28:47.442
gebeurtenissen,

4231
00:28:48.302 --> 00:28:48.902
perspectieven,

4232
00:28:49.642 --> 00:28:50.002
gevoelens

4233
00:28:50.002 --> 00:28:50.142
en

4234
00:28:50.142 --> 00:28:50.562
gevolgen,

4235
00:28:51.002 --> 00:28:51.162
feiten

4236
00:28:51.162 --> 00:28:51.342
en

4237
00:28:51.342 --> 00:28:51.963
onzekerheden,

4238
00:28:52.603 --> 00:28:52.863
grenzen

4239
00:28:52.863 --> 00:28:53.023
en

4240
00:28:53.023 --> 00:28:53.523
veiligheid,

4241
00:28:54.043 --> 00:28:54.543
afspraken

4242
00:28:54.543 --> 00:28:54.723
en

4243
00:28:54.723 --> 00:28:55.183
toestemming,

4244
00:28:55.483 --> 00:28:56.203
verantwoordelijkheid

4245
00:28:56.203 --> 00:28:56.363
en

4246
00:28:56.363 --> 00:28:56.783
herstel

4247
00:28:56.783 --> 00:28:57.244
en

4248
00:28:57.244 --> 00:28:57.384
een

4249
00:28:57.384 --> 00:28:58.364
evaluatiedatum.

4250
00:28:59.044 --> 00:28:59.244
Dat

4251
00:28:59.244 --> 00:28:59.384
is

4252
00:28:59.384 --> 00:28:59.764
belangrijk

4253
00:28:59.764 --> 00:29:00.104
omdat

4254
00:29:00.104 --> 00:29:00.384
een

4255
00:29:00.384 --> 00:29:00.804
logboek

4256
00:29:00.804 --> 00:29:01.084
anders

4257
00:29:01.084 --> 00:29:01.644
ongemerkt

4258
00:29:01.644 --> 00:29:02.024
een

4259
00:29:02.024 --> 00:29:02.404
bewijsdossier

4260
00:29:02.404 --> 00:29:02.605
van

4261
00:29:02.605 --> 00:29:02.825
één

4262
00:29:02.825 --> 00:29:03.125
persoon

4263
00:29:03.125 --> 00:29:03.305
kan

4264
00:29:03.305 --> 00:29:03.565
worden.

4265
00:29:04.445 --> 00:29:04.725
Wanneer

4266
00:29:04.725 --> 00:29:05.305
waarneming,

4267
00:29:05.525 --> 00:29:05.805
gevoel

4268
00:29:05.805 --> 00:29:06.185
en

4269
00:29:06.185 --> 00:29:06.885
interpretatie

4270
00:29:06.885 --> 00:29:07.065
door

4271
00:29:07.065 --> 00:29:07.325
elkaar

4272
00:29:07.325 --> 00:29:07.665
lopen,

4273
00:29:08.506 --> 00:29:08.646
kan

4274
00:29:08.646 --> 00:29:08.826
een

4275
00:29:08.826 --> 00:29:09.386
persoonlijke

4276
00:29:09.386 --> 00:29:09.886
ervaring

4277
00:29:09.886 --> 00:29:10.526
later

4278
00:29:10.526 --> 00:29:10.906
als

4279
00:29:10.906 --> 00:29:11.406
vaststaand

4280
00:29:11.406 --> 00:29:11.646
feit

4281
00:29:11.646 --> 00:29:11.846
worden

4282
00:29:11.846 --> 00:29:12.246
gelezen.

4283
00:29:12.686 --> 00:29:13.006
De

4284
00:29:13.006 --> 00:29:13.186
nieuwe

4285
00:29:13.186 --> 00:29:13.687
structuur

4286
00:29:13.687 --> 00:29:14.107
voorkomt

4287
00:29:14.107 --> 00:29:14.227
dat

4288
00:29:14.227 --> 00:29:14.407
niet

4289
00:29:14.407 --> 00:29:14.927
volledig.

4290
00:29:15.687 --> 00:29:15.907
Maar

4291
00:29:15.907 --> 00:29:16.187
zij

4292
00:29:16.187 --> 00:29:16.467
maakt

4293
00:29:16.467 --> 00:29:16.567
het

4294
00:29:16.567 --> 00:29:16.887
verschil

4295
00:29:16.887 --> 00:29:17.047
wel

4296
00:29:17.047 --> 00:29:17.787
zichtbaarder.

4297
00:29:18.427 --> 00:29:18.527
Een

4298
00:29:18.527 --> 00:29:18.847
zesde

4299
00:29:18.847 --> 00:29:19.308
verandering

4300
00:29:19.308 --> 00:29:19.668
betreft

4301
00:29:19.668 --> 00:29:19.868
de

4302
00:29:19.868 --> 00:29:20.248
slotzin.

4303
00:29:21.008 --> 00:29:21.188
De

4304
00:29:21.188 --> 00:29:21.848
oorspronkelijke

4305
00:29:21.848 --> 00:29:22.088
zin

4306
00:29:22.088 --> 00:29:22.448
draaide

4307
00:29:22.448 --> 00:29:22.668
om

4308
00:29:22.668 --> 00:29:22.868
iedere

4309
00:29:22.868 --> 00:29:23.128
dag

4310
00:29:23.128 --> 00:29:23.468
opnieuw

4311
00:29:23.468 --> 00:29:23.648
voor

4312
00:29:23.648 --> 00:29:23.928
elkaar

4313
00:29:23.928 --> 00:29:24.288
kiezen.

4314
00:29:25.029 --> 00:29:25.149
Dat

4315
00:29:25.149 --> 00:29:25.329
kan

4316
00:29:25.329 --> 00:29:25.829
liefdevol

4317
00:29:25.829 --> 00:29:26.189
klinken.

4318
00:29:27.049 --> 00:29:27.249
Maar

4319
00:29:27.249 --> 00:29:27.429
in

4320
00:29:27.429 --> 00:29:27.589
een

4321
00:29:27.589 --> 00:29:28.109
onveilige

4322
00:29:28.109 --> 00:29:28.289
of

4323
00:29:28.289 --> 00:29:29.109
ongelijkwaardige

4324
00:29:29.109 --> 00:29:29.589
relatie

4325
00:29:29.589 --> 00:29:29.989
kan

4326
00:29:29.989 --> 00:29:30.150
die

4327
00:29:30.150 --> 00:29:30.290
zin

4328
00:29:30.290 --> 00:29:30.590
ook

4329
00:29:30.590 --> 00:29:30.810
druk

4330
00:29:30.810 --> 00:29:31.450
veroorzaken.

4331
00:29:32.210 --> 00:29:32.330
De

4332
00:29:32.330 --> 00:29:32.530
nieuwe

4333
00:29:32.530 --> 00:29:32.930
richting

4334
00:29:32.930 --> 00:29:33.230
luidt

4335
00:29:33.230 --> 00:29:33.690
daarom.

4336
00:29:34.070 --> 00:29:34.390
Vandaag

4337
00:29:34.390 --> 00:29:34.630
kiezen

4338
00:29:34.630 --> 00:29:34.830
wij

4339
00:29:34.830 --> 00:29:35.190
opnieuw

4340
00:29:35.190 --> 00:29:35.390
voor

4341
00:29:35.390 --> 00:29:36.231
menswaardigheid,

4342
00:29:36.651 --> 00:29:37.091
in

4343
00:29:37.091 --> 00:29:37.651
verbondenheid

4344
00:29:37.651 --> 00:29:37.811
waar

4345
00:29:37.811 --> 00:29:37.931
het

4346
00:29:37.931 --> 00:29:38.131
kan,

4347
00:29:38.631 --> 00:29:38.771
met

4348
00:29:38.771 --> 00:29:39.131
grenzen

4349
00:29:39.131 --> 00:29:39.291
waar

4350
00:29:39.291 --> 00:29:39.411
het

4351
00:29:39.411 --> 00:29:39.591
moet

4352
00:29:39.591 --> 00:29:40.531
en

4353
00:29:40.531 --> 00:29:40.691
met

4354
00:29:40.691 --> 00:29:41.071
herstel

4355
00:29:41.071 --> 00:29:41.272
waar

4356
00:29:41.272 --> 00:29:41.492
dat

4357
00:29:41.492 --> 00:29:41.952
veilig

4358
00:29:41.952 --> 00:29:42.152
en

4359
00:29:42.152 --> 00:29:42.592
vrijwillig

4360
00:29:42.592 --> 00:29:42.872
mogelijk

4361
00:29:42.872 --> 00:29:43.172
is.

4362
00:29:43.512 --> 00:29:43.732
Deze

4363
00:29:43.732 --> 00:29:44.012
zin

4364
00:29:44.012 --> 00:29:44.692
belooft

4365
00:29:44.692 --> 00:29:44.912
geen

4366
00:29:44.912 --> 00:29:45.372
verplichte

4367
00:29:45.372 --> 00:29:45.932
nabijheid.

4368
00:29:46.612 --> 00:29:46.712
Zij

4369
00:29:46.712 --> 00:29:47.013
houdt

4370
00:29:47.013 --> 00:29:47.293
ruimte

4371
00:29:47.293 --> 00:29:47.493
voor

4372
00:29:47.493 --> 00:29:47.893
herstel,

4373
00:29:48.453 --> 00:29:48.573
maar

4374
00:29:48.573 --> 00:29:48.813
ook

4375
00:29:48.813 --> 00:29:49.013
voor

4376
00:29:49.013 --> 00:29:49.453
afstand.

4377
00:29:49.933 --> 00:29:50.033
De

4378
00:29:50.033 --> 00:29:50.473
werkzame

4379
00:29:50.473 --> 00:29:50.873
effecten

4380
00:29:50.873 --> 00:29:51.033
van

4381
00:29:51.033 --> 00:29:51.273
deze

4382
00:29:51.273 --> 00:29:51.753
benadering,

4383
00:29:52.173 --> 00:29:52.414
wanneer

4384
00:29:52.414 --> 00:29:53.074
relationele

4385
00:29:53.074 --> 00:29:53.854
legitimiteit

4386
00:29:53.854 --> 00:29:54.514
zorgvuldig

4387
00:29:54.514 --> 00:29:54.674
wordt

4388
00:29:54.674 --> 00:29:55.214
toegepast,

4389
00:29:55.894 --> 00:29:56.034
kan

4390
00:29:56.034 --> 00:29:56.194
zij

4391
00:29:56.194 --> 00:29:56.694
verschillende

4392
00:29:56.694 --> 00:29:57.234
positieve

4393
00:29:57.234 --> 00:29:57.714
effecten

4394
00:29:57.714 --> 00:29:57.935
hebben.

4395
00:29:58.635 --> 00:29:58.755
Het

4396
00:29:58.755 --> 00:29:59.055
eerste

4397
00:29:59.055 --> 00:29:59.435
effect

4398
00:29:59.435 --> 00:29:59.655
is

4399
00:29:59.655 --> 00:30:00.175
vertraging

4400
00:30:00.175 --> 00:30:00.395
op

4401
00:30:00.395 --> 00:30:00.515
het

4402
00:30:00.515 --> 00:30:00.795
juiste

4403
00:30:00.795 --> 00:30:01.175
moment.

4404
00:30:01.915 --> 00:30:02.075
Niet

4405
00:30:02.075 --> 00:30:02.315
alle

4406
00:30:02.315 --> 00:30:02.815
vertraging

4407
00:30:02.815 --> 00:30:02.975
is

4408
00:30:02.975 --> 00:30:03.155
goed.

4409
00:30:03.956 --> 00:30:04.096
Bij

4410
00:30:04.096 --> 00:30:04.416
acute

4411
00:30:04.416 --> 00:30:05.116
onveiligheid

4412
00:30:05.116 --> 00:30:05.296
moet

4413
00:30:05.296 --> 00:30:05.516
snel

4414
00:30:05.516 --> 00:30:05.716
worden

4415
00:30:05.716 --> 00:30:06.395
gehandeld.

4416
00:30:06.936 --> 00:30:07.076
Maar

4417
00:30:07.076 --> 00:30:07.276
veel

4418
00:30:07.276 --> 00:30:07.796
conflicten

4419
00:30:07.796 --> 00:30:07.976
worden

4420
00:30:07.976 --> 00:30:08.336
erger

4421
00:30:08.336 --> 00:30:08.676
doordat

4422
00:30:08.676 --> 00:30:09.017
mensen

4423
00:30:09.017 --> 00:30:09.277
te

4424
00:30:09.277 --> 00:30:09.557
snel

4425
00:30:09.557 --> 00:30:09.757
van

4426
00:30:09.757 --> 00:30:10.177
emotie

4427
00:30:10.177 --> 00:30:10.337
naar

4428
00:30:10.337 --> 00:30:10.797
conclusies

4429
00:30:10.797 --> 00:30:11.117
brengen.

4430
00:30:11.877 --> 00:30:11.997
Het

4431
00:30:11.997 --> 00:30:12.377
kompas

4432
00:30:12.377 --> 00:30:12.677
helpt

4433
00:30:12.677 --> 00:30:12.857
om

4434
00:30:12.857 --> 00:30:13.057
eerst

4435
00:30:13.057 --> 00:30:13.297
vast

4436
00:30:13.297 --> 00:30:13.437
te

4437
00:30:13.437 --> 00:30:13.657
stellen,

4438
00:30:14.337 --> 00:30:14.518
wat

4439
00:30:14.518 --> 00:30:14.818
weten

4440
00:30:14.818 --> 00:30:15.018
we,

4441
00:30:15.658 --> 00:30:15.918
wat

4442
00:30:15.918 --> 00:30:16.358
ervaren

4443
00:30:16.358 --> 00:30:16.558
we,

4444
00:30:16.818 --> 00:30:16.918
wat

4445
00:30:16.918 --> 00:30:17.618
interpreteren

4446
00:30:17.618 --> 00:30:17.778
we,

4447
00:30:18.058 --> 00:30:18.238
wat

4448
00:30:18.238 --> 00:30:18.378
is

4449
00:30:18.378 --> 00:30:18.538
nog

4450
00:30:18.538 --> 00:30:19.058
onzeker,

4451
00:30:19.298 --> 00:30:19.578
welke

4452
00:30:19.578 --> 00:30:19.898
grens

4453
00:30:19.898 --> 00:30:20.179
geldt

4454
00:30:20.179 --> 00:30:20.339
nu,

4455
00:30:20.899 --> 00:30:21.039
en

4456
00:30:21.039 --> 00:30:21.319
wanneer

4457
00:30:21.319 --> 00:30:21.779
onderzoeken

4458
00:30:21.779 --> 00:30:21.939
we

4459
00:30:21.939 --> 00:30:22.059
de

4460
00:30:22.059 --> 00:30:22.298
rest?

4461
00:30:23.119 --> 00:30:23.279
Een

4462
00:30:23.279 --> 00:30:23.579
tweede

4463
00:30:23.579 --> 00:30:23.839
effect

4464
00:30:23.839 --> 00:30:24.079
is

4465
00:30:24.079 --> 00:30:24.259
dat

4466
00:30:24.259 --> 00:30:24.699
erkenning

4467
00:30:24.699 --> 00:30:24.879
en

4468
00:30:24.879 --> 00:30:25.139
feiten

4469
00:30:25.139 --> 00:30:25.439
niet

4470
00:30:25.439 --> 00:30:25.780
langer

4471
00:30:25.780 --> 00:30:26.080
als

4472
00:30:26.080 --> 00:30:26.680
tegenpolen

4473
00:30:26.680 --> 00:30:26.940
worden

4474
00:30:26.940 --> 00:30:27.440
behandeld.

4475
00:30:27.940 --> 00:30:28.140
Iemand

4476
00:30:28.140 --> 00:30:28.360
kan

4477
00:30:28.360 --> 00:30:28.640
zeggen,

4478
00:30:29.060 --> 00:30:29.260
ik

4479
00:30:29.260 --> 00:30:29.520
herken

4480
00:30:29.520 --> 00:30:29.700
dat

4481
00:30:29.700 --> 00:30:29.860
dit

4482
00:30:29.860 --> 00:30:30.080
jouw

4483
00:30:30.080 --> 00:30:30.240
pijn

4484
00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:30.460
heeft

4485
00:30:30.460 --> 00:30:30.740
gedaan,

4486
00:30:31.241 --> 00:30:31.341
en

4487
00:30:31.341 --> 00:30:32.041
tegelijkertijd,

4488
00:30:32.521 --> 00:30:32.701
ik

4489
00:30:32.701 --> 00:30:33.001
herinner

4490
00:30:33.001 --> 00:30:33.241
mij

4491
00:30:33.241 --> 00:30:33.701
bepaalde

4492
00:30:33.701 --> 00:30:33.961
feiten

4493
00:30:33.961 --> 00:30:34.341
anders.

4494
00:30:35.101 --> 00:30:35.281
Dat

4495
00:30:35.281 --> 00:30:35.481
maakt

4496
00:30:35.481 --> 00:30:35.621
het

4497
00:30:35.621 --> 00:30:35.881
mogelijk

4498
00:30:35.881 --> 00:30:36.121
om

4499
00:30:36.121 --> 00:30:36.762
emotionele

4500
00:30:36.762 --> 00:30:37.322
werkelijkheid

4501
00:30:37.322 --> 00:30:37.742
serieus

4502
00:30:37.742 --> 00:30:37.882
te

4503
00:30:37.882 --> 00:30:38.122
nemen,

4504
00:30:38.542 --> 00:30:38.722
zonder

4505
00:30:38.722 --> 00:30:39.342
zorgvuldige

4506
00:30:39.342 --> 00:30:40.002
waarheidsvinding

4507
00:30:40.002 --> 00:30:40.182
op

4508
00:30:40.182 --> 00:30:40.282
te

4509
00:30:40.282 --> 00:30:40.522
geven.

4510
00:30:41.162 --> 00:30:41.302
Een

4511
00:30:41.302 --> 00:30:41.582
derde

4512
00:30:41.582 --> 00:30:41.942
effect

4513
00:30:41.942 --> 00:30:42.523
is

4514
00:30:42.523 --> 00:30:42.763
dat

4515
00:30:42.763 --> 00:30:43.223
macht

4516
00:30:43.223 --> 00:30:44.023
zichtbaarder

4517
00:30:44.023 --> 00:30:44.243
wordt.

4518
00:30:44.623 --> 00:30:44.943
Wie

4519
00:30:44.943 --> 00:30:45.443
bepaalt,

4520
00:30:45.883 --> 00:30:46.543
wie

4521
00:30:46.543 --> 00:30:46.863
maakt

4522
00:30:46.863 --> 00:30:46.983
het

4523
00:30:46.983 --> 00:30:47.403
verslag,

4524
00:30:48.104 --> 00:30:48.224
wie

4525
00:30:48.224 --> 00:30:48.424
kan

4526
00:30:48.424 --> 00:30:48.564
een

4527
00:30:48.564 --> 00:30:49.104
maatregel

4528
00:30:49.104 --> 00:30:50.004
opleggen,

4529
00:30:50.124 --> 00:30:50.224
wie

4530
00:30:50.224 --> 00:30:50.444
heeft

4531
00:30:50.444 --> 00:30:50.824
toegang

4532
00:30:50.824 --> 00:30:51.024
tot

4533
00:30:51.024 --> 00:30:51.644
informatie,

4534
00:30:52.244 --> 00:30:52.364
wie

4535
00:30:52.364 --> 00:30:52.704
draagt

4536
00:30:52.704 --> 00:30:52.864
de

4537
00:30:52.864 --> 00:30:53.365
praktische

4538
00:30:53.365 --> 00:30:53.565
en

4539
00:30:53.565 --> 00:30:54.245
emotionele

4540
00:30:54.245 --> 00:30:54.805
gevolgen.

4541
00:30:55.485 --> 00:30:55.585
Door

4542
00:30:55.585 --> 00:30:55.744
die

4543
00:30:55.744 --> 00:30:56.065
vragen

4544
00:30:56.065 --> 00:30:56.225
te

4545
00:30:56.225 --> 00:30:56.485
stellen

4546
00:30:56.485 --> 00:30:56.725
wordt

4547
00:30:56.725 --> 00:30:56.885
een

4548
00:30:56.885 --> 00:30:57.265
gesprek

4549
00:30:57.265 --> 00:30:57.505
niet

4550
00:30:57.505 --> 00:30:58.125
automatisch

4551
00:30:58.125 --> 00:30:58.485
gelijk,

4552
00:30:58.986 --> 00:30:59.406
maar

4553
00:30:59.406 --> 00:31:00.066
ongelijkheid

4554
00:31:00.066 --> 00:31:00.306
wordt

4555
00:31:00.306 --> 00:31:00.566
minder

4556
00:31:00.566 --> 00:31:01.026
gemakkelijk

4557
00:31:01.026 --> 00:31:01.906
verborgen.

4558
00:31:02.286 --> 00:31:02.386
Een

4559
00:31:02.386 --> 00:31:02.726
vierde

4560
00:31:02.726 --> 00:31:02.986
effect

4561
00:31:02.986 --> 00:31:03.246
is

4562
00:31:03.246 --> 00:31:03.646
dat

4563
00:31:03.646 --> 00:31:04.006
grenzen

4564
00:31:04.006 --> 00:31:04.226
minder

4565
00:31:04.226 --> 00:31:04.547
snel

4566
00:31:04.547 --> 00:31:04.767
als

4567
00:31:04.767 --> 00:31:05.327
afwijzing

4568
00:31:05.327 --> 00:31:05.547
worden

4569
00:31:05.547 --> 00:31:05.867
gezien.

4570
00:31:06.627 --> 00:31:06.767
Een

4571
00:31:06.767 --> 00:31:07.087
grens

4572
00:31:07.087 --> 00:31:07.247
kan

4573
00:31:07.247 --> 00:31:07.447
worden

4574
00:31:07.447 --> 00:31:08.147
uitgelegd,

4575
00:31:08.667 --> 00:31:08.867
het

4576
00:31:08.867 --> 00:31:09.087
doel

4577
00:31:09.087 --> 00:31:09.327
kan

4578
00:31:09.327 --> 00:31:09.547
worden

4579
00:31:09.547 --> 00:31:10.088
benoemd,

4580
00:31:10.528 --> 00:31:10.728
de

4581
00:31:10.728 --> 00:31:10.948
duur

4582
00:31:10.948 --> 00:31:11.148
kan

4583
00:31:11.148 --> 00:31:11.408
worden

4584
00:31:11.408 --> 00:31:12.048
afgesproken,

4585
00:31:12.348 --> 00:31:12.668
er

4586
00:31:12.668 --> 00:31:12.848
kan

4587
00:31:12.848 --> 00:31:13.048
een

4588
00:31:13.048 --> 00:31:14.028
evaluatiemoment

4589
00:31:14.028 --> 00:31:14.308
komen

4590
00:31:14.308 --> 00:31:14.828
en

4591
00:31:14.828 --> 00:31:14.988
er

4592
00:31:14.988 --> 00:31:15.148
kan

4593
00:31:15.148 --> 00:31:15.429
worden

4594
00:31:15.429 --> 00:31:15.849
gezocht

4595
00:31:15.849 --> 00:31:16.129
naar

4596
00:31:16.129 --> 00:31:16.669
alternatieve

4597
00:31:16.669 --> 00:31:17.229
steun.

4598
00:31:17.529 --> 00:31:17.629
Een

4599
00:31:17.629 --> 00:31:17.969
vijfde

4600
00:31:17.969 --> 00:31:18.229
effect

4601
00:31:18.229 --> 00:31:18.509
is

4602
00:31:18.509 --> 00:31:18.969
dat

4603
00:31:18.969 --> 00:31:19.709
verantwoordelijkheid

4604
00:31:19.709 --> 00:31:20.169
concreter

4605
00:31:20.169 --> 00:31:20.409
wordt,

4606
00:31:20.829 --> 00:31:20.990
niet

4607
00:31:20.990 --> 00:31:21.210
we

4608
00:31:21.210 --> 00:31:21.370
moeten

4609
00:31:21.370 --> 00:31:21.690
beter

4610
00:31:21.690 --> 00:31:22.330
communiceren.

4611
00:31:23.190 --> 00:31:23.390
Maar,

4612
00:31:23.950 --> 00:31:24.330
ik

4613
00:31:24.330 --> 00:31:24.610
stuur

4614
00:31:24.610 --> 00:31:24.770
de

4615
00:31:24.770 --> 00:31:25.130
afspraak

4616
00:31:25.130 --> 00:31:25.390
morgen

4617
00:31:25.390 --> 00:31:25.830
schriftelijk,

4618
00:31:26.170 --> 00:31:26.270
jij

4619
00:31:26.270 --> 00:31:26.591
geeft

4620
00:31:26.591 --> 00:31:27.011
voor

4621
00:31:27.011 --> 00:31:27.491
vrijdag

4622
00:31:27.491 --> 00:31:27.631
aan

4623
00:31:27.631 --> 00:31:27.791
of

4624
00:31:27.791 --> 00:31:27.911
de

4625
00:31:27.911 --> 00:31:28.331
weergave

4626
00:31:28.331 --> 00:31:28.671
klopt.

4627
00:31:29.471 --> 00:31:29.771
De

4628
00:31:29.771 --> 00:31:30.291
professional

4629
00:31:30.291 --> 00:31:30.871
corrigeert

4630
00:31:30.871 --> 00:31:31.331
feitelijke

4631
00:31:31.331 --> 00:31:31.731
fouten

4632
00:31:31.731 --> 00:31:31.891
in

4633
00:31:31.891 --> 00:31:31.991
het

4634
00:31:31.991 --> 00:31:32.312
dossier,

4635
00:31:32.992 --> 00:31:33.232
het

4636
00:31:33.232 --> 00:31:33.592
gesprek

4637
00:31:33.592 --> 00:31:33.932
stopt

4638
00:31:33.932 --> 00:31:34.152
wanneer

4639
00:31:34.152 --> 00:31:34.312
wordt

4640
00:31:34.312 --> 00:31:34.792
gescholden.

4641
00:31:35.552 --> 00:31:35.692
Over

4642
00:31:35.692 --> 00:31:35.952
twee

4643
00:31:35.952 --> 00:31:36.272
weken

4644
00:31:36.272 --> 00:31:36.872
beoordelen

4645
00:31:36.872 --> 00:31:37.092
we

4646
00:31:37.092 --> 00:31:37.432
of

4647
00:31:37.432 --> 00:31:37.573
de

4648
00:31:37.573 --> 00:31:38.053
maatregel

4649
00:31:38.053 --> 00:31:38.253
nog

4650
00:31:38.253 --> 00:31:38.493
nodig

4651
00:31:38.493 --> 00:31:38.753
is.

4652
00:31:38.753 --> 00:31:39.713
Een

4653
00:31:39.713 --> 00:31:40.053
zesde

4654
00:31:40.053 --> 00:31:40.313
effect

4655
00:31:40.313 --> 00:31:40.573
is

4656
00:31:40.573 --> 00:31:40.733
dat

4657
00:31:40.733 --> 00:31:41.073
herstel

4658
00:31:41.073 --> 00:31:41.293
niet

4659
00:31:41.293 --> 00:31:41.513
wordt

4660
00:31:41.513 --> 00:31:41.873
verward

4661
00:31:41.873 --> 00:31:42.213
met

4662
00:31:42.213 --> 00:31:42.773
terugkeer

4663
00:31:42.773 --> 00:31:42.933
naar

4664
00:31:42.933 --> 00:31:43.274
vroeger.

4665
00:31:44.114 --> 00:31:44.314
Soms

4666
00:31:44.314 --> 00:31:44.554
is

4667
00:31:44.554 --> 00:31:44.674
het

4668
00:31:44.674 --> 00:31:44.934
meest

4669
00:31:44.934 --> 00:31:45.494
zorgvuldige

4670
00:31:45.494 --> 00:31:45.934
herstel

4671
00:31:45.934 --> 00:31:46.274
een

4672
00:31:46.274 --> 00:31:46.474
nieuwe

4673
00:31:46.474 --> 00:31:46.754
vorm

4674
00:31:46.754 --> 00:31:46.994
van

4675
00:31:46.994 --> 00:31:47.394
contact,

4676
00:31:47.774 --> 00:31:48.354
soms

4677
00:31:48.354 --> 00:31:48.514
is

4678
00:31:48.514 --> 00:31:48.614
het

4679
00:31:48.614 --> 00:31:48.775
een

4680
00:31:48.775 --> 00:31:49.155
duidelijke

4681
00:31:49.155 --> 00:31:49.655
afronding,

4682
00:31:50.135 --> 00:31:50.315
soms

4683
00:31:50.315 --> 00:31:50.455
een

4684
00:31:50.455 --> 00:31:50.915
excuus,

4685
00:31:51.355 --> 00:31:51.535
soms

4686
00:31:51.535 --> 00:31:51.675
een

4687
00:31:51.675 --> 00:31:52.495
dossiercorrectie,

4688
00:31:52.975 --> 00:31:53.155
soms

4689
00:31:53.155 --> 00:31:53.695
financiële

4690
00:31:53.695 --> 00:31:54.356
compensatie,

4691
00:31:54.936 --> 00:31:55.076
soms

4692
00:31:55.076 --> 00:31:55.256
een

4693
00:31:55.256 --> 00:31:55.796
overdracht

4694
00:31:55.796 --> 00:31:56.056
naar

4695
00:31:56.056 --> 00:31:56.196
een

4696
00:31:56.196 --> 00:31:56.416
andere

4697
00:31:56.416 --> 00:31:56.956
professional

4698
00:31:56.956 --> 00:31:57.656
en

4699
00:31:57.656 --> 00:31:57.916
soms

4700
00:31:57.916 --> 00:31:58.275
veilige

4701
00:31:58.275 --> 00:31:58.676
afstand.

4702
00:31:59.555 --> 00:31:59.957
Mogelijke

4703
00:31:59.957 --> 00:32:00.656
bijwerkingen

4704
00:32:00.656 --> 00:32:00.877
en

4705
00:32:00.877 --> 00:32:01.357
risico's

4706
00:32:01.357 --> 00:32:01.617
ieder

4707
00:32:01.617 --> 00:32:02.057
instrument

4708
00:32:02.057 --> 00:32:02.337
kan

4709
00:32:02.337 --> 00:32:02.737
verkeerd

4710
00:32:02.737 --> 00:32:02.997
worden

4711
00:32:02.997 --> 00:32:03.497
gebruikt,

4712
00:32:04.077 --> 00:32:04.217
ook

4713
00:32:04.217 --> 00:32:04.377
een

4714
00:32:04.377 --> 00:32:04.777
instrument

4715
00:32:04.777 --> 00:32:05.077
dat

4716
00:32:05.077 --> 00:32:05.197
is

4717
00:32:05.197 --> 00:32:05.698
ontwikkeld

4718
00:32:05.698 --> 00:32:05.918
om

4719
00:32:05.918 --> 00:32:06.198
schade

4720
00:32:06.198 --> 00:32:06.378
te

4721
00:32:06.378 --> 00:32:06.838
beperken.

4722
00:32:07.358 --> 00:32:07.738
Een

4723
00:32:07.738 --> 00:32:08.058
eerste

4724
00:32:08.058 --> 00:32:08.478
risico

4725
00:32:08.478 --> 00:32:08.798
is

4726
00:32:08.798 --> 00:32:09.838
bureaucratisering.

4727
00:32:10.438 --> 00:32:10.578
Het

4728
00:32:10.578 --> 00:32:11.859
Ubuntu-relatiekompas

4729
00:32:11.859 --> 00:32:12.099
kan

4730
00:32:12.099 --> 00:32:12.599
veranderen

4731
00:32:12.599 --> 00:32:12.739
in

4732
00:32:12.739 --> 00:32:12.859
een

4733
00:32:12.859 --> 00:32:13.019
nieuwe

4734
00:32:13.019 --> 00:32:13.719
vragenlijst,

4735
00:32:14.039 --> 00:32:14.159
die

4736
00:32:14.159 --> 00:32:14.579
haastig

4737
00:32:14.579 --> 00:32:14.739
wordt

4738
00:32:14.739 --> 00:32:15.259
ingevuld.

4739
00:32:15.819 --> 00:32:16.019
Dan

4740
00:32:16.019 --> 00:32:16.480
ontstaat

4741
00:32:16.480 --> 00:32:17.540
schijnzorgvuldigheid.

4742
00:32:18.200 --> 00:32:18.340
Het

4743
00:32:18.340 --> 00:32:18.760
formulier

4744
00:32:18.760 --> 00:32:19.060
is

4745
00:32:19.060 --> 00:32:19.680
compleet,

4746
00:32:20.060 --> 00:32:20.220
maar

4747
00:32:20.220 --> 00:32:20.580
niemand

4748
00:32:20.580 --> 00:32:20.840
is

4749
00:32:20.840 --> 00:32:21.140
werkelijk

4750
00:32:21.140 --> 00:32:21.540
gehoord.

4751
00:32:22.161 --> 00:32:22.481
Daarom

4752
00:32:22.481 --> 00:32:22.621
moet

4753
00:32:22.621 --> 00:32:23.061
toepassing

4754
00:32:23.061 --> 00:32:23.821
proportioneel

4755
00:32:23.821 --> 00:32:24.021
zijn.

4756
00:32:24.601 --> 00:32:24.761
Niet

4757
00:32:24.761 --> 00:32:25.081
iedere

4758
00:32:25.081 --> 00:32:25.441
kleine

4759
00:32:25.441 --> 00:32:25.921
beslissing

4760
00:32:25.921 --> 00:32:26.281
vraagt

4761
00:32:26.281 --> 00:32:26.721
om

4762
00:32:26.721 --> 00:32:26.861
een

4763
00:32:26.861 --> 00:32:27.422
uitgebreid

4764
00:32:27.422 --> 00:32:27.802
rapport.

4765
00:32:28.702 --> 00:32:28.802
Bij

4766
00:32:28.802 --> 00:32:29.442
ingrijpende,

4767
00:32:29.682 --> 00:32:30.222
langdurige

4768
00:32:30.222 --> 00:32:30.442
of

4769
00:32:30.442 --> 00:32:30.802
moeilijk

4770
00:32:30.802 --> 00:32:31.462
omkeerbare

4771
00:32:31.462 --> 00:32:31.922
besluiten

4772
00:32:31.922 --> 00:32:32.482
is

4773
00:32:32.482 --> 00:32:32.882
diepere

4774
00:32:32.882 --> 00:32:33.383
reflectie

4775
00:32:33.383 --> 00:32:33.583
wel

4776
00:32:33.583 --> 00:32:33.943
passend.

4777
00:32:33.943 --> 00:32:34.823
Een

4778
00:32:34.823 --> 00:32:35.103
tweede

4779
00:32:35.103 --> 00:32:35.483
risico

4780
00:32:35.483 --> 00:32:35.663
is

4781
00:32:35.663 --> 00:32:36.023
gedwongen

4782
00:32:36.023 --> 00:32:36.423
verzoening.

4783
00:32:36.983 --> 00:32:37.383
Ubuntu,

4784
00:32:37.903 --> 00:32:38.303
herstel

4785
00:32:38.303 --> 00:32:38.483
en

4786
00:32:38.483 --> 00:32:39.084
verbondenheid

4787
00:32:39.084 --> 00:32:39.264
kunnen

4788
00:32:39.264 --> 00:32:39.504
worden

4789
00:32:39.504 --> 00:32:39.964
gebruikt

4790
00:32:39.964 --> 00:32:40.224
om

4791
00:32:40.224 --> 00:32:40.524
iemand

4792
00:32:40.524 --> 00:32:40.824
onder

4793
00:32:40.824 --> 00:32:41.024
druk

4794
00:32:41.024 --> 00:32:41.164
te

4795
00:32:41.164 --> 00:32:41.424
zetten.

4796
00:32:42.084 --> 00:32:42.584
Bijvoorbeeld,

4797
00:32:43.124 --> 00:32:43.344
denk

4798
00:32:43.344 --> 00:32:43.564
aan

4799
00:32:43.564 --> 00:32:43.704
het

4800
00:32:43.704 --> 00:32:44.004
gezin.

4801
00:32:44.485 --> 00:32:44.585
Je

4802
00:32:44.585 --> 00:32:44.725
moet

4803
00:32:44.725 --> 00:32:44.965
leren

4804
00:32:44.965 --> 00:32:45.465
vergeven.

4805
00:32:45.905 --> 00:32:46.005
Het

4806
00:32:46.005 --> 00:32:46.145
is

4807
00:32:46.145 --> 00:32:46.325
voor

4808
00:32:46.325 --> 00:32:46.805
iedereen

4809
00:32:46.805 --> 00:32:47.185
beter

4810
00:32:47.185 --> 00:32:47.465
als

4811
00:32:47.465 --> 00:32:47.645
jullie

4812
00:32:47.645 --> 00:32:47.865
weer

4813
00:32:47.865 --> 00:32:48.125
samen

4814
00:32:48.125 --> 00:32:48.505
praten.

4815
00:32:48.905 --> 00:32:49.005
Dat

4816
00:32:49.005 --> 00:32:49.205
is

4817
00:32:49.205 --> 00:32:50.146
relationeel

4818
00:32:50.146 --> 00:32:51.046
onzorgvuldig

4819
00:32:51.046 --> 00:32:51.506
wanneer

4820
00:32:51.506 --> 00:32:52.106
veiligheid,

4821
00:32:52.426 --> 00:32:53.126
vrijwilligheid

4822
00:32:53.126 --> 00:32:53.546
of

4823
00:32:53.546 --> 00:32:54.426
machtsbalans

4824
00:32:54.426 --> 00:32:55.066
ontbreekt.

4825
00:32:55.167 --> 00:32:55.287
Een

4826
00:32:55.287 --> 00:32:55.767
slachtoffer

4827
00:32:55.767 --> 00:32:55.907
mag

4828
00:32:55.907 --> 00:32:56.127
nee

4829
00:32:56.127 --> 00:32:56.407
zeggen.

4830
00:32:57.207 --> 00:32:57.327
Een

4831
00:32:57.327 --> 00:32:57.587
kind

4832
00:32:57.587 --> 00:32:57.867
mag

4833
00:32:57.867 --> 00:32:58.067
niet

4834
00:32:58.067 --> 00:32:58.607
verantwoordelijk

4835
00:32:58.607 --> 00:32:58.827
worden

4836
00:32:58.827 --> 00:32:59.207
gemaakt

4837
00:32:59.207 --> 00:32:59.427
voor

4838
00:32:59.427 --> 00:33:00.167
gezinsherstel.

4839
00:33:00.948 --> 00:33:01.128
Een

4840
00:33:01.128 --> 00:33:01.388
burger

4841
00:33:01.388 --> 00:33:01.648
mag

4842
00:33:01.648 --> 00:33:01.808
een

4843
00:33:01.808 --> 00:33:02.308
juridische

4844
00:33:02.308 --> 00:33:02.808
procedure

4845
00:33:02.808 --> 00:33:03.308
gebruiken.

4846
00:33:03.688 --> 00:33:04.068
Een

4847
00:33:04.068 --> 00:33:04.848
professionele

4848
00:33:04.848 --> 00:33:05.228
grens

4849
00:33:05.228 --> 00:33:05.468
mag

4850
00:33:05.468 --> 00:33:05.848
blijven

4851
00:33:05.848 --> 00:33:06.128
staan.

4852
00:33:06.749 --> 00:33:06.849
Een

4853
00:33:06.849 --> 00:33:07.149
derde

4854
00:33:07.149 --> 00:33:07.589
risico

4855
00:33:07.589 --> 00:33:08.049
is

4856
00:33:08.049 --> 00:33:08.429
valse

4857
00:33:08.429 --> 00:33:09.049
gelijkstelling.

4858
00:33:09.649 --> 00:33:09.869
Wanneer

4859
00:33:09.869 --> 00:33:10.089
twee

4860
00:33:10.089 --> 00:33:10.689
perspectieven

4861
00:33:10.689 --> 00:33:10.949
worden

4862
00:33:10.949 --> 00:33:11.349
gehoord,

4863
00:33:11.729 --> 00:33:12.130
betekent

4864
00:33:12.130 --> 00:33:12.350
dat

4865
00:33:12.350 --> 00:33:12.550
niet

4866
00:33:12.550 --> 00:33:12.770
dat

4867
00:33:12.770 --> 00:33:13.010
beide

4868
00:33:13.010 --> 00:33:13.570
partijen

4869
00:33:13.570 --> 00:33:14.170
evenveel

4870
00:33:14.170 --> 00:33:14.930
verantwoordelijkheid

4871
00:33:14.930 --> 00:33:15.290
dragen.

4872
00:33:15.890 --> 00:33:16.030
Bij

4873
00:33:16.030 --> 00:33:16.450
geweld,

4874
00:33:16.890 --> 00:33:17.110
dwang,

4875
00:33:18.011 --> 00:33:18.771
intimidatie

4876
00:33:18.771 --> 00:33:18.951
of

4877
00:33:18.951 --> 00:33:19.451
misbruik

4878
00:33:19.451 --> 00:33:19.651
mag

4879
00:33:19.651 --> 00:33:20.271
relationele

4880
00:33:20.271 --> 00:33:20.551
taal

4881
00:33:20.551 --> 00:33:20.711
niet

4882
00:33:20.711 --> 00:33:21.111
verhullen

4883
00:33:21.111 --> 00:33:21.651
wie

4884
00:33:21.651 --> 00:33:21.991
welke

4885
00:33:21.991 --> 00:33:22.351
handeling

4886
00:33:22.351 --> 00:33:22.611
heeft

4887
00:33:22.611 --> 00:33:22.992
verricht.

4888
00:33:23.532 --> 00:33:24.292
Erkenning

4889
00:33:24.292 --> 00:33:24.512
van

4890
00:33:24.512 --> 00:33:25.072
meervoudige

4891
00:33:25.072 --> 00:33:25.792
perspectieven

4892
00:33:25.792 --> 00:33:26.352
is

4893
00:33:26.352 --> 00:33:26.732
iets

4894
00:33:26.732 --> 00:33:27.032
anders

4895
00:33:27.032 --> 00:33:27.232
dan

4896
00:33:27.232 --> 00:33:27.372
het

4897
00:33:27.372 --> 00:33:27.672
gelijk

4898
00:33:27.672 --> 00:33:28.032
verdelen

4899
00:33:28.032 --> 00:33:28.232
van

4900
00:33:28.232 --> 00:33:28.553
schuld.

4901
00:33:29.053 --> 00:33:29.293
Een

4902
00:33:29.293 --> 00:33:29.573
vierde

4903
00:33:29.573 --> 00:33:29.893
risico

4904
00:33:29.893 --> 00:33:30.073
is

4905
00:33:30.073 --> 00:33:30.633
overmatige

4906
00:33:30.633 --> 00:33:31.633
gegevensverzameling.

4907
00:33:31.953 --> 00:33:32.273
Een

4908
00:33:32.273 --> 00:33:32.813
relationeel

4909
00:33:32.813 --> 00:33:33.213
netwerk

4910
00:33:33.213 --> 00:33:33.533
bevat

4911
00:33:33.533 --> 00:33:34.034
gevoelige

4912
00:33:34.034 --> 00:33:34.634
informatie.

4913
00:33:35.374 --> 00:33:35.514
Wie

4914
00:33:35.514 --> 00:33:35.794
kent

4915
00:33:35.794 --> 00:33:36.014
wie?

4916
00:33:36.294 --> 00:33:36.414
Wie

4917
00:33:36.414 --> 00:33:36.694
biedt

4918
00:33:36.694 --> 00:33:36.974
steun?

4919
00:33:37.394 --> 00:33:37.534
Waar

4920
00:33:37.534 --> 00:33:37.874
bestaan

4921
00:33:37.874 --> 00:33:38.474
conflicten?

4922
00:33:38.914 --> 00:33:39.094
Wie

4923
00:33:39.094 --> 00:33:39.334
is

4924
00:33:39.334 --> 00:33:39.895
financieel

4925
00:33:39.895 --> 00:33:40.375
afhankelijk?

4926
00:33:40.795 --> 00:33:40.935
Wie

4927
00:33:40.935 --> 00:33:41.195
heeft

4928
00:33:41.195 --> 00:33:41.355
een

4929
00:33:41.355 --> 00:33:41.955
kwetsbaarheid?

4930
00:33:42.675 --> 00:33:42.875
Niet

4931
00:33:42.875 --> 00:33:43.055
al

4932
00:33:43.055 --> 00:33:43.315
deze

4933
00:33:43.315 --> 00:33:43.915
informatie

4934
00:33:43.915 --> 00:33:44.155
mag

4935
00:33:44.155 --> 00:33:44.535
zomaar

4936
00:33:44.535 --> 00:33:44.735
worden

4937
00:33:44.735 --> 00:33:45.536
geregistreerd.

4938
00:33:46.756 --> 00:33:47.396
Dataminimalisatie

4939
00:33:47.396 --> 00:33:47.616
is

4940
00:33:47.616 --> 00:33:48.036
essentieel.

4941
00:33:48.816 --> 00:33:49.056
Alleen

4942
00:33:49.056 --> 00:33:49.616
gegevens

4943
00:33:49.616 --> 00:33:49.816
die

4944
00:33:49.816 --> 00:33:50.456
noodzakelijk

4945
00:33:50.456 --> 00:33:50.777
zijn

4946
00:33:50.777 --> 00:33:51.017
voor

4947
00:33:51.017 --> 00:33:51.197
een

4948
00:33:51.197 --> 00:33:51.537
duidelijk

4949
00:33:51.537 --> 00:33:51.817
doel

4950
00:33:51.817 --> 00:33:52.157
mogen

4951
00:33:52.157 --> 00:33:52.417
worden

4952
00:33:52.417 --> 00:33:53.137
vastgelegd.

4953
00:33:53.477 --> 00:33:53.597
Een

4954
00:33:53.597 --> 00:33:54.017
vijfde

4955
00:33:54.017 --> 00:33:54.397
risico

4956
00:33:54.397 --> 00:33:54.617
is

4957
00:33:54.617 --> 00:33:55.377
privatisering

4958
00:33:55.377 --> 00:33:55.597
van

4959
00:33:55.597 --> 00:33:55.897
zorg.

4960
00:33:56.378 --> 00:33:56.498
Een

4961
00:33:56.498 --> 00:33:56.858
gemeente

4962
00:33:56.858 --> 00:33:57.038
of

4963
00:33:57.038 --> 00:33:57.698
organisatie

4964
00:33:57.698 --> 00:33:57.858
kan

4965
00:33:57.858 --> 00:33:58.118
zeggen

4966
00:33:58.118 --> 00:33:58.678
het

4967
00:33:58.678 --> 00:33:59.058
sociale

4968
00:33:59.058 --> 00:33:59.558
netwerk

4969
00:33:59.558 --> 00:33:59.838
moet

4970
00:33:59.838 --> 00:34:00.038
meer

4971
00:34:00.038 --> 00:34:00.238
doen.

4972
00:34:00.678 --> 00:34:01.018
Maar

4973
00:34:01.018 --> 00:34:01.178
een

4974
00:34:01.178 --> 00:34:01.518
sociaal

4975
00:34:01.518 --> 00:34:01.979
netwerk

4976
00:34:01.979 --> 00:34:02.339
is

4977
00:34:02.339 --> 00:34:02.539
geen

4978
00:34:02.539 --> 00:34:02.939
gratis

4979
00:34:02.939 --> 00:34:03.679
professionele

4980
00:34:03.679 --> 00:34:04.059
dienst.

4981
00:34:04.839 --> 00:34:05.479
Familieleden

4982
00:34:05.479 --> 00:34:05.779
hebben

4983
00:34:05.779 --> 00:34:06.139
eigen

4984
00:34:06.139 --> 00:34:06.779
levens,

4985
00:34:06.998 --> 00:34:07.619
gezondheid,

4986
00:34:07.939 --> 00:34:08.220
werk,

4987
00:34:08.520 --> 00:34:08.800
kinderen

4988
00:34:08.800 --> 00:34:09.059
en

4989
00:34:09.059 --> 00:34:09.439
grenzen.

4990
00:34:10.140 --> 00:34:10.420
Wanneer

4991
00:34:10.420 --> 00:34:11.080
professionele

4992
00:34:11.080 --> 00:34:11.819
verantwoordelijkheid

4993
00:34:11.819 --> 00:34:11.980
wordt

4994
00:34:11.980 --> 00:34:12.600
afgeschoven

4995
00:34:12.600 --> 00:34:13.321
ontstaat

4996
00:34:13.321 --> 00:34:13.481
geen

4997
00:34:13.481 --> 00:34:14.481
samenredzaamheid

4998
00:34:14.481 --> 00:34:14.881
maar

4999
00:34:14.881 --> 00:34:15.721
institutionele

5000
00:34:15.721 --> 00:34:16.521
terugtrekking.

5001
00:34:17.221 --> 00:34:17.321
Een

5002
00:34:17.321 --> 00:34:17.601
zesde

5003
00:34:17.601 --> 00:34:17.941
risico

5004
00:34:17.941 --> 00:34:18.101
is

5005
00:34:18.101 --> 00:34:18.221
dat

5006
00:34:18.221 --> 00:34:19.182
draagkrachtbegrenzing

5007
00:34:19.182 --> 00:34:19.662
wordt

5008
00:34:19.662 --> 00:34:20.062
gebruikt

5009
00:34:20.062 --> 00:34:20.202
als

5010
00:34:20.202 --> 00:34:20.682
excuus

5011
00:34:20.682 --> 00:34:20.962
om

5012
00:34:20.962 --> 00:34:21.222
leiden

5013
00:34:21.222 --> 00:34:21.402
te

5014
00:34:21.402 --> 00:34:21.902
negeren.

5015
00:34:22.622 --> 00:34:22.742
Een

5016
00:34:22.742 --> 00:34:23.282
professional

5017
00:34:23.282 --> 00:34:23.602
kan

5018
00:34:23.602 --> 00:34:23.883
zeggen

5019
00:34:23.883 --> 00:34:24.403
dit

5020
00:34:24.403 --> 00:34:24.623
valt

5021
00:34:24.623 --> 00:34:24.923
buiten

5022
00:34:24.923 --> 00:34:25.123
mijn

5023
00:34:25.123 --> 00:34:25.483
taak.

5024
00:34:25.743 --> 00:34:25.843
Een

5025
00:34:25.843 --> 00:34:26.383
familielid,

5026
00:34:26.583 --> 00:34:26.683
ik

5027
00:34:26.683 --> 00:34:26.823
heb

5028
00:34:26.823 --> 00:34:27.003
mijn

5029
00:34:27.003 --> 00:34:27.323
grens

5030
00:34:27.323 --> 00:34:28.283
aangegeven.

5031
00:34:28.283 --> 00:34:28.463
Een

5032
00:34:28.463 --> 00:34:29.263
organisatie,

5033
00:34:29.604 --> 00:34:29.744
we

5034
00:34:29.744 --> 00:34:29.904
hebben

5035
00:34:29.904 --> 00:34:30.144
geen

5036
00:34:30.144 --> 00:34:30.804
capaciteit.

5037
00:34:31.244 --> 00:34:31.364
Al

5038
00:34:31.364 --> 00:34:31.604
deze

5039
00:34:31.604 --> 00:34:32.224
uitspraken

5040
00:34:32.224 --> 00:34:32.504
kunnen

5041
00:34:32.504 --> 00:34:32.864
feitelijk

5042
00:34:32.864 --> 00:34:33.184
juist

5043
00:34:33.184 --> 00:34:33.424
zijn.

5044
00:34:34.004 --> 00:34:34.144
Maar

5045
00:34:34.144 --> 00:34:34.444
wanneer

5046
00:34:34.444 --> 00:34:34.744
niemand

5047
00:34:34.744 --> 00:34:35.265
vervolgens

5048
00:34:35.265 --> 00:34:35.685
onderzoekt

5049
00:34:35.685 --> 00:34:36.225
waar

5050
00:34:36.225 --> 00:34:36.385
de

5051
00:34:36.385 --> 00:34:36.945
noodzakelijke

5052
00:34:36.945 --> 00:34:37.285
zorg

5053
00:34:37.285 --> 00:34:37.585
wel

5054
00:34:37.585 --> 00:34:37.865
terecht

5055
00:34:37.865 --> 00:34:38.205
komt

5056
00:34:38.205 --> 00:34:38.865
wordt

5057
00:34:38.865 --> 00:34:39.445
begrenzing

5058
00:34:39.445 --> 00:34:39.805
een

5059
00:34:39.805 --> 00:34:40.085
poort

5060
00:34:40.085 --> 00:34:40.385
naar

5061
00:34:40.385 --> 00:34:40.966
uitsluiting.

5062
00:34:41.446 --> 00:34:41.766
Daarom

5063
00:34:41.766 --> 00:34:41.886
is

5064
00:34:41.886 --> 00:34:42.006
de

5065
00:34:42.006 --> 00:34:42.606
vervolgvraag

5066
00:34:42.606 --> 00:34:43.026
altijd.

5067
00:34:43.846 --> 00:34:44.126
Wat

5068
00:34:44.126 --> 00:34:44.526
betekent

5069
00:34:44.526 --> 00:34:44.786
deze

5070
00:34:44.786 --> 00:34:45.066
grens

5071
00:34:45.066 --> 00:34:45.186
voor

5072
00:34:45.186 --> 00:34:45.306
de

5073
00:34:45.306 --> 00:34:45.566
persoon

5074
00:34:45.566 --> 00:34:45.686
die

5075
00:34:45.686 --> 00:34:45.866
hulp

5076
00:34:45.866 --> 00:34:46.107
nodig

5077
00:34:46.107 --> 00:34:46.427
heeft?

5078
00:34:46.967 --> 00:34:47.107
Wie

5079
00:34:47.107 --> 00:34:47.387
neemt

5080
00:34:47.387 --> 00:34:47.487
de

5081
00:34:47.487 --> 00:34:47.687
taak

5082
00:34:47.687 --> 00:34:47.967
over?

5083
00:34:48.327 --> 00:34:48.607
Welke

5084
00:34:48.607 --> 00:34:49.207
alternatieven

5085
00:34:49.207 --> 00:34:49.587
bestaan?

5086
00:34:50.227 --> 00:34:50.547
Welke

5087
00:34:50.547 --> 00:34:50.967
acute

5088
00:34:50.967 --> 00:34:51.427
behoefte

5089
00:34:51.427 --> 00:34:51.668
blijft

5090
00:34:51.668 --> 00:34:52.168
onvervuld?

5091
00:34:52.588 --> 00:34:52.708
Wie

5092
00:34:52.708 --> 00:34:53.068
bewaakt

5093
00:34:53.068 --> 00:34:53.208
de

5094
00:34:53.208 --> 00:34:54.008
continuïteit?

5095
00:34:55.008 --> 00:34:55.668
Draagkrachtbegrenzing

5096
00:34:55.668 --> 00:34:55.848
mag

5097
00:34:55.848 --> 00:34:56.128
nooit

5098
00:34:56.128 --> 00:34:56.588
betekenen

5099
00:34:56.588 --> 00:34:56.888
dat

5100
00:34:56.888 --> 00:34:57.229
leiden

5101
00:34:57.229 --> 00:34:57.829
onzichtbaar

5102
00:34:57.829 --> 00:34:58.109
wordt.

5103
00:34:58.949 --> 00:34:59.069
Het

5104
00:34:59.069 --> 00:34:59.529
betekent

5105
00:34:59.529 --> 00:34:59.949
dat

5106
00:34:59.949 --> 00:35:00.209
zorg

5107
00:35:00.209 --> 00:35:00.529
opnieuw

5108
00:35:00.529 --> 00:35:01.269
georganiseerd

5109
00:35:01.269 --> 00:35:01.609
moet

5110
00:35:01.609 --> 00:35:01.889
worden

5111
00:35:01.889 --> 00:35:02.029
op

5112
00:35:02.029 --> 00:35:02.129
een

5113
00:35:02.129 --> 00:35:02.469
manier

5114
00:35:02.469 --> 00:35:02.790
die

5115
00:35:02.790 --> 00:35:03.070
zowel

5116
00:35:03.070 --> 00:35:03.230
de

5117
00:35:03.230 --> 00:35:03.810
hulpvrager

5118
00:35:03.810 --> 00:35:04.330
als

5119
00:35:04.330 --> 00:35:04.450
de

5120
00:35:04.450 --> 00:35:04.650
helper

5121
00:35:04.650 --> 00:35:05.270
beschermt.

5122
00:35:05.830 --> 00:35:05.950
Een

5123
00:35:05.950 --> 00:35:06.290
zevende

5124
00:35:06.290 --> 00:35:06.690
risico

5125
00:35:06.690 --> 00:35:06.910
is

5126
00:35:06.910 --> 00:35:07.090
dat

5127
00:35:07.090 --> 00:35:07.850
relationele

5128
00:35:07.850 --> 00:35:08.671
legitimiteit

5129
00:35:08.671 --> 00:35:08.931
als

5130
00:35:08.931 --> 00:35:09.531
argument

5131
00:35:09.531 --> 00:35:09.931
tegen

5132
00:35:09.931 --> 00:35:10.731
rechtsbescherming

5133
00:35:10.731 --> 00:35:10.931
wordt

5134
00:35:10.931 --> 00:35:11.391
gebruikt.

5135
00:35:11.951 --> 00:35:12.091
Iemand

5136
00:35:12.091 --> 00:35:12.291
zou

5137
00:35:12.291 --> 00:35:12.511
kunnen

5138
00:35:12.511 --> 00:35:12.751
zeggen

5139
00:35:12.751 --> 00:35:13.091
laten

5140
00:35:13.091 --> 00:35:13.271
we

5141
00:35:13.271 --> 00:35:13.511
niet

5142
00:35:13.511 --> 00:35:14.292
juridiseren.

5143
00:35:15.172 --> 00:35:15.352
Laten

5144
00:35:15.352 --> 00:35:15.532
we

5145
00:35:15.532 --> 00:35:15.652
in

5146
00:35:15.652 --> 00:35:15.972
gesprek

5147
00:35:15.972 --> 00:35:16.372
blijven.

5148
00:35:17.192 --> 00:35:17.352
Maar

5149
00:35:17.352 --> 00:35:17.632
soms

5150
00:35:17.632 --> 00:35:17.772
is

5151
00:35:17.772 --> 00:35:17.912
een

5152
00:35:17.912 --> 00:35:18.272
formele

5153
00:35:18.272 --> 00:35:18.712
klacht,

5154
00:35:18.892 --> 00:35:19.813
bezwaarprocedure

5155
00:35:19.813 --> 00:35:20.213
of

5156
00:35:20.213 --> 00:35:20.733
rechtszaak

5157
00:35:20.733 --> 00:35:21.413
noodzakelijk.

5158
00:35:22.133 --> 00:35:22.653
Dialoog

5159
00:35:22.653 --> 00:35:22.833
is

5160
00:35:22.833 --> 00:35:23.093
geen

5161
00:35:23.093 --> 00:35:23.513
vervanging

5162
00:35:23.513 --> 00:35:23.753
voor

5163
00:35:23.753 --> 00:35:24.033
rechten.

5164
00:35:24.734 --> 00:35:25.094
Herstel

5165
00:35:25.094 --> 00:35:25.274
en

5166
00:35:25.274 --> 00:35:25.914
rechtsbescherming

5167
00:35:25.914 --> 00:35:26.174
kunnen

5168
00:35:26.174 --> 00:35:26.514
naast

5169
00:35:26.514 --> 00:35:26.794
elkaar

5170
00:35:26.794 --> 00:35:27.254
bestaan.

5171
00:35:28.134 --> 00:35:28.234
Een

5172
00:35:28.234 --> 00:35:28.594
achtste

5173
00:35:28.594 --> 00:35:28.974
risico

5174
00:35:28.974 --> 00:35:29.234
is

5175
00:35:29.234 --> 00:35:29.454
dat

5176
00:35:29.454 --> 00:35:29.594
het

5177
00:35:29.594 --> 00:35:29.934
begrip

5178
00:35:29.934 --> 00:35:30.495
vertrouwen

5179
00:35:30.495 --> 00:35:30.935
verkeerd

5180
00:35:30.935 --> 00:35:31.115
wordt

5181
00:35:31.115 --> 00:35:31.615
gebruikt.

5182
00:35:32.295 --> 00:35:32.415
De

5183
00:35:32.415 --> 00:35:32.715
burger

5184
00:35:32.715 --> 00:35:33.015
zou

5185
00:35:33.015 --> 00:35:33.155
dan

5186
00:35:33.155 --> 00:35:33.315
moeten

5187
00:35:33.315 --> 00:35:33.895
aantonen

5188
00:35:33.895 --> 00:35:34.235
dat

5189
00:35:34.235 --> 00:35:34.335
hij

5190
00:35:34.335 --> 00:35:34.815
vertrouwen

5191
00:35:34.815 --> 00:35:35.095
heeft.

5192
00:35:35.655 --> 00:35:35.816
Maar

5193
00:35:35.816 --> 00:35:36.336
vertrouwen

5194
00:35:36.336 --> 00:35:36.816
is

5195
00:35:36.816 --> 00:35:37.036
geen

5196
00:35:37.036 --> 00:35:37.536
voorwaarde

5197
00:35:37.536 --> 00:35:37.736
voor

5198
00:35:37.736 --> 00:35:37.996
rechten.

5199
00:35:38.376 --> 00:35:38.496
Een

5200
00:35:38.496 --> 00:35:39.196
organisatie

5201
00:35:39.196 --> 00:35:39.376
moet

5202
00:35:39.376 --> 00:35:39.836
betrouwbaar

5203
00:35:39.836 --> 00:35:40.196
handelen,

5204
00:35:40.556 --> 00:35:40.696
ook

5205
00:35:40.696 --> 00:35:41.156
tegenover

5206
00:35:41.156 --> 00:35:41.517
iemand

5207
00:35:41.517 --> 00:35:41.757
die

5208
00:35:41.757 --> 00:35:41.917
haar

5209
00:35:41.917 --> 00:35:42.137
niet

5210
00:35:42.137 --> 00:35:42.617
vertrouwt.

5211
00:35:43.457 --> 00:35:43.597
Een

5212
00:35:43.597 --> 00:35:43.977
negende

5213
00:35:43.977 --> 00:35:44.437
risico

5214
00:35:44.437 --> 00:35:44.757
is

5215
00:35:44.757 --> 00:35:45.357
culturele

5216
00:35:45.357 --> 00:35:45.897
versimpeling.

5217
00:35:46.557 --> 00:35:46.898
Ubuntu

5218
00:35:46.898 --> 00:35:47.218
is

5219
00:35:47.218 --> 00:35:47.698
geworteld

5220
00:35:47.698 --> 00:35:47.998
in

5221
00:35:47.998 --> 00:35:48.498
verschillende

5222
00:35:48.498 --> 00:35:49.178
Afrikaanse

5223
00:35:49.178 --> 00:35:49.918
filosofische

5224
00:35:49.918 --> 00:35:50.418
tradities.

5225
00:35:50.418 --> 00:35:51.498
Het

5226
00:35:51.498 --> 00:35:51.838
begrip

5227
00:35:51.838 --> 00:35:52.018
mag

5228
00:35:52.018 --> 00:35:52.198
niet

5229
00:35:52.198 --> 00:35:52.479
worden

5230
00:35:52.479 --> 00:35:53.039
losgemaakt

5231
00:35:53.039 --> 00:35:53.179
van

5232
00:35:53.179 --> 00:35:53.319
die

5233
00:35:53.319 --> 00:35:53.779
oorsprong

5234
00:35:53.779 --> 00:35:54.619
en

5235
00:35:54.619 --> 00:35:55.339
gereduceerd

5236
00:35:55.339 --> 00:35:55.579
tot

5237
00:35:55.579 --> 00:35:55.759
een

5238
00:35:55.759 --> 00:35:56.359
marketingwoord

5239
00:35:56.359 --> 00:35:56.579
voor

5240
00:35:56.579 --> 00:35:57.079
harmonie.

5241
00:35:57.719 --> 00:35:58.040
Daarom

5242
00:35:58.040 --> 00:35:58.220
moet

5243
00:35:58.220 --> 00:35:58.420
ook

5244
00:35:58.420 --> 00:35:58.580
de

5245
00:35:58.580 --> 00:35:58.800
naam

5246
00:35:58.800 --> 00:35:58.980
van

5247
00:35:58.980 --> 00:35:59.120
het

5248
00:35:59.120 --> 00:35:59.540
kompas

5249
00:35:59.540 --> 00:36:00.080
onderwerp

5250
00:36:00.080 --> 00:36:00.240
van

5251
00:36:00.240 --> 00:36:00.580
debat

5252
00:36:00.580 --> 00:36:00.980
blijven.

5253
00:36:01.600 --> 00:36:02.220
Een

5254
00:36:02.220 --> 00:36:02.440
tiende

5255
00:36:02.440 --> 00:36:02.900
risico

5256
00:36:02.900 --> 00:36:03.200
is

5257
00:36:03.200 --> 00:36:03.641
morele

5258
00:36:03.641 --> 00:36:04.341
overbelasting.

5259
00:36:04.941 --> 00:36:05.241
Mensen

5260
00:36:05.241 --> 00:36:05.461
kunnen

5261
00:36:05.461 --> 00:36:05.681
het

5262
00:36:05.681 --> 00:36:06.001
gevoel

5263
00:36:06.001 --> 00:36:06.321
krijgen

5264
00:36:06.321 --> 00:36:06.501
dat

5265
00:36:06.501 --> 00:36:06.621
zij

5266
00:36:06.621 --> 00:36:06.921
ieder

5267
00:36:06.921 --> 00:36:07.341
gesprek

5268
00:36:07.341 --> 00:36:07.761
perfect

5269
00:36:07.761 --> 00:36:07.961
moeten

5270
00:36:07.961 --> 00:36:08.361
voeren.

5271
00:36:08.981 --> 00:36:09.122
Dat

5272
00:36:09.122 --> 00:36:09.402
iedere

5273
00:36:09.402 --> 00:36:09.742
fout

5274
00:36:09.742 --> 00:36:10.522
relationeel

5275
00:36:10.522 --> 00:36:11.162
illegitiem

5276
00:36:11.162 --> 00:36:11.362
is.

5277
00:36:11.762 --> 00:36:11.882
Dat

5278
00:36:11.882 --> 00:36:12.242
iedere

5279
00:36:12.242 --> 00:36:12.922
negatieve

5280
00:36:12.922 --> 00:36:13.382
emotie

5281
00:36:13.382 --> 00:36:13.542
moet

5282
00:36:13.542 --> 00:36:13.782
worden

5283
00:36:13.782 --> 00:36:14.242
voorkomen.

5284
00:36:14.603 --> 00:36:14.743
Dat

5285
00:36:14.743 --> 00:36:14.903
is

5286
00:36:14.903 --> 00:36:15.103
niet

5287
00:36:15.103 --> 00:36:15.763
realistisch.

5288
00:36:16.223 --> 00:36:16.903
Relationele

5289
00:36:16.903 --> 00:36:17.803
legitimiteit

5290
00:36:17.803 --> 00:36:18.323
vraagt

5291
00:36:18.323 --> 00:36:18.563
geen

5292
00:36:18.563 --> 00:36:19.263
conflictloos

5293
00:36:19.263 --> 00:36:19.543
leven.

5294
00:36:19.543 --> 00:36:20.324
Zij

5295
00:36:20.324 --> 00:36:20.664
vraagt

5296
00:36:20.664 --> 00:36:20.864
een

5297
00:36:20.864 --> 00:36:21.284
eerlijke

5298
00:36:21.284 --> 00:36:21.684
manier

5299
00:36:21.684 --> 00:36:21.924
om

5300
00:36:21.924 --> 00:36:22.064
met

5301
00:36:22.064 --> 00:36:22.504
conflict,

5302
00:36:22.744 --> 00:36:22.924
macht,

5303
00:36:23.104 --> 00:36:23.484
fouten,

5304
00:36:23.704 --> 00:36:24.044
grenzen

5305
00:36:24.044 --> 00:36:24.264
en

5306
00:36:24.264 --> 00:36:24.644
herstel

5307
00:36:24.644 --> 00:36:24.804
om

5308
00:36:24.804 --> 00:36:24.904
te

5309
00:36:24.904 --> 00:36:25.124
gaan.

5310
00:36:25.825 --> 00:36:26.305
Draagkracht

5311
00:36:26.305 --> 00:36:26.785
begrenzen

5312
00:36:26.785 --> 00:36:27.125
zonder

5313
00:36:27.125 --> 00:36:27.465
lijden

5314
00:36:27.465 --> 00:36:27.685
uit

5315
00:36:27.685 --> 00:36:27.805
te

5316
00:36:27.805 --> 00:36:28.085
sluiten.

5317
00:36:28.765 --> 00:36:28.905
Dit

5318
00:36:28.905 --> 00:36:29.185
verdient

5319
00:36:29.185 --> 00:36:29.525
extra

5320
00:36:29.525 --> 00:36:29.905
aandacht.

5321
00:36:30.805 --> 00:36:30.985
In

5322
00:36:30.985 --> 00:36:31.626
zorgzame

5323
00:36:31.626 --> 00:36:32.306
gemeenschappen

5324
00:36:32.306 --> 00:36:32.766
ontstaat

5325
00:36:32.766 --> 00:36:33.326
gemakkelijk

5326
00:36:33.326 --> 00:36:33.686
het

5327
00:36:33.686 --> 00:36:33.966
idee

5328
00:36:33.966 --> 00:36:34.206
dat

5329
00:36:34.206 --> 00:36:34.346
een

5330
00:36:34.346 --> 00:36:34.586
goed

5331
00:36:34.586 --> 00:36:34.926
mens

5332
00:36:34.926 --> 00:36:35.406
altijd

5333
00:36:35.406 --> 00:36:35.966
beschikbaar

5334
00:36:35.966 --> 00:36:36.166
moet

5335
00:36:36.166 --> 00:36:36.386
zijn.

5336
00:36:36.807 --> 00:36:36.947
Dat

5337
00:36:36.947 --> 00:36:37.247
liefde

5338
00:36:37.247 --> 00:36:37.767
betekent

5339
00:36:37.767 --> 00:36:38.007
dat

5340
00:36:38.007 --> 00:36:38.107
je

5341
00:36:38.107 --> 00:36:38.367
blijft

5342
00:36:38.367 --> 00:36:38.867
luisteren.

5343
00:36:39.327 --> 00:36:39.447
Dat

5344
00:36:39.447 --> 00:36:39.947
familie

5345
00:36:39.947 --> 00:36:40.307
elkaar

5346
00:36:40.307 --> 00:36:40.967
opvangt.

5347
00:36:41.107 --> 00:36:41.207
Dat

5348
00:36:41.207 --> 00:36:41.367
een

5349
00:36:41.367 --> 00:36:41.647
partner

5350
00:36:41.647 --> 00:36:41.827
de

5351
00:36:41.827 --> 00:36:42.047
ander

5352
00:36:42.047 --> 00:36:42.428
door

5353
00:36:42.428 --> 00:36:42.868
iedere

5354
00:36:42.868 --> 00:36:43.308
crisis

5355
00:36:43.308 --> 00:36:43.808
heen

5356
00:36:43.808 --> 00:36:44.108
helpt.

5357
00:36:44.368 --> 00:36:44.508
Dat

5358
00:36:44.508 --> 00:36:44.648
een

5359
00:36:44.648 --> 00:36:44.828
vriend

5360
00:36:44.828 --> 00:36:45.048
nooit

5361
00:36:45.048 --> 00:36:45.508
weggaat

5362
00:36:45.508 --> 00:36:45.788
wanneer

5363
00:36:45.788 --> 00:36:45.908
het

5364
00:36:45.908 --> 00:36:46.148
moeilijk

5365
00:36:46.148 --> 00:36:46.368
wordt.

5366
00:36:46.368 --> 00:36:46.788
Maar

5367
00:36:46.788 --> 00:36:47.528
onbegrensde

5368
00:36:47.528 --> 00:36:47.808
zorg

5369
00:36:47.808 --> 00:36:48.429
kan

5370
00:36:48.429 --> 00:36:49.089
uiteindelijk

5371
00:36:49.089 --> 00:36:49.389
zelf

5372
00:36:49.389 --> 00:36:49.749
schade

5373
00:36:49.749 --> 00:36:50.409
veroorzaken.

5374
00:36:50.829 --> 00:36:51.369
De

5375
00:36:51.369 --> 00:36:51.649
helper

5376
00:36:51.649 --> 00:36:52.329
raakt

5377
00:36:52.329 --> 00:36:52.929
uitgeput.

5378
00:36:53.590 --> 00:36:54.310
Irritatie

5379
00:36:54.310 --> 00:36:54.690
groeit.

5380
00:36:55.390 --> 00:36:55.950
Afspraken

5381
00:36:55.950 --> 00:36:56.210
worden

5382
00:36:56.210 --> 00:36:56.890
onbetrouwbaar.

5383
00:36:57.230 --> 00:36:57.350
De

5384
00:36:57.350 --> 00:36:57.790
kwaliteit

5385
00:36:57.790 --> 00:36:57.990
van

5386
00:36:57.990 --> 00:36:58.110
de

5387
00:36:58.110 --> 00:36:58.310
zorg

5388
00:36:58.310 --> 00:36:58.570
neemt

5389
00:36:58.570 --> 00:36:58.750
af.

5390
00:36:59.191 --> 00:36:59.411
Andere

5391
00:36:59.411 --> 00:36:59.931
relaties

5392
00:36:59.931 --> 00:37:00.251
krijgen

5393
00:37:00.251 --> 00:37:00.491
geen

5394
00:37:00.491 --> 00:37:00.931
aandacht.

5395
00:37:01.491 --> 00:37:01.611
En

5396
00:37:01.611 --> 00:37:02.131
uiteindelijk

5397
00:37:02.131 --> 00:37:02.331
kan

5398
00:37:02.331 --> 00:37:02.451
de

5399
00:37:02.451 --> 00:37:02.671
helper

5400
00:37:02.671 --> 00:37:03.071
abrupt

5401
00:37:03.071 --> 00:37:03.551
wegvallen.

5402
00:37:04.171 --> 00:37:04.632
Duurzame

5403
00:37:04.632 --> 00:37:04.972
zorg

5404
00:37:04.972 --> 00:37:05.272
vraagt

5405
00:37:05.272 --> 00:37:05.592
daarom

5406
00:37:05.592 --> 00:37:06.372
onbegrensde

5407
00:37:06.372 --> 00:37:07.112
beschikbaarheid.

5408
00:37:07.492 --> 00:37:07.632
Dat

5409
00:37:07.632 --> 00:37:07.852
kan

5410
00:37:07.852 --> 00:37:08.192
koud

5411
00:37:08.192 --> 00:37:08.652
klinken.

5412
00:37:09.232 --> 00:37:09.392
Maar

5413
00:37:09.392 --> 00:37:09.812
grenzen

5414
00:37:09.812 --> 00:37:10.073
maken

5415
00:37:10.073 --> 00:37:10.273
het

5416
00:37:10.273 --> 00:37:10.673
mogelijk

5417
00:37:10.673 --> 00:37:11.073
om

5418
00:37:11.073 --> 00:37:11.353
langer

5419
00:37:11.353 --> 00:37:11.813
betrouwbaar

5420
00:37:11.813 --> 00:37:11.973
te

5421
00:37:11.973 --> 00:37:12.333
blijven.

5422
00:37:12.733 --> 00:37:12.833
Een

5423
00:37:12.833 --> 00:37:13.293
begrenzing

5424
00:37:13.293 --> 00:37:13.473
kan

5425
00:37:13.473 --> 00:37:13.953
bijvoorbeeld

5426
00:37:13.953 --> 00:37:14.253
luiden.

5427
00:37:14.713 --> 00:37:14.833
Ik

5428
00:37:14.833 --> 00:37:14.953
kan

5429
00:37:14.953 --> 00:37:15.253
vandaag

5430
00:37:15.253 --> 00:37:15.393
een

5431
00:37:15.393 --> 00:37:15.554
half

5432
00:37:15.554 --> 00:37:15.694
uur

5433
00:37:15.694 --> 00:37:16.154
luisteren.

5434
00:37:16.154 --> 00:37:16.794
Daarna

5435
00:37:16.794 --> 00:37:16.974
moet

5436
00:37:16.974 --> 00:37:17.094
ik

5437
00:37:17.094 --> 00:37:17.314
rust

5438
00:37:17.314 --> 00:37:17.614
nemen.

5439
00:37:18.094 --> 00:37:18.274
Of

5440
00:37:18.274 --> 00:37:19.014
ik

5441
00:37:19.014 --> 00:37:19.174
kan

5442
00:37:19.174 --> 00:37:19.574
meegaan

5443
00:37:19.574 --> 00:37:19.694
naar

5444
00:37:19.694 --> 00:37:19.814
de

5445
00:37:19.814 --> 00:37:20.314
afspraak.

5446
00:37:20.734 --> 00:37:20.914
Maar

5447
00:37:20.914 --> 00:37:21.054
ik

5448
00:37:21.054 --> 00:37:21.175
kan

5449
00:37:21.175 --> 00:37:21.315
de

5450
00:37:21.315 --> 00:37:21.755
volledige

5451
00:37:21.755 --> 00:37:22.275
procedure

5452
00:37:22.275 --> 00:37:22.575
niet

5453
00:37:22.575 --> 00:37:22.935
namens

5454
00:37:22.935 --> 00:37:23.115
jou

5455
00:37:23.115 --> 00:37:23.515
voeren.

5456
00:37:24.015 --> 00:37:24.235
Of

5457
00:37:24.235 --> 00:37:25.075
ik

5458
00:37:25.075 --> 00:37:25.255
wil

5459
00:37:25.255 --> 00:37:25.375
je

5460
00:37:25.375 --> 00:37:25.655
helpen

5461
00:37:25.655 --> 00:37:25.815
een

5462
00:37:25.815 --> 00:37:26.455
professionele

5463
00:37:26.455 --> 00:37:26.856
voorziening

5464
00:37:26.856 --> 00:37:26.996
te

5465
00:37:26.996 --> 00:37:27.236
vinden.

5466
00:37:27.716 --> 00:37:27.916
Maar

5467
00:37:27.916 --> 00:37:28.096
ik

5468
00:37:28.096 --> 00:37:28.256
kan

5469
00:37:28.256 --> 00:37:28.536
zelf

5470
00:37:28.536 --> 00:37:28.776
geen

5471
00:37:28.776 --> 00:37:29.196
24

5472
00:37:29.196 --> 00:37:29.536
uur

5473
00:37:29.536 --> 00:37:29.796
zorg

5474
00:37:29.796 --> 00:37:30.136
bieden.

5475
00:37:30.976 --> 00:37:31.236
Of

5476
00:37:31.236 --> 00:37:31.876
ik

5477
00:37:31.876 --> 00:37:32.056
wil

5478
00:37:32.056 --> 00:37:32.317
over

5479
00:37:32.317 --> 00:37:32.537
dit

5480
00:37:32.537 --> 00:37:32.917
conflict

5481
00:37:32.917 --> 00:37:33.357
praten,

5482
00:37:33.817 --> 00:37:33.917
maar

5483
00:37:33.917 --> 00:37:34.197
niet

5484
00:37:34.197 --> 00:37:34.597
wanneer

5485
00:37:34.597 --> 00:37:34.717
er

5486
00:37:34.717 --> 00:37:34.897
wordt

5487
00:37:34.897 --> 00:37:35.397
gescholden.

5488
00:37:36.197 --> 00:37:36.337
Het

5489
00:37:36.337 --> 00:37:36.897
belangrijke

5490
00:37:36.897 --> 00:37:37.257
verschil

5491
00:37:37.257 --> 00:37:37.437
zit

5492
00:37:37.437 --> 00:37:37.557
in

5493
00:37:37.557 --> 00:37:37.657
de

5494
00:37:37.657 --> 00:37:37.898
tweede

5495
00:37:37.898 --> 00:37:38.178
stap.

5496
00:37:38.938 --> 00:37:39.078
Niet

5497
00:37:39.078 --> 00:37:39.338
alleen

5498
00:37:39.338 --> 00:37:39.598
zeggen

5499
00:37:39.598 --> 00:37:39.798
wat

5500
00:37:39.798 --> 00:37:39.898
je

5501
00:37:39.898 --> 00:37:40.078
niet

5502
00:37:40.078 --> 00:37:40.338
kunt,

5503
00:37:40.658 --> 00:37:41.078
maar

5504
00:37:41.078 --> 00:37:41.298
ook

5505
00:37:41.298 --> 00:37:41.758
onderzoeken

5506
00:37:41.758 --> 00:37:41.998
wat

5507
00:37:41.998 --> 00:37:42.358
mogelijk

5508
00:37:42.358 --> 00:37:42.798
blijft.

5509
00:37:43.219 --> 00:37:43.319
Ik

5510
00:37:43.319 --> 00:37:43.479
kan

5511
00:37:43.479 --> 00:37:43.699
geen

5512
00:37:43.699 --> 00:37:43.919
twee

5513
00:37:43.919 --> 00:37:44.079
uur

5514
00:37:44.079 --> 00:37:44.859
luisteren,

5515
00:37:44.939 --> 00:37:45.039
maar

5516
00:37:45.039 --> 00:37:45.199
wel

5517
00:37:45.199 --> 00:37:45.579
twintig

5518
00:37:45.579 --> 00:37:45.899
minuten.

5519
00:37:46.159 --> 00:37:46.559
Ik

5520
00:37:46.559 --> 00:37:46.699
kan

5521
00:37:46.699 --> 00:37:46.839
de

5522
00:37:46.839 --> 00:37:47.259
procedure

5523
00:37:47.259 --> 00:37:47.539
niet

5524
00:37:47.539 --> 00:37:48.179
overnemen,

5525
00:37:48.619 --> 00:37:48.719
maar

5526
00:37:48.719 --> 00:37:48.920
wel

5527
00:37:48.920 --> 00:37:49.320
helpende

5528
00:37:49.320 --> 00:37:49.720
vragen

5529
00:37:49.720 --> 00:37:49.900
op

5530
00:37:49.900 --> 00:37:50.200
papier

5531
00:37:50.200 --> 00:37:50.380
te

5532
00:37:50.380 --> 00:37:50.620
zetten.

5533
00:37:51.260 --> 00:37:51.420
Ik

5534
00:37:51.420 --> 00:37:51.600
kan

5535
00:37:51.600 --> 00:37:51.960
vannacht

5536
00:37:51.960 --> 00:37:52.140
niet

5537
00:37:52.140 --> 00:37:52.480
komen,

5538
00:37:53.080 --> 00:37:53.220
maar

5539
00:37:53.220 --> 00:37:53.400
wel

5540
00:37:53.400 --> 00:37:53.840
samen

5541
00:37:53.840 --> 00:37:54.200
bellen

5542
00:37:54.200 --> 00:37:54.361
met

5543
00:37:54.361 --> 00:37:54.461
de

5544
00:37:54.461 --> 00:37:54.741
dienst

5545
00:37:54.741 --> 00:37:54.861
die

5546
00:37:54.861 --> 00:37:55.341
bereikbaar

5547
00:37:55.341 --> 00:37:55.561
is.

5548
00:37:56.061 --> 00:37:56.181
Ik

5549
00:37:56.181 --> 00:37:56.321
kan

5550
00:37:56.321 --> 00:37:56.461
niet

5551
00:37:56.461 --> 00:37:56.601
in

5552
00:37:56.601 --> 00:37:56.781
dit

5553
00:37:56.781 --> 00:37:57.461
gezamenlijke

5554
00:37:57.461 --> 00:37:57.861
gesprek

5555
00:37:57.861 --> 00:37:58.101
zitten,

5556
00:37:58.581 --> 00:37:58.681
maar

5557
00:37:58.681 --> 00:37:58.881
wel

5558
00:37:58.881 --> 00:37:59.541
afzonderlijk

5559
00:37:59.541 --> 00:37:59.801
mijn

5560
00:37:59.801 --> 00:38:00.442
perspectief

5561
00:38:00.442 --> 00:38:00.762
geven.

5562
00:38:01.522 --> 00:38:02.062
Ik

5563
00:38:02.062 --> 00:38:02.262
kan

5564
00:38:02.262 --> 00:38:02.582
deze

5565
00:38:02.582 --> 00:38:03.002
relatie

5566
00:38:03.002 --> 00:38:03.262
niet

5567
00:38:03.262 --> 00:38:03.782
voortzetten,

5568
00:38:04.222 --> 00:38:04.322
maar

5569
00:38:04.322 --> 00:38:04.442
ik

5570
00:38:04.442 --> 00:38:04.582
wil

5571
00:38:04.582 --> 00:38:04.822
wel

5572
00:38:04.822 --> 00:38:05.342
afspraken

5573
00:38:05.342 --> 00:38:05.623
maken

5574
00:38:05.623 --> 00:38:05.963
over

5575
00:38:05.963 --> 00:38:06.163
een

5576
00:38:06.163 --> 00:38:06.823
respectvolle

5577
00:38:06.823 --> 00:38:07.323
afronding.

5578
00:38:07.923 --> 00:38:08.083
Zo

5579
00:38:08.083 --> 00:38:08.303
wordt

5580
00:38:08.303 --> 00:38:08.883
begrenzing

5581
00:38:08.883 --> 00:38:09.503
geen

5582
00:38:09.503 --> 00:38:10.143
uitsluiting.

5583
00:38:10.723 --> 00:38:11.044
Tegelijk

5584
00:38:11.044 --> 00:38:11.244
moet

5585
00:38:11.244 --> 00:38:11.464
worden

5586
00:38:11.464 --> 00:38:11.844
erkend

5587
00:38:11.844 --> 00:38:12.104
dat

5588
00:38:12.104 --> 00:38:12.244
een

5589
00:38:12.244 --> 00:38:12.904
alternatief

5590
00:38:12.904 --> 00:38:13.324
niet

5591
00:38:13.324 --> 00:38:13.724
altijd

5592
00:38:13.724 --> 00:38:14.304
beschikbaar

5593
00:38:14.304 --> 00:38:14.544
is.

5594
00:38:15.084 --> 00:38:15.384
Een

5595
00:38:15.384 --> 00:38:16.044
mantelzorger

5596
00:38:16.044 --> 00:38:16.525
kan

5597
00:38:16.525 --> 00:38:16.725
zijn

5598
00:38:16.725 --> 00:38:17.025
grens

5599
00:38:17.025 --> 00:38:17.425
bereiken,

5600
00:38:17.805 --> 00:38:18.085
terwijl

5601
00:38:18.085 --> 00:38:18.845
professionele

5602
00:38:18.845 --> 00:38:19.085
hulp

5603
00:38:19.085 --> 00:38:19.285
op

5604
00:38:19.285 --> 00:38:19.465
zich

5605
00:38:19.465 --> 00:38:19.765
laat

5606
00:38:19.765 --> 00:38:20.105
wachten.

5607
00:38:20.705 --> 00:38:21.045
Een

5608
00:38:21.045 --> 00:38:21.325
gezin

5609
00:38:21.325 --> 00:38:21.525
kan

5610
00:38:21.525 --> 00:38:21.745
meer

5611
00:38:21.745 --> 00:38:22.326
ondersteuning

5612
00:38:22.326 --> 00:38:22.625
nodig

5613
00:38:22.625 --> 00:38:22.885
hebben

5614
00:38:22.885 --> 00:38:23.326
dan

5615
00:38:23.326 --> 00:38:23.486
de

5616
00:38:23.486 --> 00:38:23.885
gemeente

5617
00:38:23.885 --> 00:38:24.346
biedt.

5618
00:38:24.806 --> 00:38:25.125
Een

5619
00:38:25.125 --> 00:38:25.406
partner

5620
00:38:25.406 --> 00:38:25.625
kan

5621
00:38:25.625 --> 00:38:25.986
afstand

5622
00:38:25.986 --> 00:38:26.326
nemen,

5623
00:38:26.546 --> 00:38:26.806
terwijl

5624
00:38:26.806 --> 00:38:26.926
de

5625
00:38:26.926 --> 00:38:27.166
ander

5626
00:38:27.166 --> 00:38:27.766
daardoor

5627
00:38:27.766 --> 00:38:28.027
een

5628
00:38:28.027 --> 00:38:28.327
groot

5629
00:38:28.327 --> 00:38:28.707
gevoel

5630
00:38:28.707 --> 00:38:28.907
van

5631
00:38:28.907 --> 00:38:29.547
verlatenheid

5632
00:38:29.547 --> 00:38:29.987
ervaart.

5633
00:38:30.727 --> 00:38:30.867
Het

5634
00:38:30.867 --> 00:38:31.327
kompas

5635
00:38:31.327 --> 00:38:31.607
lost

5636
00:38:31.607 --> 00:38:31.787
dat

5637
00:38:31.787 --> 00:38:32.087
lijden

5638
00:38:32.087 --> 00:38:32.266
niet

5639
00:38:32.266 --> 00:38:32.487
op.

5640
00:38:33.147 --> 00:38:33.288
Dat

5641
00:38:33.288 --> 00:38:33.448
is

5642
00:38:33.448 --> 00:38:33.908
belangrijk

5643
00:38:33.908 --> 00:38:34.147
om

5644
00:38:34.147 --> 00:38:34.368
eerlijk

5645
00:38:34.368 --> 00:38:34.528
te

5646
00:38:34.528 --> 00:38:34.748
zeggen.

5647
00:38:35.248 --> 00:38:35.848
Relationele

5648
00:38:35.848 --> 00:38:36.568
legitimiteit

5649
00:38:36.568 --> 00:38:36.748
is

5650
00:38:36.748 --> 00:38:36.928
geen

5651
00:38:36.928 --> 00:38:37.408
garantie

5652
00:38:37.408 --> 00:38:37.548
op

5653
00:38:37.548 --> 00:38:37.668
een

5654
00:38:37.668 --> 00:38:38.148
pijnloze

5655
00:38:38.148 --> 00:38:38.649
uitkomst.

5656
00:38:39.189 --> 00:38:39.449
Sommige

5657
00:38:39.449 --> 00:38:39.989
situaties

5658
00:38:39.989 --> 00:38:40.289
blijven

5659
00:38:40.289 --> 00:38:40.749
tragisch.

5660
00:38:41.309 --> 00:38:41.429
De

5661
00:38:41.429 --> 00:38:41.649
vraag

5662
00:38:41.649 --> 00:38:41.809
is

5663
00:38:41.809 --> 00:38:41.969
dan

5664
00:38:41.969 --> 00:38:42.189
niet,

5665
00:38:42.689 --> 00:38:42.849
hoe

5666
00:38:42.849 --> 00:38:43.249
voorkomen

5667
00:38:43.249 --> 00:38:43.429
we

5668
00:38:43.429 --> 00:38:43.609
ieder

5669
00:38:43.609 --> 00:38:43.969
verdriet?

5670
00:38:43.969 --> 00:38:44.590
De

5671
00:38:44.590 --> 00:38:44.810
vraag

5672
00:38:44.810 --> 00:38:45.050
is,

5673
00:38:45.510 --> 00:38:45.650
hoe

5674
00:38:45.650 --> 00:38:46.050
voorkomen

5675
00:38:46.050 --> 00:38:46.230
we

5676
00:38:46.230 --> 00:38:46.830
vermijdbare

5677
00:38:46.830 --> 00:38:47.230
schade?

5678
00:38:47.630 --> 00:38:47.750
Hoe

5679
00:38:47.750 --> 00:38:48.090
spreken

5680
00:38:48.090 --> 00:38:48.250
we

5681
00:38:48.250 --> 00:38:48.570
eerlijk?

5682
00:38:49.210 --> 00:38:49.370
Hoe

5683
00:38:49.370 --> 00:38:49.791
verdelen

5684
00:38:49.791 --> 00:38:50.031
we

5685
00:38:50.031 --> 00:38:50.891
verantwoordelijkheid?

5686
00:38:51.271 --> 00:38:51.391
Hoe

5687
00:38:51.391 --> 00:38:51.951
beschermen

5688
00:38:51.951 --> 00:38:52.111
we

5689
00:38:52.111 --> 00:38:52.671
veiligheid?

5690
00:38:53.231 --> 00:38:53.411
Hoe

5691
00:38:53.411 --> 00:38:53.691
maken

5692
00:38:53.691 --> 00:38:53.851
we

5693
00:38:53.851 --> 00:38:54.211
zichtbaar

5694
00:38:54.211 --> 00:38:54.411
wat

5695
00:38:54.411 --> 00:38:54.571
nog

5696
00:38:54.571 --> 00:38:55.051
ontbreekt?

5697
00:38:55.552 --> 00:38:55.672
En

5698
00:38:55.672 --> 00:38:55.892
wie

5699
00:38:55.892 --> 00:38:56.432
blijft

5700
00:38:56.432 --> 00:38:57.152
aanspreekbaar

5701
00:38:57.152 --> 00:38:57.352
voor

5702
00:38:57.352 --> 00:38:57.492
het

5703
00:38:57.492 --> 00:38:57.952
vervolg?

5704
00:38:58.612 --> 00:38:58.812
Een

5705
00:38:58.812 --> 00:38:59.152
moeilijk

5706
00:38:59.152 --> 00:38:59.552
gesprek

5707
00:38:59.552 --> 00:38:59.812
tussen

5708
00:38:59.812 --> 00:39:00.132
twee

5709
00:39:00.132 --> 00:39:00.472
mensen

5710
00:39:00.472 --> 00:39:00.793
stel

5711
00:39:00.793 --> 00:39:01.073
dat

5712
00:39:01.073 --> 00:39:01.313
twee

5713
00:39:01.313 --> 00:39:01.573
mensen

5714
00:39:01.573 --> 00:39:01.853
ruzie

5715
00:39:01.853 --> 00:39:02.213
krijgen

5716
00:39:02.213 --> 00:39:02.533
over

5717
00:39:02.533 --> 00:39:02.713
een

5718
00:39:02.713 --> 00:39:03.273
gebeurtenis

5719
00:39:03.273 --> 00:39:03.473
uit

5720
00:39:03.473 --> 00:39:03.633
het

5721
00:39:03.633 --> 00:39:04.033
verleden.

5722
00:39:04.353 --> 00:39:04.713
De

5723
00:39:04.713 --> 00:39:04.993
ene

5724
00:39:04.993 --> 00:39:05.353
persoon

5725
00:39:05.353 --> 00:39:05.753
zegt,

5726
00:39:06.073 --> 00:39:06.313
je

5727
00:39:06.313 --> 00:39:06.434
hebt

5728
00:39:06.434 --> 00:39:06.554
mij

5729
00:39:06.554 --> 00:39:06.734
toen

5730
00:39:06.734 --> 00:39:07.014
alleen

5731
00:39:07.014 --> 00:39:07.454
gelaten.

5732
00:39:07.874 --> 00:39:08.134
De

5733
00:39:08.134 --> 00:39:08.394
andere

5734
00:39:08.394 --> 00:39:08.774
zegt,

5735
00:39:09.134 --> 00:39:09.394
dat

5736
00:39:09.394 --> 00:39:09.514
is

5737
00:39:09.514 --> 00:39:09.674
niet

5738
00:39:09.674 --> 00:39:09.854
wat

5739
00:39:09.854 --> 00:39:09.954
er

5740
00:39:09.954 --> 00:39:10.394
gebeurde.

5741
00:39:11.034 --> 00:39:11.194
Ik

5742
00:39:11.194 --> 00:39:11.614
probeerde

5743
00:39:11.614 --> 00:39:11.854
juist

5744
00:39:11.854 --> 00:39:12.415
escalatie

5745
00:39:12.415 --> 00:39:12.615
te

5746
00:39:12.615 --> 00:39:13.035
voorkomen.

5747
00:39:13.555 --> 00:39:13.915
Zonder

5748
00:39:13.915 --> 00:39:14.315
kompas

5749
00:39:14.315 --> 00:39:14.495
kan

5750
00:39:14.495 --> 00:39:14.615
het

5751
00:39:14.615 --> 00:39:14.955
gesprek

5752
00:39:14.955 --> 00:39:15.215
snel

5753
00:39:15.215 --> 00:39:15.775
vastlopen.

5754
00:39:16.395 --> 00:39:16.495
De

5755
00:39:16.495 --> 00:39:16.735
eerste

5756
00:39:16.735 --> 00:39:17.195
persoon

5757
00:39:17.195 --> 00:39:17.496
hoort

5758
00:39:17.496 --> 00:39:17.996
ontkenning.

5759
00:39:18.416 --> 00:39:18.536
De

5760
00:39:18.536 --> 00:39:18.816
tweede

5761
00:39:18.816 --> 00:39:19.236
persoon

5762
00:39:19.236 --> 00:39:19.476
hoort

5763
00:39:19.476 --> 00:39:19.616
een

5764
00:39:19.616 --> 00:39:20.116
onterechte

5765
00:39:20.116 --> 00:39:20.716
beschuldiging.

5766
00:39:21.436 --> 00:39:21.576
De

5767
00:39:21.576 --> 00:39:21.856
eerste

5768
00:39:21.856 --> 00:39:22.356
verhoogt

5769
00:39:22.356 --> 00:39:22.456
de

5770
00:39:22.456 --> 00:39:23.077
emotionele

5771
00:39:23.077 --> 00:39:23.797
intensiteit.

5772
00:39:24.377 --> 00:39:24.517
De

5773
00:39:24.517 --> 00:39:24.817
tweede

5774
00:39:24.817 --> 00:39:25.077
geeft

5775
00:39:25.077 --> 00:39:25.277
meer

5776
00:39:25.277 --> 00:39:25.677
details

5777
00:39:25.677 --> 00:39:25.877
en

5778
00:39:25.877 --> 00:39:26.457
verdediging.

5779
00:39:27.137 --> 00:39:27.637
Uiteindelijk

5780
00:39:27.637 --> 00:39:28.077
luistert

5781
00:39:28.077 --> 00:39:28.257
niemand

5782
00:39:28.257 --> 00:39:28.578
meer.

5783
00:39:29.278 --> 00:39:29.398
Met

5784
00:39:29.398 --> 00:39:29.538
het

5785
00:39:29.538 --> 00:39:29.838
kompas

5786
00:39:29.838 --> 00:39:30.258
verandert

5787
00:39:30.258 --> 00:39:30.558
eerst

5788
00:39:30.558 --> 00:39:30.678
de

5789
00:39:30.678 --> 00:39:31.098
volgorde.

5790
00:39:31.758 --> 00:39:31.878
De

5791
00:39:31.878 --> 00:39:32.118
eerste

5792
00:39:32.118 --> 00:39:32.458
vraag

5793
00:39:32.458 --> 00:39:32.738
is,

5794
00:39:33.278 --> 00:39:33.458
wat

5795
00:39:33.458 --> 00:39:33.658
heeft

5796
00:39:33.658 --> 00:39:33.778
die

5797
00:39:33.778 --> 00:39:34.359
gebeurtenis

5798
00:39:34.359 --> 00:39:34.519
met

5799
00:39:34.519 --> 00:39:34.679
jou

5800
00:39:34.679 --> 00:39:34.979
gedaan?

5801
00:39:35.779 --> 00:39:35.919
De

5802
00:39:35.919 --> 00:39:36.199
ander

5803
00:39:36.199 --> 00:39:36.739
hoeft

5804
00:39:36.739 --> 00:39:36.919
niet

5805
00:39:36.919 --> 00:39:37.419
onmiddellijk

5806
00:39:37.419 --> 00:39:37.599
de

5807
00:39:37.599 --> 00:39:37.999
feitelijke

5808
00:39:37.999 --> 00:39:38.459
conclusie

5809
00:39:38.459 --> 00:39:38.579
te

5810
00:39:38.579 --> 00:39:39.159
onderschrijven.

5811
00:39:39.710 --> 00:39:39.980
Er

5812
00:39:39.980 --> 00:39:40.140
kan

5813
00:39:40.140 --> 00:39:40.380
worden

5814
00:39:40.380 --> 00:39:40.860
gezegd,

5815
00:39:41.380 --> 00:39:41.560
ik

5816
00:39:41.560 --> 00:39:41.720
hoor

5817
00:39:41.720 --> 00:39:41.900
dat

5818
00:39:41.900 --> 00:39:42.060
jij

5819
00:39:42.060 --> 00:39:42.240
je

5820
00:39:42.240 --> 00:39:42.400
op

5821
00:39:42.400 --> 00:39:42.560
dat

5822
00:39:42.560 --> 00:39:42.860
moment

5823
00:39:42.860 --> 00:39:43.340
verlaten

5824
00:39:43.340 --> 00:39:43.500
hebt

5825
00:39:43.500 --> 00:39:43.880
gevoeld.

5826
00:39:44.560 --> 00:39:44.680
Dat

5827
00:39:44.680 --> 00:39:44.840
is

5828
00:39:44.840 --> 00:39:45.261
erkenning

5829
00:39:45.261 --> 00:39:45.421
van

5830
00:39:45.421 --> 00:39:45.541
de

5831
00:39:45.541 --> 00:39:45.961
ervaring.

5832
00:39:46.621 --> 00:39:46.921
Daarna,

5833
00:39:47.361 --> 00:39:47.521
ik

5834
00:39:47.521 --> 00:39:47.841
herinner

5835
00:39:47.841 --> 00:39:48.041
mij

5836
00:39:48.041 --> 00:39:48.201
de

5837
00:39:48.201 --> 00:39:48.681
situatie

5838
00:39:48.681 --> 00:39:49.041
anders

5839
00:39:49.041 --> 00:39:49.281
en

5840
00:39:49.281 --> 00:39:49.461
wil

5841
00:39:49.461 --> 00:39:49.621
dat

5842
00:39:49.621 --> 00:39:49.961
later

5843
00:39:49.961 --> 00:39:50.541
zorgvuldig

5844
00:39:50.541 --> 00:39:51.062
uitleggen.

5845
00:39:51.682 --> 00:39:52.082
Vervolgens

5846
00:39:52.082 --> 00:39:52.242
wordt

5847
00:39:52.242 --> 00:39:52.662
bekeken

5848
00:39:52.662 --> 00:39:52.842
of

5849
00:39:52.842 --> 00:39:52.942
het

5850
00:39:52.942 --> 00:39:53.322
gesprek

5851
00:39:53.322 --> 00:39:53.802
veilig

5852
00:39:53.802 --> 00:39:53.942
kan

5853
00:39:53.942 --> 00:39:54.402
doorgaan.

5854
00:39:54.922 --> 00:39:55.022
Is

5855
00:39:55.022 --> 00:39:55.162
er

5856
00:39:55.162 --> 00:39:55.422
rust?

5857
00:39:55.782 --> 00:39:55.962
Kan

5858
00:39:55.962 --> 00:39:56.203
ieder

5859
00:39:56.203 --> 00:39:56.643
spreken?

5860
00:39:56.863 --> 00:39:57.023
Wordt

5861
00:39:57.023 --> 00:39:57.123
er

5862
00:39:57.123 --> 00:39:57.263
niet

5863
00:39:57.263 --> 00:39:57.723
gescholden?

5864
00:39:58.003 --> 00:39:58.103
Is

5865
00:39:58.103 --> 00:39:58.243
het

5866
00:39:58.243 --> 00:39:58.623
tijdstip

5867
00:39:58.623 --> 00:39:59.003
geschikt?

5868
00:39:59.503 --> 00:39:59.703
Zo

5869
00:39:59.703 --> 00:39:59.923
niet,

5870
00:40:00.263 --> 00:40:00.423
dan

5871
00:40:00.423 --> 00:40:00.703
volgt

5872
00:40:00.703 --> 00:40:00.843
een

5873
00:40:00.843 --> 00:40:01.163
pauze.

5874
00:40:01.623 --> 00:40:01.744
Niet

5875
00:40:01.744 --> 00:40:01.984
als

5876
00:40:01.984 --> 00:40:02.344
straf,

5877
00:40:02.604 --> 00:40:02.784
maar

5878
00:40:02.784 --> 00:40:03.224
als

5879
00:40:03.224 --> 00:40:04.364
veiligheidsmaatregel.

5880
00:40:04.904 --> 00:40:05.164
Later

5881
00:40:05.164 --> 00:40:05.424
worden

5882
00:40:05.424 --> 00:40:05.844
feiten,

5883
00:40:06.164 --> 00:40:06.624
herinneringen

5884
00:40:06.624 --> 00:40:06.984
en

5885
00:40:06.984 --> 00:40:07.765
interpretaties

5886
00:40:07.765 --> 00:40:07.925
uit

5887
00:40:07.925 --> 00:40:08.185
elkaar

5888
00:40:08.185 --> 00:40:08.585
gehaald.

5889
00:40:08.585 --> 00:40:09.125
Wat

5890
00:40:09.125 --> 00:40:09.265
is

5891
00:40:09.265 --> 00:40:09.705
concreet

5892
00:40:09.705 --> 00:40:10.185
gezegd?

5893
00:40:10.385 --> 00:40:10.505
Wat

5894
00:40:10.505 --> 00:40:10.625
is

5895
00:40:10.625 --> 00:40:11.145
schriftelijk

5896
00:40:11.145 --> 00:40:11.465
terug

5897
00:40:11.465 --> 00:40:11.585
te

5898
00:40:11.585 --> 00:40:11.805
vinden?

5899
00:40:12.425 --> 00:40:12.525
Wat

5900
00:40:12.525 --> 00:40:12.665
is

5901
00:40:12.665 --> 00:40:13.186
herinnering?

5902
00:40:13.646 --> 00:40:13.746
Wat

5903
00:40:13.746 --> 00:40:13.946
is

5904
00:40:13.946 --> 00:40:14.666
betekenis?

5905
00:40:15.166 --> 00:40:15.306
Wat

5906
00:40:15.306 --> 00:40:15.446
is

5907
00:40:15.446 --> 00:40:15.586
nog

5908
00:40:15.586 --> 00:40:16.106
onzeker?

5909
00:40:16.866 --> 00:40:17.146
Misschien

5910
00:40:17.146 --> 00:40:17.386
blijft

5911
00:40:17.386 --> 00:40:17.686
verschil

5912
00:40:17.686 --> 00:40:18.066
bestaan.

5913
00:40:18.807 --> 00:40:18.927
Een

5914
00:40:18.927 --> 00:40:19.487
relationeel

5915
00:40:19.487 --> 00:40:19.947
legitiem

5916
00:40:19.947 --> 00:40:20.387
gesprek

5917
00:40:20.387 --> 00:40:20.827
vereist

5918
00:40:20.827 --> 00:40:21.127
geen

5919
00:40:21.127 --> 00:40:21.607
volledige

5920
00:40:21.607 --> 00:40:22.507
overeenstemming.

5921
00:40:23.087 --> 00:40:23.227
Het

5922
00:40:23.227 --> 00:40:23.627
vereist

5923
00:40:23.627 --> 00:40:23.928
dat

5924
00:40:23.928 --> 00:40:24.288
verschil

5925
00:40:24.288 --> 00:40:24.528
niet

5926
00:40:24.528 --> 00:40:24.708
wordt

5927
00:40:24.708 --> 00:40:25.308
gebruikt

5928
00:40:25.308 --> 00:40:25.448
om

5929
00:40:25.448 --> 00:40:25.608
de

5930
00:40:25.608 --> 00:40:26.008
menselijke

5931
00:40:26.008 --> 00:40:26.308
waarde

5932
00:40:26.308 --> 00:40:26.488
van

5933
00:40:26.488 --> 00:40:26.588
de

5934
00:40:26.588 --> 00:40:26.768
ander

5935
00:40:26.768 --> 00:40:26.988
te

5936
00:40:26.988 --> 00:40:27.468
vernietigen.

5937
00:40:28.308 --> 00:40:28.428
Een

5938
00:40:28.428 --> 00:40:29.048
mantelzorger

5939
00:40:29.048 --> 00:40:29.208
die

5940
00:40:29.208 --> 00:40:29.408
niet

5941
00:40:29.408 --> 00:40:29.569
meer

5942
00:40:29.569 --> 00:40:29.749
kan

5943
00:40:29.749 --> 00:40:29.969
stellen

5944
00:40:29.969 --> 00:40:30.169
dat

5945
00:40:30.169 --> 00:40:30.469
iemand

5946
00:40:30.469 --> 00:40:31.169
langdurig

5947
00:40:31.169 --> 00:40:31.529
zorgt

5948
00:40:31.529 --> 00:40:31.989
voor

5949
00:40:31.989 --> 00:40:32.129
een

5950
00:40:32.129 --> 00:40:32.729
familielid.

5951
00:40:33.489 --> 00:40:33.969
De

5952
00:40:33.969 --> 00:40:34.149
hulp

5953
00:40:34.149 --> 00:40:34.269
is

5954
00:40:34.269 --> 00:40:34.529
begonnen

5955
00:40:34.529 --> 00:40:34.769
uit

5956
00:40:34.769 --> 00:40:35.090
liefde.

5957
00:40:35.470 --> 00:40:35.790
Langzaam

5958
00:40:35.790 --> 00:40:35.930
zijn

5959
00:40:35.930 --> 00:40:36.190
steeds

5960
00:40:36.190 --> 00:40:36.350
meer

5961
00:40:36.350 --> 00:40:36.570
taken

5962
00:40:36.570 --> 00:40:37.170
toegevoegd.

5963
00:40:37.170 --> 00:40:38.150
Boodschappen,

5964
00:40:38.530 --> 00:40:39.310
administratie,

5965
00:40:39.730 --> 00:40:40.150
vervoer,

5966
00:40:40.591 --> 00:40:40.971
nachtelijke

5967
00:40:40.971 --> 00:40:41.631
telefoontjes,

5968
00:40:41.971 --> 00:40:42.251
contact

5969
00:40:42.251 --> 00:40:42.451
met

5970
00:40:42.451 --> 00:40:43.051
instanties,

5971
00:40:43.631 --> 00:40:44.191
emotionele

5972
00:40:44.191 --> 00:40:44.571
opvang.

5973
00:40:45.351 --> 00:40:45.471
De

5974
00:40:45.471 --> 00:40:46.192
mantelzorger

5975
00:40:46.192 --> 00:40:46.492
raakt

5976
00:40:46.492 --> 00:40:46.892
uitgeput

5977
00:40:46.892 --> 00:40:47.052
en

5978
00:40:47.052 --> 00:40:47.252
zegt

5979
00:40:47.252 --> 00:40:47.572
ik

5980
00:40:47.572 --> 00:40:47.752
kan

5981
00:40:47.752 --> 00:40:47.912
dit

5982
00:40:47.912 --> 00:40:48.052
niet

5983
00:40:48.052 --> 00:40:48.292
meer.

5984
00:40:48.632 --> 00:40:48.752
De

5985
00:40:48.752 --> 00:40:49.312
hulpvrager

5986
00:40:49.312 --> 00:40:49.532
kan

5987
00:40:49.532 --> 00:40:49.712
dit

5988
00:40:49.712 --> 00:40:50.092
ervaren

5989
00:40:50.092 --> 00:40:50.312
als

5990
00:40:50.312 --> 00:40:50.732
verlating.

5991
00:40:51.172 --> 00:40:51.292
De

5992
00:40:51.292 --> 00:40:51.492
pijn

5993
00:40:51.492 --> 00:40:51.693
is

5994
00:40:51.693 --> 00:40:52.093
werkelijk.

5995
00:40:52.593 --> 00:40:52.793
Maar

5996
00:40:52.793 --> 00:40:53.293
het

5997
00:40:53.293 --> 00:40:53.953
relationeel

5998
00:40:53.953 --> 00:40:54.313
antwoord

5999
00:40:54.313 --> 00:40:54.513
kan

6000
00:40:54.513 --> 00:40:54.693
niet

6001
00:40:54.693 --> 00:40:54.953
zijn

6002
00:40:54.953 --> 00:40:55.433
dat

6003
00:40:55.433 --> 00:40:55.593
de

6004
00:40:55.593 --> 00:40:56.213
mantelzorger

6005
00:40:56.213 --> 00:40:56.633
daarom

6006
00:40:56.633 --> 00:40:57.073
alles

6007
00:40:57.073 --> 00:40:57.234
moet

6008
00:40:57.234 --> 00:40:57.534
blijven

6009
00:40:57.534 --> 00:40:57.714
doen.

6010
00:40:58.394 --> 00:40:58.554
Het

6011
00:40:58.554 --> 00:40:58.954
kompas

6012
00:40:58.954 --> 00:40:59.374
vraagt

6013
00:40:59.374 --> 00:41:00.194
welke

6014
00:41:00.194 --> 00:41:00.514
taken

6015
00:41:00.514 --> 00:41:00.774
zijn

6016
00:41:00.774 --> 00:41:01.094
werkelijk

6017
00:41:01.094 --> 00:41:01.754
noodzakelijk?

6018
00:41:02.354 --> 00:41:02.634
Welke

6019
00:41:02.634 --> 00:41:02.895
taken

6020
00:41:02.895 --> 00:41:03.135
kan

6021
00:41:03.135 --> 00:41:03.275
de

6022
00:41:03.275 --> 00:41:03.795
hulpvrager

6023
00:41:03.795 --> 00:41:04.035
zelf

6024
00:41:04.035 --> 00:41:04.215
doen

6025
00:41:04.215 --> 00:41:04.395
met

6026
00:41:04.395 --> 00:41:04.955
ondersteuning?

6027
00:41:05.475 --> 00:41:05.795
Welke

6028
00:41:05.795 --> 00:41:06.115
taken

6029
00:41:06.115 --> 00:41:06.515
horen

6030
00:41:06.515 --> 00:41:06.715
bij

6031
00:41:06.715 --> 00:41:07.455
professionele

6032
00:41:07.455 --> 00:41:07.775
zorg?

6033
00:41:08.396 --> 00:41:08.556
Zijn

6034
00:41:08.556 --> 00:41:08.676
er

6035
00:41:08.676 --> 00:41:08.956
andere

6036
00:41:08.956 --> 00:41:09.656
netwerkleden?

6037
00:41:10.056 --> 00:41:10.156
Is

6038
00:41:10.156 --> 00:41:10.836
respitesorg

6039
00:41:10.836 --> 00:41:11.276
mogelijk?

6040
00:41:11.676 --> 00:41:11.796
Wie

6041
00:41:11.796 --> 00:41:12.116
bewaakt

6042
00:41:12.116 --> 00:41:12.256
de

6043
00:41:12.256 --> 00:41:12.716
overgang?

6044
00:41:13.136 --> 00:41:13.396
Welke

6045
00:41:13.396 --> 00:41:13.777
acute

6046
00:41:13.777 --> 00:41:14.557
risico's

6047
00:41:14.557 --> 00:41:15.137
ontstaan

6048
00:41:15.137 --> 00:41:15.537
wanneer

6049
00:41:15.537 --> 00:41:15.697
de

6050
00:41:15.697 --> 00:41:16.337
mantelzorger

6051
00:41:16.337 --> 00:41:16.737
stopt?

6052
00:41:17.157 --> 00:41:17.257
En

6053
00:41:17.257 --> 00:41:17.397
hoe

6054
00:41:17.397 --> 00:41:17.617
wordt

6055
00:41:17.617 --> 00:41:18.197
voorkomen

6056
00:41:18.197 --> 00:41:18.417
dat

6057
00:41:18.417 --> 00:41:19.097
schuldgevoel

6058
00:41:19.097 --> 00:41:19.458
de

6059
00:41:19.458 --> 00:41:19.818
enige

6060
00:41:19.818 --> 00:41:20.138
lijm

6061
00:41:20.138 --> 00:41:20.338
van

6062
00:41:20.338 --> 00:41:20.498
het

6063
00:41:20.498 --> 00:41:21.158
zorgsysteem

6064
00:41:21.158 --> 00:41:21.418
wordt?

6065
00:41:22.318 --> 00:41:22.958
Draagkrachtbegrenzing

6066
00:41:22.958 --> 00:41:23.458
betekent

6067
00:41:23.458 --> 00:41:23.698
hier

6068
00:41:23.698 --> 00:41:23.918
niet.

6069
00:41:24.258 --> 00:41:24.398
Het

6070
00:41:24.398 --> 00:41:24.718
lijden

6071
00:41:24.718 --> 00:41:24.879
van

6072
00:41:24.879 --> 00:41:25.019
de

6073
00:41:25.019 --> 00:41:25.519
hulpvrager

6074
00:41:25.519 --> 00:41:25.739
telt

6075
00:41:25.739 --> 00:41:25.919
niet

6076
00:41:25.919 --> 00:41:26.159
meer.

6077
00:41:26.679 --> 00:41:26.779
Het

6078
00:41:26.779 --> 00:41:27.279
betekent

6079
00:41:27.279 --> 00:41:27.899
deze

6080
00:41:27.899 --> 00:41:28.199
vorm

6081
00:41:28.199 --> 00:41:28.419
van

6082
00:41:28.419 --> 00:41:28.739
zorg

6083
00:41:28.739 --> 00:41:28.979
is

6084
00:41:28.979 --> 00:41:29.139
niet

6085
00:41:29.139 --> 00:41:29.419
langer

6086
00:41:29.419 --> 00:41:29.879
duurzaam.

6087
00:41:30.600 --> 00:41:30.720
Er

6088
00:41:30.720 --> 00:41:30.880
moet

6089
00:41:30.880 --> 00:41:31.000
een

6090
00:41:31.000 --> 00:41:31.260
andere

6091
00:41:31.260 --> 00:41:31.720
verdeling

6092
00:41:31.720 --> 00:41:32.020
komen.

6093
00:41:32.680 --> 00:41:33.000
Een

6094
00:41:33.000 --> 00:41:33.520
professional

6095
00:41:33.520 --> 00:41:33.780
en

6096
00:41:33.780 --> 00:41:33.900
een

6097
00:41:33.900 --> 00:41:34.140
burger

6098
00:41:34.140 --> 00:41:34.500
stel

6099
00:41:34.500 --> 00:41:35.000
dat

6100
00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:35.120
een

6101
00:41:35.120 --> 00:41:35.540
gemeente

6102
00:41:35.540 --> 00:41:35.740
een

6103
00:41:35.740 --> 00:41:36.641
ondersteuningstraject

6104
00:41:36.641 --> 00:41:37.141
wijzigt.

6105
00:41:38.161 --> 00:41:38.601
Juridisch

6106
00:41:38.601 --> 00:41:38.841
kan

6107
00:41:38.841 --> 00:41:38.961
het

6108
00:41:38.961 --> 00:41:39.281
besluit

6109
00:41:39.281 --> 00:41:39.641
bevoegd

6110
00:41:39.641 --> 00:41:39.821
zijn.

6111
00:41:40.661 --> 00:41:41.181
Professioneel

6112
00:41:41.181 --> 00:41:41.341
kan

6113
00:41:41.341 --> 00:41:41.482
een

6114
00:41:41.482 --> 00:41:41.682
andere

6115
00:41:41.682 --> 00:41:42.082
voorziening

6116
00:41:42.082 --> 00:41:42.582
verdedigbaar

6117
00:41:42.582 --> 00:41:42.782
zijn.

6118
00:41:43.562 --> 00:41:43.782
Maar

6119
00:41:43.782 --> 00:41:43.942
de

6120
00:41:43.942 --> 00:41:44.242
burger

6121
00:41:44.242 --> 00:41:44.822
ontvangt

6122
00:41:44.822 --> 00:41:45.122
alleen

6123
00:41:45.122 --> 00:41:45.462
een

6124
00:41:45.462 --> 00:41:45.822
formele

6125
00:41:45.822 --> 00:41:46.122
brief.

6126
00:41:46.742 --> 00:41:46.862
De

6127
00:41:46.862 --> 00:41:47.303
vertrouwde

6128
00:41:47.303 --> 00:41:47.763
begeleider

6129
00:41:47.763 --> 00:41:48.203
verdwijnt.

6130
00:41:49.003 --> 00:41:49.103
Een

6131
00:41:49.103 --> 00:41:49.823
familielid

6132
00:41:49.823 --> 00:41:50.023
wordt

6133
00:41:50.023 --> 00:41:50.303
geacht

6134
00:41:50.303 --> 00:41:50.503
meer

6135
00:41:50.503 --> 00:41:50.643
te

6136
00:41:50.643 --> 00:41:50.783
doen.

6137
00:41:51.443 --> 00:41:51.603
En

6138
00:41:51.603 --> 00:41:51.743
de

6139
00:41:51.743 --> 00:41:52.003
burger

6140
00:41:52.003 --> 00:41:52.443
begrijpt

6141
00:41:52.443 --> 00:41:52.624
niet

6142
00:41:52.624 --> 00:41:53.141
waartegen

6143
00:41:53.141 --> 00:41:53.544
bezwaar

6144
00:41:53.544 --> 00:41:53.844
mogelijk

6145
00:41:53.844 --> 00:41:54.164
is.

6146
00:41:54.924 --> 00:41:55.044
Het

6147
00:41:55.044 --> 00:41:55.404
kompas

6148
00:41:55.404 --> 00:41:55.724
vraagt

6149
00:41:55.724 --> 00:41:55.964
dan,

6150
00:41:56.564 --> 00:41:56.784
is

6151
00:41:56.784 --> 00:41:56.924
de

6152
00:41:56.924 --> 00:41:57.384
beslissing

6153
00:41:57.384 --> 00:41:57.884
begrijpelijk

6154
00:41:57.884 --> 00:41:58.565
uitgelegd?

6155
00:41:58.565 --> 00:41:59.125
Is

6156
00:41:59.125 --> 00:41:59.285
de

6157
00:41:59.285 --> 00:41:59.745
feitelijke

6158
00:41:59.745 --> 00:42:00.365
draagkracht

6159
00:42:00.365 --> 00:42:00.545
van

6160
00:42:00.545 --> 00:42:00.685
het

6161
00:42:00.685 --> 00:42:01.045
netwerk

6162
00:42:01.045 --> 00:42:01.605
onderzocht?

6163
00:42:02.025 --> 00:42:02.405
Heeft

6164
00:42:02.405 --> 00:42:02.545
het

6165
00:42:02.545 --> 00:42:03.085
familielid

6166
00:42:03.085 --> 00:42:03.565
vrijwillig

6167
00:42:03.565 --> 00:42:04.166
ingestemd?

6168
00:42:04.586 --> 00:42:04.866
Welke

6169
00:42:04.866 --> 00:42:05.566
continuïteit

6170
00:42:05.566 --> 00:42:05.706
gaat

6171
00:42:05.706 --> 00:42:06.086
verloren?

6172
00:42:06.666 --> 00:42:06.806
Kan

6173
00:42:06.806 --> 00:42:06.986
de

6174
00:42:06.986 --> 00:42:07.426
overgang

6175
00:42:07.426 --> 00:42:08.046
gefaceerd?

6176
00:42:08.486 --> 00:42:08.666
Is

6177
00:42:08.666 --> 00:42:08.806
er

6178
00:42:08.806 --> 00:42:08.986
één

6179
00:42:08.986 --> 00:42:09.727
aanspreekpunt?

6180
00:42:10.027 --> 00:42:10.147
Kan

6181
00:42:10.147 --> 00:42:10.327
de

6182
00:42:10.327 --> 00:42:10.547
burger

6183
00:42:10.547 --> 00:42:10.727
de

6184
00:42:10.727 --> 00:42:11.207
informatie

6185
00:42:11.207 --> 00:42:11.867
corrigeren?

6186
00:42:12.687 --> 00:42:12.847
En

6187
00:42:12.847 --> 00:42:13.227
wanneer

6188
00:42:13.227 --> 00:42:13.407
wordt

6189
00:42:13.407 --> 00:42:14.167
geëvalueerd

6190
00:42:14.167 --> 00:42:14.447
of

6191
00:42:14.447 --> 00:42:14.587
de

6192
00:42:14.587 --> 00:42:14.788
nieuwe

6193
00:42:14.788 --> 00:42:15.328
voorziening

6194
00:42:15.328 --> 00:42:15.748
werkelijk

6195
00:42:15.748 --> 00:42:16.068
werkt?

6196
00:42:16.828 --> 00:42:16.988
De

6197
00:42:16.988 --> 00:42:17.508
uitkomst

6198
00:42:17.508 --> 00:42:17.648
kan

6199
00:42:17.648 --> 00:42:17.828
nog

6200
00:42:17.828 --> 00:42:18.088
steeds

6201
00:42:18.088 --> 00:42:18.328
zijn

6202
00:42:18.328 --> 00:42:18.568
dat

6203
00:42:18.568 --> 00:42:18.688
de

6204
00:42:18.688 --> 00:42:19.228
ondersteuning

6205
00:42:19.228 --> 00:42:19.768
verandert.

6206
00:42:20.529 --> 00:42:20.729
Maar

6207
00:42:20.729 --> 00:42:20.969
de

6208
00:42:20.969 --> 00:42:21.449
uitvoering

6209
00:42:21.449 --> 00:42:21.689
kan

6210
00:42:21.689 --> 00:42:21.929
veel

6211
00:42:21.929 --> 00:42:22.249
minder

6212
00:42:22.249 --> 00:42:23.229
relationele

6213
00:42:23.229 --> 00:42:23.569
schade

6214
00:42:23.569 --> 00:42:24.229
veroorzaken.

6215
00:42:25.009 --> 00:42:25.129
De

6216
00:42:25.129 --> 00:42:25.529
positie

6217
00:42:25.529 --> 00:42:25.709
van

6218
00:42:25.709 --> 00:42:26.050
kinderen.

6219
00:42:26.610 --> 00:42:26.870
Bij

6220
00:42:26.870 --> 00:42:27.230
kinderen

6221
00:42:27.230 --> 00:42:27.690
is

6222
00:42:27.690 --> 00:42:28.050
extra

6223
00:42:28.050 --> 00:42:28.770
zorgvuldigheid

6224
00:42:28.770 --> 00:42:29.070
nodig.

6225
00:42:29.710 --> 00:42:29.810
Het

6226
00:42:29.810 --> 00:42:30.050
recht

6227
00:42:30.050 --> 00:42:30.230
om

6228
00:42:30.230 --> 00:42:30.510
gehoord

6229
00:42:30.510 --> 00:42:30.630
te

6230
00:42:30.630 --> 00:42:30.830
worden

6231
00:42:30.830 --> 00:42:31.451
betekent

6232
00:42:31.451 --> 00:42:31.671
niet

6233
00:42:31.671 --> 00:42:31.951
dat

6234
00:42:31.951 --> 00:42:32.111
een

6235
00:42:32.111 --> 00:42:32.351
kind

6236
00:42:32.351 --> 00:42:32.671
de

6237
00:42:32.671 --> 00:42:33.031
beslissing

6238
00:42:33.031 --> 00:42:33.191
moet

6239
00:42:33.191 --> 00:42:33.511
dragen.

6240
00:42:33.971 --> 00:42:34.071
Een

6241
00:42:34.071 --> 00:42:34.291
kind

6242
00:42:34.291 --> 00:42:34.531
mag

6243
00:42:34.531 --> 00:42:34.891
vertellen

6244
00:42:34.891 --> 00:42:35.051
wat

6245
00:42:35.051 --> 00:42:35.171
het

6246
00:42:35.171 --> 00:42:35.691
ervaart,

6247
00:42:36.171 --> 00:42:36.271
maar

6248
00:42:36.271 --> 00:42:36.471
mag

6249
00:42:36.471 --> 00:42:36.671
niet

6250
00:42:36.671 --> 00:42:36.892
worden

6251
00:42:36.892 --> 00:42:37.352
gedwongen

6252
00:42:37.352 --> 00:42:37.492
te

6253
00:42:37.492 --> 00:42:37.712
kiezen

6254
00:42:37.712 --> 00:42:37.952
tussen

6255
00:42:37.952 --> 00:42:38.412
ouders.

6256
00:42:38.992 --> 00:42:39.152
Een

6257
00:42:39.152 --> 00:42:39.412
kind

6258
00:42:39.412 --> 00:42:39.712
mag

6259
00:42:39.712 --> 00:42:40.232
voorkeuren

6260
00:42:40.232 --> 00:42:40.872
uitspreken,

6261
00:42:41.632 --> 00:42:41.732
maar

6262
00:42:41.732 --> 00:42:41.952
hoort

6263
00:42:41.952 --> 00:42:42.132
niet

6264
00:42:42.132 --> 00:42:42.733
verantwoordelijk

6265
00:42:42.733 --> 00:42:42.873
te

6266
00:42:42.873 --> 00:42:43.013
worden

6267
00:42:43.013 --> 00:42:43.453
gemaakt

6268
00:42:43.453 --> 00:42:43.713
voor

6269
00:42:43.713 --> 00:42:43.873
het

6270
00:42:43.873 --> 00:42:44.213
herstel

6271
00:42:44.213 --> 00:42:44.413
van

6272
00:42:44.413 --> 00:42:45.013
volwassenen.

6273
00:42:45.773 --> 00:42:45.913
Een

6274
00:42:45.913 --> 00:42:46.213
kind

6275
00:42:46.213 --> 00:42:46.613
mag

6276
00:42:46.613 --> 00:42:46.773
een

6277
00:42:46.773 --> 00:42:47.413
steunpersoon

6278
00:42:47.413 --> 00:42:47.633
hebben,

6279
00:42:48.254 --> 00:42:48.354
maar

6280
00:42:48.354 --> 00:42:48.474
die

6281
00:42:48.474 --> 00:42:48.894
persoon

6282
00:42:48.894 --> 00:42:49.374
mag

6283
00:42:49.374 --> 00:42:49.554
de

6284
00:42:49.554 --> 00:42:49.754
stem

6285
00:42:49.754 --> 00:42:49.934
van

6286
00:42:49.934 --> 00:42:50.074
het

6287
00:42:50.074 --> 00:42:50.314
kind

6288
00:42:50.314 --> 00:42:50.594
niet

6289
00:42:50.594 --> 00:42:50.994
vervangen.

6290
00:42:51.594 --> 00:42:51.954
Het

6291
00:42:51.954 --> 00:42:52.394
kompas

6292
00:42:52.394 --> 00:42:52.734
vraagt

6293
00:42:52.734 --> 00:42:53.134
daarom,

6294
00:42:53.835 --> 00:42:54.015
is

6295
00:42:54.015 --> 00:42:54.175
de

6296
00:42:54.175 --> 00:42:54.395
taal

6297
00:42:54.395 --> 00:42:54.795
passend

6298
00:42:54.795 --> 00:42:54.995
bij

6299
00:42:54.995 --> 00:42:55.475
leeftijd

6300
00:42:55.475 --> 00:42:55.795
en

6301
00:42:55.795 --> 00:42:56.495
ontwikkeling?

6302
00:42:56.995 --> 00:42:57.415
Begrijpt

6303
00:42:57.415 --> 00:42:57.575
het

6304
00:42:57.575 --> 00:42:57.775
kind

6305
00:42:57.775 --> 00:42:57.995
wat

6306
00:42:57.995 --> 00:42:58.115
er

6307
00:42:58.115 --> 00:42:58.275
met

6308
00:42:58.275 --> 00:42:58.415
de

6309
00:42:58.415 --> 00:42:58.955
informatie

6310
00:42:58.955 --> 00:42:59.316
gebeurt?

6311
00:42:59.876 --> 00:43:00.076
Is

6312
00:43:00.076 --> 00:43:00.856
onafhankelijke

6313
00:43:00.856 --> 00:43:01.416
ondersteuning

6314
00:43:01.416 --> 00:43:01.716
nodig?

6315
00:43:02.176 --> 00:43:02.316
Wordt

6316
00:43:02.316 --> 00:43:02.456
het

6317
00:43:02.456 --> 00:43:02.676
kind

6318
00:43:02.676 --> 00:43:03.356
meerdere

6319
00:43:03.356 --> 00:43:03.676
keren

6320
00:43:03.676 --> 00:43:04.296
hetzelfde

6321
00:43:04.296 --> 00:43:04.817
belastende

6322
00:43:04.817 --> 00:43:05.177
verhaal

6323
00:43:05.177 --> 00:43:05.677
gevraagd?

6324
00:43:06.117 --> 00:43:06.757
Kan

6325
00:43:06.757 --> 00:43:06.937
de

6326
00:43:06.937 --> 00:43:07.217
mening

6327
00:43:07.217 --> 00:43:07.797
veilig

6328
00:43:07.797 --> 00:43:07.957
worden

6329
00:43:07.957 --> 00:43:08.437
gegeven?

6330
00:43:09.117 --> 00:43:09.217
En

6331
00:43:09.217 --> 00:43:09.377
wordt

6332
00:43:09.377 --> 00:43:09.757
duidelijk

6333
00:43:09.757 --> 00:43:10.418
uitgelegd

6334
00:43:10.418 --> 00:43:10.738
waarom

6335
00:43:10.738 --> 00:43:10.978
wel

6336
00:43:10.978 --> 00:43:11.478
of

6337
00:43:11.478 --> 00:43:11.658
niet

6338
00:43:11.658 --> 00:43:12.458
overeenkomstig

6339
00:43:12.458 --> 00:43:12.598
die

6340
00:43:12.598 --> 00:43:12.858
mening

6341
00:43:12.858 --> 00:43:13.058
wordt

6342
00:43:13.058 --> 00:43:13.518
gehandeld?

6343
00:43:14.018 --> 00:43:14.478
Ook

6344
00:43:14.478 --> 00:43:14.938
hierover

6345
00:43:14.938 --> 00:43:15.238
bevat

6346
00:43:15.238 --> 00:43:15.418
de

6347
00:43:15.418 --> 00:43:15.759
survey

6348
00:43:15.759 --> 00:43:16.159
een

6349
00:43:16.159 --> 00:43:16.739
afzonderlijke

6350
00:43:16.739 --> 00:43:17.099
vraag.

6351
00:43:17.609 --> 00:43:17.919
Het

6352
00:43:17.919 --> 00:43:18.579
levenslogboek

6353
00:43:18.579 --> 00:43:18.779
als

6354
00:43:18.779 --> 00:43:19.499
leerinstrument.

6355
00:43:20.099 --> 00:43:20.199
De

6356
00:43:20.199 --> 00:43:20.659
pdf

6357
00:43:20.659 --> 00:43:21.159
bevat

6358
00:43:21.159 --> 00:43:21.340
een

6359
00:43:21.340 --> 00:43:21.540
vast

6360
00:43:21.540 --> 00:43:21.860
model

6361
00:43:21.860 --> 00:43:22.100
voor

6362
00:43:22.100 --> 00:43:22.220
het

6363
00:43:22.220 --> 00:43:22.840
levenslogboek.

6364
00:43:23.420 --> 00:43:23.580
Dit

6365
00:43:23.580 --> 00:43:23.920
model

6366
00:43:23.920 --> 00:43:24.140
is

6367
00:43:24.140 --> 00:43:24.380
geen

6368
00:43:24.380 --> 00:43:24.840
rechtbank

6369
00:43:24.840 --> 00:43:25.020
in

6370
00:43:25.020 --> 00:43:25.420
huiselijke

6371
00:43:25.420 --> 00:43:25.700
vorm.

6372
00:43:26.120 --> 00:43:26.220
Het

6373
00:43:26.220 --> 00:43:26.320
is

6374
00:43:26.320 --> 00:43:26.480
niet

6375
00:43:26.480 --> 00:43:26.821
bedoeld

6376
00:43:26.821 --> 00:43:26.981
om

6377
00:43:26.981 --> 00:43:27.121
te

6378
00:43:27.121 --> 00:43:27.581
bewijzen

6379
00:43:27.581 --> 00:43:27.741
wie

6380
00:43:27.741 --> 00:43:27.901
de

6381
00:43:27.901 --> 00:43:28.141
slechte

6382
00:43:28.141 --> 00:43:28.541
persoon

6383
00:43:28.541 --> 00:43:28.761
is.

6384
00:43:29.501 --> 00:43:29.681
Het

6385
00:43:29.681 --> 00:43:29.881
doel

6386
00:43:29.881 --> 00:43:30.081
is

6387
00:43:30.081 --> 00:43:30.441
om

6388
00:43:30.441 --> 00:43:31.061
gebeurtenissen

6389
00:43:31.061 --> 00:43:31.241
te

6390
00:43:31.241 --> 00:43:31.621
ordenen

6391
00:43:31.621 --> 00:43:31.821
zonder

6392
00:43:31.821 --> 00:43:32.342
ervaring

6393
00:43:32.342 --> 00:43:32.722
en

6394
00:43:32.722 --> 00:43:32.982
feiten

6395
00:43:32.982 --> 00:43:33.162
door

6396
00:43:33.162 --> 00:43:33.322
elkaar

6397
00:43:33.322 --> 00:43:33.522
te

6398
00:43:33.522 --> 00:43:33.822
halen.

6399
00:43:34.522 --> 00:43:34.662
Een

6400
00:43:34.662 --> 00:43:35.422
logboeknotitie

6401
00:43:35.422 --> 00:43:35.722
begint

6402
00:43:35.722 --> 00:43:35.902
met

6403
00:43:35.902 --> 00:43:36.262
datum

6404
00:43:36.262 --> 00:43:36.422
en

6405
00:43:36.422 --> 00:43:36.862
context.

6406
00:43:37.442 --> 00:43:37.662
Daarna

6407
00:43:37.662 --> 00:43:37.943
worden

6408
00:43:37.943 --> 00:43:38.063
de

6409
00:43:38.063 --> 00:43:38.383
betrokken

6410
00:43:38.383 --> 00:43:38.903
personen

6411
00:43:38.903 --> 00:43:39.323
benoemd.

6412
00:43:39.983 --> 00:43:40.483
Vervolgens

6413
00:43:40.483 --> 00:43:40.683
wordt

6414
00:43:40.683 --> 00:43:41.203
beschreven

6415
00:43:41.203 --> 00:43:41.423
wat

6416
00:43:41.423 --> 00:43:41.863
concreet

6417
00:43:41.863 --> 00:43:42.063
is

6418
00:43:42.063 --> 00:43:42.663
waargenomen.

6419
00:43:43.364 --> 00:43:43.684
Daarna

6420
00:43:43.684 --> 00:43:43.984
kunnen

6421
00:43:43.984 --> 00:43:44.204
de

6422
00:43:44.204 --> 00:43:44.664
verschillende

6423
00:43:44.664 --> 00:43:45.344
perspectieven

6424
00:43:45.344 --> 00:43:45.784
worden

6425
00:43:45.784 --> 00:43:46.464
vastgelegd.

6426
00:43:46.924 --> 00:43:47.324
Niet

6427
00:43:47.324 --> 00:43:47.564
als

6428
00:43:47.564 --> 00:43:47.804
één

6429
00:43:47.804 --> 00:43:48.324
gezamenlijke

6430
00:43:48.324 --> 00:43:48.844
waarheid,

6431
00:43:49.185 --> 00:43:49.345
maar

6432
00:43:49.345 --> 00:43:50.125
als

6433
00:43:50.125 --> 00:43:50.785
herkenbare

6434
00:43:50.785 --> 00:43:51.185
stemmen.

6435
00:43:51.665 --> 00:43:52.105
Vervolgens

6436
00:43:52.105 --> 00:43:52.325
worden

6437
00:43:52.325 --> 00:43:52.745
gevoelens

6438
00:43:52.745 --> 00:43:52.865
en

6439
00:43:52.865 --> 00:43:53.225
gevolgen

6440
00:43:53.225 --> 00:43:53.705
beschreven.

6441
00:43:54.245 --> 00:43:54.506
Daarna

6442
00:43:54.506 --> 00:43:54.906
feiten,

6443
00:43:55.126 --> 00:43:55.826
interpretaties

6444
00:43:55.826 --> 00:43:55.986
en

6445
00:43:55.986 --> 00:43:56.666
onzekerheden.

6446
00:43:57.146 --> 00:43:57.266
Dan

6447
00:43:57.266 --> 00:43:57.686
grenzen

6448
00:43:57.686 --> 00:43:57.946
en

6449
00:43:57.946 --> 00:43:58.486
veiligheid.

6450
00:43:58.986 --> 00:43:59.466
Afspraken

6451
00:43:59.466 --> 00:43:59.886
en

6452
00:43:59.886 --> 00:44:00.467
toestemming.

6453
00:44:00.867 --> 00:44:01.527
Verantwoordelijkheid

6454
00:44:01.527 --> 00:44:01.667
en

6455
00:44:01.667 --> 00:44:02.047
herstel.

6456
00:44:02.607 --> 00:44:02.707
En

6457
00:44:02.707 --> 00:44:03.067
tenslotte

6458
00:44:03.067 --> 00:44:03.287
een

6459
00:44:03.287 --> 00:44:04.307
evaluatiedatum.

6460
00:44:04.727 --> 00:44:04.827
Die

6461
00:44:04.827 --> 00:44:05.748
evaluatiedatum

6462
00:44:05.748 --> 00:44:05.848
is

6463
00:44:05.848 --> 00:44:06.328
belangrijk.

6464
00:44:07.088 --> 00:44:07.208
Een

6465
00:44:07.208 --> 00:44:07.768
afspraak

6466
00:44:07.768 --> 00:44:08.188
kan

6467
00:44:08.188 --> 00:44:08.368
op

6468
00:44:08.368 --> 00:44:08.628
papier

6469
00:44:08.628 --> 00:44:08.888
goed

6470
00:44:08.888 --> 00:44:09.208
lijken

6471
00:44:09.208 --> 00:44:09.628
en

6472
00:44:09.628 --> 00:44:09.748
in

6473
00:44:09.748 --> 00:44:09.868
de

6474
00:44:09.868 --> 00:44:10.188
praktijk

6475
00:44:10.188 --> 00:44:10.368
niet

6476
00:44:10.368 --> 00:44:10.688
werken.

6477
00:44:11.409 --> 00:44:11.569
Een

6478
00:44:11.569 --> 00:44:12.309
contactregeling

6479
00:44:12.309 --> 00:44:12.589
kan

6480
00:44:12.589 --> 00:44:12.729
te

6481
00:44:12.729 --> 00:44:13.149
belastend

6482
00:44:13.149 --> 00:44:13.489
blijken.

6483
00:44:13.769 --> 00:44:14.109
Een

6484
00:44:14.109 --> 00:44:14.429
pauze

6485
00:44:14.429 --> 00:44:14.629
kan

6486
00:44:14.629 --> 00:44:14.889
rust

6487
00:44:14.889 --> 00:44:15.189
geven

6488
00:44:15.189 --> 00:44:15.649
of

6489
00:44:15.649 --> 00:44:15.929
juist

6490
00:44:15.929 --> 00:44:16.569
onzekerheid

6491
00:44:16.569 --> 00:44:17.090
vergroten.

6492
00:44:17.650 --> 00:44:17.810
Een

6493
00:44:17.810 --> 00:44:18.430
hulpverdeling

6494
00:44:18.430 --> 00:44:18.670
kan

6495
00:44:18.670 --> 00:44:18.830
een

6496
00:44:18.830 --> 00:44:19.470
mantelzorger

6497
00:44:19.470 --> 00:44:19.690
toch

6498
00:44:19.690 --> 00:44:20.370
overbelasten.

6499
00:44:21.050 --> 00:44:21.210
Een

6500
00:44:21.210 --> 00:44:21.390
nieuwe

6501
00:44:21.390 --> 00:44:22.431
communicatiemethode

6502
00:44:22.431 --> 00:44:22.711
kan

6503
00:44:22.711 --> 00:44:23.351
misverstanden

6504
00:44:23.351 --> 00:44:23.991
verminderen

6505
00:44:23.991 --> 00:44:24.231
of

6506
00:44:24.231 --> 00:44:24.551
juist

6507
00:44:24.551 --> 00:44:24.851
meer

6508
00:44:24.851 --> 00:44:25.251
afstand

6509
00:44:25.251 --> 00:44:25.731
creëren.

6510
00:44:26.351 --> 00:44:26.671
Daarom

6511
00:44:26.671 --> 00:44:26.811
moet

6512
00:44:26.811 --> 00:44:26.991
worden

6513
00:44:26.991 --> 00:44:27.651
teruggekeken.

6514
00:44:28.192 --> 00:44:28.332
Niet

6515
00:44:28.332 --> 00:44:28.692
alleen

6516
00:44:28.692 --> 00:44:29.312
hebben

6517
00:44:29.312 --> 00:44:29.512
wij

6518
00:44:29.512 --> 00:44:29.612
de

6519
00:44:29.612 --> 00:44:29.972
afspraak

6520
00:44:29.972 --> 00:44:30.552
uitgevoerd.

6521
00:44:31.332 --> 00:44:31.532
Maar

6522
00:44:31.532 --> 00:44:32.172
wat

6523
00:44:32.172 --> 00:44:32.352
was

6524
00:44:32.352 --> 00:44:32.472
het

6525
00:44:32.472 --> 00:44:32.832
werkelijke

6526
00:44:32.832 --> 00:44:33.192
effect?

6527
00:44:33.733 --> 00:44:33.833
Was

6528
00:44:33.833 --> 00:44:33.973
de

6529
00:44:33.973 --> 00:44:34.313
afspraak

6530
00:44:34.313 --> 00:44:34.733
veilig?

6531
00:44:35.093 --> 00:44:35.209
Was

6532
00:44:35.209 --> 00:44:35.324
zij

6533
00:44:35.324 --> 00:44:35.633
haalbaar?

6534
00:44:36.013 --> 00:44:36.163
Was

6535
00:44:36.163 --> 00:44:36.313
zij

6536
00:44:36.313 --> 00:44:36.813
wederkerig?

6537
00:44:37.213 --> 00:44:37.413
Heeft

6538
00:44:37.413 --> 00:44:37.753
iemand

6539
00:44:37.753 --> 00:44:38.073
onder

6540
00:44:38.073 --> 00:44:38.373
druk

6541
00:44:38.373 --> 00:44:39.014
ingestemd?

6542
00:44:39.774 --> 00:44:40.094
Welke

6543
00:44:40.094 --> 00:44:40.294
nieuwe

6544
00:44:40.294 --> 00:44:40.914
informatie

6545
00:44:40.914 --> 00:44:41.154
is

6546
00:44:41.154 --> 00:44:41.694
beschikbaar?

6547
00:44:42.114 --> 00:44:42.434
En

6548
00:44:42.434 --> 00:44:42.634
moet

6549
00:44:42.634 --> 00:44:42.814
de

6550
00:44:42.814 --> 00:44:43.194
afspraak

6551
00:44:43.194 --> 00:44:43.374
worden

6552
00:44:43.374 --> 00:44:43.974
aangepast?

6553
00:44:44.375 --> 00:44:44.595
Zo

6554
00:44:44.595 --> 00:44:44.895
wordt

6555
00:44:44.895 --> 00:44:45.055
het

6556
00:44:45.055 --> 00:44:45.495
logboek

6557
00:44:45.495 --> 00:44:45.655
een

6558
00:44:45.655 --> 00:44:46.315
leerinstrument.

6559
00:44:47.115 --> 00:44:47.395
Geen

6560
00:44:47.395 --> 00:44:47.815
statisch

6561
00:44:47.815 --> 00:44:48.215
dossier.

6562
00:44:48.715 --> 00:44:48.835
De

6563
00:44:48.835 --> 00:44:49.115
survey

6564
00:44:49.115 --> 00:44:49.335
op

6565
00:44:49.335 --> 00:44:49.455
de

6566
00:44:49.455 --> 00:44:49.836
website.

6567
00:44:50.456 --> 00:44:50.596
Op

6568
00:44:50.596 --> 00:44:50.776
de

6569
00:44:50.776 --> 00:44:51.056
website

6570
00:44:51.056 --> 00:44:51.296
staat

6571
00:44:51.296 --> 00:44:51.436
een

6572
00:44:51.436 --> 00:44:51.896
interactieve

6573
00:44:51.896 --> 00:44:52.216
survey

6574
00:44:52.216 --> 00:44:52.456
met

6575
00:44:52.456 --> 00:44:52.656
tien

6576
00:44:52.656 --> 00:44:53.036
vragen.

6577
00:44:53.756 --> 00:44:53.876
De

6578
00:44:53.876 --> 00:44:54.276
enquête

6579
00:44:54.276 --> 00:44:54.676
vraagt

6580
00:44:54.676 --> 00:44:54.976
wanneer

6581
00:44:54.976 --> 00:44:55.677
relationele

6582
00:44:55.677 --> 00:44:56.417
legitimiteit

6583
00:44:56.417 --> 00:44:56.597
moet

6584
00:44:56.597 --> 00:44:56.777
worden

6585
00:44:56.777 --> 00:44:57.377
meegewogen.

6586
00:44:57.997 --> 00:44:58.157
Bij

6587
00:44:58.157 --> 00:44:58.397
ieder

6588
00:44:58.397 --> 00:44:58.837
besluit

6589
00:44:58.837 --> 00:44:59.037
met

6590
00:44:59.037 --> 00:44:59.517
merkbare

6591
00:44:59.517 --> 00:44:59.997
gevolgen.

6592
00:45:00.517 --> 00:45:00.837
Alleen

6593
00:45:00.837 --> 00:45:01.118
bij

6594
00:45:01.118 --> 00:45:01.598
besluiten

6595
00:45:01.598 --> 00:45:01.838
met

6596
00:45:01.838 --> 00:45:02.078
hoge

6597
00:45:02.078 --> 00:45:02.458
impact.

6598
00:45:03.078 --> 00:45:03.378
Alleen

6599
00:45:03.378 --> 00:45:03.798
wanneer

6600
00:45:03.798 --> 00:45:03.950
een

6601
00:45:03.950 --> 00:45:04.458
betrokkene

6602
00:45:04.458 --> 00:45:04.738
daarom

6603
00:45:04.738 --> 00:45:05.118
vraagt.

6604
00:45:05.638 --> 00:45:05.838
Of

6605
00:45:05.838 --> 00:45:06.118
eerst

6606
00:45:06.118 --> 00:45:06.759
uitsluitend

6607
00:45:06.759 --> 00:45:06.999
binnen

6608
00:45:06.999 --> 00:45:07.259
een

6609
00:45:07.259 --> 00:45:07.939
gecontroleerde

6610
00:45:07.939 --> 00:45:08.199
pilot.

6611
00:45:08.799 --> 00:45:09.199
Dat

6612
00:45:09.199 --> 00:45:09.319
is

6613
00:45:09.319 --> 00:45:09.419
een

6614
00:45:09.419 --> 00:45:09.919
belangrijke

6615
00:45:09.919 --> 00:45:10.239
vraag.

6616
00:45:10.579 --> 00:45:10.899
Een

6617
00:45:10.899 --> 00:45:11.459
instrument

6618
00:45:11.459 --> 00:45:11.979
dat

6619
00:45:11.979 --> 00:45:12.560
overal

6620
00:45:12.560 --> 00:45:13.020
verplicht

6621
00:45:13.020 --> 00:45:13.200
wordt

6622
00:45:13.200 --> 00:45:13.700
toegepast.

6623
00:45:13.900 --> 00:45:14.040
Kan

6624
00:45:14.040 --> 00:45:14.300
veel

6625
00:45:14.300 --> 00:45:14.980
bureaucratie

6626
00:45:14.980 --> 00:45:15.820
veroorzaken.

6627
00:45:16.600 --> 00:45:16.740
Maar

6628
00:45:16.740 --> 00:45:16.940
een

6629
00:45:16.940 --> 00:45:17.360
instrument

6630
00:45:17.360 --> 00:45:17.721
dat

6631
00:45:17.721 --> 00:45:18.021
alleen

6632
00:45:18.021 --> 00:45:18.221
wordt

6633
00:45:18.221 --> 00:45:18.721
gebruikt.

6634
00:45:19.001 --> 00:45:19.281
Wanneer

6635
00:45:19.281 --> 00:45:19.541
iemand

6636
00:45:19.541 --> 00:45:19.781
er

6637
00:45:19.781 --> 00:45:20.301
expliciet

6638
00:45:20.301 --> 00:45:20.481
om

6639
00:45:20.481 --> 00:45:20.841
vraagt.

6640
00:45:21.361 --> 00:45:21.481
Kan

6641
00:45:21.481 --> 00:45:21.801
juist

6642
00:45:21.801 --> 00:45:22.301
kwetsbare

6643
00:45:22.301 --> 00:45:22.641
mensen

6644
00:45:22.641 --> 00:45:23.001
missen.

6645
00:45:23.202 --> 00:45:23.302
Die

6646
00:45:23.302 --> 00:45:23.502
niet

6647
00:45:23.502 --> 00:45:23.862
weten

6648
00:45:23.862 --> 00:45:24.222
dat

6649
00:45:24.222 --> 00:45:24.342
het

6650
00:45:24.342 --> 00:45:24.782
bestaat.

6651
00:45:25.222 --> 00:45:25.342
De

6652
00:45:25.342 --> 00:45:25.602
tweede

6653
00:45:25.602 --> 00:45:25.942
vraag

6654
00:45:25.942 --> 00:45:26.262
gaat

6655
00:45:26.262 --> 00:45:26.502
over

6656
00:45:26.502 --> 00:45:26.702
wie

6657
00:45:26.702 --> 00:45:26.862
de

6658
00:45:26.862 --> 00:45:27.442
relationele

6659
00:45:27.442 --> 00:45:27.922
gevolgen

6660
00:45:27.922 --> 00:45:28.122
moet

6661
00:45:28.122 --> 00:45:28.683
beoordelen.

6662
00:45:29.523 --> 00:45:29.643
De

6663
00:45:29.643 --> 00:45:30.343
besluitvormer

6664
00:45:30.343 --> 00:45:30.483
en

6665
00:45:30.483 --> 00:45:31.003
betrokkenen

6666
00:45:31.003 --> 00:45:31.303
samen.

6667
00:45:31.723 --> 00:45:31.883
Een

6668
00:45:31.883 --> 00:45:32.763
multidisciplinair

6669
00:45:32.763 --> 00:45:33.063
team.

6670
00:45:33.623 --> 00:45:33.763
Een

6671
00:45:33.763 --> 00:45:34.504
onafhankelijke

6672
00:45:34.504 --> 00:45:35.044
reviewer.

6673
00:45:35.404 --> 00:45:35.544
Of

6674
00:45:35.544 --> 00:45:35.984
verschilt

6675
00:45:35.984 --> 00:45:36.184
dat

6676
00:45:36.184 --> 00:45:36.384
per

6677
00:45:36.384 --> 00:45:36.704
domein?

6678
00:45:37.024 --> 00:45:37.464
De

6679
00:45:37.464 --> 00:45:37.724
derde

6680
00:45:37.724 --> 00:45:37.944
vraag

6681
00:45:37.944 --> 00:45:38.144
gaat

6682
00:45:38.144 --> 00:45:38.364
over

6683
00:45:38.364 --> 00:45:38.744
zichtbare

6684
00:45:38.744 --> 00:45:39.384
inbreng.

6685
00:45:39.384 --> 00:45:39.925
Hoe

6686
00:45:39.925 --> 00:45:40.165
moet

6687
00:45:40.165 --> 00:45:40.405
iemand

6688
00:45:40.405 --> 00:45:40.665
kunnen

6689
00:45:40.665 --> 00:45:40.905
zien

6690
00:45:40.905 --> 00:45:41.225
wat

6691
00:45:41.225 --> 00:45:41.425
met

6692
00:45:41.425 --> 00:45:41.645
zijn

6693
00:45:41.645 --> 00:45:41.825
of

6694
00:45:41.825 --> 00:45:41.965
haar

6695
00:45:41.965 --> 00:45:42.225
woorden

6696
00:45:42.225 --> 00:45:42.405
is

6697
00:45:42.405 --> 00:45:42.685
gedaan?

6698
00:45:43.345 --> 00:45:43.445
In

6699
00:45:43.445 --> 00:45:43.565
de

6700
00:45:43.565 --> 00:45:44.125
motivering?

6701
00:45:44.685 --> 00:45:44.785
In

6702
00:45:44.785 --> 00:45:44.885
een

6703
00:45:44.885 --> 00:45:45.666
reactiematrix?

6704
00:45:46.166 --> 00:45:46.326
In

6705
00:45:46.326 --> 00:45:46.466
een

6706
00:45:46.466 --> 00:45:46.966
gezamenlijk

6707
00:45:46.966 --> 00:45:47.366
verslag?

6708
00:45:47.766 --> 00:45:47.866
Of

6709
00:45:47.866 --> 00:45:47.966
in

6710
00:45:47.966 --> 00:45:48.066
een

6711
00:45:48.066 --> 00:45:48.586
combinatie?

6712
00:45:49.266 --> 00:45:49.426
De

6713
00:45:49.426 --> 00:45:49.746
vierde

6714
00:45:49.746 --> 00:45:50.086
vraag

6715
00:45:50.086 --> 00:45:50.606
vraagt

6716
00:45:50.606 --> 00:45:50.927
welk

6717
00:45:50.927 --> 00:45:51.307
risico

6718
00:45:51.307 --> 00:45:51.547
de

6719
00:45:51.547 --> 00:45:51.787
meeste

6720
00:45:51.787 --> 00:45:52.267
begrenzing

6721
00:45:52.267 --> 00:45:52.507
nodig

6722
00:45:52.507 --> 00:45:52.827
heeft.

6723
00:45:53.247 --> 00:45:53.387
Een

6724
00:45:53.387 --> 00:45:53.647
nieuwe

6725
00:45:53.647 --> 00:45:54.427
bureaucratische

6726
00:45:54.427 --> 00:45:55.027
vinklijst?

6727
00:45:55.587 --> 00:45:55.807
Druk

6728
00:45:55.807 --> 00:45:55.987
tot

6729
00:45:55.987 --> 00:45:56.368
verzoening?

6730
00:45:56.868 --> 00:45:57.428
Onnodige

6731
00:45:57.428 --> 00:45:57.948
verwerking

6732
00:45:57.948 --> 00:45:58.148
van

6733
00:45:58.148 --> 00:45:58.768
relationele

6734
00:45:58.768 --> 00:45:59.248
gegevens?

6735
00:45:59.728 --> 00:45:59.948
Of

6736
00:45:59.948 --> 00:46:00.688
onduidelijkheid

6737
00:46:00.688 --> 00:46:00.948
over

6738
00:46:00.948 --> 00:46:01.648
professionele

6739
00:46:01.648 --> 00:46:02.469
verantwoordelijkheid?

6740
00:46:02.869 --> 00:46:03.389
De

6741
00:46:03.389 --> 00:46:03.729
vijfde

6742
00:46:03.729 --> 00:46:04.029
vraag

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00:46:04.029 --> 00:46:04.229
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00:46:04.609 --> 00:46:05.109
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00:46:05.109 --> 00:46:05.549
waarborg.

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00:46:05.969 --> 00:46:06.549
Veiligheid

6749
00:46:06.549 --> 00:46:06.789
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6750
00:46:06.789 --> 00:46:07.510
rechtmatigheid?

6751
00:46:07.510 --> 00:46:08.430
Correctie

6752
00:46:08.430 --> 00:46:08.610
en

6753
00:46:08.610 --> 00:46:09.350
tegenspraak?

6754
00:46:10.210 --> 00:46:10.870
Dataminimalisatie?

6755
00:46:11.390 --> 00:46:11.570
Of

6756
00:46:11.570 --> 00:46:12.510
onafhankelijke

6757
00:46:12.510 --> 00:46:13.171
heroverweging?

6758
00:46:13.991 --> 00:46:14.151
De

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00:46:14.151 --> 00:46:14.451
zesde

6760
00:46:14.451 --> 00:46:14.691
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00:46:14.891 --> 00:46:15.111
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00:46:17.571 --> 00:46:17.971
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00:46:17.971 --> 00:46:18.311
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00:46:18.311 --> 00:46:18.832
veiligheid

6772
00:46:18.832 --> 00:46:19.012
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6773
00:46:19.012 --> 00:46:19.532
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6774
00:46:19.852 --> 00:46:20.152
Wanneer

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00:46:20.152 --> 00:46:20.372
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00:46:20.372 --> 00:46:21.072
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00:46:21.072 --> 00:46:21.552
meerwaarde

6778
00:46:21.552 --> 00:46:22.052
ontstaat?

6779
00:46:22.652 --> 00:46:22.952
Wanneer

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00:46:22.952 --> 00:46:23.092
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00:46:23.092 --> 00:46:23.232
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00:46:23.232 --> 00:46:23.732
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6783
00:46:23.732 --> 00:46:23.972
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6784
00:46:23.972 --> 00:46:24.453
verzameld?

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00:46:25.133 --> 00:46:25.333
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00:46:25.333 --> 00:46:25.673
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00:46:25.673 --> 00:46:26.033
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00:46:27.753 --> 00:46:27.893
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00:46:27.893 --> 00:46:28.333
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00:46:28.333 --> 00:46:28.513
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6794
00:46:28.513 --> 00:46:28.833
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00:46:28.833 --> 00:46:29.053
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00:46:29.053 --> 00:46:29.533
resultaat

6797
00:46:29.533 --> 00:46:29.694
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6798
00:46:29.694 --> 00:46:30.394
betrouwbaarheid?

6799
00:46:30.994 --> 00:46:31.314
Als

6800
00:46:31.314 --> 00:46:31.854
signaal,

6801
00:46:32.214 --> 00:46:32.314
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00:46:32.314 --> 00:46:32.554
nooit

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00:46:32.554 --> 00:46:32.774
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00:46:32.774 --> 00:46:33.034
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6805
00:46:33.034 --> 00:46:33.194
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6806
00:46:33.194 --> 00:46:33.534
burgers?

6807
00:46:34.154 --> 00:46:34.414
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00:46:34.414 --> 00:46:34.574
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6809
00:46:34.574 --> 00:46:35.115
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00:46:35.115 --> 00:46:35.435
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00:46:35.435 --> 00:46:36.295
relatiegebonden

6812
00:46:36.295 --> 00:46:36.695
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6813
00:46:37.255 --> 00:46:37.535
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6814
00:46:37.535 --> 00:46:37.855
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00:46:39.735 --> 00:46:39.955
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00:46:39.955 --> 00:46:40.135
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00:46:40.135 --> 00:46:40.335
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6823
00:46:40.335 --> 00:46:40.956
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00:46:40.956 --> 00:46:41.056
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00:46:41.056 --> 00:46:41.156
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6826
00:46:41.156 --> 00:46:42.076
ontwikkelingspassend

6827
00:46:42.076 --> 00:46:42.636
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6828
00:46:43.396 --> 00:46:43.576
Hoe

6829
00:46:43.576 --> 00:46:43.796
wordt

6830
00:46:43.796 --> 00:46:44.536
onafhankelijke

6831
00:46:44.536 --> 00:46:45.076
ondersteuning

6832
00:46:45.076 --> 00:46:45.836
georganiseerd?

6833
00:46:46.657 --> 00:46:46.777
En

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00:46:46.777 --> 00:46:46.917
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00:46:46.917 --> 00:46:47.337
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00:46:47.337 --> 00:46:47.557
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6837
00:46:47.557 --> 00:46:47.777
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00:46:47.777 --> 00:46:48.117
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00:46:48.117 --> 00:46:48.817
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00:46:48.817 --> 00:46:49.097
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00:46:49.817 --> 00:46:50.097
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00:46:50.097 --> 00:46:50.657
conflicten

6843
00:46:50.657 --> 00:46:50.857
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6844
00:46:50.857 --> 00:46:51.477
volwassenen?

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00:46:51.758 --> 00:46:51.878
De

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00:46:51.878 --> 00:46:52.218
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00:46:52.218 --> 00:46:52.518
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00:46:52.778 --> 00:46:53.118
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00:46:53.118 --> 00:46:54.858
minderheidsstandpunten.

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00:46:54.938 --> 00:46:55.058
Wat

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00:46:55.058 --> 00:46:55.218
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00:46:55.218 --> 00:46:55.378
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6854
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6855
00:46:55.537 --> 00:46:56.238
fundamentele

6856
00:46:56.238 --> 00:46:57.238
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6857
00:46:57.238 --> 00:46:57.399
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6858
00:46:57.399 --> 00:46:57.659
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6859
00:46:57.659 --> 00:46:57.819
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6860
00:46:57.819 --> 00:46:57.979
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00:46:57.979 --> 00:46:58.399
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6862
00:46:58.399 --> 00:46:58.619
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6863
00:46:58.619 --> 00:46:59.038
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6864
00:46:59.798 --> 00:47:00.018
Worden

6865
00:47:00.018 --> 00:47:00.179
die

6866
00:47:00.179 --> 00:47:00.739
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6867
00:47:00.739 --> 00:47:01.459
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6868
00:47:02.179 --> 00:47:02.419
Komen

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00:47:02.419 --> 00:47:02.659
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00:47:02.659 --> 00:47:02.820
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00:47:02.940 --> 00:47:03.860
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00:47:03.860 --> 00:47:04.560
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00:47:05.799 --> 00:47:06.180
commissie

6879
00:47:06.180 --> 00:47:06.720
beoordeeld?

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00:47:07.480 --> 00:47:07.640
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00:47:09.241 --> 00:47:09.861
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00:47:10.581 --> 00:47:10.721
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6889
00:47:10.721 --> 00:47:11.121
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6890
00:47:11.121 --> 00:47:11.561
document

6891
00:47:11.561 --> 00:47:11.901
met

6892
00:47:11.901 --> 00:47:12.821
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00:47:12.821 --> 00:47:13.201
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00:47:13.201 --> 00:47:13.601
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00:47:14.222 --> 00:47:14.622
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00:47:14.622 --> 00:47:14.781
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00:47:15.222 --> 00:47:16.041
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6899
00:47:16.041 --> 00:47:16.322
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00:47:16.882 --> 00:47:17.041
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00:47:19.402 --> 00:47:19.623
Of

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00:47:19.623 --> 00:47:19.943
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00:47:21.603 --> 00:47:21.903
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00:47:21.903 --> 00:47:22.203
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00:47:26.324 --> 00:47:26.584
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00:47:26.584 --> 00:47:26.984
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00:47:27.844 --> 00:47:28.084
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00:47:29.824 --> 00:47:30.264
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00:47:31.765 --> 00:47:32.345
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00:47:32.685 --> 00:47:33.025
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00:47:33.025 --> 00:47:33.325
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00:47:33.325 --> 00:47:33.845
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00:47:33.845 --> 00:47:34.025
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00:47:36.666 --> 00:47:36.786
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00:47:36.786 --> 00:47:37.526
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00:47:37.526 --> 00:47:38.266
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00:47:38.266 --> 00:47:38.426
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00:47:38.426 --> 00:47:38.566
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volledige

6964
00:47:40.706 --> 00:47:41.086
position

6965
00:47:41.086 --> 00:47:41.466
paper

6966
00:47:41.466 --> 00:47:41.787
lezen.

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6977
00:47:45.327 --> 00:47:45.687
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6978
00:47:45.687 --> 00:47:46.127
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00:47:46.127 --> 00:47:46.267
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00:47:49.168 --> 00:47:49.968
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00:47:54.089 --> 00:47:54.609
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7021
00:48:03.971 --> 00:48:04.471
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00:48:04.471 --> 00:48:04.991
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7023
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7027
00:48:06.371 --> 00:48:07.251
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7028
00:48:07.251 --> 00:48:07.831
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00:48:07.831 --> 00:48:08.291
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00:48:11.152 --> 00:48:11.272
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00:48:19.513 --> 00:48:19.633
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7060
00:48:19.633 --> 00:48:19.813
kunt

7061
00:48:19.813 --> 00:48:20.434
reageren

7062
00:48:20.434 --> 00:48:20.794
vanuit

7063
00:48:20.794 --> 00:48:21.514
professionele

7064
00:48:21.514 --> 00:48:21.874
kennis,

7065
00:48:22.354 --> 00:48:22.474
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7066
00:48:22.474 --> 00:48:22.674
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7067
00:48:22.674 --> 00:48:22.974
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7068
00:48:22.974 --> 00:48:23.774
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7069
00:48:24.374 --> 00:48:24.594
Beide

7070
00:48:24.594 --> 00:48:24.814
zijn

7071
00:48:24.814 --> 00:48:25.154
nodig.

7072
00:48:25.614 --> 00:48:25.714
Let

7073
00:48:25.714 --> 00:48:25.834
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7074
00:48:25.834 --> 00:48:26.335
publieke

7075
00:48:26.335 --> 00:48:26.795
reacties

7076
00:48:26.795 --> 00:48:26.965
wel

7077
00:48:26.965 --> 00:48:27.078
op

7078
00:48:27.078 --> 00:48:27.475
privacy.

7079
00:48:27.475 --> 00:48:28.135
Deel

7080
00:48:28.135 --> 00:48:28.315
geen

7081
00:48:28.315 --> 00:48:28.915
herleidbare

7082
00:48:28.915 --> 00:48:29.835
persoonsgegevens

7083
00:48:29.835 --> 00:48:30.055
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7084
00:48:30.055 --> 00:48:30.415
kinderen,

7085
00:48:30.775 --> 00:48:31.175
cliënten,

7086
00:48:31.496 --> 00:48:31.936
patiënten,

7087
00:48:32.096 --> 00:48:32.616
slachtoffers

7088
00:48:32.616 --> 00:48:32.816
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7089
00:48:32.816 --> 00:48:33.156
andere

7090
00:48:33.156 --> 00:48:33.496
derden.

7091
00:48:34.336 --> 00:48:34.756
Beschrijf

7092
00:48:34.756 --> 00:48:35.316
patronen

7093
00:48:35.316 --> 00:48:35.536
en

7094
00:48:35.536 --> 00:48:36.016
lessen

7095
00:48:36.016 --> 00:48:36.216
waar

7096
00:48:36.216 --> 00:48:36.576
mogelijk

7097
00:48:36.576 --> 00:48:36.977
zonder

7098
00:48:36.977 --> 00:48:37.257
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7099
00:48:37.257 --> 00:48:37.697
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7100
00:48:37.697 --> 00:48:37.877
te

7101
00:48:37.877 --> 00:48:38.117
maken.

7102
00:48:38.857 --> 00:48:38.997
Een

7103
00:48:38.997 --> 00:48:39.277
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7104
00:48:39.277 --> 00:48:39.697
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7105
00:48:39.697 --> 00:48:40.017
heeft

7106
00:48:40.017 --> 00:48:40.297
geen

7107
00:48:40.297 --> 00:48:40.837
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7108
00:48:40.837 --> 00:48:41.317
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7109
00:48:41.317 --> 00:48:42.077
privégegevens

7110
00:48:42.077 --> 00:48:42.417
nodig.

7111
00:48:42.978 --> 00:48:43.118
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7112
00:48:43.118 --> 00:48:43.418
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7113
00:48:43.418 --> 00:48:43.598
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7114
00:48:43.598 --> 00:48:43.898
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7115
00:48:43.898 --> 00:48:44.378
werkelijk

7116
00:48:44.378 --> 00:48:44.758
vraagt,

7117
00:48:44.898 --> 00:48:45.098
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7118
00:48:45.098 --> 00:48:45.298
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7119
00:48:45.298 --> 00:48:45.598
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7120
00:48:45.598 --> 00:48:45.858
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7121
00:48:45.858 --> 00:48:46.138
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7122
00:48:46.138 --> 00:48:46.638
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7123
00:48:46.638 --> 00:48:46.798
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7124
00:48:46.798 --> 00:48:46.898
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7125
00:48:46.898 --> 00:48:47.058
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7126
00:48:47.058 --> 00:48:47.718
gevoel.

7127
00:48:48.018 --> 00:48:48.219
Maar

7128
00:48:48.219 --> 00:48:48.519
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7129
00:48:48.519 --> 00:48:48.699
is

7130
00:48:48.699 --> 00:48:48.879
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7131
00:48:48.879 --> 00:48:49.619
organisatie.

7132
00:48:50.019 --> 00:48:50.519
Tijd,

7133
00:48:50.819 --> 00:48:51.179
grenzen,

7134
00:48:51.479 --> 00:48:52.119
betrouwbaarheid,

7135
00:48:52.319 --> 00:48:52.559
kennis,

7136
00:48:53.099 --> 00:48:53.900
verantwoordelijkheid,

7137
00:48:54.200 --> 00:48:54.400
geld,

7138
00:48:54.780 --> 00:48:55.340
professionele

7139
00:48:55.340 --> 00:48:55.980
beschikbaarheid

7140
00:48:55.980 --> 00:48:56.420
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7141
00:48:56.420 --> 00:48:56.540
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7142
00:48:56.540 --> 00:48:57.060
bereidheid

7143
00:48:57.060 --> 00:48:57.260
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7144
00:48:57.260 --> 00:48:57.400
te

7145
00:48:57.400 --> 00:48:57.760
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7146
00:48:57.760 --> 00:48:58.500
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7147
00:48:58.500 --> 00:48:58.640
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7148
00:48:58.640 --> 00:48:59.040
bestaande

7149
00:48:59.040 --> 00:48:59.501
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7150
00:48:59.501 --> 00:48:59.821
niet

7151
00:48:59.821 --> 00:49:00.701
werkt.

7152
00:49:01.041 --> 00:49:01.381
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7153
00:49:01.381 --> 00:49:01.881
betekent

7154
00:49:01.881 --> 00:49:02.101
niet

7155
00:49:02.101 --> 00:49:02.541
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7156
00:49:02.541 --> 00:49:02.901
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7157
00:49:02.901 --> 00:49:03.281
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7158
00:49:03.281 --> 00:49:03.681
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7159
00:49:03.681 --> 00:49:04.041
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7160
00:49:04.041 --> 00:49:04.261
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7161
00:49:04.261 --> 00:49:04.461
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7162
00:49:05.122 --> 00:49:05.222
Het

7163
00:49:05.222 --> 00:49:05.602
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7164
00:49:05.602 --> 00:49:05.742
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7165
00:49:05.742 --> 00:49:05.882
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7166
00:49:05.882 --> 00:49:06.422
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7167
00:49:06.422 --> 00:49:06.662
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7168
00:49:06.662 --> 00:49:06.982
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7169
00:49:06.982 --> 00:49:07.362
handelen

7170
00:49:07.362 --> 00:49:07.822
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7171
00:49:07.822 --> 00:49:08.022
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7172
00:49:08.022 --> 00:49:08.182
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7173
00:49:08.182 --> 00:49:08.502
anderen.

7174
00:49:08.922 --> 00:49:09.042
Dat

7175
00:49:09.042 --> 00:49:09.182
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7176
00:49:09.182 --> 00:49:09.362
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7177
00:49:09.362 --> 00:49:09.882
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7178
00:49:09.882 --> 00:49:10.042
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7179
00:49:10.042 --> 00:49:10.182
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7180
00:49:10.182 --> 00:49:10.563
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7181
00:49:11.083 --> 00:49:11.403
Dat

7182
00:49:11.403 --> 00:49:11.563
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7183
00:49:11.563 --> 00:49:11.863
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7184
00:49:11.863 --> 00:49:12.103
macht

7185
00:49:12.103 --> 00:49:12.643
begrenzen.

7186
00:49:13.063 --> 00:49:13.183
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7187
00:49:13.183 --> 00:49:13.323
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7188
00:49:13.323 --> 00:49:13.723
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7189
00:49:13.723 --> 00:49:14.503
organiseren.

7190
00:49:15.003 --> 00:49:15.203
Dat

7191
00:49:15.203 --> 00:49:15.363
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7192
00:49:15.363 --> 00:49:15.743
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7193
00:49:15.743 --> 00:49:15.984
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7194
00:49:15.984 --> 00:49:16.144
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7195
00:49:16.144 --> 00:49:16.284
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7196
00:49:16.284 --> 00:49:16.444
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7197
00:49:16.444 --> 00:49:16.604
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7198
00:49:16.604 --> 00:49:16.724
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7199
00:49:16.724 --> 00:49:16.924
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7200
00:49:17.704 --> 00:49:17.884
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7201
00:49:17.884 --> 00:49:18.044
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7202
00:49:18.044 --> 00:49:18.204
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7203
00:49:18.204 --> 00:49:19.024
verantwoordelijkheid

7204
00:49:19.024 --> 00:49:19.184
niet

7205
00:49:19.184 --> 00:49:19.424
laten

7206
00:49:19.424 --> 00:49:19.984
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7207
00:49:19.984 --> 00:49:20.224
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7208
00:49:20.224 --> 00:49:20.344
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7209
00:49:20.344 --> 00:49:20.595
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7210
00:49:20.595 --> 00:49:20.784
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7211
00:49:21.425 --> 00:49:21.705
Soms

7212
00:49:21.705 --> 00:49:21.905
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7213
00:49:21.905 --> 00:49:22.205
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7214
00:49:22.205 --> 00:49:23.345
nabijblijven.

7215
00:49:23.425 --> 00:49:23.645
Soms

7216
00:49:23.645 --> 00:49:23.805
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7217
00:49:23.805 --> 00:49:24.065
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7218
00:49:24.065 --> 00:49:24.365
zeggen,

7219
00:49:24.365 --> 00:49:25.025
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7220
00:49:25.025 --> 00:49:25.225
kan

7221
00:49:25.225 --> 00:49:25.405
dit

7222
00:49:25.405 --> 00:49:25.545
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7223
00:49:25.545 --> 00:49:25.765
alleen

7224
00:49:25.765 --> 00:49:26.165
dragen.

7225
00:49:27.066 --> 00:49:27.166
Soms

7226
00:49:27.166 --> 00:49:27.326
is

7227
00:49:27.326 --> 00:49:27.506
zorg

7228
00:49:27.506 --> 00:49:27.646
een

7229
00:49:27.646 --> 00:49:28.086
professional

7230
00:49:28.086 --> 00:49:28.646
inschakelen.

7231
00:49:29.286 --> 00:49:29.486
Soms

7232
00:49:29.486 --> 00:49:29.706
is

7233
00:49:29.706 --> 00:49:29.846
zorg

7234
00:49:29.846 --> 00:49:30.006
een

7235
00:49:30.006 --> 00:49:30.306
dossier

7236
00:49:30.306 --> 00:49:31.086
corrigeren.

7237
00:49:31.406 --> 00:49:31.566
Soms

7238
00:49:31.566 --> 00:49:31.766
is

7239
00:49:31.766 --> 00:49:31.906
zorg

7240
00:49:31.906 --> 00:49:32.066
een

7241
00:49:32.066 --> 00:49:32.387
gesprek

7242
00:49:32.387 --> 00:49:32.727
stoppen.

7243
00:49:33.387 --> 00:49:33.567
Soms

7244
00:49:33.567 --> 00:49:33.807
is

7245
00:49:33.807 --> 00:49:33.987
zorg

7246
00:49:33.987 --> 00:49:34.427
excuses

7247
00:49:34.427 --> 00:49:35.107
aanbieden.

7248
00:49:35.427 --> 00:49:35.547
Soms

7249
00:49:35.547 --> 00:49:35.747
is

7250
00:49:35.747 --> 00:49:35.927
zorg

7251
00:49:35.927 --> 00:49:36.287
afstand

7252
00:49:36.287 --> 00:49:36.927
respecteren.

7253
00:49:37.547 --> 00:49:37.667
En

7254
00:49:37.667 --> 00:49:37.907
soms

7255
00:49:37.907 --> 00:49:38.148
is

7256
00:49:38.148 --> 00:49:38.408
zorg

7257
00:49:38.408 --> 00:49:39.068
langdurig

7258
00:49:39.068 --> 00:49:39.508
aantonen

7259
00:49:39.508 --> 00:49:39.748
dat

7260
00:49:39.748 --> 00:49:40.068
woorden

7261
00:49:40.068 --> 00:49:40.308
en

7262
00:49:40.308 --> 00:49:40.668
gedrag

7263
00:49:40.668 --> 00:49:40.948
weer

7264
00:49:40.948 --> 00:49:41.088
bij

7265
00:49:41.088 --> 00:49:41.348
elkaar

7266
00:49:41.348 --> 00:49:41.668
horen.

7267
00:49:42.368 --> 00:49:42.508
De

7268
00:49:42.508 --> 00:49:42.848
position

7269
00:49:42.848 --> 00:49:43.188
paper

7270
00:49:43.188 --> 00:49:43.388
wil

7271
00:49:43.388 --> 00:49:43.649
deze

7272
00:49:43.649 --> 00:49:44.049
keuzes

7273
00:49:44.049 --> 00:49:44.269
niet

7274
00:49:44.269 --> 00:49:44.869
automatisch

7275
00:49:44.869 --> 00:49:45.049
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7276
00:49:45.049 --> 00:49:45.229
ons

7277
00:49:45.229 --> 00:49:45.529
maken.

7278
00:49:46.229 --> 00:49:46.329
Zij

7279
00:49:46.329 --> 00:49:46.509
wil

7280
00:49:46.509 --> 00:49:46.749
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7281
00:49:46.749 --> 00:49:47.089
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7282
00:49:47.089 --> 00:49:47.469
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7283
00:49:47.469 --> 00:49:47.829
vragen

7284
00:49:47.829 --> 00:49:48.029
te

7285
00:49:48.029 --> 00:49:48.269
stellen.

7286
00:49:49.090 --> 00:49:49.290
Een

7287
00:49:49.290 --> 00:49:49.910
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7288
00:49:49.910 --> 00:49:50.210
zonder

7289
00:49:50.210 --> 00:49:50.750
verplichting.

7290
00:49:51.090 --> 00:49:51.190
Ik

7291
00:49:51.190 --> 00:49:51.450
nodig

7292
00:49:51.450 --> 00:49:51.570
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7293
00:49:51.570 --> 00:49:51.730
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7294
00:49:51.730 --> 00:49:51.870
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7295
00:49:51.870 --> 00:49:51.970
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7296
00:49:51.970 --> 00:49:52.510
webpagina

7297
00:49:52.510 --> 00:49:52.670
te

7298
00:49:52.670 --> 00:49:52.990
bezoeken.

7299
00:49:52.990 --> 00:49:53.630
Lees

7300
00:49:53.630 --> 00:49:53.810
niet

7301
00:49:53.810 --> 00:49:54.090
alleen

7302
00:49:54.090 --> 00:49:54.250
de

7303
00:49:54.250 --> 00:49:54.851
samenvatting.

7304
00:49:55.651 --> 00:49:55.951
Bekijk

7305
00:49:55.951 --> 00:49:56.191
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7306
00:49:56.191 --> 00:49:56.331
de

7307
00:49:56.331 --> 00:49:56.951
begrenzingen.

7308
00:49:57.311 --> 00:49:57.491
Luister

7309
00:49:57.491 --> 00:49:57.691
naar

7310
00:49:57.691 --> 00:49:57.811
de

7311
00:49:57.811 --> 00:49:58.331
hoofdstukken

7312
00:49:58.331 --> 00:49:58.691
over

7313
00:49:58.691 --> 00:49:59.271
veiligheid,

7314
00:49:59.511 --> 00:49:59.711
macht,

7315
00:50:00.092 --> 00:50:00.592
vertrouwen,

7316
00:50:00.872 --> 00:50:01.352
autonomie

7317
00:50:01.352 --> 00:50:01.592
en

7318
00:50:01.592 --> 00:50:01.972
herstel.

7319
00:50:02.612 --> 00:50:02.872
Open

7320
00:50:02.872 --> 00:50:03.152
de

7321
00:50:03.152 --> 00:50:03.592
volledige

7322
00:50:03.592 --> 00:50:03.952
position

7323
00:50:03.952 --> 00:50:04.332
paper

7324
00:50:04.332 --> 00:50:04.892
wanneer

7325
00:50:04.892 --> 00:50:04.992
u

7326
00:50:04.992 --> 00:50:05.252
dieper

7327
00:50:05.252 --> 00:50:05.452
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7328
00:50:05.452 --> 00:50:05.673
gaan.

7329
00:50:06.373 --> 00:50:06.553
Lees

7330
00:50:06.553 --> 00:50:06.693
de

7331
00:50:06.693 --> 00:50:06.993
pdf

7332
00:50:06.993 --> 00:50:07.213
van

7333
00:50:07.213 --> 00:50:07.553
strijd

7334
00:50:07.553 --> 00:50:07.773
naar

7335
00:50:07.773 --> 00:50:08.133
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7336
00:50:08.133 --> 00:50:08.373
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7337
00:50:08.373 --> 00:50:08.493
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7338
00:50:08.493 --> 00:50:08.933
praktische

7339
00:50:08.933 --> 00:50:09.413
toepassing.

7340
00:50:09.873 --> 00:50:09.973
En

7341
00:50:09.973 --> 00:50:10.113
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7342
00:50:10.113 --> 00:50:10.273
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7343
00:50:10.273 --> 00:50:10.573
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7344
00:50:10.573 --> 00:50:10.833
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7345
00:50:11.434 --> 00:50:11.614
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00:50:11.614 --> 00:50:11.814
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7347
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7348
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7349
00:50:12.214 --> 00:50:12.634
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7350
00:50:12.634 --> 00:50:13.034
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7351
00:50:13.034 --> 00:50:13.154
te

7352
00:50:13.154 --> 00:50:13.654
bevestigen.

7353
00:50:14.394 --> 00:50:14.594
Maar

7354
00:50:14.594 --> 00:50:14.794
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7355
00:50:14.794 --> 00:50:14.994
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00:50:14.994 --> 00:50:15.094
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7357
00:50:15.094 --> 00:50:15.474
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7358
00:50:15.474 --> 00:50:15.794
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7359
00:50:15.794 --> 00:50:16.014
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7360
00:50:16.014 --> 00:50:16.274
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00:50:16.274 --> 00:50:16.594
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7362
00:50:16.594 --> 00:50:17.175
voorwaarden

7363
00:50:17.175 --> 00:50:17.635
deze

7364
00:50:17.635 --> 00:50:18.395
positionering

7365
00:50:18.395 --> 00:50:18.775
verder

7366
00:50:18.775 --> 00:50:19.295
ontwikkeld

7367
00:50:19.295 --> 00:50:19.495
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7368
00:50:19.495 --> 00:50:19.775
worden.

7369
00:50:20.615 --> 00:50:20.955
Misschien

7370
00:50:20.955 --> 00:50:21.255
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7371
00:50:21.255 --> 00:50:21.375
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7372
00:50:21.375 --> 00:50:21.675
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7373
00:50:21.675 --> 00:50:22.356
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7374
00:50:22.356 --> 00:50:23.176
legitimiteit

7375
00:50:23.176 --> 00:50:23.416
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7376
00:50:23.416 --> 00:50:23.936
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7377
00:50:23.936 --> 00:50:24.396
dimensie

7378
00:50:24.396 --> 00:50:24.816
zichtbaar

7379
00:50:24.816 --> 00:50:25.196
maakt.

7380
00:50:25.856 --> 00:50:26.116
Misschien

7381
00:50:26.116 --> 00:50:26.416
vindt

7382
00:50:26.416 --> 00:50:26.536
u

7383
00:50:26.536 --> 00:50:26.836
dat

7384
00:50:26.836 --> 00:50:27.256
bestaande

7385
00:50:27.256 --> 00:50:27.817
beginselen

7386
00:50:27.817 --> 00:50:28.017
al

7387
00:50:28.017 --> 00:50:28.337
voldoende

7388
00:50:28.337 --> 00:50:28.597
zijn.

7389
00:50:29.017 --> 00:50:29.337
Misschien

7390
00:50:29.337 --> 00:50:29.637
ziet

7391
00:50:29.637 --> 00:50:29.837
u

7392
00:50:29.837 --> 00:50:30.297
kansen

7393
00:50:30.297 --> 00:50:30.477
binnen

7394
00:50:30.477 --> 00:50:30.657
de

7395
00:50:30.657 --> 00:50:31.137
jeugdzorg.

7396
00:50:31.617 --> 00:50:31.797
Of

7397
00:50:31.797 --> 00:50:32.137
juist

7398
00:50:32.137 --> 00:50:32.497
grote

7399
00:50:32.497 --> 00:50:33.037
risico's

7400
00:50:33.037 --> 00:50:33.197
voor

7401
00:50:33.197 --> 00:50:33.778
slachtoffers.

7402
00:50:34.358 --> 00:50:34.638
Misschien

7403
00:50:34.638 --> 00:50:35.078
herkent

7404
00:50:35.078 --> 00:50:35.258
u

7405
00:50:35.258 --> 00:50:35.438
hoe

7406
00:50:35.438 --> 00:50:35.878
sociale

7407
00:50:35.878 --> 00:50:36.438
netwerken

7408
00:50:36.438 --> 00:50:36.738
worden

7409
00:50:36.738 --> 00:50:37.378
overbelast.

7410
00:50:37.998 --> 00:50:38.238
Of

7411
00:50:38.238 --> 00:50:38.458
hoe

7412
00:50:38.458 --> 00:50:38.979
professionals

7413
00:50:38.979 --> 00:50:39.419
zelf

7414
00:50:39.419 --> 00:50:39.879
onder

7415
00:50:39.879 --> 00:50:40.479
onmogelijke

7416
00:50:40.479 --> 00:50:41.019
verwachtingen

7417
00:50:41.019 --> 00:50:41.399
werken.

7418
00:50:42.219 --> 00:50:42.519
Misschien

7419
00:50:42.519 --> 00:50:42.719
ziet

7420
00:50:42.719 --> 00:50:42.839
u

7421
00:50:42.839 --> 00:50:43.019
dat

7422
00:50:43.019 --> 00:50:43.439
grenzen

7423
00:50:43.439 --> 00:50:43.699
te

7424
00:50:43.699 --> 00:50:43.939
snel

7425
00:50:43.939 --> 00:50:44.239
als

7426
00:50:44.239 --> 00:50:44.820
uitsluiting

7427
00:50:44.820 --> 00:50:45.040
worden

7428
00:50:45.040 --> 00:50:45.560
ervaren.

7429
00:50:45.900 --> 00:50:46.100
Of

7430
00:50:46.100 --> 00:50:46.480
juist

7431
00:50:46.480 --> 00:50:46.700
dat

7432
00:50:46.700 --> 00:50:47.080
grenzen

7433
00:50:47.080 --> 00:50:47.320
worden

7434
00:50:47.320 --> 00:50:47.760
gebruikt

7435
00:50:47.760 --> 00:50:48.000
om

7436
00:50:48.000 --> 00:50:48.840
noodzakelijke

7437
00:50:48.840 --> 00:50:49.120
zorg

7438
00:50:49.120 --> 00:50:49.420
af

7439
00:50:49.420 --> 00:50:49.520
te

7440
00:50:49.520 --> 00:50:49.760
sluiten.

7441
00:50:50.221 --> 00:50:50.521
Al

7442
00:50:50.521 --> 00:50:50.781
deze

7443
00:50:50.781 --> 00:50:51.481
perspectieven

7444
00:50:51.481 --> 00:50:51.721
zijn

7445
00:50:51.721 --> 00:50:52.201
waardevol

7446
00:50:52.201 --> 00:50:52.541
wanneer

7447
00:50:52.541 --> 00:50:52.681
zij

7448
00:50:52.681 --> 00:50:53.261
zorgvuldig

7449
00:50:53.261 --> 00:50:53.461
worden

7450
00:50:53.461 --> 00:50:54.281
beargumenteerd.

7451
00:50:54.781 --> 00:50:54.881
De

7452
00:50:54.881 --> 00:50:55.181
website

7453
00:50:55.181 --> 00:50:55.642
vindt

7454
00:50:55.642 --> 00:50:55.742
u

7455
00:50:55.742 --> 00:50:55.922
op.

7456
00:50:56.342 --> 00:50:56.442
De

7457
00:50:56.442 --> 00:50:57.042
bijgevoegde

7458
00:50:57.042 --> 00:50:57.442
pdf

7459
00:50:57.442 --> 00:50:57.822
draagt

7460
00:50:57.822 --> 00:50:57.942
de

7461
00:50:57.942 --> 00:50:58.202
titel.

7462
00:50:58.742 --> 00:50:58.862
Van

7463
00:50:58.862 --> 00:50:59.262
strijd

7464
00:50:59.262 --> 00:50:59.442
naar

7465
00:50:59.442 --> 00:50:59.822
begrip.

7466
00:51:00.282 --> 00:51:00.862
Samenvatting

7467
00:51:00.862 --> 00:51:01.002
van

7468
00:51:01.002 --> 00:51:01.103
de

7469
00:51:01.103 --> 00:51:01.703
herstelbrief,

7470
00:51:01.903 --> 00:51:02.023
het

7471
00:51:02.023 --> 00:51:02.803
levenslogboek

7472
00:51:02.803 --> 00:51:03.083
en

7473
00:51:03.083 --> 00:51:03.203
het

7474
00:51:03.203 --> 00:51:03.503
Ubuntu

7475
00:51:03.503 --> 00:51:04.463
relatiekompas.

7476
00:51:05.243 --> 00:51:05.643
Gebruik

7477
00:51:05.643 --> 00:51:05.803
haar

7478
00:51:05.803 --> 00:51:06.003
als

7479
00:51:06.003 --> 00:51:06.784
gespreksdocument.

7480
00:51:07.364 --> 00:51:07.524
Niet

7481
00:51:07.524 --> 00:51:07.724
als

7482
00:51:07.724 --> 00:51:08.124
bewijs

7483
00:51:08.124 --> 00:51:08.324
tegen

7484
00:51:08.324 --> 00:51:08.504
een

7485
00:51:08.504 --> 00:51:08.724
ander.

7486
00:51:09.224 --> 00:51:09.384
Niet

7487
00:51:09.384 --> 00:51:09.564
als

7488
00:51:09.564 --> 00:51:10.144
diagnose.

7489
00:51:10.504 --> 00:51:10.644
Niet

7490
00:51:10.644 --> 00:51:10.804
als

7491
00:51:10.804 --> 00:51:11.244
verplichting

7492
00:51:11.244 --> 00:51:11.384
tot

7493
00:51:11.384 --> 00:51:11.844
vergeving.

7494
00:51:12.405 --> 00:51:12.705
Maar

7495
00:51:12.705 --> 00:51:12.885
als

7496
00:51:12.885 --> 00:51:13.485
uitnodiging

7497
00:51:13.485 --> 00:51:13.665
om

7498
00:51:13.665 --> 00:51:13.885
samen

7499
00:51:13.885 --> 00:51:14.045
te

7500
00:51:14.045 --> 00:51:14.465
onderzoeken.

7501
00:51:14.845 --> 00:51:15.065
Is

7502
00:51:15.065 --> 00:51:15.505
iedereen

7503
00:51:15.505 --> 00:51:16.005
veilig?

7504
00:51:16.005 --> 00:51:16.585
Zijn

7505
00:51:16.585 --> 00:51:16.965
feiten,

7506
00:51:17.245 --> 00:51:17.986
interpretaties,

7507
00:51:18.146 --> 00:51:18.566
emoties

7508
00:51:18.566 --> 00:51:18.986
en

7509
00:51:18.986 --> 00:51:19.686
onzekerheden

7510
00:51:19.686 --> 00:51:20.266
onderscheiden?

7511
00:51:20.846 --> 00:51:21.186
Worden

7512
00:51:21.186 --> 00:51:21.566
stemmen

7513
00:51:21.566 --> 00:51:21.786
en

7514
00:51:21.786 --> 00:51:22.126
grenzen

7515
00:51:22.126 --> 00:51:22.906
gerespecteerd?

7516
00:51:23.547 --> 00:51:23.827
Zijn

7517
00:51:23.827 --> 00:51:24.347
afspraken

7518
00:51:24.347 --> 00:51:24.967
wederkerig

7519
00:51:24.967 --> 00:51:25.067
en

7520
00:51:25.067 --> 00:51:25.407
haalbaar?

7521
00:51:25.847 --> 00:51:26.027
Wordt

7522
00:51:26.027 --> 00:51:26.147
het

7523
00:51:26.147 --> 00:51:26.527
netwerk

7524
00:51:26.527 --> 00:51:27.187
ondersteunend

7525
00:51:27.187 --> 00:51:27.607
gebruikt?

7526
00:51:28.007 --> 00:51:28.427
En

7527
00:51:28.427 --> 00:51:28.567
is

7528
00:51:28.567 --> 00:51:28.667
er

7529
00:51:28.667 --> 00:51:28.808
een

7530
00:51:28.808 --> 00:51:29.328
concrete

7531
00:51:29.328 --> 00:51:30.008
herstelstap

7532
00:51:30.008 --> 00:51:30.188
met

7533
00:51:30.188 --> 00:51:30.328
een

7534
00:51:30.328 --> 00:51:30.608
moment

7535
00:51:30.608 --> 00:51:30.808
van

7536
00:51:30.808 --> 00:51:31.628
evaluatie?

7537
00:51:32.048 --> 00:51:32.168
Dat

7538
00:51:32.168 --> 00:51:32.328
zijn

7539
00:51:32.328 --> 00:51:32.568
geen

7540
00:51:32.568 --> 00:51:33.128
gemakkelijke

7541
00:51:33.128 --> 00:51:33.448
vragen.

7542
00:51:34.329 --> 00:51:34.509
Maar

7543
00:51:34.509 --> 00:51:34.769
misschien

7544
00:51:34.769 --> 00:51:34.989
zijn

7545
00:51:34.989 --> 00:51:35.109
het

7546
00:51:35.109 --> 00:51:35.469
precies

7547
00:51:35.469 --> 00:51:35.669
de

7548
00:51:35.669 --> 00:51:35.969
vragen

7549
00:51:35.969 --> 00:51:36.129
die

7550
00:51:36.129 --> 00:51:36.429
nodig

7551
00:51:36.429 --> 00:51:36.669
zijn

7552
00:51:36.669 --> 00:51:36.829
om

7553
00:51:36.829 --> 00:51:37.049
zorg

7554
00:51:37.049 --> 00:51:37.229
voor

7555
00:51:37.229 --> 00:51:37.569
elkaar

7556
00:51:37.569 --> 00:51:38.029
niet

7557
00:51:38.029 --> 00:51:38.269
alleen

7558
00:51:38.269 --> 00:51:38.509
goed

7559
00:51:38.509 --> 00:51:38.609
te

7560
00:51:38.609 --> 00:51:38.929
bedoelen,

7561
00:51:39.429 --> 00:51:39.529
maar

7562
00:51:39.529 --> 00:51:39.769
ook

7563
00:51:39.769 --> 00:51:40.370
zorgvuldig

7564
00:51:40.370 --> 00:51:40.510
te

7565
00:51:40.510 --> 00:51:41.090
organiseren.

7566
00:51:41.890 --> 00:51:42.030
Niet

7567
00:51:42.030 --> 00:51:42.530
tegenover

7568
00:51:42.530 --> 00:51:42.910
elkaar,

7569
00:51:43.710 --> 00:51:43.890
maar

7570
00:51:43.890 --> 00:51:44.450
zorgvuldig

7571
00:51:44.450 --> 00:51:44.730
naast

7572
00:51:44.730 --> 00:51:45.030
elkaar.

7573
00:51:45.030 --> 00:51:45.631
Zolang

7574
00:51:45.631 --> 00:51:46.271
veiligheid,

7575
00:51:46.671 --> 00:51:47.511
gelijkwaardigheid

7576
00:51:47.511 --> 00:51:47.791
en

7577
00:51:47.791 --> 00:51:48.331
vrijwilligheid

7578
00:51:48.331 --> 00:51:48.471
dat

7579
00:51:48.471 --> 00:51:48.911
toelaten.

7580
00:51:49.811 --> 00:51:50.371
Verbondenheid

7581
00:51:50.371 --> 00:51:50.531
waar

7582
00:51:50.531 --> 00:51:50.671
het

7583
00:51:50.671 --> 00:51:50.892
kan,

7584
00:51:51.332 --> 00:51:51.632
grenzen

7585
00:51:51.632 --> 00:51:51.832
waar

7586
00:51:51.832 --> 00:51:51.992
het

7587
00:51:51.992 --> 00:51:52.172
moet.

7588
00:51:52.812 --> 00:51:52.912
En

7589
00:51:52.912 --> 00:51:53.192
herstel

7590
00:51:53.192 --> 00:51:53.332
waar

7591
00:51:53.332 --> 00:51:53.492
dat

7592
00:51:53.492 --> 00:51:53.892
veilig,

7593
00:51:54.372 --> 00:51:54.812
betrouwbaar

7594
00:51:54.812 --> 00:51:55.012
en

7595
00:51:55.012 --> 00:51:55.492
vrijwillig

7596
00:51:55.492 --> 00:51:55.772
mogelijk

7597
00:51:55.772 --> 00:51:56.072
is.

7598
00:51:56.473 --> 00:51:56.733
Bezoek

7599
00:51:56.733 --> 00:51:56.893
de

7600
00:51:56.893 --> 00:51:57.333
pagina,

7601
00:51:57.673 --> 00:51:57.953
lees,

7602
00:51:58.193 --> 00:51:58.393
denk

7603
00:51:58.393 --> 00:51:58.813
tegen,

7604
00:51:59.473 --> 00:51:59.693
vul

7605
00:51:59.693 --> 00:51:59.873
de

7606
00:51:59.873 --> 00:52:00.133
survey

7607
00:52:00.133 --> 00:52:00.493
in,

7608
00:52:00.773 --> 00:52:00.913
deel

7609
00:52:00.913 --> 00:52:01.033
de

7610
00:52:01.033 --> 00:52:01.573
publicatie

7611
00:52:01.573 --> 00:52:01.773
met

7612
00:52:01.773 --> 00:52:02.014
mensen

7613
00:52:02.014 --> 00:52:02.174
die

7614
00:52:02.174 --> 00:52:02.474
vanuit

7615
00:52:02.474 --> 00:52:02.934
ervaring,

7616
00:52:03.094 --> 00:52:03.314
zorg,

7617
00:52:03.514 --> 00:52:03.754
recht,

7618
00:52:04.054 --> 00:52:04.414
bestuur,

7619
00:52:05.054 --> 00:52:05.554
onderwijs

7620
00:52:05.554 --> 00:52:05.674
of

7621
00:52:05.674 --> 00:52:06.134
wetenschap

7622
00:52:06.134 --> 00:52:06.374
kunnen

7623
00:52:06.374 --> 00:52:06.894
bijdragen.

7624
00:52:07.414 --> 00:52:07.575
En

7625
00:52:07.575 --> 00:52:07.975
help

7626
00:52:07.975 --> 00:52:08.195
mee

7627
00:52:08.195 --> 00:52:08.635
om

7628
00:52:08.635 --> 00:52:09.555
relationele

7629
00:52:09.555 --> 00:52:10.335
legitimiteit

7630
00:52:10.335 --> 00:52:10.715
niet

7631
00:52:10.715 --> 00:52:11.015
alleen

7632
00:52:11.015 --> 00:52:11.275
als

7633
00:52:11.275 --> 00:52:11.555
begrip

7634
00:52:11.555 --> 00:52:11.695
op

7635
00:52:11.695 --> 00:52:11.955
papier

7636
00:52:11.955 --> 00:52:12.095
te

7637
00:52:12.095 --> 00:52:12.275
laten

7638
00:52:12.275 --> 00:52:12.855
bestaan,

7639
00:52:12.855 --> 00:52:13.015
maar

7640
00:52:13.015 --> 00:52:13.216
als

7641
00:52:13.216 --> 00:52:13.576
levende

7642
00:52:13.576 --> 00:52:13.936
vraag

7643
00:52:13.936 --> 00:52:14.356
in

7644
00:52:14.356 --> 00:52:14.616
onze

7645
00:52:14.616 --> 00:52:15.156
dagelijkse

7646
00:52:15.156 --> 00:52:15.376
zorg

7647
00:52:15.376 --> 00:52:15.556
voor

7648
00:52:15.556 --> 00:52:15.816
elkaar.